Sooo undecisive, it's funny :)

I find it very funny when I interact with female Libra's online...on dating sites. We text each other just fine, back and forth, and when I suggest meeting for a drink, they are at first always like "MAYBE we could"...and when I ask for a phone number, they need to think so fuckin' long, so indecisive...they need their time to make their mind, lol. Why do you need to think that much... 😄 Some of them on my first question responded after 2-3 days, because the question was like that, and maybe she needed to think. 😄

And then they either give the phone after couple of days, or they disappear. 😄 And even when they give the number, and we go on the date, for second or 3rd date would still be those maybe's, even though there is that great chemistry, and they are bombarding me with messages daily. 😄

What is because I'm a Sag? 😄

*indecisive

Also, you're dealing with a bunch of cockteases. This isn't a Libra female thing, it's a cocktease, immature female thing. They get off on the attention which is fine and nice behind a screen, but the second the guy wants to take them up seriously on the flirtations, they run away because they're stupid as fuck.

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I find it very funny when I interact with female Libra's online...on dating sites. We text each other just fine, back and forth, and when I suggest meeting for a drink, they are at first always like "MAYBE we could"...and when I ask for a phone number, they need to think so fuckin' long, so undecisive...they need their time to make their mind, lol. Why do you need to think that much... 😄 Some of them on my first question responded after 2-3 days, because the question was like that, and maybe she needed to think. 😄

And then they either give the phone after couple of days, or they disappear. 😄 And even when they give the number, and we go on the date, for second or 3rd date would still be those maybe's, even though there is that great chemistry, and they are bombarding me with messages daily. 😄

Hmm so my question is...What kind of girl (sign) gives you her number right away and meets up with you right away after talking to you for a little while on your online dating sites?

I mean Libras can be "indecisive" (I'm not, except about asking me what I want to eat) but we also can be extremely cautious weighing the good and bad when it comes to meeting up with someone who seems like a great guy, but we don't know them well..and again weighing whether this person is someone I'd like to have a relationship with..

Well actually, let me speak for myself. If I didn't answer someone on a dating site (only did it once in my life) it was because I was 1) busy...hiking, running, hanging out with friends, visiting family members, traveling etc.. (So around 1-2 days in between) Or 2) I really wasn't sure about the guy yet and wanted to talk to him more online until he seemed more real and not some random dude who might be someone else completely or 3)I wasn't that into you, but because of #1 I hadn't gotten around to telling you yet...some may disappear, I would actually say something.

I'm with a Sag right now and I can tell you, he's not as patient as I am lol He's pretty impulsive... But because we met through a family member of his, he was already told how it takes time for me to like someone/get to know them so he would have to slow it down a bit. ? I did meet one other Sag (before my current) and we had great chemistry, but he got clingy when he was in town (he traveled for work) and then hardly any contact when he left (for a week's time). It was weird. Felt like a game of tag and I ended that. I like to stay in contact (doesn't need to be everyday though..maybe 1-3 days in between at the most when it's in the beginning stages), but I'm not going to move as fast as some guys may want me to.

The Sag guy I'm with now didn't need me to contact him daily until we were actually in a relationship... And now we are really happy together. (We live together now so, yes, we speak daily.) lol

*Oh I also didn't answer when I was finishing a project for work. I can get pretty intense when that happens. At that time my priorities are family, work, friends.

Interesting. I found that it happens mostly with Libras under 25, and those older ones are not like that. And nah, it isn't only because they are under 25, it's Libras and under 25. 😄

And actually, even those indecisive Libras when I finally "convince" them to go on the date (because, you know, when Sag wants something, it must happen), they start to get clingy, and message me daily, and excessively. Like, every hour what I'm doing, where I'm at, etc. So, I could actually say that Libras are more clingy than Sag. 😄 Or is it just the power of Sag. 😄

You said it right... Under 25 and a Libra...

But it depends on other placements..

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Interesting. I found that it happens mostly with Libras under 25, and those older ones are not like that. And nah, it isn't only because they are under 25, it's Libras and under 25. 😄

And actually, even those indecisive Libras when I finally "convince" them to go on the date (because, you know, when Sag wants something, it must happen), they start to get clingy, and message me daily, and excessively. Like, every hour what I'm doing, where I'm at, etc. So, I could actually say that Libras are more clingy than Sag. 😄 Or is it just the power of Sag. 😄

Hmm then maybe the under 25 ones. I wasn't clingy.. And I'm still not. My Sag can be a little clingy sometimes.. Lol We even joke about how he loves being around me. But I was married and only with one person at the time in my life that you describe.. So maybe that's why.

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Interesting. I found that it happens mostly with Libras under 25, and those older ones are not like that. And nah, it isn't only because they are under 25, it's Libras and under 25. 😄

And actually, even those indecisive Libras when I finally "convince" them to go on the date (because, you know, when Sag wants something, it must happen), they start to get clingy, and message me daily, and excessively. Like, every hour what I'm doing, where I'm at, etc. So, I could actually say that Libras are more clingy than Sag. 😄 Or is it just the power of Sag. 😄

Hmm then maybe the under 25 ones. I wasn't clingy.. And I'm still not. My Sag can be a little clingy sometimes.. Lol We even joke about how he loves being around me. But I was married and only with one person at the time in my life that you describe.. So maybe that's why.

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And, bingo, this Libra did the same thing...waited one day after I asked for a phone number, and there it is...I just knew that she would give it tomorrow, after some thinking, haha. So, I am confident that she will not resist to the charm of Sag, ofc, from experience. 😉

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Interesting. I found that it happens mostly with Libras under 25, and those older ones are not like that. And nah, it isn't only because they are under 25, it's Libras and under 25. 😄

And actually, even those indecisive Libras when I finally "convince" them to go on the date (because, you know, when Sag wants something, it must happen), they start to get clingy, and message me daily, and excessively. Like, every hour what I'm doing, where I'm at, etc. So, I could actually say that Libras are more clingy than Sag. 😄 Or is it just the power of Sag. 😄

Hmm then maybe the under 25 ones. I wasn't clingy.. And I'm still not. My Sag can be a little clingy sometimes.. Lol We even joke about how he loves being around me. But I was married and only with one person at the time in my life that you describe.. So maybe that's why.

And, bingo, this Libra did the same thing...waited one day after I asked for a phone number, and there it is...I just knew that she would give it tomorrow, after some thinking, haha. So, I am confident that she will not resist to the charm of Sag, ofc, from experience. 😉

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Hmm you definitely love the attention you get from Libras though or you wouldn't be pursuing them so much.?

Posted by Tirano24
"Undecisive".. Why do idiots have technology right in their faces which can autocorrect, but they fail to utilize it.

Dude, you're full of hate, and negative energy. First, someone visits this site on a smartphone too smartass, and there is no autocorrect, and second, English is not my main language, so sometimes I can be wrong too. It's important that you don't make mistakes, right? Now fuck off kid.

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Interesting. I found that it happens mostly with Libras under 25, and those older ones are not like that. And nah, it isn't only because they are under 25, it's Libras and under 25. 😄

And actually, even those indecisive Libras when I finally "convince" them to go on the date (because, you know, when Sag wants something, it must happen), they start to get clingy, and message me daily, and excessively. Like, every hour what I'm doing, where I'm at, etc. So, I could actually say that Libras are more clingy than Sag. 😄 Or is it just the power of Sag. 😄

Hmm then maybe the under 25 ones. I wasn't clingy.. And I'm still not. My Sag can be a little clingy sometimes.. Lol We even joke about how he loves being around me. But I was married and only with one person at the time in my life that you describe.. So maybe that's why.

And, bingo, this Libra did the same thing...waited one day after I asked for a phone number, and there it is...I just knew that she would give it tomorrow, after some thinking, haha. So, I am confident that she will not resist to the charm of Sag, ofc, from experience. 😉

Hmm you definitely love the attention you get from Libras though or you wouldn't be pursuing them so much.?

Well, yeah, maybe because of my Leo moon, I don't know, but it's nice when you know what to expect. 😉

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I find it very funny when I interact with female Libra's online...on dating sites. We text each other just fine, back and forth, and when I suggest meeting for a drink, they are at first always like "MAYBE we could"...and when I ask for a phone number, they need to think so fuckin' long, so indecisive...they need their time to make their mind, lol. Why do you need to think that much... 😄 Some of them on my first question responded after 2-3 days, because the question was like that, and maybe she needed to think. 😄

And then they either give the phone after couple of days, or they disappear. 😄 And even when they give the number, and we go on the date, for second or 3rd date would still be those maybe's, even though there is that great chemistry, and they are bombarding me with messages daily. 😄

Maybe because they are not sure about you and need some time to get to know you more first to see if you're worth it.

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Yeah, and I'm like, just make it happen, and then I know that she will be hooked. 😉

***INdecisive.

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"Undecisive".. Why do idiots have technology right in their faces which can autocorrect, but they fail to utilize it.

Dude, you're stupid.

So what? I know that I'm poor and pathetic.

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I forgive you. 🙂