Updates——??

I everyone - little ole me again - been trying to catch up on the reading. Cant always get on.

So how is everyone doing on the Libra relationships? Any progresses? I was going to send a email or something to the one I am amored with (havent spoken to him since 3/21), but after reading everything on here - it seems to scare them off completely, not sure Im ready for that.

Huh, 3/21 was yesterday, you might want to give him a chance to call you. Were you the one who always call him and he never calls you? Are you still doing that? If so not good, not good at all.

Benice, give him time. 03/21 was less than 24 hours ago. It's hard to wait, especially if you enjoy time with them. But just be patient.

Progresses for me and Libra: we're taking a trip together in April.

* we're taking a trip together in April.

Nice!

Yeah ... Libras don't need to be together 24/7. Let him breathe. We are like fine wine. A little breathing makes us better.

🙂

Maybe she meant 3/12 and it cam out backwards?

I thought of that as well. 🙂

My relationship with myself is going very well. We hang out all the time. Do everything together. It is good.

🙂

LS, you're a hoot.

The breathing part just seems out of character for this guy. I hinted yesterday that I wanted to be alone last night and he insisted he come see me. At least we "went to bed" early. 😛

"My relationship with myself is going very well. We hang out all the time. Do everything together. It is good."

ROFLMAO!!! Okay, it is my Gem Moon that I get my twisted sense of humor from, cause I could soooo see myself saying something like that!

Life is good for me as well... Could be better. Could be worse. Hopefully will be much better soon. The sooner the better... That's about it.

"Let him breathe."

That's what straws are for...

That's what straws are for...

LOL!!! I am good just a little serial dater these days... Have my eye on an Aries though, had to break that Scorp/Libra trend...

HP, way to go, awesome, they are the best to travel with.

my bad, I meant 2/21 LOL

What happened the last time you spoke?

HP

Good luck dealing with my sex drive. lol!

"We get it on most every night
When that moon is big and bright
Its a supernatural delight
Everybodys dancing in the moonlight

Everybody here is out of sight
They dont bark and they dont bite
They keep things loose they keep it tight
Everybodys dancing in the moonlight

Dancing in the moonlight
Everybodys feeling warm and bright
Its such a fine and natural sight
Everybodys dancing in the moonlight

We like our fun and we never fight
You cant dance and stay uptight
Its a supernatural delight
Everybody was dancing in the moonlight

Dancing in the moonlight
Everybodys feeling warm and bright
Its such a fine and natural sight
Everybodys dancing in the moonlight

We get it on most every night
And when that moon is big and bright
Its a supernatural delight
Everybodys dancing in the moonlight

Dancing in the moonlight
Everybodys feeling warm and bright
Its such a fine and natural sight
Everybodys dancing in the moonlight"

yep, the man's an animal. but i love it!

LS -last time we spoke was just a dance of words - teasing, in like 4 texts back and forth, cute said we'd get together for dinner, never did then after reading this site decided to lay back. thats it

So. . . whats the next step for you guys. Will you keep in pursuit or is that it? How long will you wait for these Libras to contact?

benice

I would drop him. Do you really want a guy you are going to chase for the rest of your life or do you wanna have fun?

I vote fun. I vote fun! Go find someone who doesn't 'cause you a moments trouble. Have fun with friends. Forget the boy.

call him on it, benice. i still say that committments for dinner, movie, etc are not made via text. if he wants to be a real man, he needs to talk on his phone, not text with it.

I say forget it because if he wanted to take her to dinner and a movie .... he would have.

Just go have fun and meet someone else.

LS, I need your advice. May I email you?

Scorps will put up with a lot for someone they really really like. If you are still waiting around, you must really like him. You will probably need closure, to confirm to yourself that it is over before you can move on. Contact him. Can't get worse than it is now... Give him his chance, if he does not bite, move on knowing you came more than half way.

HP

Of course!

Alcheme

Libras do too. But that is great advice. If you need to contact him one more time and he doesn't get back to you, know it is over.

ok, sent!

***Scorps will put up with a lot for someone they really really like. If you are still waiting around, you must really like him. You will probably need closure, to confirm to yourself that it is over before you can move on. Contact him. Can't get worse than it is now... Give him his chance, if he does not bite, move on knowing you came more than half way.***

Alcheme, we do put up with a lot when we really like people, but we don't make fools of ourselves (not saying you are benice, but in his eyes I am sure it is less respect than what you deserve) closure is needed for us to cut something completely off and walk away without a thought. We just like to be clear.

Benice, it has been a month, damn... He is just not into you. Libras do not go a whole month if they are into you at all even if they consider you a friend, they contact you to say hey (By the way, my libra friend called and left a message on my cell about an hour ago. "Hey, just calling to see how you are and to touch base, give me a call when you get a chance.") I will call, probably tomorrow just to thank him for checking on me and ask how he is. That is it. I probably won't hear from him for another couple weeks or so after that.

Okay, back to you. A month and you were the one to contact him then? Not good. I remember you saying you were always contancting him. You don't need closure, he told you he didn't want to be in a relationship with you right? There you go.

Thanks all - I wanted to see how things were going with your Libras. Glad things are going good. Since Libra and I are suppose to be friends, I would like to make some closure for my own, so was thinking I will just email him what I feel and that Id still like to be friends, then move on. At least this way I have it out there and if he never calls I will know for sure.

that's the truth!!!

Benice, if you have been doing all the contacting up until now, what makes you think he will respond now? I think he is clearly showing you that he has no desire to contact you as you are always contacting him. You should let it go. It is becoming a little stalkerish now (I know new word). Libras are nice and he doesn't want to just tell you to leave him alone.

Do you want a friend even who never contacts you? Let it go...

There are more friends and lovers out there. Even Libras, he is not the last on the planet.

But you probably will send the email anyway. I guess you will get the hint one day or he will have to get ugly with you. If you push them they will eventually lash out. They don't want to but you are clearly pushing the issue here.

Ok QS - oh no he wont get ugly because this will be it for me. LOL but youd probably have to know the whole relationship here to say he would lash out. I dont think he would because we ARE friends and I never was a stalker type to him. Besides he had told me before if he didnt want to know the person anymore he would tell them and not answer the phone - so that is why I dont think he will get ugly. He opened up to me about all these things, and always told me he wouldnt say it if he didnt mean it. Either that or Im totally whacked.

Cmon you know us scorps have that intuition about people or psychic crap.

Tonight going out with Scorp - what do you think of a scorp and scorp. Kinda scarey. All the scorp guys I have known we've not gotten along. This one seems different.

Also, an Aries I went out with back in June has been burning up my phone for last two weeks, and guess what we parted as friends, I would still call him once in awhile and now he is calling me, so yeah that's why I wanted to stay friends with Libra.

OK this is the last you'll hear about THIS LIBRA.

***LOL but youd probably have to know the whole relationship here to say he would lash out. I dont think he would because we ARE friends and I never was a stalker type to him***

What relationship? What you have to get is a relationship, friendship or otherwise is when two both peoople reciprocate. This isn't happening. He isn't contacting you or initiating anything.

If I recall, please correct me if I am wrong, on one of your posts you told him how you felt before and he clearly explained he didn't feel he same. Are you the one who gave him a baloon on V-day, and he made some smart remark—

Ask yourself this. Do your other friends not contact you at all? I doubt it, but if so, damn you need some new friends.

***Besides he had told me before if he didnt want to know the person anymore he would tell them and not answer the phone - so that is why I dont think he will get ugly. He opened up to me about all these things, and always told me he wouldnt say it if he didnt mean it. Either that or Im totally whacked. ***

Okay Libras love to be desired and know it when they are. So you contacting him all the time is probably a little ego booster but deary it is very unlikely that a Libra or any guy would NEVER initiate contact with you wether they wanted you in their life period as a friend or otherwise.

***Cmon you know us scorps have that intuition about people or psychic crap.***

Yes we do have that intuition about people and psychy. However, we don't over look the obvious for our own desires either. We are confident and secure that we are good people and entertain ourselves with people who recipicate the same as we do.

***what do you think of a scorp and scorp. Kinda scarey. All the scorp guys I have known we've not gotten along. This one seems different.***

Don't get along with them at all romantically.

***an Aries I went out with back in June has been burning up my phone for last two weeks, and guess what we parted as friends, I would still call him once in awhile and now he is calling me, so yeah that's why I wanted to stay friends with Libra. ***

Key words: He is calling you. Libra isn't.

I am not trying to be mean, but it vexes me to see a woman underestimate herself, especially for the affection of a man who doesn't want her in the way she wants him.

However, this might have been a waste of my time to break this down. If you want to continue to persue with an empty response do so. If you like it I love it. It won't be sais WE all didn't warn you.

"Besides he had told me before if he didnt want to know the person anymore he would tell them and not answer the phone "

Does he answer the phone when you call him?

HP, he sometimes answers her call. It boosts his ego why wouldn't he? He NEVER EVER calls her or email her initially. You tell me, maybe I am just crazy.

Yes thats whats strange hp he does answer the phone or calls back and apologizes for not answering the phone. any way i look at it, its still not worth the effort as you all say.

good girl 🙂

Let him realise one day what he missed out on while you moved on and had FUN 🙂