Libra switching up on me again

Hey guys it's me again lol.

I'm really struggling with how my libra's behavior towards me has changed recently. We've been together about 9 months and the "honeymoon phase" seems to be fizzling out. We're both artists but when it comes to his craft, he really goes deep into it. He'll still try to make time for me but it's very limited. He disappears for hours on end without texting me, which is not how things were a few months ago. I've read time and time again about libras needing their space and freedom but it's really doing a number on me and my confidence in this relationship. I didn't realize I was this needy of attention/affection/clingy until dating him and I don't know what to do or say to reach a compromise.

So on top of this distance I feel from him lately, he hasn't been very supportive when it comes to my art and I've been extremely supportive with his (he makes music & I do photography). He doesn't ask me how my day is or what I'm up to or anything to show interest towards me (he never ever has) and he never properly asks me out on dates it's just assumed that we're going to hang out or grab some food. He'll ask indirectly or make a joke, but he never makes me feel like....a woman if that makes sense. And in turn it doesn't make me feel too wanted either.

I'm afraid to bring up my frustrations for fear that he'll tell me I'm over-analyzing or for fear that I'll come off as controlling or trying to take away his freedom. I think the best solution for me is to make myself really busy and get some friends (or distractions) of my own. But it's hard for me to even do that because I made him my priority and now that he's not as available, I don't know what to do with myself. Is this something worth chatting with him about or will it possibly push him away or make him feel cornered? His sun & rising is in Libra. Moon in Aries, mercury in virgo and Venus is in leo. Thanks in advance for your help 🙂

Never make a man a priority ... been there done that, never again

Take the bull by the horns and ask him if he is losing interest and what does he want from you and with you? You've nothing to lose

Sounds like he is cooling off.....sorry

Posted by MyStarsShine
Never make a man a priority ... been there done that, never again

Take the bull by the horns and ask him if he is losing interest and what does he want from you and with you? You've nothing to lose

Sounds like he is cooling off.....sorry

It's crazy because I ask him that question every month and he tells me I'm overreacting, being paranoid, not trusting him or doubting the relationship. So I'm a bit scared to ask again

Posted by hopelesscapricorn

Posted by MyStarsShine
Never make a man a priority ... been there done that, never again



Take the bull by the horns and ask him if he is losing interest and what does he want from you and with you? You've nothing to lose



Sounds like he is cooling off.....sorry

It's crazy because I ask him that question every month and he tells me I'm overreacting, being paranoid, not trusting him or doubting the relationship. So I'm a bit scared to ask again click to expand

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Sounds like you want different things

Maybe you need to stand back for a while and decide what works for you and doesn't

Time apart may give him some time to think also?

Did you ever hear the saying *time reveals a person's ❤️*

It sounds like your Libra is is giving you the slow fade. Stop contacting him or you'll get hurt.