AriesJo
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What happens if you date someone after a Libra has friendzoned you?
Being a libra myself.... I guess u should move on.... Coz if I friendzone someone then it means a "no"...bt I rarely did that.. I immediately say no when I m not interested
Bt it may depend, from person to person .....
Bt it may depend, from person to person .....
If she just came out of a relationship, then you might be waiting a while. Do what is best for you.
This is where people think some Libra's play games.
Scenario #1 in my life: I went out on a couple dates with an Aqua, he wanted to move into a relationship. I flat out told him I wasn't ready. I wanted to get to know him better because after being in a long term relationship, it is difficult to trust anyone and I really wanted to get to know who this person was inside and out before potentially giving him my heart. He moved on, I stayed single. I still liked him (he tried texting me and all that and I just remained my friendly self, eventually I stopped texting back once he said he had a gf, he got the point that I wasn't going to text him back anymore.) Like I said I liked him, but oh well what could I do? Besides I didn't know him well enough to care that much. So I was happy for him and figured it wasn't meant to be.
Scenario #2: Went out with a Gemini, but he was cautious like me and we always said it wasn't considered a "date." I was still getting to know him, he sent me flowers, but he continued to say we were just friends. I friend zoned him. I kept talking to him as a friend, while starting something with a Sag. I was very honest with the Gem and said I'm talking to someone, he acts like he doesn't care. When I actually got into a relationship with the Sag (4 months later) the Gemini freaks out on me and tells me I should be with him and that I led him on. I wasn't rude but basically said once I friend zone you, that's what I think about you. I considered you a friend and that's it.
The Sag: I told him I wasn't ready. He said he wanted to wait. I told him he didn't have to, but that I did want to get to know him more. We hung out, watched movies together. 4 months later he made a move and kissed me. I loved being around him and he knew that. We have been together ever since...
This is where people think some Libra's play games.
Scenario #1 in my life: I went out on a couple dates with an Aqua, he wanted to move into a relationship. I flat out told him I wasn't ready. I wanted to get to know him better because after being in a long term relationship, it is difficult to trust anyone and I really wanted to get to know who this person was inside and out before potentially giving him my heart. He moved on, I stayed single. I still liked him (he tried texting me and all that and I just remained my friendly self, eventually I stopped texting back once he said he had a gf, he got the point that I wasn't going to text him back anymore.) Like I said I liked him, but oh well what could I do? Besides I didn't know him well enough to care that much. So I was happy for him and figured it wasn't meant to be.
Scenario #2: Went out with a Gemini, but he was cautious like me and we always said it wasn't considered a "date." I was still getting to know him, he sent me flowers, but he continued to say we were just friends. I friend zoned him. I kept talking to him as a friend, while starting something with a Sag. I was very honest with the Gem and said I'm talking to someone, he acts like he doesn't care. When I actually got into a relationship with the Sag (4 months later) the Gemini freaks out on me and tells me I should be with him and that I led him on. I wasn't rude but basically said once I friend zone you, that's what I think about you. I considered you a friend and that's it.
The Sag: I told him I wasn't ready. He said he wanted to wait. I told him he didn't have to, but that I did want to get to know him more. We hung out, watched movies together. 4 months later he made a move and kissed me. I loved being around him and he knew that. We have been together ever since...
Here you go again, hoping the Libra will get jealous if you move on. Don't play games.
Also, I don't think this is a Libra female thing per se- but a stupid bitch female thing to do. It annoys me when these silly girls go around, playing hot/cold with guys, essentially show they're not really interested, etc. But man, the second dude moves on, it's a classic "I want what I can't have." bs.
Immature silly bitches do this, tbh. If this chick pulls this crap with you, you shouldn't even consider dropping new girl for her. If it takes you getting someone else for her to make up her mind of suddenly be interested, you're just signing yourself up for a headache of a relationship.
Also, I don't think this is a Libra female thing per se- but a stupid bitch female thing to do. It annoys me when these silly girls go around, playing hot/cold with guys, essentially show they're not really interested, etc. But man, the second dude moves on, it's a classic "I want what I can't have." bs.
Immature silly bitches do this, tbh. If this chick pulls this crap with you, you shouldn't even consider dropping new girl for her. If it takes you getting someone else for her to make up her mind of suddenly be interested, you're just signing yourself up for a headache of a relationship.
Posted by AriesJoI have never done the friend thing. I am either interested or I am not.
Hi,
My friend had the same situation, he asked a Libra girl out, she said no. Then he went and got a girlfriend and she started showing him more interest. Is this typical behaviour for Libra, or does it just depend on the person?
Thanks
It is possible that in your friend's case, she wasn't interested in him romantically but enjoyed his company. When he became unavailable, she felt free to be herself and he interpreted it as romantic interest.
Silly boys play those games too rocky... See my Gemini story... Just saying
Anyway... OP said, "I really like the Libra girl, but I know I can't wait around."
There's the answer. Move on OP... It's not a "libra thing." It's a "I'm not really into you" thing. Be with someone who wants to be with you.
Anyway... OP said, "I really like the Libra girl, but I know I can't wait around."
There's the answer. Move on OP... It's not a "libra thing." It's a "I'm not really into you" thing. Be with someone who wants to be with you.
Just remember Karmas a bitch. How you treat this other girl will very well seal your fate with the other.
Are you attracted to the other girl? If so, take her out. Sounds like she is more interested and you never know what could evolve. HOWEVER, don't go out with the other girl if you are simply trying to get the Libra girl's attention. If you are only going to date the other girl to get the Libra's attention, then you should probably just be single for the moment so you can reevaluate your feelings/motives.
I actually just walked away from a Libra woman who I was seeing for a few months. She became wishy washy and said that she was unsure about us and "let's be friends for now". I already told her that I don't do the friendzone thing. I have to see her for work, so I keep things professional, but I decide when and how she sees me.
Hence I suggest you don't make decisions based of gaining the Libra girl's attention/interest. Do what's good for you (hint, dating other people is healthy as long as you're actually interested in the person). This will also get you on the path of getting over the Libra girl. You've only been on two dates, for all that you know the Libra girl could be incompatible with you.
I actually just walked away from a Libra woman who I was seeing for a few months. She became wishy washy and said that she was unsure about us and "let's be friends for now". I already told her that I don't do the friendzone thing. I have to see her for work, so I keep things professional, but I decide when and how she sees me.
Hence I suggest you don't make decisions based of gaining the Libra girl's attention/interest. Do what's good for you (hint, dating other people is healthy as long as you're actually interested in the person). This will also get you on the path of getting over the Libra girl. You've only been on two dates, for all that you know the Libra girl could be incompatible with you.
I think you should move on, and see what happens.
Posted by jane84What the fuck does that have to do with the OP?
Silly boys play those games too rocky... See my Gemini story... Just saying
Anyway... OP said, "I really like the Libra girl, but I know I can't wait around."
There's the answer. Move on OP... It's not a "libra thing." It's a "I'm not really into you" thing. Be with someone who wants to be with you.
Get that defensive bullshit out of here.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamOh rocky, why so harsh? LolPosted by jane84What the fuck does that have to do with the OP?
Silly boys play those games too rocky... See my Gemini story... Just saying
Anyway... OP said, "I really like the Libra girl, but I know I can't wait around."
There's the answer. Move on OP... It's not a "libra thing." It's a "I'm not really into you" thing. Be with someone who wants to be with you.
Get that defensive bullshit out of here.click to expand
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