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Posted by Invigorate_Me
Spica, because I wrote it wrong. I know why sister is upset with my mother, but I don't understand to the degree that she is upset. That's what I meant to write, lol.



Hmm ok. A fire sign mum parent is usually a bit "struggleful" with Libras.. their early years will be filled with disruptions of peace and sort of violence in a way incompatible to what libras need..

sorry, need to put a disclaimer again, I dont mind this being only my opinion, but I know how true it is.
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* I don't think I know you on here that well but I just had to chime in on this because I TOTALLY disagree! Have you read Valeria's other posts?

This amuses me. I love how people assume some of us people who have been here forever know everyone that posts here.



I understand that for sure. I was just asking if she had b/c Valeria posts on many different message boards on here. 🙂
I just wanted her to see Valeria's posts and how she is in a place where it wouldn't be so volatile b/c of the disagreement on this particular topic is all.
The only reason I commented on her behalf is b/c I think the assault against her was a bit too harsh and I am just like that when I like someone and see something like that. 😉
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Spot reading this post and the dRaMa, I get what Spica is annoyed about. She wanted to discuss the relationship between Aries and Libra. Since Valeria is neither Libra nor Aries, she really has little to contribute to the discussion of the dynamic between them. Spica wanted to hear Valeria's experiences with Leo so she could contribute to the thread, but Valeria refused to comment instead went with not all *insert sun sign* are the same. True but that isn't what this thread is about. It is about the general experience people have dealing with their opposite signs.

I don't think Valeria is a psychopath just a bit of a point misser in this particular post.

On a total side note sorta, Years ago someone posted this really great link to the dynamics between sun signs. The sun sign reading it was 1, the following sign (my case Scorp) would be 2, the next sign (Sag for me) was 3 and so on. It would tell you how the person in a 1-3 relationship would experience the relationship as a 1 and how the 3 would experience. I would love, love to find that article again and never have. If anyone knows the article I am talking about or has a similar one, I would LOVE the link.

Thanks
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Posted by spica

(post your opinions/ disagreements)



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Posted by spica



Take my post however you like; disagree however you like.
It still stands.

I will repeat:

Aries and Libra are great as playmates (in whatever way)
but when it coes down to it,

Aries are bad for Libras
in both friendships and relationships.

-fin-
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I am just taking your text exactly as it is posted with you asking for opinions/disagreements in your first post. Yes spica; I agreed to disagree with you 🙂
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Posted by little_sparrow
Spot reading this post and the dRaMa, I get what Spica is annoyed about. She wanted to discuss the relationship between Aries and Libra. Since Valeria is neither Libra nor Aries, she really has little to contribute to the discussion of the dynamic between them. Spica wanted to hear Valeria's experiences with Leo so she could contribute to the thread, but Valeria refused to comment instead went with not all *insert sun sign* are the same. True but that isn't what this thread is about. It is about the general experience people have dealing with their opposite signs.

I don't think Valeria is a psychopath just a bit of a point misser in this particular post.

On a total side note sorta, Years ago someone posted this really great link to the dynamics between sun signs. The sun sign reading it was 1, the following sign (my case Scorp) would be 2, the next sign (Sag for me) was 3 and so on. It would tell you how the person in a 1-3 relationship would experience the relationship as a 1 and how the 3 would experience. I would love, love to find that article again and never have. If anyone knows the article I am talking about or has a similar one, I would LOVE the link.

Thanks



Exactly. Thanks, Little Sparrow!

My point of this post, is really how Aries is incompatible to Libra.
3 Ariens and one Aquarian disagreed, is all.
But really, Libras, *IF* they need only one partner in life, they should avoid anything to do with

Pluto, Mars and Uranus

because they are the anti thesis of Venus.. and Libra will not have that harmonious life they so crave.

My post is basically FOR Libras, whether they want it or not.
I am trying to write about signs that won't cause so much damage and/or drama to Libran lives.
If they're anything like me, I much much prefer a peaceful life with little marital drama or disagreement...
So, first off,

based solely on planetary symbolisms, these are what I came up with.
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"On a total side note sorta, Years ago someone posted this really great link to the dynamics between sun signs. The sun sign reading it was 1, the following sign (my case Scorp) would be 2, the next sign (Sag for me) was 3 and so on. It would tell you how the person in a 1-3 relationship would experience the relationship as a 1 and how the 3 would experience. I would love, love to find that article again and never have. If anyone knows the article I am talking about or has a similar one, I would LOVE the link."

LS, I believe you're talking about Linda Goodman's. I saw it at the glossary of her 'love signs'. But I don't have the link. If I did I woulda posted it up.
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My idea on this 'saga' is that the aries who came into the thread came because they wanted to date libras - or are liking to date them.
In a way, I was seeing how they would react, and they reacted with knives, took it as a personal insult to them because they recognised some things that were mentioned. Valeria entered to try to dilute the argument & prove it wrong, by taking the side of aries. She came in biased from the start, though, that is apparent.

And I apologize, Valeria if take offense I called you sociopath. Remember that we dont know each other, and my inference was only based on things we typed on this website. I have met 2 psychopaths in my life, and I know its unfair for me to call you that, but the way they did their psychopathism is by twisting words around, going based on image and saying one thing and doing another. But you sure dont know yourself as much as you would have liked.

The two pisceans came in not based on the current topic at hand, but based on emotional biasness due to friendship.


Oh and one more thing, to support my current propostion again:

"Libras dating their opposite sign are mislead"

Why do I say mislead? Because they would think its a good match, AT FIRST GLANCE. Remember, I am speaking about romance for life. Very soon, you'll see that your opposite sign opposes almost everything you say, and they cannot pretend to keep the peace.

Ariens, when they like a Libra, will tend to keep their knives in the thicket. BUT THEY ARE THERE ANYHOW. I feel sorry for the Aries' need to PRETEND PRETEND PRETEND to keep the peace and to be nice and civil, because once they show their uncouth side, it will offend Libra and they will think twice.

And regarding Aquas, Valeria does remind me of my guru. I adored her muchly. She was an awesome person; I dont call anyone guru by any means, so it was a mark of deep respect. BUT as I mentioned before, in a bid to keep up with IMPOSSIBLE IDEALS of human equality, she has made some mistakes in judgment. I go to her for advice alot, and she made a mistake because she was UNABLE to see people and judge them accurately. She was always empathising with their humane side. That was dangerous, at least for me. I prefer to trust my own judgment.


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And I have Aquarian friends who try to keep that image of friendship and equality, but they FAIL because it was too impossible an ideal for a mere human. In fact, the way they thought of themselves was not who they were. My quietest Aqua friend, with alot of Libra planets, is really blind to herself. She's extremey judgmental, but she doesnt see that at all.

I have decided to take a break from her, because in friendships, I tend not to judge, I just accept, but she judges.

Also, on a side note, URANUS entered Aries just a few days ago, so having an aqua team with aries is pretty much in the stars.

Also, people would tend to be a bit more impulsive and erratic, and Libras will feel this disruptng influence.
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I'm curious to hear your POV on why aries tend to like Libras..

I'm going to answer this from an Aries point of view. Can't speak for other Aries but here are my answers. Intelligent conversationalists. To me this is more of a turn on than physical contact. Sweet and gentlemanly(the guys of course). Hot. Fun and playful. In my experiences I've had a lot in common with Libras. The ones I have known have had similar taste in music, movies, art, and the like. Sharp dressers and excellent taste and aesthetics in general. My Libra bfs have loved shopping as much as I do and thats a lot. Great lovers who are open minded and fun whilst being quite skillful. Unselfish.

Aries and Libra may not be meant to last forever but it sure is fun while it does. I'd rather take a break up with my ex Libras than to have never known them at all because of what astrology says. They were great guys who taught me a lot about life and love. Yes I did learn from them. Yes they did make me a better person for having known them.
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Posted by little_sparrow
On a total side note sorta, Years ago someone posted this really great link to the dynamics between sun signs. The sun sign reading it was 1, the following sign (my case Scorp) would be 2, the next sign (Sag for me) was 3 and so on. It would tell you how the person in a 1-3 relationship would experience the relationship as a 1 and how the 3 would experience. I would love, love to find that article again and never have. If anyone knows the article I am talking about or has a similar one, I would LOVE the link.

Thanks



Something like http://www.astralreflections.com/html/comp.html>this sparrow?
http://www.astralreflections.com/html/comp.html
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Posted by fieryimpulse
I'm curious to hear your POV on why aries tend to like Libras..

I'm going to answer this from an Aries point of view. Can't speak for other Aries but here are my answers. Intelligent conversationalists. To me this is more of a turn on than physical contact. Sweet and gentlemanly(the guys of course). Hot. Fun and playful. In my experiences I've had a lot in common with Libras. The ones I have known have had similar taste in music, movies, art, and the like. Sharp dressers and excellent taste and aesthetics in general. My Libra bfs have loved shopping as much as I do and thats a lot. Great lovers who are open minded and fun whilst being quite skillful. Unselfish.

Aries and Libra may not be meant to last forever but it sure is fun while it does. I'd rather take a break up with my ex Libras than to have never known them at all because of what astrology says. They were great guys who taught me a lot about life and love. Yes I did learn from them. Yes they did make me a better person for having known them.



Agreed.
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I'd rather take a break up with my ex Libras than to have never known them at all because of what astrology says.
That's basically it. But you're using someone for your own benefit. Read your words again. You dont mind a short term relationship, but do they mind?
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Posted by Lancer
"But really, Libras, *IF* they need only one partner in life, they should avoid anything to do with

Pluto, Mars and Uranus"


I agree with pluto and mars . But uranus is quite friendly and compatible with venus in many respects and can certainly complement venus in a relationship (saw many many cases).

you should replace uranus with the sun . Actually sun is the most antagonistic towards venus . sun and venus are known as "natural enemies" in both modern and older schools of astrological thought . As Sun represents authority , rulership , and power whereas Venus stands for justice , balance, beauty . Its kinda obvious why they are enemies ..............

So updated would be : Pluto (scorpio) Mars(Aries and scorpio i think !) sun ( leo)


Basically the ego driven and power hungry forces of mars and sun would be a problem to your peace loving venusian tastes .

I was thinking Saturn could be somewhat of a problem but i can't say much as Saturn is Exalted in libra ...........



Lancer, Venus is a very tough nut to crack. It is essentially a very delicate planet. If I would say it, then Venus should really stick to Venus.

With regards to the sun, basically, yes, but I would think that the sun is not as destrcutive as mars, and not as power hungry as pluto. I would actually put uranus first, then jupiter, then the sun.

Uranus, is the antithesis of couplehood. It is the planet of individuality and breakups. Uranus is selfish and also self centred.

Jupiter, is very arrogant and authoritative. They are into fun and only fun.

The sun, can exhibit its authority, but the claws will not be as sharp as mars or pluto.. It can work out, but once the sun becomes overbearing......
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Posted by fieryimpulse
I'm curious to hear your POV on why aries tend to like Libras..

I'm going to answer this from an Aries point of view. Can't speak for other Aries but here are my answers. Intelligent conversationalists. To me this is more of a turn on than physical contact. Sweet and gentlemanly(the guys of course). Hot. Fun and playful. In my experiences I've had a lot in common with Libras. The ones I have known have had similar taste in music, movies, art, and the like. Sharp dressers and excellent taste and aesthetics in general. My Libra bfs have loved shopping as much as I do and thats a lot. Great lovers who are open minded and fun whilst being quite skillful. Unselfish.

Aries and Libra may not be meant to last forever but it sure is fun while it does. I'd rather take a break up with my ex Libras than to have never known them at all because of what astrology says. They were great guys who taught me a lot about life and love. Yes I did learn from them. Yes they did make me a better person for having known them.



You want them for what they can offer you. For what they can teach you. It's all about *YOU*.
Libra's ideals are very different from Aries'. It's not all about them, it's about the partnership experience.
I mentioned before and I need to say it again: Ariens who go for Libras tend to have some problems they are looking to the Libra to fulfill. The aries tend to be very dependent on the libra, so much they become a crutch for each other...

And, Aries also knows libra is not their true partner.. they do better as friends.. but they still hold on.. because of what they can get out of them (if they do hold on). Aries women, cannot think of anything beyond their own needs.
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"But uranus is quite friendly and compatible with venus in many respects and can certainly complement venus in a relationship (saw many many cases)."

Uranians don't know what love is. They know what friendship is. They keep questioning 'love' and try hard to fulfill its expectations, but they're not truly made for couplehood. Their purpose is to work out their friendships and BE a good friend.

Uranus will cast Venus aside as clingy and weak, missing the total point of Venus' intentions. A love relationship will never be truly happy between them. Especially so for female uranus and male venus..

The congeniality of uranus is only based on social arenas.. never into relationship arenas..
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Posted by fieryimpulse
I'm curious to hear your POV on why aries tend to like Libras..

I'm going to answer this from an Aries point of view. Can't speak for other Aries but here are my answers. Intelligent conversationalists. To me this is more of a turn on than physical contact. Sweet and gentlemanly(the guys of course). Hot. Fun and playful. In my experiences I've had a lot in common with Libras. The ones I have known have had similar taste in music, movies, art, and the like. Sharp dressers and excellent taste and aesthetics in general. My Libra bfs have loved shopping as much as I do and thats a lot. Great lovers who are open minded and fun whilst being quite skillful. Unselfish.

Aries and Libra may not be meant to last forever but it sure is fun while it does. I'd rather take a break up with my ex Libras than to have never known them at all because of what astrology says. They were great guys who taught me a lot about life and love. Yes I did learn from them. Yes they did make me a better person for having known them.



Agreed.



I'd rather take a break up with my ex Libras than to have never known them at all because of what astrology says.
That's basically it. But you're using someone for your own benefit. Read your words again. You dont mind a short term relationship, but do they mind?
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Honestly Spica one of those Libras I was with for 2 years. We were engaged for part of it. We were both young at the time. We mutually decided to break it off because we realized we were young to be contemplating marriage. The other Libra was a very long distance thing, and we only dated didn't get into a relationship. I never used either Libra. I loved my ex fiance with all my heart. I say he made me a better person. I'm not selfish with my money or belongings. My selfishness is more with wanting time to myself when others want to spend time with me. One lesson I did learn from my ex fiancee is the importance of spending time and growing together. He also taught me to not be so impulsive to take 5 calm down and settle an argument with calm debate and reasoning.

Like you opposite relationships fascinate me. Actually synastry fascinates me. Would love to learn more about it.

Another reason this particular thread fascinates me is that I am an Aries mother of 2 Libra children. I would like to learn more about the Aries parent/Libra child relationship.One thing I did learn from my ex that I definitely apply w/ my kids is the take 5 calm down and reason with the kids. My kids are highly intelligent and very curious individuals. Sometimes their curiosity gets them into some crazy predicaments.
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YOUR # 7 SIGN

# 7 is your love and war sign. To find # 7, count your own sign as # 1 in the Sun-sign messages below. Then count down the signs until you hit # 7. E.g., Aries' # 7 is Libra, and Libra's # 7 is Aries. You will always be # 7 to your # 7.

# 7 is your sign of equals, partners and "obvious enemies." It's your "same but opposite" sign. In some ways, # 7 is your mirror, and you are # 7's mirror. This engenders competition, and what I call "flash anger" - sudden, almost inexplicable or unreasonable flashes of unplanned anger. (Especially between Air and Fire signs - Air signs are Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, Fire are Leo, Sagittarius and Aries.) I think this anger arises partly because you are your # 7 are so similar, yet so unexpectedly different, that you are constantly lulled into thinking you're similar, then surprised that you're not, and so you stay in a constant state of "yes-no-yes-no." This alternating identification-alienation, or frustration-attraction, provides an unending source of liveliness. So this same source of anger is a source of constant spark and renewal.

For example, if you're an Aquarian, your # 7 is Leo. You're both very stubborn

(and often these two signs even look the same - long, bushy "manes," large faces, sturdy bodies) but Leo loves romance and pleasure, while the Aquarian heart flows toward friends and entertainment. Geminis and Sagittarians (# 7 to each other) are both indecisive, intellectual, and love travel; but Sag loves long trips, and philosophical ideas, while Gemini likes short trips - and poking fun at ideas. Cancer nurtures unconditionally, while her # 7, Capricorn, steers or disciplines - yet both are deeply concerned with parenting. But it's challenging. Your # 7 has the same amount of will power as you, and the same energy. And what you find most frustrating in your # 7 might be just what you find frustrating in yourself.

You tend to compete with your # 7, yet admire him/her. So love and argument often mix. This pairing demands a lot of maturity, respect and grace from both partners. But the # 1-# 7 pairing never "wears out." The spark of attraction lives on and on. Your # 7 sign freshens your life and brings new opportunities, fresh ways of seeing the world. # 7 challenges your outworn ideas, spurs you to seek new horizons, perhaps even to relocate. This is your perfect marriage partner, IF you can bear the dynamism!
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I think there is some truth in what your saying. as for acting innocent i show my bad side first when it involves a love interest, mostly from expierence i dont see the point in trying to act perfect all the time being scared they wont like you because thats so not true i find when im myself my former lovers liked me better. Thats the main problem in relationships everyone trys to act perfect scared there true self isnt gonna be enough. if your pissed off show it talk about if your happy smile don't hide it just to keep the peace because it'll drive you insane and you'll start to resent the ones you love.

I think aries and libra can be bad for eachother but also good it really does depend on the individual. And often they both need to be mature if not then its gonna be a war zone. I actully think there quite similar they just show it in different ways both love getting there own way, both know eachothers weakness the only thing is aries cant give the silent treatment as good as them and sometimes cant think and they say things they can't take back which ofcourse could come across as being nasty.

As for being manipulative both aries and libra are good at this when they wanna be.
I sometimes wish astrology never exsisted now everyones comparing charts to see if there meant for eachother its like its not enough to love/like someone anymore they have to make sure there charts are compatible. its kinda sad Not only do we judge people by there looks but now by there signs. sheesh

I've never approached a libra they've always approached me But, Theres only one man on this earth, that can hurt me and he's a libra And i'm not ashamed to admit it.

This couple is so hard to understand i think more many people because to some aries libras are awful and too some libras aries are awful and its sad that a lot of the times they only get the see the bad apple of each sign and can't be bothered to make it work.

But im glad me and my libra stuck with it. I think we also matured more which has helped us in the long run.


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Posted by Diddylibra
To most yeah its a mislead , i for one disagree with it me and my arie been together for almost 2 years now and its great , we getting engage end of the year.



Aw thats cute! 🙂


Yeah this thread has been fun to read ive read like every page without getting bored for once! There has been a hell of alot of drama recently on here esp with scorpios, aries and libra whats up with that lol who knew astrology could turn into an episode of the hills!