No Gem answered this post maybe a fellow Libran can help me

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Untitled23
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am talking to the Gem Guy and he is hot and cold constantly...I cannot get him to have a conversation with me at all which im not sure why bc I have read countless times Gems love to communicate and talk...mind you I don't know his other placements and I know that plays a big role in things.

But I have asked several times if he doesn't want to talk to me anymore let me know and he won't answer hell show more effort right after I say this and ignore my question but then it seems he darts off right after and ignores me to death...

All I want is to build a deeper connection like a friendship I don't want it to be so shallow btw us as it is now..its frustrating me that we hardly have interesting. conversations...

How do I get through without posing a threat to his need for space? How do I get a clear answer without being annoying? I don't want to pester I just want whatever time we have to be genuine and not seem superficial as it does now to me
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Posted by Untitled23
am talking to the Gem Guy and he is hot and cold constantly...I cannot get him to have a conversation with me at all which im not sure why bc I have read countless times Gems love to communicate and talk...mind you I don't know his other placements and I know that plays a big role in things.

But I have asked several times if he doesn't want to talk to me anymore let me know and he won't answer hell show more effort right after I say this and ignore my question but then it seems he darts off right after and ignores me to death...

All I want is to build a deeper connection like a friendship I don't want it to be so shallow btw us as it is now..its frustrating me that we hardly have interesting. conversations...

How do I get through without posing a threat to his need for space? How do I get a clear answer without being annoying? I don't want to pester I just want whatever time we have to be genuine and not seem superficial as it does now to me



Perhaps your over eagerness to get deeper with him is off putting.