Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.click to expand
Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
Yes I think he is
“ask him if he’s having sex or dating anyone and he gets upset saying I shouldn’t ask if we’re not together.”click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.click to expand
Posted by Midnite_Riser
Sounds like he's playing the typical Libra man mind games 😄 Yup, I know that all too well as I am a Libra man myself. We can be heart breakers to the core. He's trying to figure it out still. You need to watch his actions, not what he says.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by Midnite_Riser
Sounds like he's playing the typical Libra man mind games 😄 Yup, I know that all too well as I am a Libra man myself. We can be heart breakers to the core. He's trying to figure it out still. You need to watch his actions, not what he says.
I don’t want to watch shit lol I don’t know why I haven’t blocked him on WhatsApp yet. I really don’t block people though and only did so because he started that bs. So I return the energy.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?click to expand
Posted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by bkbella86Posted by Midnite_Riser
Sounds like he's playing the typical Libra man mind games 😄 Yup, I know that all too well as I am a Libra man myself. We can be heart breakers to the core. He's trying to figure it out still. You need to watch his actions, not what he says.
I don’t want to watch shit lol I don’t know why I haven’t blocked him on WhatsApp yet. I really don’t block people though and only did so because he started that bs. So I return the energy.
I sense you’re too strong for him
Bellaclick to expand
Posted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.click to expand
Posted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.click to expand
Posted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.click to expand
Posted by GemiMay
This. Weird:
Tells me he’s not jealous but then got upset when I mentioned another dude. And wouldn’t stop mentioning the dude for a few days. I ask him if he’s having sex or dating anyone and he gets upset saying I shouldn’t ask if we’re not together.
You have NO business talking. Period!
It sounds totally like you both shouldn’t be talking but doing so out of boredom.
Posted by KrabssPosted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
Thought the same thing.click to expand
Posted by SeaLionPosted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I don’t think soclick to expand
Posted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
Telling him about dude. Why?
Just don’t engage in ANY conversation. Period.
I think sometimes people don’t even know they are bored and maybe somewhat lonely. Admitting it at times of confusion may not even a thing until mind is clearing up and REAL DUDE happens. 😂click to expand
Posted by KrabssPosted by bkbella86Posted by KrabssPosted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
Thought the same thing.
Why? I’d love to hear your take on this.
I have nothing special to say, but it's very traumatic experience. One day he might feel ready to "move on", one day not.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
Telling him about dude. Why?
Just don’t engage in ANY conversation. Period.
I think sometimes people don’t even know they are bored and maybe somewhat lonely. Admitting it at times of confusion may not even a thing until mind is clearing up and REAL DUDE happens. 😂
I mentioned it in an argument not just casual conversation. But I basically said he’s not doing enough compared to someone else. However the other guy did one small really nice gesture for me when I sick. The Libra asked what he could do but the other guy actually did something without even asking.click to expand
Posted by GemiMayPosted by bkbella86Posted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by GemiMayPosted by SeaLionPosted by bkbella86Posted by SeaLion
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
Telling him about dude. Why?
Just don’t engage in ANY conversation. Period.
I think sometimes people don’t even know they are bored and maybe somewhat lonely. Admitting it at times of confusion may not even a thing until mind is clearing up and REAL DUDE happens. 😂
I mentioned it in an argument not just casual conversation. But I basically said he’s not doing enough compared to someone else. However the other guy did one small really nice gesture for me when I sick. The Libra asked what he could do but the other guy actually did something without even asking.
Exactly! So why do you even considering wasting your time to entertain him if you already had better and more thoughfull man?click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeahclick to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.click to expand
Posted by GemiMayPosted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
What feelings?
I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!click to expand
Posted by Mutya
I've seen and heard so much of this Libra men's back and forth thing IRL and it's mostly with Leo or Aries women.
This guy can't make up his mind and will waste your time and energy if you allow it.
Posted by Libra4rmTX
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Posted by Mutya
I've seen and heard so much of this Libra men's back and forth thing IRL and it's mostly with Leo or Aries women.
This guy can't make up his mind and will waste your time and energy if you allow it.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mutya
I've seen and heard so much of this Libra men's back and forth thing IRL and it's mostly with Leo or Aries women.
This guy can't make up his mind and will waste your time and energy if you allow it.
Aries women need strong assertive men not the can’t make up theirs minds type.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by Libra4rmTX
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by Libra4rmTX
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.click to expand
Posted by MutyaPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Mutya
I've seen and heard so much of this Libra men's back and forth thing IRL and it's mostly with Leo or Aries women.
This guy can't make up his mind and will waste your time and energy if you allow it.
Aries women need strong assertive men not the can’t make up theirs minds type.
I will always ship Aries + Leo.
A former Aries colleague was in very dysfunctional relationship with a Libra man that everytime she came to me for advice on Libras, I'd be clueless as to why she's with him. The guy was so insensitive, insecure, an absolute hoe and would go back and forth she really was almost driven insane.
She's now with a Leo man for 3 years and has never been happier.click to expand
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by bkbella86Posted by Libra4rmTX
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.
Wish you could see my text log lol sucked cuz I was really into her but those red flags turned into mf banners. Pulled what he pulled but her anger was much more out there. She still attempts to text. Ignoring them makes it worse but it will pass. Trust me, he aint worth it. And it will only get worse and worse and worse. Cut ya ties and heal. Best of luck to you!!click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by GemiMayPosted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by saggurl88Posted by bkbella86Posted by DKPosted by bkbella86Posted by DK
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
What feelings?
I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!
I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.click to expand
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