
What does that *really* mean? If it's not taken for what it is, I guess....






Posted by rockyroadicecream+1000
lol. A Libra done with relationships.
They'd shrivel up and die without the concept of one in life.
Your response? Lol. ...Cause it's a hilarious statement coming from a Libra.

Posted by goligoldLOL! There is no such thing as a last chance with a Libra. Show the slightest hint of change and Libras come running back like crazy.
It means she is serious about you changing your ways. Last chance!


Posted by gemguyaz34would i buy someone expensive shit and then write them off? yeah i would actually. stuff doesn't mean anything to me. in the moment i'll give something because it will make the other person happy but i really don't put a lot of value into it.
Yeah it was. I'm bi. Sorry I usually don't identify because well, I don't think it really matters. I have been with a Libra lady as well before, she flaked out. @ Sugarfoot I really appreciate your response, but I'm not holding my breath where it's concerned, the facts being what they are and the act of avoidance, that's just childish and stupid. And I do understand yeah it takes two and I already admitted my fault, but again when he isn't willing to talk about it, there's really not much I can do. I don't know how long a libra will usually wait to come around, some may for years, who knows. I can only move forward and do the best I can for myself. I'm not hot skippy to jump right back in to another relationship with someone, rather I think it's best to use the time for self improvement. But I'm also not going to sit around waiting for my phone to ring eating a bucket of ice cream and crying either. Best case scenario they make a come back and are willing to work something out, worse case scenario, I got an awesome car stereo, sunglasses and expensive cologne out of it. Sad, but why would you buy someone expensive shit if you didn't care and then just write them off? Shrugs

Posted by busyeyes88oh and the hits keep coming. ๐
@GG24. I am truly sorry about yr breakup . It will take time but you will be ok. Just give yourself time to heal. Libras sometimes come back. One came back two years later as if I would still be waiting around for him after I got rid of him two years previous!! They are venusaian as taurus and look for beauty and perfection share similar things To Taurus but the difference is that Taurus will ACCEPT people as they are but the libra looks for perfection in others and not themselves and feel that they are so 'special' that people have to put with their bs and when you are strong enough to 'call them out on it' their bs silent behaviour starts! Who the fuck needs that?! Out of the air signs gems are the best!! You will be better in time. Be proud of yourself for standing up for yourself .

Posted by goligoldSweetie, I'm a chick. There is no "you love her" here.Posted by rockyroadicecreamIf you love her don't take the risk of loosing her, once she is "really" done she is done. I have ex boyfriends that want me back they will never see me again ๐
lol. A Libra done with relationships.
They'd shrivel up and die without the concept of one in life.
Your response? Lol. ...Cause it's a hilarious statement coming from a Libra.click to expand


Posted by gemguyaz34it was wrong. it hurt you and made a mockery of all that was said before but you can't put a match to it because you think there is nothing left to lose. thinking, let's hurt them as much as they have hurt me and then in the same breath turn around and invite them back. it doesn't work. it shows when you are upset, you draw blood.
For the record, my response was only after days of being ignored because eventually I concluded there was nothing left to lose. again actions speak louder than words. I closed it as, "if you have a change of heart & mind, you know where to find me."
You don't ignore someone. You don't tell someone intimate things, things such as like "thank you for being you, you make my life better" and then turn around and do that. There is no excuse for it, I don't care, it's wrong. I put with up crap all the time from others. I am forgiving, especially when it's dumb shit, which this was.

Posted by goligoldIs this true Libras? I miss my ex wife Libra....Posted by HappygoluckyOnly if we love you.Posted by goligoldLOL! There is no such thing as a last chance with a Libra. Show the slightest hint of change and Libras come running back like crazy.
It means she is serious about you changing your ways. Last chance!click to expand
Posted by SugarfootWhat would the process be like to winning her heart back?
Yep if Libra still loves you and you show you've changed, and Libra hasn't moved on to someone better matched, yep.
Posted by Starry22
MrGreen - it depends on the reason things ended. If its still a sore spot, she may take some time to respond, however Librans rarely hold a grudge. Do not be too casual on the text else the libran will ignore you thinking that you have no depth and no spine.


Posted by Starry22WHY are you stupidly encouraging him to chase after his ex wife when you don't know any of the details as to why they split?
That was nice! Librans are suckers for sentimentality. However it now depends on the reason for the breakup and the time that has passed since. Guess we would need more details.
You have got her thinking about you. It will bring her to tears and her emotions will run riot. DO NOT rush in! Give her sometime to think this through. After a week send her a friendly note - and that should hopefully trigger the emotion that she feels. At that point listen because she will be expressive! Dont know which way it will go!

Posted by mrGreeni do, all the information is great, sorry i abandoned this post
All I hear rocky road saying is how she wants all things to be as miserable as she is.
Thank you for the advice starry and others please go on, I'm sure OP appreciates it as well
Posted by goligoldActually like the Op I am a cancerPosted by mrGreenWhat is your sign?
How long do you think I should wait for her response? Unfortunately I'm at a job not doing much and I've been putting a lot of mental weight on a reconnection, as we haven't spoken in some time.
My heart tells me I'll hear from her, & other times it says she'll never come around.
If I received that message, I might wonder why you were sending it, it sounds very vague. I probably wouldn't respond...u say you are on a job. Are you in another country? State? If you are serious and you want to get through to her I would suggest calling her on the phone, so she can hear your voice. Since it has been sometime. Ask her how she has been, be genuine, truly care..tell her she sounds great and it is so nice to hear her voice, again be sincere. then after you get off the phone send her a nice message that it was nice talking to her, leave it alone for a bit then try texting her...
There is nothing wrong with calling an old friend, this is coming from someone that has an exhusband that calls me his best friend, good luck.click to expand

Posted by mrGreen"I can't listen to logic."
All I hear rocky road saying is how she wants all things to be as miserable as she is.
Thank you for the advice starry and others please go on, I'm sure OP appreciates it as well
Posted by mrGreenThere it is, right there.
Actually like the Op I am a cancer
Thank you for your advice I will try calling. The divorce was over common issues, no cheating or anything. I became quite needy immediately following and she cut me off....click to expand
Posted by goligoldWhat types of things would have ruined my chances? I know we were in love so I'm taking the 'she'll always love you & return of you change' advice to heart.
Aww I'm Libra I love my cancer man..
It's worth a shot!

Posted by mrGreengood. you're only listening to what you want to hear. carry on.Posted by goligoldWhat types of things would have ruined my chances? I know we were in love so I'm taking the 'she'll always love you & return of you change' advice to heart.
Aww I'm Libra I love my cancer man..
It's worth a shot!click to expand
Posted by merrylibraOther Libra have said if she love u she will always love you, & will be very receptive to change... Why do u say otherwise?
Libra Sun & Rising/ Pisces Moon- When I say "I'm done," it's over....sorry to say.

Posted by mrGreenthat wouldn't be the case for me. if it is gone, it is gone. i wouldn't hate the other person or hold a grudge (unless they did something particularly brutal) but they feelings just cease to exist.Posted by merrylibraOther Libra have said if she love u she will always love you, & will be very receptive to change... Why do u say otherwise?
Libra Sun & Rising/ Pisces Moon- When I say "I'm done," it's over....sorry to say.click to expand


Posted by mrGreen"I only want to listen to the advice that enables me. Anything else is "negative" therefore invalid."
I'm hearing two extremes, and assuming the negativity comes from very bitter people.
More Libras please chime in.

Posted by jeaneExactly. If a Libra decides THEY'RE the one who is done, they're done. There's no going back.Posted by mrGreenthat wouldn't be the case for me. if it is gone, it is gone. i wouldn't hate the other person or hold a grudge (unless they did something particularly brutal) but they feelings just cease to exist.Posted by merrylibraOther Libra have said if she love u she will always love you, & will be very receptive to change... Why do u say otherwise?
Libra Sun & Rising/ Pisces Moon- When I say "I'm done," it's over....sorry to say.
you can't go back. it will never be the same again. especially if considerable time has passed.click to expand

bitches. Let's spell it out since nobody is picking up on the obvious.
Posted by goligold
if he truly wants her back he has to step it up...
Obviously no one has ever tried winning you back rockyroad....โPosted by Starry22
Rocky - there is no reason that he should not be trying to win her back. If everyone was worried about rejection, no single individual would attempt to woo another. Only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches! If he wants to proceed well and good and if he doesnt, that too is his choice. It is between the two of them how they continue, but what he did was not wrong, it was a sweet move, lets give him credit where its due. None of us are encouraging him to stalk her or do anything wrong โบรฏยธPosted by mrGreenI'll just leave this here so it can sink in a bit for the dense and naive.
Actually like the Op I am a cancer
Thank you for your advice I will try calling. The divorce was over common issues, no cheating or anything. I became quite needy immediately following and she cut me off....click to expand



Posted by SugarfootWe broke up about two months ago. Pretty bad break up... but her reasons were wishy washy, we were both going through shit. We haven't spoken since. I've gotten myself together rather quickly and know she would be impressed, and I'm fairly positive she still has strong feelings for me because they wouldn't just disappear... we were talking about starting a life together, and I think things got too real, plus as a Libra she had pressure from a lot of places, plenty of guys waiting in the wings... but not too toot my own horn, it would be hard for any of them to compare to 1) my path in life & successes I've made, 2) our sexual connection.Posted by aBigMan2070What happened between you two?
Any pointers for a Libra/Aquarius Moon/Venus in Scorpio & Mars in Leo woman?click to expand




Posted by SugarfootEvery weak excuse in the book, it's me not you, etc...Posted by aBigMan2070What were her wishy washy reasonsPosted by SugarfootWe broke up about two months ago. Pretty bad break up... but her reasons were wishy washy, we were both going through shit. We haven't spoken since. I've gotten myself together rather quickly and know she would be impressed, and I'm fairly positive she still has strong feelings for me because they wouldn't just disappear... we were talking about starting a life together, and I think things got too real, plus as a Libra she had pressure from a lot of places, plenty of guys waiting in the wings... but not too toot my own horn, it would be hard for any of them to compare to 1) my path in life & successes I've made, 2) our sexual connection.Posted by aBigMan2070What happened between you two?
Any pointers for a Libra/Aquarius Moon/Venus in Scorpio & Mars in Leo woman?click to expand

Posted by Sugarfootyeah, i was in a very cancery place and dealing with years of life troubles culminating, but the break up has done a lot for me... realizing my air and fire placements and how they can help me overcome the water... i'm much more stable and have put away major vices.
Oh. Hmmm. Usually my partner is someone I want to escape to, not away from. If your relationship was a constant point of stress then that makes sense that she'd want to get away from it and regain her peace of mind. You haven't been broken up for too long. Maybe just let the dust settle. Give her time too see how she really feels.
Just know that Libra doesn't do well with topsy turvy up and down. We need a calm surface to sit our scales on to be at our best. Sometimes water isn't the best platform for that. Whatever is causing the scales to dip and dive, we will cut out to regain that balance.

Posted by SugarfootThe break up was bad, but nothing TOO crazy... we both over reacted, but haven't spoken in two months, so in my opinion we should both be at a cooled off phase where we can figure things out like adults. I'm also now finding out it was Venus retrograde? I don't know much about that, but it certainly had effects on both of us, since Venus RX was in Libra & Cancer and another sign....Posted by aBigMan2070Btw these are the things that impress YOU. Your Libra girlfriend might be impressed by different things. I'm speaking for myself here but my ex has sooo much ambition and follow thru, I know he'll be a millionaire one day. The sex was sooooo on point like damn! It wasn't enough for me. Libra is looking for a true partner in all aspects of life. Reciprocation in all aspects will get you there.Posted by SugarfootWe broke up about two months ago. Pretty bad break up... but her reasons were wishy washy, we were both going through shit. We haven't spoken since. I've gotten myself together rather quickly and know she would be impressed, and I'm fairly positive she still has strong feelings for me because they wouldn't just disappear... we were talking about starting a life together, and I think things got too real, plus as a Libra she had pressure from a lot of places, plenty of guys waiting in the wings... but not too toot my own horn, it would be hard for any of them to compare to 1) my path in life & successes I've made, 2) our sexual connection.Posted by aBigMan2070What happened between you two?
Any pointers for a Libra/Aquarius Moon/Venus in Scorpio & Mars in Leo woman?
Venus in scorp needs to merge with their partner. That just intensifies all the Libra stuff. Aqua moon says if it's still not working, what's the point?, I need to break free. Leo mars seeks attention and passion from their partner and if that's there in quantity, they'll stick it out.
I feel like you're leaving out an important part of the story.click to expand
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