Would libra man block me for ignoring him?

I recently started hitting it off with a libra man, two years older than me. We first started talking on Facebook, then he wanted to text. I hate giving people I don't know well my number because I feel like I'm expected to text them every single day.
He assured me that we wouldn't have to talk every single day, that he thinks that ruins the connection between two people. We had lengthy phone conversations just talking about interests, beliefs, charities etc. We would also text on the side about casual things like, "you should watch [insert documentary title]". After these lengthy phone conversations I'd try to stop contact for a few days just so I can rethink how I feel about whatever we have going and so I can analyze further what he said. I also gave him space after we talked so he could think about how he feels.
The last time we talked was 4 days ago. Last night he tried to call me at 11 PM. I let it go to voicemail because I don't like talking that late at night and I also didn't want to wake my roommate up. Shortly after that ignored call, he blocked me on Facebook.
I just want to know why he did that. Is it because he felt ignored/rejected? Or is he trying to make me feel ignored/rejected? Should I call him to follow up, or should I just throw in the rag and move on? My best friend who is a libra said I should text him with a simple "hey" but I'm nervous I might annoy him. I don't even know how to term our "relationship" considering we weren't dating... at least I didn't think we were dating. Might our phone conversations have meant more to him than they did to me?
Sorry for a long post. Maybe I'm just overthinking this and should just carry on with life, but I can't stand being blocked without reasonable cause, and I certainly can't stand not being able to do something when someone does cut me off.
Oh I guess I should also mention I am a Scorpio sun, Sagittarius moon. I don't know his moon sign; I just know he's a libra.

Ignoring people hurts. He doesn't want you in his life anymore and I don't blame him.

I understand how it hurts, believe me. But I never really thought of it as ignoring. I just thought I was giving him space because I think guys get uncomfortable if you are all up in their business every day.

Posted by Perspicacity
Sounds kind of drastic on his part. I'm sensitive, but I'm not THAT sensitive. If he blocked you because of the missed call, he needs to get over himself. Librans like attention. It pains me to admit that. When we're not getting attention from our desired target, we feel somewhat dejected and insecure.

There's two types of Libran guys that people seem to have problems with here. They're pretty extreme.

1. The flakey, unreliable, hard to pin down, freedom seeking Librans and
2. The kind of Libran you just mentioned. The ultra sensitive, attention seeking, desperately yearning for validation types.

My advice:

Find someone more worth your time. If he's that petty and insecure, you deserve better.

Thank you, Perspicacity! I never really thought Libra's were the attention-seeking types because they seem laid back and passive, but I see you are actually so right. Oddly, before this "falling out" he sort of seemed like the first libra you described because he was very freedom seeking. But now I do understand he is insecure if he did block me over a missed call. I myself have a flair for the dramatics, though I'd never stonewall someone over one phone call. Not to mention, he's missed more of my calls than I've missed his, so it is hypocritical to jump that far. I do deserve better, so I must move on! Thank you so very much(:

Knowing that you have a flair for the dramatics, I'd like to know what else you'd have done for him to block you out of the blue.

Four days? Who was the last one who texted before that gap occurred?

All that dumb shit of preventing contact for the sake of giving him space sounds like a line of shit and you just being insecure and typical control freak Scorp. That'd annoy anyone to be so presumptuous about what they really need.

"We just had a great convo. But tell you what, widdle baby, I'm not going to talk to you for a few days so you can let everything sink in and think about what you want."

Seriously? Your logic needs a serious overhaul. :/


However, I do agree that blocking you randomly like that is a bit overkill. You must've done something prior to that to push him to such a dramatic conclusion. That, or he just has no idea wtf he wants. Either/or.

Why were you playing him like that?

Why ignore him for four days? To see how he would respond? Because then you have your answer.

In my experience Libra does not respond well to being played because they themselves have a much more subdued way of manipulating people. 'Charm' is what some call it 'playing fair weather' is how I think it is. They will perform some power plays to get what they want and this just might be it.

But you yourself should really wonder about what it was that you were doing. To me it sounds like immature Scorp behaviour where you have several people you are playing to stroke your ego.
Were you talking to anyone else?

Hmmmm..Are you sure that was the first incident of ignoring. I've heard that Libra men are a little special than the average man..lol, but that would be a little drastic to just totally cut someone off because they did not pick up their phone. I guess I'm just a little old fashion when it comes to dating. All these games just leaves a trail of people being played. All this back and forth and I just wanted space and wanting to give the other person space is beyond me. If you really like someone and the feelings are reciprocated, why the push and pull? That seems like the norm now in the dating game. Who can hold out the longest and wish for the best, and in the end all you get is confusion and a host of hurt feelings.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Knowing that you have a flair for the dramatics, I'd like to know what else you'd have done for him to block you out of the blue.

Four days? Who was the last one who texted before that gap occurred?

All that dumb shit of preventing contact for the sake of giving him space sounds like a line of shit and you just being insecure and typical control freak Scorp. That'd annoy anyone to be so presumptuous about what they really need.

"We just had a great convo. But tell you what, widdle baby, I'm not going to talk to you for a few days so you can let everything sink in and think about what you want."

Seriously? Your logic needs a serious overhaul. :/


However, I do agree that blocking you randomly like that is a bit overkill. You must've done something prior to that to push him to such a dramatic conclusion. That, or he just has no idea wtf he wants. Either/or.

When I said I have a flair for the dramatics I didn't mean I'm just drama drama drama 24/7; I meant I break out the actor deep inside me when I don't get what I want after subtly trying and trying.
I wasn't giving space so I could have power. I was giving space because I need time to think about how I feel about people. Not to mention, in my experience guys get the wrong message if I text/talk to them nonstop, which has even led to one of those guys stalking me to this day for TWO years now. Once that stalking started, I quit talking to guys (with an exception to my on-again-off-again Scorpio best friend) because I was/am afraid I'd unintentionally mislead them. I am pretty sure it is a curse I have. Thus, I am nervous when it comes to interacting with this libra because I don't know what I can say and how often I should talk to him without making it seem like I am super into him. And considering he wants to get married and have kids sometime real soon, I am very afraid that drive will make him even more susceptible to misreading my gestures (if we are to talk more often).
This gets me thinking, should I tell him I have a stalker and I have a tendency to accidentally send the wrong vibes to men and explain that's why I don't interact every day with him? Or might that just creep him out all together?

Posted by TigerCap
Why were you playing him like that?

Why ignore him for four days? To see how he would respond? Because then you have your answer.

In my experience Libra does not respond well to being played because they themselves have a much more subdued way of manipulating people. 'Charm' is what some call it 'playing fair weather' is how I think it is. They will perform some power plays to get what they want and this just might be it.

But you yourself should really wonder about what it was that you were doing. To me it sounds like immature Scorp behaviour where you have several people you are playing to stroke your ego.
Were you talking to anyone else?

I didn't think I was playing him, honestly. I wanted space after our long conversations because I need to think about how I feel about people and where I see things are heading. This guy wants to get married and have kids real soon (even though he is only 20) and then travel the world after he's saved up enough money and then he said something about wanting to die before he reaches 60, and if he doesn't die by then he'll just kill himself in a creative way. That is why I need space to think about our conversations; I also want to travel the world, but I certainly don't want to have kids or get married any time soon and I'm not sure if I should get involved with someone who is suicidal. Also, in my past experience, when I message a guy (or even girls) nonstop they'd get the wrong idea, which has even led to one of those guys stalking me to this day for two years. That is why I am awkward about this libra guy; I haven't talked to guys after the stalking started because I've been afraid of sending the wrong message again, so I don't really know what to say or do without sending the wrong vibes.
And no, I haven't been talking to anybody else.

Posted by tiziani
Lol why are Scorpios particularly willing to entertain all the bs that comes out of our mouths?



Poor Scorps.

I do it cause I fell in love with my Libra. 😢

Something doesn't make sense in this tale. Why were you texting this guy all this time if you didn't want to send "wrong vibes"? What are these "wrong vibes" you are talking about?

This thing is pretty simple if you never want to deal with unwanted attention again...be upfront if you're not interested in being in a relationship with someone. That way they won't have to go by your "vibes" & misread your intentions. As someone that have dealt with a stalker myself, I'm crystal clear when I'm not interested in someone because I don't want to have to deal with another mental case. Better still, I don't take numbers of people I'm not interested in, nor do I give them my own because some people mistaken the exchange of numbers as a sign of interest.

And please don't tell this guy about your stalker, it's none of his business since you arent even dating. Unless of course you're trying to use your "curse" story to prove to him that you're irresistable, men stalk you bla bla bla. I just see no point in telling him about it. Plus, I kind of feel like you're not really upset or scared that you have someone "stalking" you for 2 years. I know scorps get off on that sort of thing, it makes them feel powerful, irresistable etc. Wouldnt be surprised if your reason for wanting to confess was to kind of show him that you're this chick that men can't let go, hoping he'll latch on or something. When some women start telling men about other men, especially men that can't let them go I always suspect a motive because I've been around many females to know how some of us manipulate our ways into men's hearts. I'm just saying.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by WaterCup
Something doesn't make sense in this tale. Why were you texting this guy all this time if you didn't want to send "wrong vibes"? What are these "wrong vibes" you are talking about?

This thing is pretty simple if you never want to deal with unwanted attention again...be upfront if you're not interested in being in a relationship with someone. That way they won't have to go by your "vibes" & misread your intentions. As someone that have dealt with a stalker myself, I'm crystal clear when I'm not interested in someone because I don't want to have to deal with another mental case. Better still, I don't take numbers of people I'm not interested in, nor do I give them my own because some people mistaken the exchange of numbers as a sign of interest.

And please don't tell this guy about your stalker, it's none of his business since you arent even dating. Unless of course you're trying to use your "curse" story to prove to him that you're irresistable, men stalk you bla bla bla. I just see no point in telling him about it. Plus, I kind of feel like you're not really upset or scared that you have someone "stalking" you for 2 years. I know scorps get off on that sort of thing, it makes them feel powerful, irresistable etc. Wouldnt be surprised if your reason for wanting to confess was to kind of show him that you're this chick that men can't let go, hoping he'll latch on or something. When some women start telling men about other men, especially men that can't let them go I always suspect a motive because I've been around many females to know how some of us manipulate our ways into men's hearts. I'm just saying.

Thank you for echoing my feelings and experience exactly. I couldn't put it better myself.


At this point in my life I'd rather meet a woman who had a story about how she murdered her ex-stalker in cold blood than meet yet another "woe is me" story.

I'm about 90 percent serious about that, too. I'd buy the first woman a beer, at the very least.

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LMAO. IKR. It's annoying. Playing the good old damsel in distress.

Posted by Perspicacity

Maybe I don't know the full story, but be that as it may, this is not an issue, equated with finding a cure for cancer or a mission to establish world peace. It wasn't even a relationship. You guys were just talking. The quest for love is a battlefield. Nobody comes out alive. This isn't even a war. It's not even a domestic dispute. It was a misunderstanding. The next step is up to you.

You don't. Neither do I. Or anyone else here, for that matter.

But we DO have one side and the lack of logic used in justifying ignoring someone for a few days kinda gives a clue as to how she might be handling things overall.

From my observations, immature Scorps don't always pay attention to how their actions truly affect someone. When you point out how stupid it is, all they do is wallow in their own reasons and refuse to see how it negatively affects someone else. Just that their way was why it happened and if others don't like it, tough shit.

OP, I understand where you're coming from in potential concerns of someone turning into a stalker. However, you cannot drag that reasoning along with every new guy you meet. They didn't create a shitty experience for you, nor did they stalk you. They shouldn't have to pay for past guys' mistakes. You can tread lightly and not ignore someone for a few days.

And seriously, if you need that much time to figure your shit out while possibly wooing someone, you don't need to be dating. Dating is not the time to figure out your own personal demons while dragging someone else through the process. Either get that shit sorted before dating, or don't date until you do. It's that simple.

I also agree how you two were in the initial talking stage and he's exited stage left. Something didn't work out for him, apparently, and he dropped you. Do you really want to chase after someone who dropped you over something so mysterious?

Posted by Sugarfoot

Posted by WaterCup
Something doesn't make sense in this tale. Why were you texting this guy all this time if you didn't want to send "wrong vibes"? What are these "wrong vibes" you are talking about?

This thing is pretty simple if you never want to deal with unwanted attention again...be upfront if you're not interested in being in a relationship with someone. That way they won't have to go by your "vibes" & misread your intentions. As someone that have dealt with a stalker myself, I'm crystal clear when I'm not interested in someone because I don't want to have to deal with another mental case. Better still, I don't take numbers of people I'm not interested in, nor do I give them my own because some people mistaken the exchange of numbers as a sign of interest.

And please don't tell this guy about your stalker, it's none of his business since you arent even dating. Unless of course you're trying to use your "curse" story to prove to him that you're irresistable, men stalk you bla bla bla. I just see no point in telling him about it. Plus, I kind of feel like you're not really upset or scared that you have someone "stalking" you for 2 years. I know scorps get off on that sort of thing, it makes them feel powerful, irresistable etc. Wouldnt be surprised if your reason for wanting to confess was to kind of show him that you're this chick that men can't let go, hoping he'll latch on or something. When some women start telling men about other men, especially men that can't let them go I always suspect a motive because I've been around many females to know how some of us manipulate our ways into men's hearts. I'm just saying.

For real. Do you really go online to ask advice about a dude you're afraid of making into a stalker because he just blocked you off FB?

NAHHHH

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Doesn't make any sense, does it? Plus the part where she asked if their conversations meant more to him than they did to her...hoping that they did of course.

Let me tell you something about scorpio energy & I know this because I also have scorpio planets. Scorps want to be wanted even if they don't want the person themselves. It stings when someone they've been with just moves on as if they never shared anything. They want to have an impact on people. Another thing I noti

Another thing I noticed is that they'll write a lot of of fluff about something ie. someone still wanting them etc & conceal the real issue (issue being someone not really wanting them) by asking "curious" questions in order for them to find out why that person doesnt want them or whatever. One example of this is the Scorpio vs Aries thread on the Aries forum. The scorp girl claimed to have broken up with her bf in other threads. She never clearly stated why she broke up with him but I suspect he was talking to another girl behind her back because she became evasive when I asked if it was the same girl etc. Anyway, on her aries vs scorpio thread she asked the seemingly random & curious questions like who is most humourous between the two signs, who gives up easily < now this is the real question. There's more I picked up on while reading the thread, can't remember now. She's hoping he is pinning away for her & will cave in hence asking that question. Like I said, they don't want to be forgotten. They hope someone has sleepless nights over them whether they still want them or not.

Why do y'all got to be so rude? I get the point; I was led on because some Libras just need that flattery and assurance. No, I didn't want to tell him about my stalker to be a "damsel in distress" or to seem irresistible, because I know almost everyone sees through that; I would've just brought up the topic as an excuse, I guess, to not be into him, like an easy way to let him down if he did end up actually liking me, because I think it's rude/hurtful to straight up reject someone.
Now I am confused as to why I care so much about it, if I wasn't into him anyways. And why I even wasted time putting effort into communicating with him and watching the stupid documentaries he suggested I watch because he thought I'd like them (which was probably just a stupid, fake line to charm me). Maybe subconsciously I did have feelings for him? I do hate the fact that he cut me off with no reason or explanation (which I really do understand is a Scorpio thing), and I really think it was over the top to block me. I would've gotten the message if he simply stopped texting/calling me. I think this summer heat has just gotten to me & turned me into a blind, stupid hopeless romantic.

Posted by JustScorpio
Why do y'all got to be so rude? I get the point; I was led on because some Libras just need that flattery and assurance. No, I didn't want to tell him about my stalker to be a "damsel in distress" or to seem irresistible, because I know almost everyone sees through that; I would've just brought up the topic as an excuse, I guess, to not be into him, like an easy way to let him down if he did end up actually liking me, because I think it's rude/hurtful to straight up reject someone.
Now I am confused as to why I care so much about it, if I wasn't into him anyways. And why I even wasted time putting effort into communicating with him and watching the stupid documentaries he suggested I watch because he thought I'd like them (which was probably just a stupid, fake line to charm me). Maybe subconsciously I did have feelings for him? I do hate the fact that he cut me off with no reason or explanation (which I really do understand is a Scorpio thing), and I really think it was over the top to block me. I would've gotten the message if he simply stopped texting/calling me. I think this summer heat has just gotten to me & turned me into a blind, stupid hopeless romantic.

Using your stalking as an excuse, are we? To me that's like someone using rape as an excuse since they're both very traumatic when REAL. Like I suspected, you're getting off on the stalking thing because if it truly scared you, you werent going to use it as an excuse or as a way out. He blocked you, deal with it instead of trying to get back at him by flauting how stalkable you are just because things didnt end your way/on your terms.

Plus the reason you now care is because he silently moved on. He didn't pull up the dramatics by blowing up your phone, "stalking" you...like the rest of the men you strung along to boost your ego. You wanted him to "fight" to further prove that you are indeed irresistable. But of course he didnt & it stings. Like I said, scorps like to be wanted even when they dont want a person. It's an ego thing.

I think the issue here is not that you didn't like the guy, because going by what you let slip out it's clear that you did like him. But I suspect that he pulled a libra move on you, is pulling back, rethinking or whatever they call it & you're now a bit hurt by it. You're who you are though, so you're not going to come out & be clear about what went on to save face...instead you went on about how he wanted babies & you didnt want babies etc. Yet you're wondering why this person you didnt like like that anyway (oh so you say, which I don't believe) decided to block you. Why does it matter if you didnt like him anyway? Shouldnt you be glad he got the clue?

Your original story still doesnt make sense to me. You're hiding something & like I mentioned, I suspect he disappeared on you after being all lovey-dovey with you. Very typical of some libras, btw.

You said you let it go to voicemail, so for all he knows you were sleep. I don't think that's the reason he blocked you. If you want to say something, I hate to say it but I'm just going to say what I would do, I??d text and say —Goodmorning, sorry I missed your call the other night I was knocked out from a long day. I haven't been able to sit still yet. How are you—

If he doesn't respond then yea chalk it up. I have to say though, Libra??s have a tendency to come back so don't worry about it. I'm not saying he will I'm just saying they tend to retrack their steps when they are re-evaluating a situation if they feel something went wrong, if they feel they could??ve did something better to help the situation run smoother they may come back. Don't think if comes back that things will revert to normal, because chances are they won't. He's there for one or two purposes, and those are to see what went wrong, or to see if he try??s a different approach will it work in his favor this time.
OR
He possibly blocked you because he has something on his page he doesn't want you to see. That's a simple answer for you. I??ve done that. If I have something on my page I don't want someone to see I??d block them or unfriend them so they cant see it. But Facebook is so advanced now, that now all you have to do is make your wall and pictures private, this way only thing a person can see is your status updates. So I don't know. Good luck tho.

Posted by LIb4Life
Hmmmm..Are you sure that was the first incident of ignoring. I've heard that Libra men are a little special than the average man..lol, but that would be a little drastic to just totally cut someone off because they did not pick up their phone. I guess I'm just a little old fashion when it comes to dating. All these games just leaves a trail of people being played. All this back and forth and I just wanted space and wanting to give the other person space is beyond me. If you really like someone and the feelings are reciprocated, why the push and pull? That seems like the norm now in the dating game. Who can hold out the longest and wish for the best, and in the end all you get is confusion and a host of hurt feelings.

Yeah, i wonder if he called in between those 4 days during your "space" period. hmm. If this is not the first time you ignored him, then i'm sorry but i'd ditch you too. I hate being ignored it feels like rejection.

Posted by Sugarfoot
Maybe he was calling to tell you that he's not into you anymore and he won't be in further contact. Or maybe he was trying to let you know he met someone else to marry and have all his babies. But you missed that because it was past your curfew 😢

LMBO! You must be joking. A libra would never do this, we are not that honest i'm sorry, unless we see that you are in love and the silent treatment or disappearing is not working. lol

I guess the part I did leave out of this story is the fact that I missed seeing him when he was in town. He works up in Wyoming in the oil fields; he has one of those schedules where he works 4 weeks and then gets a week off each month. Usually, he comes to my state on his week of because he's from here & his family lives here. On his latest week off (which was 3 weeks ago I think) I was on vacation 3 hours away from where he stays when he comes out here. I don't want to share the place/state I live in, but a comparison I can give would be like him staying in Nashville and me vacationing out in Knoxville. Anywho, he wanted me to come down and see him, but I really didn't want to ruin my retreat considering I rarely get time to go to the vacation home. I suggested he drive up to where I was staying, and I even offered him the opportunity to stay/sleep in one of the bedrooms, but he didn't want to make that trek. Could my refusal to drive three hours have caused him to feel rejected or something? I never really considered that incident to be a big problem that would push him away since he didn't want to drive 3 hours either.
And he didn't text or call me in the 4 day space period.

Posted by pinklibra

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He possibly blocked you because he has something on his page he doesn't want you to see. That's a simple answer for you. I??ve done that. If I have something on my page I don't want someone to see I??d block them or unfriend them so they cant see it. But Facebook is so advanced now, that now all you have to do is make your wall and pictures private, this way only thing a person can see is your status updates. So I don't know. Good luck tho.

You can actually alter status, photos, videos so that only certain people can/cannot see it. You don't have to go to extremes to delete/block them in order for them not to see it.

You can set it so that by default, everyone but the people you don't want seeing your pics and updates won't see them (as long as no mutual friends are tagged). If you want to change it, change the privacy for that post/pic/video after you post it so it can be seen. I've had to do this with a few people on Facebook. I wanted to avoid the dramas of deletion, so I just have them blocked from most of my updates and other stuff I post, unless I change it afterward. If you change it each time, it won't keep the default of x,y,z people seeing it.

Posted by Perspicacity
It just amazes me that no one ever stops to confront these situations. It's all assumption. A lot of it baseless at that. I think the whole thing was fuelled by pettiness and insecurity.

Justifications or not, it's not like she poisoned his coffee or was actually in a relationship with the dude. She simply avoided him. For whatever reasons, I really don't care. It's not that important. At least she admitted that she did "something" wrong, which is barely even argument worthy in the first place.

If someone continued to string me along, I'd gradually start to phase them out. Avoiding my call one time does not warrant me blocking them from social media outlets. If this is the worst of our worries (when relationships are concerned), I dread the really big issues.

Yeah, but you know there's gotta be more going on than she leads on. Generally, scorps are notorious for playing games and manipulating people. He may have picked up on something and decided he was over it. It's kinda hard to completely get rid of a Libra if they're into you/feel that things aren't "done." When you guys are done, you're DONE, like blocking someone, no longer contacting, disappearing, etc. etc.

Personally, if I was in the "just talking" (retarded ass term) phase of dating and the guy just up and blocked me out of the blue, sure I'd be a bit wtf and not sure why, but I'd also say good riddance. If it took something so insignificant that I'm not sure what it is to cause them to disappear like that, then whatever. Ain't nobody got time for that.

Ok there is a new development in this whole shindig, though I'm a little afraid to tell y'all because I don't want y'all to mock me or say I'm a typical insecure Scorpio or a na??ve person or whatever other mean things you have to say. So, yesterday after some of you said it is a libra thing to lead girls on and then abandon them, I decided to just block his phone number and get over it. However, today I read that some of you thought he couldn't have just blocked me for one ignored phone call, that I must've done something else, and libra's will typically come/wander back into your life to be friends or at least assert what went wrong.
So, I decided to unblock his number this afternoon, partially because I wanted to see if he has been texting me or would text me, and also because I realized he wouldn't notice I blocked his number because Verizon doesn't really tell someone their number has been blocked. Guess what! Ten minutes later he called! I answered it, and right off the bat he said, "I have a new idea! What if we go to South Africa in December? We can stay with the two guys who I work with in the summer!" I was kind of annoyed since he appeared to be giving me the cold shoulder just days ago, and it was also weird because I never exactly thought we were being serious when we were talking about taking a winter vacation to Puerto Rico or Thailand two weeks ago (the story behind that ordeal was I'm planning on going to Puerto Rico with my best girlfriend in December because airfare is cheap and she has family there; I teasingly asked him if he wanted to go, but I thought he was going along with the sarcasm when he said "I'd be down for that or we should go to Thailand").
We ended up talking tonight for almost two hours (1 hour & 55 minutes).
At the very end of our conversation, before we hung up I asked him if he blocked me on Facebook. He laughed and said he deleted his Facebook because all the upgrades were annoying him. I asked three of my friends to cross check this—since libra men are apparently good liars—and they couldn't find his profile either. Now I feel like the biggest idiot for jumping to the bizarre conclusion that he was mad at me and ignoring me. And now I am really confused about what's going on because he sounded genuine tonight, but everyone is saying Libras are smooth talkers /: I'm thinking about just cutting him off since college starts next week, but I also think he's a fun friend since he has a different perspective tha

Eh, he may have not been cold shouldering you, but just doing a typical air sign floaty thing of wandering away emotionally, and then coming back.

They're not air signs for anything. It can be quite maddening.

In regard to what others are saying vs your gut...

I dunno, I'd say follow your gut, but yours seems to be broken. Maybe you should just focus on school for now... :/

Either way, try to take it all with a grain of salt. It's not anything serious and you got a little paranoid about everything too much for so little. Simmer down yo.