My Libra ex tried to make it better (Page 2)

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by sultrykitty
Oooo, bad girl. That would piss me off enough to not want to speak to you for a really long time.

I'd probably cry into my pillow a little, too.

For the record though, he has not been very good this past year. He has went months without speaking to me and changed his number almost a year ago and has been only communicating with me by infrequent emails and fb posts. Not even messenger.....he posts things! I'm his only friend so I know they are for me. He doesn't use fb, he made the account years ago to communicate with me when I was out of the country.

But I always knew that he still loved me. He always said it, even when that was all he said. I was looking forward to that moment when he finally made a gesture and things got back to normal. That was it, and I missed it.

You have a serious pattern with men, dude. Break that shit. I wouldn't even feel sorry about missing it if I were you. Yeah, it's sucky and yeah you're going to feel a bit guilty, but given the history, I wouldn't feel TOO terrible. Your grandpa > some dick who treated you like shit.

The gesture is nice, but it's clearly meant to manipulate you back into letting him off the hook. These guys know how to manipulate you and you fall for it. If he truly meant it without any strings, why was he whining about waiting an hour? The second he knew you were at the ER for your grandpa, all whining goes out the window. You had a legit reason.

"Wah poor me, I waited."

Eff off, you POS. Jesus. Who does that?







Edit-Dammit, I just realized how old this thread was. Nvm. You're still doing your save a loser thing.

Hope you don't get bit in the ass again with this douche. You need to remember you are not a qualified therapist. You need some serious therapy yourself because you love keeping people like this in your life. "Oh I can SAVE them!!"

No.

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Must be that Cancer Mars.

I don't give up on people no matter how many times they disappoint me.

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by LadyNeptune
So roses ? sat at a park for 3 hours and nobody took them?? I find that hard to believe.

If you saw the park you wouldn't.

It's empty except on weekends and in the summer.

I live in a rural area.

And like I said weeks ago when I made this post, if I was going to make things up I would make myself look less pathetic.

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You should see the shady characters that hang out at the parks here. They'd take the roses straight out your hand.

Don't feel guilty for prioritizing your grandfather. If the libra wanted to be a priority he shouldn't have fucked shit up with you in the first place!

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by LadyNeptune
So roses ? sat at a park for 3 hours and nobody took them?? I find that hard to believe.

If you saw the park you wouldn't.

It's empty except on weekends and in the summer.

I live in a rural area.

And like I said weeks ago when I made this post, if I was going to make things up I would make myself look less pathetic.

You should see the shady characters that hang out at the parks here. They'd take the roses straight out your hand.

Don't feel guilty for prioritizing your grandfather. If the libra wanted to be a priority he shouldn't have fucked shit up with you in the first place!

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This park is desolate. We used to meet there a lot because it was a mid point so if we just had an hour lunch, we would see each other there. There is the occasional senior citizen walking their dog or mom pushing a baby stroller but it's rare to see anyone at all.

You do see lots of deer, rabbits and turkey vultures though.

This was weeks ago. Everything is good with us now.

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by sultrykitty
Oooo, bad girl. That would piss me off enough to not want to speak to you for a really long time.

I'd probably cry into my pillow a little, too.

For the record though, he has not been very good this past year. He has went months without speaking to me and changed his number almost a year ago and has been only communicating with me by infrequent emails and fb posts. Not even messenger.....he posts things! I'm his only friend so I know they are for me. He doesn't use fb, he made the account years ago to communicate with me when I was out of the country.

But I always knew that he still loved me. He always said it, even when that was all he said. I was looking forward to that moment when he finally made a gesture and things got back to normal. That was it, and I missed it.

You have a serious pattern with men, dude. Break that shit. I wouldn't even feel sorry about missing it if I were you. Yeah, it's sucky and yeah you're going to feel a bit guilty, but given the history, I wouldn't feel TOO terrible. Your grandpa > some dick who treated you like shit.

The gesture is nice, but it's clearly meant to manipulate you back into letting him off the hook. These guys know how to manipulate you and you fall for it. If he truly meant it without any strings, why was he whining about waiting an hour? The second he knew you were at the ER for your grandpa, all whining goes out the window. You had a legit reason.

"Wah poor me, I waited."

Eff off, you POS. Jesus. Who does that?







Edit-Dammit, I just realized how old this thread was. Nvm. You're still doing your save a loser thing.

Hope you don't get bit in the ass again with this douche. You need to remember you are not a qualified therapist. You need some serious therapy yourself because you love keeping people like this in your life. "Oh I can SAVE them!!"

No.

Must be that Cancer Mars.

I don't give up on people no matter how many times they disappoint me.

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That's not a good thing.