New LIbra man (Page 2)

Chatz, just to keep the momentum. Let him call you. If he doesn't wait awhile don't call him right away... And remember don't jump in too fast, take it as it comes... Keep the "who knows what the future holds" attitude and you should be good. Yay!

it sounds like the casual date when well as you and all of us hoped. bitchin'

Well.. lets put it this way, you are going to have a super hot potent and romantic winter season or .. Or keyword OR your romantic winter season is going to be an empty impotent one.

Your choice.

Fuck melodrama in the ass.

you must be talented...

Very.

At reading people.

She could always wait for Santa to crawl down her chimny.. or knock on her door.

Anyway if that woman want's some she'll get some anyhow, anyway - fuck the bullshit.

ooooh Santa 😛 LOL

thanks peoples.....Im not smitten that's for sure....he isn't somebody I would normally be attracted to but there is something about him that opens the door for a nice friendship at the very least...Im not jumping in - did that last time and look where that got me....with a guy who STILL goes on singles sites (no less than 4) day in day out, night in night out but hey, HE'S the one now sitting at home while I am going out having fun....woooohooooo

Anyway yes he has already text me this morning just to say he had a nice time and will call later....wow!! I'd forgotten what it was like to be with somebody normal and sincere.

OK time to eat, oh and I almost forgot, a hair appointment....yay!!! The new me is coming out 😛

xx

poor Chatz!!! looks like you are stuck with another one. 😛

Yup *sigh*

damn you sound like dude.

You must be a guy.

'like a dude.' damn.

your posts sound like the way a gay ass mother would talk.

FD, please........

FO FD.

Yes, Chatz, dahlin', no jumping aloud. Very proud of you. YOU deserve the best----and he's probably a stepping stone to getting there.

(brushing up on my Italian)

Did I say no jumping ALOUD— I meant no jumping ALLOWED. Both work. . .

UPDATE:

I have not heard a single peep from Libra 2 since Sunday evening when I told him my week was busy and I'd not be able to meet up with him.....thing is...and get this....Im not even concerned - Im so used to this now that it feels almost normal LOL. WTF—

Poor guy, perhaps he got the drift that I just wasn't that into him. Im just not ready to pursue anything right now but happy to be friends with him...truth be known, I am pretty upset at Libra 1's state right now and all I want to do is comfort him but I know I'll fall into that same trap as last time...IN LOVE WITH AN EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MAN!!

I still cannot believe that he seems even more depressed than ME since we ended our "r/ship"...I just got the impression he didn't think much of me (given the lack of communication/commitment, the constant drifting onto singles sites, etc)...I don't get it, I just don't. I thought he'd have dozens of women lined up ready to take my place but at the end of the day, I was the only one he was seeing and he was genuinely just not ready...its so sad, perhaps I should have hung on 😢 I also thought that since we said our goodbyes (for now) he'd already be involved elsewhere, that he'd have forgotten about me as our communications just ended...no texts, emails, calls, nothing...I thought he was glad it was all over and done with....little did I know he took it quite badly.

Anyway that's my update....Libra 1 = messed up...Chatzee = regretting hurting HIM, Libra 2 = giving up

Ahhhh yes life is good eh— LOL

Chatzy, darling, as far as Libra 1 is concerned, HE doesn't get it! You're fine! Libra 2? Maybe you forgot how these creatures go away for awhile or just don't communicate for awhile, yadda, yadda. YOU know them better than most on this Board! I HOPE you know I want the best for you.

Im not going there ATom....I can't go back there but it doesnt stop me from caring...wish I didnt have a heart LOL

Libra 2 is fine without me 🙂

***I don't get it, I just don't. I thought he'd have dozens of women lined up ready to take my place but at the end of the day, I was the only one he was seeing and he was genuinely just not ready...its so sad, perhaps I should have hung on I also thought that since we said our goodbyes (for now) he'd already be involved elsewhere, that he'd have forgotten about me as our communications just ended...no texts, emails, calls, nothing...I thought he was glad it was all over and done with....little did I know he took it quite badly.****
REMEMBER, they take awhile to get over people they cared for/loved as he clearly felt for you. He just wasn't ready and did you a favor by not continuing to drag you along for the ride. He probably misses you, but it won't do any good to start contacting him again, as like you said, you will be pulled back in.

Let him heal and you heal yourself. He will come back around, lets hope he is wiling and ready for a relationship with you when does.... ((((Hugs))) 🙂

GLAD you have a heart, Chatzy! Wot happened to Aries—??

yeah we will be friends 🙂

Aries? he was too full on for me.....like I said, Im just not ready now - way too soon but we still catch up -he wants a r/ship though.

Weird eh?

Showing wisdom there. Proud of you.

Any updates, dollink?

I have not heard from Mr Libra since last Thursday night (its Wednesday morning now) so that's nothing really but I just cannot move on from him - its insane!!! I have a feeling I won't hear or see from him again so after a year? that kinda hurts...f/ship is very important to me and I thought he felt the same...*shrugs*

I have told Libra 2 that I don't want what he does...he's a little too full on and too keen for a r/ship - Im DEFINITELY NOT ready for that right now. Aries was pretty much the same but I had a lot of fun.

Tonight I am seeing a Capricorn - OMG I hear you all say...WTF?? well I have known this one for 5 years (we used to work together and he is younger). There has always been "something" there...dunno what, but he wrote to me yesterday (I hadn't heard or seen from him for about 5 months so this is quite out of the blue) and we agreed to have dinner tonight...why not? I NEED to put Libra behind me somehow and staying busy is the ONLY way I can. I doubt it'll come to anything and again, Im just not ready anyway but it will be fun - the weather is gorgeous, and daylight saving is here - what's not to like?? I know LIbra is still sitting at home every night on his own....I just dont know what to think of him at all...but I refuse to sit home and do the same.

Although I feel all doors have been shut with Libra a window or 2 has opened. Usually does happen when you're least expecting or looking.


So there you have it Atom, the update

Bravo ! It takes a lot of effort to move in another direction other then the one you've set your intentions on. Just keep busy Chatz baby. Being busy (no matter what it is as long as it leads you back out into the world again)...is good therapy!

The Cappy can learn from the "older woman."

LOL Atom!!! I know all about Cappys but he is good fun...it'll be nice to catch up but as far as r/ship material?? I think HE'd be the "older woman" LOL

Go Chatzy go Chatzy go!!!

I did and we had fun...OMG we talked for 5 hours...OMG with a Cappy— OMG lol.

Was nice to catch up and so nice to get out and forget Mr Libra