Is it typical for you to go cold on someone and pop back up just to talk shit?
Libra talking shit
What does it mean to go cold?
@comfy My interpretation of being cold is when one disappears, stops communicating or being blunt/abrupt when you do communicate. Showing no or limiting affection. Basically their actions make you feel like crap/cold.
We all need warm cosy snuggles not the ice queen/king of emotional retartedness.
We all need warm cosy snuggles not the ice queen/king of emotional retartedness.
Posted by compyWhat VampScorp said. We broke up, dude disappeared, now he is contacting me to talk shit only.
What does it mean to go cold?
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Nope some libras sweep it under the rug
Ok, in fairness maybe some do
No ... like stated above we often sweep things under the rug .. we forgive but we don't forget.... if we ever go cold it's because we literally gave you 1 million & 1 chances & you screwed us over big time.... Once we are done we are done. We might speak to you but it will never be the same.
Posted by topesDo you guys still talk?Posted by leopalHappened here with the ex gf. We're both Libras so it doesnt worry me. Well over a year since we split too. Pretty sure it's platonic now so no worries for us. Nobody cheated.Posted by compyWhat VampScorp said. We broke up, dude disappeared, now he is contacting me to talk shit only.
What does it mean to go cold?
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I didn't cheat, he did. He thinks i did. I tried to talk to him about everything so there weren't any issues, but just got more shit.
Posted by LibraRoseEThat's the crazy thing, i did not do anything that he is pissed at me about. he just thinks i did because he did it. its possible a hater was up in his ear too. I haven't figured out exactly.
No ... like stated above we often sweep things under the rug .. we forgive but we don't forget.... if we ever go cold it's because we literally gave you 1 million & 1 chances & you screwed us over big time.... Once we are done we are done. We might speak to you but it will never be the same.
i wonder how many libras fucked up themselves and are blaming the other person because they can't look at what they have done.....
speak to me, but you don't need to be the first communication i have with you being you insulting me. no hi, just name calling. I didn't contact him.
Posted by TheLibraMudraI agree w/ u. i just hate he thinks shit happened that didn't.
If I'm done, I'm done. There's no popping back in even if it's to talk crap because I'm still pissed off. Sounds like a waste of time.
If I'm still mad and I'm like driving down the road a month later, I'll start weighing things out in my head and if I think of some unjust thing you've done to me... I'll shoot ya a quick text. It'll be written immaculately and meant to slice in a very classy way. ??
ONLY if it's been left untouched and justice hasn't been served. I can't sleep if that's the case. Everything will be fair!!!!
Posted by leopalPosted by LibraRoseEThat's the crazy thing, i did not do anything that he is pissed at me about. he just thinks i did because he did it. its possible a hater was up in his ear too. I haven't figured out exactly.
No ... like stated above we often sweep things under the rug .. we forgive but we don't forget.... if we ever go cold it's because we literally gave you 1 million & 1 chances & you screwed us over big time.... Once we are done we are done. We might speak to you but it will never be the same.
i wonder how many libras fucked up themselves and are blaming the other person because they can't look at what they have done.....
speak to me, but you don't need to be the first communication i have with you being you insulting me. no hi, just name calling. I didn't contact him.
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- That could be it because I tend to get pissed when I hear some crap but I make sure I get all the proof before I blow up. Chances are he was already mad about something & he's running off of what the hater said.
My experience with Libra males has been that they are laid back maybe too laid back at times, but while being laid back they are letting arguments build up from like "forever ago" ... the littlest thing will set them off if they have been building up the anger.
We also tend to take things out on those who don't deserve it. That's one of our biggest flaws. We misdirect our anger which could be possibly happening here .
I mean we are all human there are many times I have been unfair but I have to take a step back & analyze everything from what was done to why I reacted the way I did.
About the name calling part again we only do that after we have had it ... all based on proof though. You said you didn't do anything but it could be something you didn't realize you did that ticked him off... for example ignoring us will really pissed us off.... but it really could be just a hater in his ear.
Posted by Noni05They sweep until they pull up the rug and see all that vile shit. ?
Nope some libras sweep it under the rug
Posted by Noni05?Posted by LunabeeFuck all them people that sweep shit under the rug !Posted by Noni05They sweep until they pull up the rug and see all that vile shit. ?
Nope some libras sweep it under the rug
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Posted by TheLibraMudraI wish it wasn't that way. I am telling him the truth. That's why i have been fighting, not necessarily to be with him (which i would be had the situation been different) but because I wish i could get through to him.Posted by leopalI have accused my Leo of stuff he hasn't done as well. I think i know everything. I am not an easy woman to love and I've been known to just up and leave with no explanation which drives him bonkers. Have to admit I've gotten much better at not just doing it randomly with no warning. Still, when I am upset, I don't come back to talk a bunch of garbage to stir the pot.Posted by TheLibraMudraI agree w/ u. i just hate he thinks shit happened that didn't.
If I'm done, I'm done. There's no popping back in even if it's to talk crap because I'm still pissed off. Sounds like a waste of time.
If you're telling the truth to him, that's all you can do. If he doesn't believe it, that's on him. He's made it up in his mind that you have and only hurts himself more by not stepping outside the situation for a better perspective. He should be taking this time to observe his thoughts but he's sinking deeper by coming back at you with pain.click to expand
At least you seem to be aware of yourself. Was that easy for you/take awhile? How long have you been with him?
Posted by LunabeeThen what?Posted by Noni05They sweep until they pull up the rug and see all that vile shit. ?
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Posted by LibraRoseEI think its a combination of those two. We think way different and we don't often see eye to eye.Posted by leopalPosted by LibraRoseEThat's the crazy thing, i did not do anything that he is pissed at me about. he just thinks i did because he did it. its possible a hater was up in his ear too. I haven't figured out exactly.
No ... like stated above we often sweep things under the rug .. we forgive but we don't forget.... if we ever go cold it's because we literally gave you 1 million & 1 chances & you screwed us over big time.... Once we are done we are done. We might speak to you but it will never be the same.
i wonder how many libras fucked up themselves and are blaming the other person because they can't look at what they have done.....
speak to me, but you don't need to be the first communication i have with you being you insulting me. no hi, just name calling. I didn't contact him.
- That could be it because I tend to get pissed when I hear some crap but I make sure I get all the proof before I blow up. Chances are he was already mad about something & he's running off of what the hater said.
My experience with Libra males has been that they are laid back maybe too laid back at times, but while being laid back they are letting arguments build up from like "forever ago" ... the littlest thing will set them off if they have been building up the anger.
We also tend to take things out on those who don't deserve it. That's one of our biggest flaws. We misdirect our anger which could be possibly happening here .
I mean we are all human there are many times I have been unfair but I have to take a step back & analyze everything from what was done to why I reacted the way I did.
About the name calling part again we only do that after we have had it ... all based on proof though. You said you didn't do anything but it could be something you didn't realize you did that ticked him off... for example ignoring us will really pissed us off.... but it really could be just a hater in his ear.click to expand
Taking things out is something he said and apologized for before. I have noticed things i deem little set him off. I have heard others mention it too. I just think there are a lot of unresolved things going through his mind and he doesn't know how to reach beyond them. I hope he figures it out one day, for his own sake.
Posted by heliumfiascoWell no class is involved on his end. untouched by who? I have tried, but he hasn't listened. what is considered justice?
ONLY if it's been left untouched and justice hasn't been served. I can't sleep if that's the case. Everything will be fair!!!!
Posted by leopalThey clean it up. That all I'll say.Posted by LunabeeThen what?Posted by Noni05They sweep until they pull up the rug and see all that vile shit. ?
Nope some libras sweep it under the rug
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Posted by Lunabeeok. I am taking this like this: they clean it up by removing people from their lives that could actually be beneficial instead of cleaning up themselves. This is based on my limited experience.Posted by leopalThey clean it up. That all I'll say.Posted by LunabeeThen what?Posted by Noni05They sweep until they pull up the rug and see all that vile shit. ?
Nope some libras sweep it under the rug
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Posted by leopalWhy did I just read this in a Kat Williams voice? I notice the same.Posted by Lunabeeok. I am taking this like this: they clean it up by removing people from their lives that could actually be beneficial instead of cleaning up themselves. This is based on my limited experience.Posted by leopalThey clean it up. That all I'll say.Posted by LunabeeThen what?Posted by Noni05They sweep until they pull up the rug and see all that vile shit. ?
Nope some libras sweep it under the rug
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Posted by leopalyes, been there done that. was getting it all out/part of the healing process/possibly needing some attention truth be told.Posted by compyWhat VampScorp said. We broke up, dude disappeared, now he is contacting me to talk shit only.
What does it mean to go cold?
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Posted by leopalPosted by Lunabeeok. I am taking this like this: they clean it up by removing people from their lives that could actually be beneficial instead of cleaning up themselves. This is based on my limited experience.Posted by leopalThey clean it up. That all I'll say.Posted by LunabeeThen what?Posted by Noni05They sweep until they pull up the rug and see all that vile shit. ?
Nope some libras sweep it under the rug
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Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by leopalyes, been there done that. was getting it all out/part of the healing process/possibly needing some attention truth be told.Posted by compyWhat VampScorp said. We broke up, dude disappeared, now he is contacting me to talk shit only.
What does it mean to go cold?
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