I've met this libra guy (born on the cusp to scorpio tho) on a night out and he was clearly into me, added me on facebook etc. Texted me the day after wanting to go out I said I couldn't, he then said I should ask him when im free. We eventually met up and it was amazing. We got on so well and it was all lovely and we been having a thing every since. However, he always waited for me to do the first step. In the beginning, whenever I wanted to meet up, he would come over, and it would be lovely and when he was here he would put in loads of effort, but like I said, he would always wait until I wanted to see him. I was getting an odd feeling at send him a text saying I don't expect him to see me if he's busy and I get that studies come first and I don't want to disrupt that, but ive told him I've been getting a feeling he doesn't want to see me anymore, and if thats the case, thats fine. He said I was being silly, obviously he wanted to see me. He said we would see each other on the weekend, which was the weekend my ex came to visit (we are still friends, but there is really nothing going on). Suddenly things changed. I texted him on that weekend on Sunday then because he still hadn't reached out and and we met up and it was still lovely and he was still cute but he just seemed more cautious around me. I texted him the next day casually and he was just polite but not really continuing the conversation. The next day I started feeling bad about maybe confusing things for him with my ex coming to visit and told him even tho it might not be a big thing for him, I just wanted to clarify things, that me and my ex were just friends, my ex knew about him, and that honesty is a big thing for me, and I wanted to be honest with him and that I wasn't gonna ask any commitment of him so early on, but for me, I didn't want to see anyone else. He responded and was really nice, saying I had nothing to feel bad about, he was happy we were friend etc. but he instantly seemed more relaxed and open. We then didn't talk for a few days when I texted him and he was responding really well and straight away and then I asked him to hang out the next day, he said he would love to but he was busy, and I suggested the should do something during the week then. He said definitely, but didn't even go on my last message. after a week of wait, I texted him saying I was confused, that I wasn't someone to need someone to be texting her all the time, but that if he says he wants to hang out during the week and we still haven't heard from each other thats just off, and that I don't mind whatever gets in the way, if he wants to hang out with friends or go out or if he got too much work but no one is too busy to send a text and say "hey sorry I won't make it this week", and also told him I was tired of always having to reach out to see him and that was making me question his interest. He said he understood completely where I was coming from, that he was sorry I was feeling that way, that he couldn't come see me on the day or the next one cause he was in Manchester for a friends 21 but he would see me the next week if I liked. I told him it be nice to talk to him about it, and that I was leaving for London on Thursday, so it'll be nice to see him before. He saw the message, but didn't respond. He then texted me on Wednesday at like eleven pm saying sorry he didint manage to come around, he thought he would, and for me to tell him when I was back. I took a day to reply cause I didn't feel like talking to him, but I mean, he only texted me on the Wednesday, when seeing my message on Sunday? anyways, I said I would be back on Sunday and it would be nice to see him Sunday evening. He hasn't gone on my message, and its Wednesday. on Sunday evening I saw him online and send a meme of a confused cat to lighten up the mood a bit and also just to remind him of the message, to see if he would respond. Again, he hasn't even been on the message. Im going to admit, im a bit of a stalker, and have been checking his times online. He is barely online anymore, which for him is unusual. So, now im asking myself, maybe it's just that time of the year where all the uni deadlines hit and he is insanely busy, but then, wouldn't he just let me know and tell me we should meet up another time? or he might be seeing someone else and is therefore not on his phone ... I don't know, do you think he's ghosting me? how should I act? im certainly not reaching out to him again...
