Libra men, do you lie casually? Any remorse? (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Libra forum by CappyGurl9 on Tuesday, April 7, 2015 and has 52 replies.

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Rocky .. honestly you are true. They are unable to deal with something as: we are human, we do mistakes, we are born imperfect and our life aim is not perfection because you can't master everything and this approach of life sounds so wrong to me. No wonder he would snap telling me hurtful things because for me it is: embrace your imperfections because that is your uniqueness. And if you have flaws, look for them and try to improve them! If you love them, then enjoy your life with them! No one has to say this is right or wrong!

I have a taurus moon so I don't like anyone to get in my business and I do fluctuate in weight .. he is lucky he didn't meet me chubbier 😛 .. I would gave him a stroke by how happy I can be even with extra fat. For me weight is important but what matters is: do I eat healthy? do I feel healthy? can I pull myself to be beautiful every day? I am ok with any body I have. Weight has been an issue for me earlier in my teen and I was anorexic in mind. Now, I turned to an emotional eater so I am fighting that. I would either not eat anything or eat everything when I am very upset which is horrible.

And for him, he tried to "fix my belly problem"! F* him! Actually the more I think of him and his attitude, I am sorry I saw good things in him. He lost a very valuable friend in me because I truly cared for him and I didn't mind how he looked, or how different we were. I was accepting him in all his package because to me if you love someone regardless who they are friends, family or a partner: you only can enjoy them the most if you learnt to live with them with all their odds and difference they bring to your life. I believe they enrich our life with the challenge this kind of connection brings. After all, I can't say I love someone if I can't accept all the package he/she has or at least can live with it and fight over it even!

My aim in relationships is much deeper than his. His is finding a friend to absorb care, love and attention from. Enjoy as much he need and have no obligation to. He would also have a bonus if he could "manipulate" my brain to lose weight, look the way he wanted! I feel I was like a project for him and he was enjoying sculpturing me the way he wants or enjoying the "free items" I came for with no intention to invest really in it or give back