Virgo woman/Libra man....(he's confused/ing me?)

Hey all,

I'm a virgo woman age 28 who gave my business card to a guy I met at the club a mth ago. He called 4days later...and since then I can't seem to figure out what he wants! I am totally attracted to him physically. Our first date went like this..."I need to see you tonight" and 15mins later he wanted me to be where he wanted me to meet him! He asked MANY questions suggesting he may be looking for a "wife" or wife prospects.

He has a girlfriend (he tells me 2wks later) but tells me he never truly was ever with "One woman" but he can see himself changing that...if I will quit smoking.(he'll give up something if I will)

Very elusive the first 2wks I could learn very little about him but he wanted to know everything about me. He called every other day. I never called. I got frustrated with him "controlling" when I saw him so I lied to him to try to see him sooner. I told him I was leaving for Fl for a week and immediately he wants to see me before I leave (which he did). And on the day I was supposedly returning from Fl, he was texting from 9am that he wants to see me that night. Well, I did not reply timely to the texts and he was like throwing tantrums...sending about 7 text messages as though I had left a baby back home!
I did see him that night...he lives 45mins away from me and he came by my apt. for about 30mins! Said he was working early the next morning.

2 days later, I go clubbing and he said he may join me but he did not call to tell me he changed his mind. I called him while waiting for him at the club for an hr and he said..."hmmm I am gonna pass". I said were you not gonna tell me? He said, he was gonna. I hung up on him. 6am the next morning he calls me that he is coming by my apt. I said what? U ok? He shows up 1hr later and curls up in my bed. We finally kissed after a month of "whatever" dating...— He leaves to see a friend 35mins later and said he would see me that same night! This was Saturday morning. I have not seen or heard from him since. It is Monday almost 5pm! I have not called eighter. What the # $ % *&. Any insight? Is this guy just crazy or Libra?

* He asked MANY questions suggesting he may be looking for a "wife" or wife prospects.

Yet

* He has a girlfriend (he tells me 2wks later) but tells me he never truly was ever with "One woman"

That is really all you need to know. The guy is drama, drama, drama. Plus, he is doing a number on your head. He is willing to consider you .... maybe .... if you jump through a lot of hoops, stand on your head, and don't ask any questions. Who needs all the drama?

I really don't get why you would think he is a good candit for dating let alone marriage. But c'est la vie.

Sometimes we know the answer but we just want a second opinion and gosh I am told I am waaay too picky so I am trying the "benefit of a doubt bull# $ @&*)"

U r funny Arianlatay...

Guess I'm trying to have fun with it. Honestly, I only have fun when he comes back crawling and whining like a big kid. I actually find it a lil cute! LOL!

On a more serious note, "do Libra's try to like wreel us in' then stand back maybe to see the effect it's having on us" Maybe "he wan't to be chased?"

its possible that his gf is a capricorn or cancer women.

(( i've recently decided that i'm not having sex with him anymore. he cheats on me as if i don't know!!! ))

Do you know this for sure? 😛

Hey Geo......you should lighten up just go with the flow. We Libra's are flaky but when it comes to someone we really like the flakiness goes out the window. We are to inconsistent for a Virgo's taste but Aries seem to handle us really well...I would take
Arianlatay advice to heart. Good Luck!

true dat...speaking of game plan i'm busy cooking up one.

(( so...i have found out soooooooo much information. ))

lol. You understood all those information from an Aries way of understanding. That makes it wrong.