What is going on with this libra?

My Libra bf broke up with me two weeks ago for reasons I don't totally understand. He said he's so in love with me and it's not that he doesn't want to be with me but he needs to figure himself out and that it wasn't working for him right now. We did get in a really big fight two days before but he never talks to me about issues so I didn't see this coming. He did also mention that I was such a good girlfriend it kind of freaked him out. Anyways, since then I have tried to keep my distance but he constantly texts me and still says he loves me. He got sad when I told him to keep my things I left at his house. He also refused to let me give him his house keys back, his Facebook still says in a relationship and he told his friends that we aren't together "right now". I asked him if this was what he really wanted and he said he thinks so but he's not sure. I thought when Libras made a decision the decision was final? What is happening here and what do I do?

That sounds confusing af. What was the fight about, how old are you both, and what are his other placements? Intuition tells me that he's playing you possibly. As a libra if I had a girl as great as he describes you, I definitely wouldn't break up with her because I'm "figuring myself out". So the simplest explanation would be he wants to play the field, but keep you hanging on by a thread in case he comes up empty and he's guilt free and gets back with you. High school tier bs imo.

Well let me start with we have a long distance relationship (only an hour drive). So we rotate weekends but sometimes he wants his time with his friends which is fine with me but he never just tells me that because he thinks I'm his ex girlfriend and I'll get mad. We fight about that a lot because he feels like he lets me down when he just wants friend time. So the night before thanksgiving I was supposed to go out there and he ended up working late and then he said he didn't want me to come out there because he has a really long day and he was in a really bad mood and just wanted to relax and get stuff done around his house. He made me wait until 10:30 at night to tell me this so I was irritated. Then he told me that he wasn't feeling the same way about me? "It's not that I don't love you any less I just don't see our future the way I used to" but then admitted it's probably because of our fighting. He just turned 30 and I'm 27 and we've been together for 9 months. I'm also an Aquarius if that helps at all. He goes through depression periods and has had to take breaks from seeing me before but never stopped contact. He said he thinks he's to immature for me because he always tries to do the right thing and then screws it up somehow and he's tired of letting me down and hurting me. He can't stand the guilt. When really if he could just communicate with me we'd have no problems. I don't think he's seeing anyone else...if he is it sucks for her because he's always texting me. And his "field" is a little ditch with some grass around it because he lives in a REALLY small town and already knows everyone.

And what do you mean by other placements?

Idk if that will work he's to stubborn and he sucks at putting thoughts in to sentences. I'll try though.

Sounds like he doesn't want a relationship with you but wants to string you along for the emotional jerking off until he finds a new girl to pair off with.

I mean really, dude is giving you red flags voluntarily. Freaking pay attention. When a guy points out his fucked up flaws, he's not doing it out of pity or to get you to feel sorry for him. He's usually right.

He needs therapy and you are not a therapist, nor is a relationship.

Move along and ffs, don't answer his pussy bitch texts.

Posted by airwrecka
My Libra bf broke up with me two weeks ago for reasons I don't totally understand. He said he's so in love with me and it's not that he doesn't want to be with me but he needs to figure himself out and that it wasn't working for him right now. We did get in a really big fight two days before but he never talks to me about issues so I didn't see this coming. He did also mention that I was such a good girlfriend it kind of freaked him out. Anyways, since then I have tried to keep my distance but he constantly texts me and still says he loves me. He got sad when I told him to keep my things I left at his house. He also refused to let me give him his house keys back, his Facebook still says in a relationship and he told his friends that we aren't together "right now". I asked him if this was what he really wanted and he said he thinks so but he's not sure. I thought when Libras made a decision the decision was final? What is happening here and what do I do?

He's already told you what is going on.

Posted by airwrecka
Well let me start with we have a long distance relationship (only an hour drive). So we rotate weekends but sometimes he wants his time with his friends which is fine with me but he never just tells me that because he thinks I'm his ex girlfriend and I'll get mad. We fight about that a lot because he feels like he lets me down when he just wants friend time. So the night before thanksgiving I was supposed to go out there and he ended up working late and then he said he didn't want me to come out there because he has a really long day and he was in a really bad mood and just wanted to relax and get stuff done around his house. He made me wait until 10:30 at night to tell me this so I was irritated. Then he told me that he wasn't feeling the same way about me? "It's not that I don't love you any less I just don't see our future the way I used to" but then admitted it's probably because of our fighting. He just turned 30 and I'm 27 and we've been together for 9 months. I'm also an Aquarius if that helps at all. He goes through depression periods and has had to take breaks from seeing me before but never stopped contact. He said he thinks he's to immature for me because he always tries to do the right thing and then screws it up somehow and he's tired of letting me down and hurting me. He can't stand the guilt. When really if he could just communicate with me we'd have no problems. I don't think he's seeing anyone else...if he is it sucks for her because he's always texting me. And his "field" is a little ditch with some grass around it because he lives in a REALLY small town and already knows everyone.

Mine experience was totally same as yours just that i know the reason why he broke off with me (lst we cant communicate well, 2nd he has a sickness and doesnt want me to suffer) after we broke off , he insisted for me to stay on with me because he said he still love me blar blar..fast forward..after 14mths our rs turned very bad. We still cannot communicate well, he rather spend time with his friends then to talk with me, is ok for me. When i need to meet up with another guy friends, he will get mad and question me. He promised me alot of things but keep changing his mind. He wanted to forget about our rs and move on,yet, he couldnt and keep on holding onto me. Lately, it got so bad that i turned extremely cold towards him and he question me why..blar blar..to me, i sacrificed so much for him and willing to stay and take care of him , yet, he is always in his pull and push mentality with me. He told me he is scare and lonely because he is so afraid one day nobody is around with him..yes, i understand how he feels as he has brain aneurysm and it got worse each day due to his hectic workload as a celebrity. I tried my best for him to a point i got tired with him and starting to lash thing out with him. Honestly speaking, i wanted to cut off my ties with him but when i think about how lonely and scare he is right now, i couldnt bear to do it..is like a torture for me 😑😑😑😑

Long story short he doesn't want to be with you but doesn't want to say that because he cares about your feelings

Didn't realize this was old as hell...

Still a good reminder, if any libra tries to pull the it's not you it's me card on you... its definitely you