What are signs a Libra girl likes you?

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I'm a Capricorn man interested in a Libra at my job who was told that I liked her. I think too much so most times she would come around, I wouldn't say anything to her. She started coming around my workstation more frequently then normal (just stansing around fpr a few seconds not doing much) and she holds girl eye contact but she only says hello if I speak first. She has a very flirty personality and I've seen her greet a select few other people without them having to initiate.

When I asked her what she does in her time off from work she says she's so tired from work and school. When I asked if she had any free time, she smiled and said "Nope." while walking away. I guess my question is, is she just being friendly knowing that I like her or are the feelings reciprocated?
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She’s teasing you, it’s their favorite thing to do :p
Is that a good thing or a bad thing? One of my coworkers told me they overheard her telling one of her coworkers that I liked her. She wouldn't do that if she didn't care right?
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I think its a good thing! libras are really fun people to talk to, they love to tease. Caps are way more serious so you will probably have to be not so serious with her and watch the conversation will start to bloom. My beautiful niece is a libra and her new boyfriend who she is madly in love with is a cap so it think its possible. They've been together for over a year now and super duper happy.
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She’s teasing you, it’s their favorite thing to do :p
Is that a good thing or a bad thing? One of my coworkers told me they overheard her telling one of her coworkers that I liked her. She wouldn't do that if she didn't care right?
I think its a good thing! libras are really fun people to talk to, they love to tease. Caps are way more serious so you will probably have to be not so serious with her and watch the conversation will start to bloom. My beautiful niece is a libra and her new boyfriend who she is madly in love with is a cap so it think its possible. They've been together for over a year now and super duper happy.
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Yeah the only thing that bothered me was when she said she didn't have any freetime. Everyone else I asked said it was a death sentence except for a few who said she was just playing hard to get or wanted me to chase since I waited so long to talk to her. I have mainly Aquarius in my chart and a Scorpio moon though so getting out of my head is monumental. Was also wondering, could my Libra rising have any affect on my interactions with her?
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Well from saying nope sounds pretty much like she's not interested :/ sorry to say that but she'd put more effort into it specially if she already knows you like her...If you're looking for more direct answer why not simply call her out for a drink or dinner some time? It will spare you a lot of trouble they sooner you do it. I know you'd like to make path secured first but sometimes best way is to be straight forward
I agree.
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You have to be able to separate their flirtation from their actual feelings. Since Libra is such a flirtatious/friendly their actual feelings can be difficult to distinguish. Plus some Libras master their flirtation, so then it makes it even more difficult.

1. A Libra who likes you, will talk to you...A LOT. They'll enjoy your company and ask you questions about yourself. They WANT to know more about you. They'll try filling in the gaps of silence with conversation. If a Libra is trying to engage you, then that's a good sign.

2. Libras are prone to overthinking and they will overthink in front of you when they like you. If you notice random gaps of silence as they think of the next topic, that's good. Some are better at hiding this than others. If a Libra likes you, that means they are more easily flustered. A flirtatious Libra is practically flawless in thought/speech, while a flustered one is a bit more transparent.

3. They become more consistent. A Libra who likes you (or at least enjoys your company) will flake less and less. The more they like you, the easier it will be to see them. If you find it difficult to get a Libra alone with you outside of work, she's not that interested yet.

4. If she actually follows/chases you. This is normally not a conscious act, but a Libra will gravitate towards those they are comfortable with physically. If you see that she's following you around inexplicably, that's a good sign. Hovering around you may also mean that she's trying to figure you out and reserving judgement.

5. She'll try to look her best around you. This is normal for Libras regardless, but shes not going to let you see her dressed down. The only time this isn't true is when you two are completely comfortable with one another, but that's a whole new level.

6. You'll see the inner workings of her world. If you're able to get to her place alone, that's a very good sign. If you meet her close friends and family, that's good too. If you're simply an object of flirtation, you'll never reach that level.

From personal experience, Libras (the guys and girls I've known, including those who were interested in me) are not always the most direct people. In fact they can be pretty passive. They are great at flirting and used to getting their way with the opposite sex. However they tend to go after those they can't attract easily. While not every Libra is going to play hard to get, many shy away from people who are too emotionally direct with them (if you like them more than they like you).

Libra is an air sign and therefore a mental stimulated sign. Mental stimulation is a quick way to get a Libra's attention. Therefore if a Libra has to think/guess about you, that will increase the attraction. Libras like a bit of mystery. They themselves will try to be mysterious (and some can even be manipulative) in order to gauge you. Giving them something to think about is a positive thing.

My advice is to remain steady and calm. Let her continue to float around as she tries to figure you out. She's observing you to see what you'll do/say. When she comes around talk to her like any other person, don't get in your head about it (you barely know her after all). For all that you know she could have a terrible personality. Let her come to you and it will be really easy to see if she's interested or not.
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"One of my coworkers told me they overheard her telling one of her coworkers that I liked her. She wouldn't do that if she didn't care right?"

OK so this here shows she already knows you like her.

"When I asked if she had any free time, she smiled and said "Nope." while walking away"

Lol and this right here shows she isn't interested.

She already knows you like her and when she senses you are about to ask her out she disappears quickly before it can happen because Libras don't like to hurt people's feeling and awkardness. 😆 Caps can be a bit too serious for a libra. The best approach is to flirt and tease her more. Don't have a too serious approach or it will only make her uncomfortable unless that makes you uncomfortable. In that case just do you. 😛

Sorry but from what you have posted it doesn't seems she likes you. If she did she would stick around and see what else you had to say not walk out on you.



It was in passing and she stopped for a good minute when I was talking to her (Didn't give typical one word answers or lack of eye contact to show disinterest either). It was also late and nearing the end of her shift and I didn't immediately follow-up with the second question. Honestly, I might be kidding myself but there are alot of variables at play.
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I don't know, I'd say she's probably just being flirty and playing with you for fun

But who knows man. Your post reminded me of this video btw lol


Knowing that I like her though, isn't that a bit cruel on her part? Why not just be direct and say yes or no? Do I really just have to go up to her and ask?
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if we are not feeling it, we often find it worse to tell people to their face. we are often guilty of taking the coward's way out and hoping they get the subtle hint and/or just let the feelings fade.
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You have to be able to separate their flirtation from their actual feelings. Since Libra is such a flirtatious/friendly their actual feelings can be difficult to distinguish. Plus some Libras master their flirtation, so then it makes it even more difficult.

1. A Libra who likes you, will talk to you...A LOT. They'll enjoy your company and ask you questions about yourself. They WANT to know more about you. They'll try filling in the gaps of silence with conversation. If a Libra is trying to engage you, then that's a good sign.

2. Libras are prone to overthinking and they will overthink in front of you when they like you. If you notice random gaps of silence as they think of the next topic, that's good. Some are better at hiding this than others. If a Libra likes you, that means they are more easily flustered. A flirtatious Libra is practically flawless in thought/speech, while a flustered one is a bit more transparent.

3. They become more consistent. A Libra who likes you (or at least enjoys your company) will flake less and less. The more they like you, the easier it will be to see them. If you find it difficult to get a Libra alone with you outside of work, she's not that interested yet.

4. If she actually follows/chases you. This is normally not a conscious act, but a Libra will gravitate towards those they are comfortable with physically. If you see that she's following you around inexplicably, that's a good sign. Hovering around you may also mean that she's trying to figure you out and reserving judgement.

5. She'll try to look her best around you. This is normal for Libras regardless, but shes not going to let you see her dressed down. The only time this isn't true is when you two are completely comfortable with one another, but that's a whole new level.

6. You'll see the inner workings of her world. If you're able to get to her place alone, that's a very good sign. If you meet her close friends and family, that's good too. If you're simply an object of flirtation, you'll never reach that level.

From personal experience, Libras (the guys and girls I've known, including those who were interested in me) are not always the most direct people. In fact they can be pretty passive. They are great at flirting and used to getting their way with the opposite sex. However they tend to go after those they can't attract easily. While not every Libra is going to play hard to get, many shy away from people who are too emotionally direct with them (if you like them more than they like you).

Libra is an air sign and therefore a mental stimulated sign. Mental stimulation is a quick way to get a Libra's attention. Therefore if a Libra has to think/guess about you, that will increase the attraction. Libras like a bit of mystery. They themselves will try to be mysterious (and some can even be manipulative) in order to gauge you. Giving them something to think about is a positive thing.

My advice is to remain steady and calm. Let her continue to float around as she tries to figure you out. She's observing you to see what you'll do/say. When she comes around talk to her like any other person, don't get in your head about it (you barely know her after all). For all that you know she could have a terrible personality. Let her come to you and it will be really easy to see if she's interested or not.
Now that you mention it, she did do #2 when I introduced myself. There was an awkward pause before she asked me if I was off while giving eye contact and a smile (which honestly was a stupid question since my boss had walked by a minute earlier and said I was off). Libras are confusing. Even having the rising doesn't make it easier to understand them. 😝
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Now that you mention it, she did do #2 when I introduced myself. There was an awkward pause before she asked me if I was off while giving eye contact and a smile (which honestly was a stupid question since my boss had walked by a minute earlier and said I was off). Libras are confusing. Even having the rising doesn't make it easier to understand them. 😝
Oh trust me I know. I have a Libra Venus, so I've had more than a few encounters with Libra/Libra energy. The one thing that has always consistently worked is being completely chill/calm, detached, and either being knowledgeable and/or having a good sense of humor. Then give her the space to come to you while you do your own thing. She's currently in the process of figuring you out.



That being said, she may just like your attention and nothing else. So don't think too much about it.
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Libra is an air sign and therefore a mental stimulated sign. Mental stimulation is a quick way to get a Libra's attention. Therefore if a Libra has to think/guess about you, that will increase the attraction. Libras like a bit of mystery. They themselves will try to be mysterious (and some can even be manipulative) in order to gauge you. Giving them something to think about is a positive thing.


As a first decan Libra, I agree with this.
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You have to be able to separate their flirtation from their actual feelings. Since Libra is such a flirtatious/friendly their actual feelings can be difficult to distinguish. Plus some Libras master their flirtation, so then it makes it even more difficult.

1. A Libra who likes you, will talk to you...A LOT. They'll enjoy your company and ask you questions about yourself. They WANT to know more about you. They'll try filling in the gaps of silence with conversation. If a Libra is trying to engage you, then that's a good sign.

2. Libras are prone to overthinking and they will overthink in front of you when they like you. If you notice random gaps of silence as they think of the next topic, that's good. Some are better at hiding this than others. If a Libra likes you, that means they are more easily flustered. A flirtatious Libra is practically flawless in thought/speech, while a flustered one is a bit more transparent.

3. They become more consistent. A Libra who likes you (or at least enjoys your company) will flake less and less. The more they like you, the easier it will be to see them. If you find it difficult to get a Libra alone with you outside of work, she's not that interested yet.

4. If she actually follows/chases you. This is normally not a conscious act, but a Libra will gravitate towards those they are comfortable with physically. If you see that she's following you around inexplicably, that's a good sign. Hovering around you may also mean that she's trying to figure you out and reserving judgement.

5. She'll try to look her best around you. This is normal for Libras regardless, but shes not going to let you see her dressed down. The only time this isn't true is when you two are completely comfortable with one another, but that's a whole new level.

6. You'll see the inner workings of her world. If you're able to get to her place alone, that's a very good sign. If you meet her close friends and family, that's good too. If you're simply an object of flirtation, you'll never reach that level.

From personal experience, Libras (the guys and girls I've known, including those who were interested in me) are not always the most direct people. In fact they can be pretty passive. They are great at flirting and used to getting their way with the opposite sex. However they tend to go after those they can't attract easily. While not every Libra is going to play hard to get, many shy away from people who are too emotionally direct with them (if you like them more than they like you).

Libra is an air sign and therefore a mental stimulated sign. Mental stimulation is a quick way to get a Libra's attention. Therefore if a Libra has to think/guess about you, that will increase the attraction. Libras like a bit of mystery. They themselves will try to be mysterious (and some can even be manipulative) in order to gauge you. Giving them something to think about is a positive thing.

My advice is to remain steady and calm. Let her continue to float around as she tries to figure you out. She's observing you to see what you'll do/say. When she comes around talk to her like any other person, don't get in your head about it (you barely know her after all). For all that you know she could have a terrible personality. Let her come to you and it will be really easy to see if she's interested or not.
So insightful and near spot on😘

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I just nodded hey and asked if it was busy and she smiled and went into a full minute conversation about how it wasn't that busy even when I was turned in the opposite direction (still making eye contact). I messed up again because after that I didnt speak to her for the rest of the night everytime she walked by 😂.

When I was waiting for my ride, one of my coworkers joked and asked her to take me home. She didn't say anything but she looked straight at me to see what my response would be. I guess she just thinks I'm hot and cold but it still counts as mental stimulation for a Libra right?
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I just nodded hey and asked if it was busy and she smiled and went into a full minute conversation about how it wasn't that busy even when I was turned in the opposite direction (still making eye contact). I messed up again because after that I didnt speak to her for the rest of the night everytime she walked by 😂.

When I was waiting for my ride, one of my coworkers joked and asked her to take me home. She didn't say anything but she looked straight at me to see what my response would be. I guess she just thinks I'm hot and cold but it still counts as mental stimulation for a Libra right?
And what was your response? 😛
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"Shit. I wish. I'm just trying to get home." with a laugh. She just kinda left after that.
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Agree with sweethearts. Most libra women when they find someone they like will try to move the two people together.

Not taking that opportunity to drive you home and be together is a sign that she considers you a friend and not the "one".

Even looking at some of the libra women of dxpnet when they find the one they are interested in, they start being aggressive and try to form a partnership or relationship even faster than their partner is ready.




Someone picks her up every night from work. Not like it matters. There's another cute girl who works up front so I'll just go after her instead. Sometimes I love my Aqua Venus.
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Agree with sweethearts. Most libra women when they find someone they like will try to move the two people together.

Not taking that opportunity to drive you home and be together is a sign that she considers you a friend and not the "one".

Even looking at some of the libra women of dxpnet when they find the one they are interested in, they start being aggressive and try to form a partnership or relationship even faster than their partner is ready.




Someone picks her up every night from work. Not like it matters. There's another cute girl who works up front so I'll just go after her instead. Sometimes I love my Aqua Venus.

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Probably should've mentioned she was only 18.
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I just nodded hey and asked if it was busy and she smiled and went into a full minute conversation about how it wasn't that busy even when I was turned in the opposite direction (still making eye contact). I messed up again because after that I didnt speak to her for the rest of the night everytime she walked by 😂.

When I was waiting for my ride, one of my coworkers joked and asked her to take me home. She didn't say anything but she looked straight at me to see what my response would be. I guess she just thinks I'm hot and cold but it still counts as mental stimulation for a Libra right?
And what was your response? 😛
"Shit. I wish. I'm just trying to get home." with a laugh. She just kinda left after that.


Her silence says it all lol.
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Yeah. It could be be that or just that I ignored her for the rest of the night everyone I saw her. Eh. This whole thing is getting tired lol.
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Ugh, stay away from the co-workers if you can help it!

But to answer the question in your title, at least as a Libra female person, this is how I feel when I talk to someone I have a crush on. This is probably universal for all people though, just sayin...

- I smile instantly / sheepishly when we make eye contact (can't help it!! I just like you!!).

- I will probably look at you and try to walk in your area more often.

- If you move closer (ex: to show me how to use a machine), I won't move away.

- Tossing my hair, laughing nervously and using stupid hand gestures during normal conversation are indicators that I have a crush on you.

My experience as a Libra with Capricorn:

- I could sense when they were about to ask me out, and got super nervous and tried to avoid the conversation, keeping casual. "So are you bringing your friends, or...?"
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Ugh, stay away from the co-workers if you can help it!

But to answer the question in your title, at least as a Libra female person, this is how I feel when I talk to someone I have a crush on. This is probably universal for all people though, just sayin...

- I smile instantly / sheepishly when we make eye contact (can't help it!! I just like you!!).

- I will probably look at you and try to walk in your area more often.

- If you move closer (ex: to show me how to use a machine), I won't move away.

- Tossing my hair, laughing nervously and using stupid hand gestures during normal conversation are indicators that I have a crush on you.

My experience as a Libra with Capricorn:

- I could sense when they were about to ask me out, and got super nervous and tried to avoid the conversation, keeping casual. "So are you bringing your friends, or...?"
Guess that makes me a blind idiot (no hair tossing or nervous laugh though). I hate being infatuated with Libra women. Something won't let me go. 😂
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?


Oh she is a pisces moon? And you're a Scorpio moon right? Scorpio moon likes pisces moon a lot I have noticed. It's a good match. Pisces mooners are very sensitive and dreamy. If she likes you she will probably daydream a lot about you, picturing you two together. 😄

Sag mars are action oriented people and they like to have fun. You said she was outgoing and social right? Not the shy type? I think if she liked you and she knew you liked her she would make sure to be around you and flirt a lot.

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Yeah she always does happen to be around and if I talk together, she completely opens up to conversation. I'm not sure you can count staring and prolonged eye contact as direct flirting though.
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?

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Oohhhhh she has a pisces moon...... makes sense.

I am often awkward when trying to flirt with guys who are not agressive in pursuing me. If a guy is straight to the point, okay, but I can get shy if he is not and if it’s my job to get the guy. I would say that it’s definitely a good sign that she wants to spend time with you talking. I always seem to be somehow around a guy I like and it seems like she’s doing it.
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?


Oh she is a pisces moon? And you're a Scorpio moon right? Scorpio moon likes pisces moon a lot I have noticed. It's a good match. Pisces mooners are very sensitive and dreamy. If she likes you she will probably daydream a lot about you, picturing you two together. 😄

Sag mars are action oriented people and they like to have fun. You said she was outgoing and social right? Not the shy type? I think if she liked you and she knew you liked her she would make sure to be around you and flirt a lot.


Yeah she always does happen to be around and if I talk together, she completely opens up to conversation. I'm not sure you can count staring and prolonged eye contact as direct flirting though.


Does she smile when she stares?

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Sheepish smile or closed mouth. She only gave me a full smile once when I introduced myself.

When she laughs, I get a smile too.
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?


Oh she is a pisces moon? And you're a Scorpio moon right? Scorpio moon likes pisces moon a lot I have noticed. It's a good match. Pisces mooners are very sensitive and dreamy. If she likes you she will probably daydream a lot about you, picturing you two together. 😄

Sag mars are action oriented people and they like to have fun. You said she was outgoing and social right? Not the shy type? I think if she liked you and she knew you liked her she would make sure to be around you and flirt a lot.


Yeah she always does happen to be around and if I talk together, she completely opens up to conversation. I'm not sure you can count staring and prolonged eye contact as direct flirting though.


Does she smile when she stares?


Sheepish smile or closed mouth. She only gave me a full smile once when I introduced myself.

When she laughs, I get a smile too.


Sheepish smile is good. I mean full smile with teeth is pretty weird if there's no real reason for it lol.

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She's back to being annoyed lol. My coworker decided to fuck around and as a joke asked if he could ask her something but because this is the sa.e guy who told her that I liked her, she looked over at me before looking back at him and saying no with an attitude before walking off. It made me look really bad tbh. I made it even worse by like seeing her somewhere else a few minutes later and holding eye contact but saying nothing. I don't know what to do anymore lol.
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?


Oh she is a pisces moon? And you're a Scorpio moon right? Scorpio moon likes pisces moon a lot I have noticed. It's a good match. Pisces mooners are very sensitive and dreamy. If she likes you she will probably daydream a lot about you, picturing you two together. 😄

Sag mars are action oriented people and they like to have fun. You said she was outgoing and social right? Not the shy type? I think if she liked you and she knew you liked her she would make sure to be around you and flirt a lot.


Yeah she always does happen to be around and if I talk together, she completely opens up to conversation. I'm not sure you can count staring and prolonged eye contact as direct flirting though.


Does she smile when she stares?


Sheepish smile or closed mouth. She only gave me a full smile once when I introduced myself.

When she laughs, I get a smile too.


Sheepish smile is good. I mean full smile with teeth is pretty weird if there's no real reason for it lol.


She's back to being annoyed lol. My coworker decided to fuck around and as a joke asked if he could ask her something but because this is the sa.e guy who told her that I liked her, she looked over at me before looking back at him and saying no with an attitude before walking off. It made me look really bad tbh. I made it even worse by like seeing her somewhere else a few minutes later and holding eye contact but saying nothing. I don't know what to do anymore lol.
Second time you've told us she walked out on you. It's not looking good. 😆

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She didn't walk out, it was in passing and she was on the job. But yeah idk how to rectify this. Maybe just ask if she wants a coffee lol. If she gets irritated from assuming I was getting someone to talk to her for me, doesn't that mean she is still (negatively?) invested though?
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?


Oh she is a pisces moon? And you're a Scorpio moon right? Scorpio moon likes pisces moon a lot I have noticed. It's a good match. Pisces mooners are very sensitive and dreamy. If she likes you she will probably daydream a lot about you, picturing you two together. 😄

Sag mars are action oriented people and they like to have fun. You said she was outgoing and social right? Not the shy type? I think if she liked you and she knew you liked her she would make sure to be around you and flirt a lot.


Yeah she always does happen to be around and if I talk together, she completely opens up to conversation. I'm not sure you can count staring and prolonged eye contact as direct flirting though.


Does she smile when she stares?


Sheepish smile or closed mouth. She only gave me a full smile once when I introduced myself.

When she laughs, I get a smile too.


Sheepish smile is good. I mean full smile with teeth is pretty weird if there's no real reason for it lol.


She's back to being annoyed lol. My coworker decided to fuck around and as a joke asked if he could ask her something but because this is the sa.e guy who told her that I liked her, she looked over at me before looking back at him and saying no with an attitude before walking off. It made me look really bad tbh. I made it even worse by like seeing her somewhere else a few minutes later and holding eye contact but saying nothing. I don't know what to do anymore lol.
Dumb question on my part but have you asked her out?
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Nah. Only small talk if you could call it that. I really wish I could have an actual conversation though.
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She didn't walk out, it was in passing and she was on the job. But yeah idk how to rectify this. Maybe just ask if she wants a coffee lol. If she gets irritated from assuming I was getting someone to talk to her for me, doesn't that mean she is still (negatively?) invested though?



Had some random guy come up to me last weekend for his mate?!?!?

My immediate reaction, if he can’t do it himself he’s not the type of guy for me because I prefer someone that goes out and gets what he wants. Told his mate I prefer someone more assertive.

Now, if he came himself after that and ask me for a dance, I would have given him the chance but he had no back bone!

Only way you’ll ever know is by being a little more aggressive and ask her out. STOP wasting your time asking everyone here to guess what’s going to happen!
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Aw don't be so hard on him. I want to know about his little office romance or lack off.

Well dating someone from work is not ideal. It could turn extremely awkward so maybe it's better he stays lurking...and tell us all about it. 😂😂😂



Yeah, I’m a Libra and don’t got time for weak men lmao

I was already frustrated by him on his opening post and I check back 12 pages later.... and he hasn’t done a thing! He might be 18 as well though which I’d have to give him a little consideration BUT nah.

I’ll pop back in another 2 weeks lol
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I don't know, I'd say she's probably just being flirty and playing with you for fun

But who knows man. Your post reminded me of this video btw lol


Knowing that I like her though, isn't that a bit cruel on her part? Why not just be direct and say yes or no? Do I really just have to go up to her and ask?
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Yea we don't chase men. I don't. Theres too many chasing me. You gotta be upfront and direct tell her what you want. Just be a man and ask her do u wanna go out sometime. That simple. We like confident direct men. That's how we are when we're feeling you.









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I don't know, I'd say she's probably just being flirty and playing with you for fun

But who knows man. Your post reminded me of this video btw lol


Knowing that I like her though, isn't that a bit cruel on her part? Why not just be direct and say yes or no? Do I really just have to go up to her and ask?
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Lol say yes or no to what? You didnt give her a yes or no question if she liked you or not. YOU gotta be direct... if you want a direct answer.. if she likes you or not. The one thing i notice about all these people asking the same question whether a libra woman likes you or not, none of these people who likes the libra is being up front and straight up with her themselves. They're liking her first and doing all the flirting and teasing, telling everybody and their mother they like her except for her and not just going up to her and saying You wanna go out with me sometime? or I like you whats up and just being upfront and direct. He's being the tease first with his intentions. And then they turn it around and say its our fault that we're not psychic so we're teasing. Even though this one said something about free time but still didn't just come out and ask her on a date. Its not that hard if you like a libra dont be half ass with it. We're the most open realest chicks and will tell you exactly whats up and how we feel when you straight up and ask. If you're not about games. We dont sugar coat anything. At least I dont. But you cant be playing games when you're chasing us. That's a sign of weakness to us when it comes to men. If we smell strength we're on it. If we smell weakness we bounce. You being afraid to just be straight up and tell her that you like her and not manning up and just ask her out is a weakness to us. Shes probably not feeling it.

Now if you got everything going on thats on point that we like. You wont meet a more direct chick. We'll let you know exactly whats up. We go for what we want when we like somebody. We like the same in whoevers feeling us. So nobodys being cruel or trying to be cruel you just need to quit messing around first, by teasing and flirting with her first without saying what you really want. And go ahead and get what you want. Lol going off of these same questions every time about a libra woman, from a man or someone who wants her but wont tell her, what are you all expecting us to do with every guy who wont say the words you wanna go out? jump in your lap and be like "I know you want it even though you wont say s.hit to me but nope you can't get none". Lol doesnt work like that. With any woman not on meds. Its not that hard be straight up and we'll be straight up with you. Thats how we operate. Otherwise we'll just think youre a tease who likes the chase. Go for what you want. Thats how we do it

And the leo knows what hes talking about take his advice. That aquarius too who was talking about nuts...ha. Its usually the same guys who are clueless, the direct guys like leos and aquarius dont have this problem with libra women. Capricorns and cancers are shyer. Not direct with us with what they want or how they feel. But the leos and aquas know whats up because we're being direct with each other. Nobodys messing around.
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We flirt and act shy maybe a little more slutty depending on Mars and our outgoingness?...

If you don't get the hint quick enough or start to be uninteresting or have done something she dissappproved.... be on the look out for constant rescheduling plans together or sudden excuses she may be too shy to be direct and cut it off kindly and may want to do this instead
What's a Sag Mars (Pisces Moon) likely to do?


Oh she is a pisces moon? And you're a Scorpio moon right? Scorpio moon likes pisces moon a lot I have noticed. It's a good match. Pisces mooners are very sensitive and dreamy. If she likes you she will probably daydream a lot about you, picturing you two together. 😄

Sag mars are action oriented people and they like to have fun. You said she was outgoing and social right? Not the shy type? I think if she liked you and she knew you liked her she would make sure to be around you and flirt a lot.


Yeah she always does happen to be around and if I talk together, she completely opens up to conversation. I'm not sure you can count staring and prolonged eye contact as direct flirting though.


Does she smile when she stares?


Sheepish smile or closed mouth. She only gave me a full smile once when I introduced myself.

When she laughs, I get a smile too.


Sheepish smile is good. I mean full smile with teeth is pretty weird if there's no real reason for it lol.


She's back to being annoyed lol. My coworker decided to fuck around and as a joke asked if he could ask her something but because this is the sa.e guy who told her that I liked her, she looked over at me before looking back at him and saying no with an attitude before walking off. It made me look really bad tbh. I made it even worse by like seeing her somewhere else a few minutes later and holding eye contact but saying nothing. I don't know what to do anymore lol.
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You're playing around too much. She's probably not feelin u anymore. I know I wouldnt if I think you're too scared to be upfront. A dude like that wouldn't be able to handle me. Confident charming men do it for us. You sound a little shy.

I had this guy at my job who liked me and told my closest girls that. But everytime he got around me he would trip on the floor, studder, cheese at me really hard and a bunch of crazy s.hit lol. Cute at first but after I realized he was way too scared to actually approach me or even talk like normal I got turned off real quick. He's acting like that he wouldn't be able to handle this. Was a huge turn off.

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I’m no libra but I have 4 libra placements (including rising) and this is something I would do. Sounds to me like she’s being flirtatious. I feel like if she wasn’t interested, she wouldn’t be doing all that smiley shit and hovering around your work station etc.

Sounds like she was waiting on him to man up and ask her out like a normal man but he's f.ucked around so much lol she's done
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I'm a Capricorn man interested in a Libra at my job who was told that I liked her. I think too much so most times she would come around, I wouldn't say anything to her. She started coming around my workstation more frequently then normal (just stansing around fpr a few seconds not doing much) and she holds girl eye contact but she only says hello if I speak first. She has a very flirty personality and I've seen her greet a select few other people without them having to initiate.

When I asked her what she does in her time off from work she says she's so tired from work and school. When I asked if she had any free time, she smiled and said "Nope." while walking away. I guess my question is, is she just being friendly knowing that I like her or are the feelings reciprocated?
Another Capricorn male infatuated with a Libra woman, eh? This usually a good pairing.
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If a libra doesn't cheat on you, she probably likes you.
Yes, this is usually with the males, however I find Libra women to be extremely loyal in relationships. This is actually one of the positive qualities written on them. Personally, my worst experiences were with a Gemini and Aries woman, when it comes to infidelity. A lot of lies and manipulative behavior during the relationship. The Aries female actually wouldn't even sleep with me until I paid her rent, come to find out I wasn't her only sugar daddy. The Libra woman I was seeing was a gift after having to deal with that.