
If this thread has helped you and others, then I'm really pleased.

Posted by WaterCupWow, this really speaks to me. I'm glad I found this thread. I was feeling so alone/lost/crazy. My friends don't understand...Posted by SpiceNSugarThe person I believe to be my twinflame once described our relationship as, two people entering a room but as soon as they were both inside, the windows & the door vanished. Both are now trapped with nowhere to go. I agree because that's how it feels sometimes, TRAPPED. You can physically walk away but you will never rest mentally because of all the "signs", etc. You even start to see the person in other people. Physically seeing them. It's crazy. I hate it. But I'll never get back to the person again. The Universe would have to blow me straight into his arms or do some other huge miracle. Make me believe that I'm not making shit up, not being delusional because I do doubt my brain sometimes. Until then, thanks but no thanks.
Couple of days ago, I got into a huge fight with the person who I believe is my TF. Haven't spoken to him since. Without going into details, I was pondering the argument today and realized something:
With a TF, the bond is even stronger but the push/pull, arguing/forgiving, and learning about the other and the self is literally exhausting. You want to walk away but you can't. Because the reality is that you can't walk away from your own self no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want to do so.click to expand
Posted by username78The numbers are chasing us too. His birthday 1:11. Born at 5:55 I was born at 3:33. I woke up in the car out of a dead sleep, we both looked at the phone (propped up) and the dark screen lit but...11:11.....I want to forget about him sometimes but then I look at the clock and I'm always reminded. 😢Posted by SpiceNSugarI attest to this.. I doubted it before if TF really exist.. All the signs and repeated numbers just pop out in my eyes most of the time.. Specially when we still have strong connections ive seen 333, 111, 11:11, 69 (my birthday and his) I've met a lot of people who have the same birthday to his during our connectionsPosted by WaterCupYeah. What you're saying reminds me of the saying, "You can run, but you can never hide". Even when you walk away, the person is with you in everything you do, everywhere you do, with every breath. You try to get away, but ultimately you can't. It's a killer.
The person I believe to be my twinflame once described our relationship as, two people entering a room but as soon as they were both inside, the windows & the door vanished. Both are now trapped with nowhere to go. I agree because that's how it feels sometimes, TRAPPED. You can physically walk away but you will never rest mentally because of all the "signs", etc. You even start to see the person in other people. Physically seeing them. It's crazy. I hate it. But I'll never get back to the person again. The Universe would have to blow me straight into his arms or do some other huge miracle. Make me believe that I'm not making shit up, not being delusional because I do doubt my brain sometimes. Until then, thanks but no thanks.click to expand
Posted by PalerioYESSSSS!
It is just me or does someone else miss his/her TF already while standing in front of them?
Weirdest feeling ever.



Posted by HeartI agree with this assessment.
Apparently twin flames aren't supposed to be easy. They're meant to show you where you hold back and are there to help with issues you couldn't deal with on your own. They're also opposite in personality, but will usually have the same goals and interests. It's about being a team, not completion.






Posted by aNEWdayHonestly I don't think so.
Me neither.. That's why I'm really maybe wondering if it's possible.. If others have experienced it?

Posted by HeartYep karma is definitely a bitch lolPosted by aNEWdayCan you post your charts? Maybe someone on DXP can help. I know if one person's Venus sign is opposite the other person's Pluto that signals karma.
Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.
The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'
I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
I'm asking because I'm going to post the charts of myself and someone I met- it's spooky. He has six earth placements and I have seven earth placements. Yet from day one there was a pull. Plus were from different continents.click to expand


Posted by SpiceNSugarI don't get it either
I don't get the concept of a "partial" twin flame.

Posted by HeartHmm never understood the stellium thing.. What does that mean?Posted by aNEWdayWell for people born close to each other the similar placements are inevitable. Though your Moon and Rising Signs will be different no doubt, along with the house placements.Posted by HeartYep karma is definitely a bitch lolPosted by aNEWdayCan you post your charts? Maybe someone on DXP can help. I know if one person's Venus sign is opposite the other person's Pluto that signals karma.
Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.
The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'
I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
I'm asking because I'm going to post the charts of myself and someone I met- it's spooky. He has six earth placements and I have seven earth placements. Yet from day one there was a pull. Plus were from different continents.
His birthdate is 6 days after mine. Same year, and we were born close to each other (two different states but close in distance)
Due to our birthdays, we have a lot of the same placements but we have a few that are not the same, I think make a world of difference.
There's probably a lot of clashing placements
With the one I refer to he's two years younger than me, and has a massive Capricorn stellium, which makes it more eerie than if his birthday were close to mine.click to expand

Posted by Heart...or 3 or more planets in the same sign.
A stellium is when there are four or more planets in the same house.

Posted by Impulsvsomeone's being a tease
Childs pose
We're I'm on my knees my face touches floor n hands treched forward
The first part of the video
My body just wants to do it n stay there for long time
Did it a couple times but it wants it more
Posted by aNEWdayLook into Soul Family
Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.
The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'
I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
Posted by SpiceNSugarMe either it makes no sense to me. Maybe it's a name they just attached to it. I have been reading about Soul Family and that makes more sense to me
I don't get the concept of a "partial" twin flame.

Posted by Impulsv
Right now I hate him
Why because he is a weak ass man who needed his ego stroked at the cost of another.


Posted by HeartThat's how I feel too! But there are so many disbelievers.. I know where I stand but the average person doesn't understand. I decided to tell my best friend about it a little and she found the whole chaser runner thing to be unhealthy.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYes. It's our programming and most of what we believe is the "right" relationship that's unhealthy. I think your profile picture is a perfect example. Joker and Harley are 100% in a Karmic Relationship.
Do you believe Twin Flame relationships are healthy?click to expand

Posted by HarleyTwinFlameI don't believe they are healthy or unhealthy, they just ARE.
Do you believe Twin Flame relationships are healthy?

Posted by HeartIt allows the chaser to grow spiritually in the meantime, allows us to work out the lessons to be taught from the runner unbeknownst to them.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameHow is the running necessary?Posted by HeartThat's how I feel too! But there are so many disbelievers.. I know where I stand but the average person doesn't understand. I decided to tell my best friend about it a little and she found the whole chaser runner thing to be unhealthy.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYes. It's our programming and most of what we believe is the "right" relationship that's unhealthy. I think your profile picture is a perfect example. Joker and Harley are 100% in a Karmic Relationship.
Do you believe Twin Flame relationships are healthy?
But I'm one of those that believe this running is 100% necessary at some point.click to expand



Posted by SeaGoddessNot at all!Posted by HarleyTwinFlame! Goodness your user name just tripped me out. I always read this post occasionally because someone mentioned the twin flame thing to me so I've been exploring the idea. And he would always say you're like the Harleyquin to my joker lol 😢 hmm maybe it's possible lol sorry for the randomnessPosted by HeartIt allows the chaser to grow spiritually in the meantime, allows us to work out the lessons to be taught from the runner unbeknownst to them.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameHow is the running necessary?Posted by HeartThat's how I feel too! But there are so many disbelievers.. I know where I stand but the average person doesn't understand. I decided to tell my best friend about it a little and she found the whole chaser runner thing to be unhealthy.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameYes. It's our programming and most of what we believe is the "right" relationship that's unhealthy. I think your profile picture is a perfect example. Joker and Harley are 100% in a Karmic Relationship.
Do you believe Twin Flame relationships are healthy?
But I'm one of those that believe this running is 100% necessary at some point.
the sepration period is a negative one if you make it one.click to expand

Posted by SeaGoddess100% can relate to this! I did the same thing cut him off and he said he would cut me off but he didn't actually and came back surprised me but I felt it coming for weeks.
@HarleyTwinFlame
Ugh!! You said it all, everything was sooo intense and overwhelming . I couldn't control a single emotion , and what made it worse is we could feel each other and immediately know how the other felt. I tried putting space between us, and that felt worse.... It hurt worse than anything I've felt relationship wise before. We are pretty much separated right now. Because of his life problems , but I can still feel him. I tried to explain this to my friend, because I had this its not over feeling and it was strong. It wasn't because I didn't want it to not be over because at the time I was definitely fed up and done. Even changed my number. I never change my number. And I still felt it wasn't over. He's moving away soon. So eventually I'll reach out to him. But honestly even if I didn't ,I feel like I would know everything is perfectly fine And I'll see him again .



Posted by HarleyTwinFlamewhat is your sun, moon, and venus, as well as his?
See, I know my twin.. But I think I have met my false twin recently.. Like it's almost* as powerful as my twin... For whatever reason I feel compelled to run from this amazing man at the same time I'm shocked in my feelings for him and him for me this early.. I feel myself falling in love and I can't stop it and its scary...
I'm not even sure I believe in false twins but this feels really karmic and heavy like right under the level of intensity of my twin but its much more smoother

Posted by HarleyTwinFlameThat is what I have experienced. I have a lot in common with this what for now I will call false town, but we also have differences.
See, I know my twin.. But I think I have met my false twin recently.. Like it's almost* as powerful as my twin... For whatever reason I feel compelled to run from this amazing man at the same time I'm shocked in my feelings for him and him for me this early.. I feel myself falling in love and I can't stop it and its scary...
I'm not even sure I believe in false twins but this feels really karmic and heavy like right under the level of intensity of my twin but its much more smoother


Posted by Impulsv
They are ur mirror n yes it feels like home but uncomfortable because it bring out the clutter in ur closet to come up for healing

Posted by saweetz1988I can relate to loving someone very deeply and wishing that they had not done some things to me.
not sure what to do about mine or this connection has we havbeen a baby together now but now I'm running coz he truly hurt me now he's back with apology n acceptance of the baby while I moved on to a relationship that is a lot easier to understand.. Logical... and simply just very easy compared to m TF connection.. But no matter what my true deep core spirit is still with him. n now that he's back 2 months before hIs baby is due makes me happy n scared at ththe same time.. I'm lost n dun nor what the hell to do. in the past we admitted in being very addicted to each othother as when we fight he hates me then he wants me the next day.. very unhealthy when the communication is poor yet we cud not cut it off completely. he hurt me too much I had to make a decision to conpltely move on to someone who will never hurt me.. now, in asking him to meet in person to prove to me that we can just meet without touching each other. He says I am funny and that it will b hard if we are going to raise a child together... sex was never tha same after we been together and it is the reason why I allowed myself to be pregnant in the first place.. this baby is my everything he's made from lov making i never experienced in my life... but now I don't know what to dwear truly... I love my TF very very deeply but at the same time very very scared he will hurt me again .. I also love my partner now but it can not be compared... can you guys relate—? Am I just crazy? lol

Posted by HeartPosted by aNEWdayYep. That's karmic. Twin flame is yin and yang. Where you mesh beautifully despite challenges. Twins want to work together. Karma repels.
Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.
The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'
I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but notclick to expand

Posted by saweetz1988When the guy you thought was your soulmate hurts you it takes years. And you have to hate them in the end.Posted by Impulsv
They are ur mirror n yes it feels like home but uncomfortable because it bring out the clutter in ur closet to come up for healing
Funny u mentioned this . I sang feel like home Song earlier with tears strolling down my face.. it touched deep to the core.. no matter how long. Will this connection or feelings ever stop 😢click to expand


Posted by BlondeAmbitionPosted by saweetz1988I can relate to loving someone very deeply and wishing that they had not done some things to me.
not sure what to do about mine or this connection has we havbeen a baby together now but now I'm running coz he truly hurt me now he's back with apology n acceptance of the baby while I moved on to a relationship that is a lot easier to understand.. Logical... and simply just very easy compared to m TF connection.. But no matter what my true deep core spirit is still with him. n now that he's back 2 months before hIs baby is due makes me happy n scared at ththe same time.. I'm lost n dun nor what the hell to do. in the past we admitted in being very addicted to each othother as when we fight he hates me then he wants me the next day.. very unhealthy when the communication is poor yet we cud not cut it off completely. he hurt me too much I had to make a decision to conpltely move on to someone who will never hurt me.. now, in asking him to meet in person to prove to me that we can just meet without touching each other. He says I am funny and that it will b hard if we are going to raise a child together... sex was never tha same after we been together and it is the reason why I allowed myself to be pregnant in the first place.. this baby is my everything he's made from lov making i never experienced in my life... but now I don't know what to dwear truly... I love my TF very very deeply but at the same time very very scared he will hurt me again .. I also love my partner now but it can not be compared... can you guys relate—? Am I just crazy? lol
No you are deffo not crazy honey. Very human.click to expand

Posted by BlondeAmbitionPosted by saweetz1988When the guy you thought was your soulmate hurts you it takes years. And you have to hate them in the end.Posted by Impulsv
They are ur mirror n yes it feels like home but uncomfortable because it bring out the clutter in ur closet to come up for healing
Funny u mentioned this . I sang feel like home Song earlier with tears strolling down my face.. it touched deep to the core.. no matter how long. Will this connection or feelings ever stop 😢click to expand

Posted by saweetz1988Whatever it is, it has brought up a lot of emotional issues for me. From my issues with family, friends and just my whole life up until now I've thought about. I say it's this because this sadness just deepened as I thought about other areas of my life, it's been like the trigger.Posted by HeartPosted by aNEWdayYep. That's karmic. Twin flame is yin and yang. Where you mesh beautifully despite challenges. Twins want to work together. Karma repels.
Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.
The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'
I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
I feel deep deep down they want to work together but the connection is too intense for one or the other and so they run !!!! ?click to expand



Posted by mangomaniait would only make sense if you were his twin-flame, were you?
Last year this time i had dreams of a man that i would fall in love with. This man made me happy. I couldnt see his face. This went on four months. Then i met a woman who told she had a friend that would love to go with me. We exchanged numbers. I was a lil weary because i didnt know her. Finally, i contacted the guy after 1 month. Our conversation on the phone lasted 3 hours. We went out 2 weeks later. I realized this man was the man in my dreams. It was so natural. Ive been with him before. We would finish each other sentences. We werent intimate until months later. It was beautiful. 6 months of happiness i have never experienced. He would say things like we were together in the past.
Then 1 month ago he just stop contacting me. Dropped off the face of the earth. It has been hard to deal with but it geys easier to deal with. I believe this man was my twin flame. He was the yin to my yang. I learned so much from him. I wish i could be with him. I say all this to say i feel blessed to have experienced this but can someone answer this...will i get over this. This man was my twin flame...I feel a void...please help me.

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