some just dont get it...

Dear All,
I am fed up of someone in this board who has been playing with me on yahoo messenger. I dont appreciate anyone trying to have a personal talk with me without being ready to be honest. I do understand some peoples concern about revealing their identity. But then this board is meant for such people to discuss anything without revealing any of their personal information. I am sure other libras will agree with me that we dont like getting played at any level. So after a second chance, I have blocked the person from my yahoo and I dont wish to have any more people messaging me if they are not ready to be simple and honest. Honest and openness is always appreciated. If you think you are special and needs some VIP treatment, please dont bother to message.


Thanks for your understanding.

🙂

Sorry to hear that thelibran.

Oh I like it when Librans stand up for themselves 😛

well...some people enjoy playing... and since we have a habit of keeping that positive outlook all the time, some losers love to take advantage of the situation for entertaining themselves. 😢

..who the hell is that? :-P

wont be nice from my side to say their id. But am sure you know who all call be called the liars of the zodiac. lol.. 🙂

.. I dunno, sounds like an air sign 😉

Considering you once jumped on a plane and showed up at someone's work without their invitation I don't blame them for not telling you. (If I am remembering correctly.) Doubt they remember that post, but I do. 😉

MEET people in REAL LIFE.

Much easier.

The Libran, I feel u on that. We definitly hate to be played or even feel like we are being played.

I don't understand the rant. It's related to Yahoo Messenger and not this site. Confront the person privately or tell us who you're talking about. Otherwise, it's babble talk to me.

It is kinda like saying "I'm ignoring you" when you are ignoring someone. kinda childish.

BTW ... I am ignoring you HP. :p

jk

back atcha babe. 😉

lol!

Me too, me too I remember about the trip LS!!! LOL!!!

lol! That everyone remembers that. We have all been here way. to. long. lol!

Kenny

I have been a little anxious lately. Not sure what that is about. I haven't felt intolerant just anxious. Probably my new discovery .... coffee. YUMMM!

"Considering you once jumped on a plane and showed up at someone's work without their invitation I don't blame them for not telling you"

lol... that was a very personal situation. Kept on playing for 2+ years and I had to end it. I dont do that when i know people. I chat with others too. and none of them are secretive. but when someone try to remain secretive with occasaional set of lies, its a whole diff story and so much of work.

"I am just a sick of whiney people. I am not my usual diplomatic self. "

Thats exactly my situation. I got fed up of hearing "i lies to my libran bf and now he dont trust me... but i love him.. what should i do" crap from her. and on top of that she lies to me. which is more than enough.

the reason why i posted it here, HP, is that she is a member here. and since i hv blocked her, she will try to make herself feel better by blaming me. which they always do. they just dont like to take responsibility for their actions and lies. So once i say it out loud, she will have to confront it with otherself.

Some people love to amuse themselfs by building up some imaginary world and whining about that. I have done this excercise with one. when someone try to hide something, it means something fishy.

I've been really anxious 2. Its been every libra I talk 2. Not sure what its about though.

i'm sorry to hear that thelibran...some people just suck don't they? anyways...are we not suppose to take online people we don't know personally too seriously? i mean...come on...

🙂 but i feel for you and whoever that person who seemed to have affected you too much.

lol... affected?? not at all... but sometimes you gotta pull some strings and kick some people away before they become a pain in your a $ $ . Why entertain some losers and help them if they dont trust you?

* "i lies to my libran bf and now he dont trust me... but i love him.. what should i do" crap from her. and on top of that she lies to me. which is more than enough.

Some people have a really fucked up notion of what love is.

Emotional drama isn't love. It is dysfuction.

Agreed LS, agreed.

I have been anxious too, so has my GF but it is an optomistic anxious. It has been a crazy couple of months though, considering everything we have been dealing with we are taking everything in stride. I am excited for the next year, I feel I have narrowed myself and my life down a lot and instead of seeing possibilities all of the time I see probabilities and the steps to make them come to fruition so while it is anxious it is soothing too in a big way.

that's funny...I thought Leo moons had that attitude too! that's what I'd say about the assinine, childish ways if someone bothered me.

"I feel I have narrowed myself and my life down a lot and instead of seeing possibilities all of the time I see probabilities and the steps to make them come to fruition so while it is anxious it is soothing too in a big way."

lucky man!!! 😢

"lucky man!!! "

In many ways yes. In others, reality check which I am doing well with for a Libra lol. I guess at some point this year everything led to several realizations like in order to conquer the world, you have to start with your own life...id rather have people hate me for who I am than love me for who I am not (I kind of stole that one) and the biggest, freedom comes from making genuine commitments...it is not being decisive and commiting that actually binds a person. So....those are big for me among others.

Oh....letting someone in completely, wanting to be human (vulnerable) instead of avoiding it....it is pretty alien but I am learning. I am in the first relaitonship I have ever been in where not only do I realize that I could really get hurt, but I REALIZE THAT I AM WILLING TO RISK IT for someone. That doing so is the most important thing I can do for my soul in a lifetime.

wipes tears... how romantic nic, just beautiful. I am very happy for you.

* like in order to conquer the world, you have to start with your own life...id rather have people hate me for who I am than love me for who I am not (I kind of stole that one)

Agreed. Especially on the last one. Nothing worse than being misunderstood or misjudged for what you aren't.

* Oh....letting someone in completely, wanting to be human (vulnerable) instead of avoiding it....it is pretty alien but I am learning. I am in the first relaitonship I have ever been in where not only do I realize that I could really get hurt, but I REALIZE THAT I AM WILLING TO RISK IT for someone. That doing so is the most important thing I can do for my soul in a lifetime.

Wow! Good for you Nic. I truly wish you the best. 😄