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Couple of days ago, I got into a huge fight with the person who I believe is my TF. Haven't spoken to him since. Without going into details, I was pondering the argument today and realized something:



With a TF, the bond is even stronger but the push/pull, arguing/forgiving, and learning about the other and the self is literally exhausting. You want to walk away but you can't. Because the reality is that you can't walk away from your own self no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want to do so.
The person I believe to be my twinflame once described our relationship as, two people entering a room but as soon as they were both inside, the windows & the door vanished. Both are now trapped with nowhere to go. I agree because that's how it feels sometimes, TRAPPED. You can physically walk away but you will never rest mentally because of all the "signs", etc. You even start to see the person in other people. Physically seeing them. It's crazy. I hate it. But I'll never get back to the person again. The Universe would have to blow me straight into his arms or do some other huge miracle. Make me believe that I'm not making shit up, not being delusional because I do doubt my brain sometimes. Until then, thanks but no thanks.
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Wow, this really speaks to me. I'm glad I found this thread. I was feeling so alone/lost/crazy. My friends don't understand...
I believe this person I'm with to be my TF. However, I do try to doubt/wriggle out of it/rationalize when things get hard or don't fit in the way I think they should. I was describing my weekend with him as feeling 'trapped' about an hour ago to a friend. We went to a mystic sweat lodge the other day ( I didn't know what I was getting into) and we literally were trapped in a 100 degree teepee for 2 hours. But that's another couch session. Trapped. Yes. I sometimes want him out of my head. I feel..consumed. Sometimes drained.


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The person I believe to be my twinflame once described our relationship as, two people entering a room but as soon as they were both inside, the windows & the door vanished. Both are now trapped with nowhere to go. I agree because that's how it feels sometimes, TRAPPED. You can physically walk away but you will never rest mentally because of all the "signs", etc. You even start to see the person in other people. Physically seeing them. It's crazy. I hate it. But I'll never get back to the person again. The Universe would have to blow me straight into his arms or do some other huge miracle. Make me believe that I'm not making shit up, not being delusional because I do doubt my brain sometimes. Until then, thanks but no thanks.
Yeah. What you're saying reminds me of the saying, "You can run, but you can never hide". Even when you walk away, the person is with you in everything you do, everywhere you do, with every breath. You try to get away, but ultimately you can't. It's a killer.
I attest to this.. I doubted it before if TF really exist.. All the signs and repeated numbers just pop out in my eyes most of the time.. Specially when we still have strong connections ive seen 333, 111, 11:11, 69 (my birthday and his) I've met a lot of people who have the same birthday to his during our connections
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The numbers are chasing us too. His birthday 1:11. Born at 5:55 I was born at 3:33. I woke up in the car out of a dead sleep, we both looked at the phone (propped up) and the dark screen lit but...11:11.....I want to forget about him sometimes but then I look at the clock and I'm always reminded. 😢
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I would like to share some things about this relationship and get your opinions on if it's TF or not. I hope you don't mind me dropping it in this thread...And if you can relate please let me know. I feel like I'm going insane.
We met on odd terms. My ex randomly tagged me in his picture on Facebook (because we use the same music equipment) Yet my ex does not know him (we were still dating at the time) and it was super awkward. Me and this dude both went on Tinder for a week at the same time and resync'd. He showed up at my performance at 'Bobby's Idle Hour Bar' where we first 'met' and..his name is Bobby. We are a combination of THE same and opposite. I woke up one morning singing, "My favorite animal is a whale." And I was thinking why am I singing this. So weird...I look at my phone. He's texted me a whale emoji. Apparently he was dreaming about whales....We have a lot of weird syncs. But sometimes I just think, well, he's detail and believes and so do I so we would...regardless of TF. The numbers 11:11 etc play up ALOT. We are very yin and yang. He has abused drugs/alchohol....I'm pretty much straight edge. I've noticed because of how I am he just naturally adapts my habits. I seem to be a good influence. He kind of has been wearing me out lately. He lives hard, very much a gypsy (I'm a planner). We seem to both want to have a family (he's not ready tho) and help others. Most likely through music. He's very imbalanced. We also have joint sexual issues and I can see how we are meant to help one another there. It has been very perfect, but he's starting to grind on me. I feel obsessed, although I can appear distant. At this point I'm just babbling so I'm gonna stop haha. Sigh, its been a long weekend...
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Has anyone experienced a "partial" twin flame?
Like you are very similar and connect in some important ways. but most ways you cannot connect with the other person?

A person I had a connection with I first thought he was my soulmate, then twin flame now I just feel like it's karmic.
It made me read up on it. As a Scorpio I guess I wanted to find a label for this connection because I knew it wasn't like any other one i had with other guys.

Ultimately, what I've realized is because I actually don't feel fully comfortable in his presence and have a knot in my stomach - but still a strong attraction-its karmic. I don't know if that means karmic soulmate or what, BUT I feel he is a partial twin flame as well. We are alike in a lot of ways, but still very different.

It's weird, and after everything I know it took me to a very deep place for a reason, but mostly I wish I would have never met him.
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Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.

The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'

I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
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Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.

The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'

I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
Can you post your charts? Maybe someone on DXP can help. I know if one person's Venus sign is opposite the other person's Pluto that signals karma.

I'm asking because I'm going to post the charts of myself and someone I met- it's spooky. He has six earth placements and I have seven earth placements. Yet from day one there was a pull. Plus were from different continents.
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Yep karma is definitely a bitch lol

His birthdate is 6 days after mine. Same year, and we were born close to each other (two different states but close in distance)

Due to our birthdays, we have a lot of the same placements but we have a few that are not the same, I think make a world of difference.

There's probably a lot of clashing placements
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Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.

The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'

I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
Can you post your charts? Maybe someone on DXP can help. I know if one person's Venus sign is opposite the other person's Pluto that signals karma.

I'm asking because I'm going to post the charts of myself and someone I met- it's spooky. He has six earth placements and I have seven earth placements. Yet from day one there was a pull. Plus were from different continents.
Yep karma is definitely a bitch lol

His birthdate is 6 days after mine. Same year, and we were born close to each other (two different states but close in distance)

Due to our birthdays, we have a lot of the same placements but we have a few that are not the same, I think make a world of difference.

There's probably a lot of clashing placements
Well for people born close to each other the similar placements are inevitable. Though your Moon and Rising Signs will be different no doubt, along with the house placements.

With the one I refer to he's two years younger than me, and has a massive Capricorn stellium, which makes it more eerie than if his birthday were close to mine.
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Hmm never understood the stellium thing.. What does that mean?
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Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.

The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'

I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
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Do you believe Twin Flame relationships are healthy?
Yes. It's our programming and most of what we believe is the "right" relationship that's unhealthy. I think your profile picture is a perfect example. Joker and Harley are 100% in a Karmic Relationship.
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That's how I feel too! But there are so many disbelievers.. I know where I stand but the average person doesn't understand. I decided to tell my best friend about it a little and she found the whole chaser runner thing to be unhealthy.

But I'm one of those that believe this running is 100% necessary at some point.
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Do you believe Twin Flame relationships are healthy?
Yes. It's our programming and most of what we believe is the "right" relationship that's unhealthy. I think your profile picture is a perfect example. Joker and Harley are 100% in a Karmic Relationship.
That's how I feel too! But there are so many disbelievers.. I know where I stand but the average person doesn't understand. I decided to tell my best friend about it a little and she found the whole chaser runner thing to be unhealthy.

But I'm one of those that believe this running is 100% necessary at some point.
How is the running necessary?
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It allows the chaser to grow spiritually in the meantime, allows us to work out the lessons to be taught from the runner unbeknownst to them.

the sepration period is a negative one if you make it one.
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gonna expand on this before it's assumed I'm trolling

my "twin flame" and I were born 2 weeks apart .. we share the same placements beyond Venus

my mercury, venus & pluto conjunct both her sun & pluto
her mercury conjuncts my sun and moon
her mars is in conjunction with my moon
her moon is in opposition with my venus, mercury & pluto

personally, I believe aspects like the ones above explain the indescribable attraction, that eagerness to be around each other
way more than the whole "(s)he's your other half but the timing is off" explanation
seriously: why would the Universe have you cross paths with your 'other half' when you're far from ready to come together ?
that sounds very questionable to me, unless the Creator enjoys messing with / torturing people

if it wasn't for my TF's ability to evoke strong feelings in me, I'd have left her alone the whole time (she was self-destructive)
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Do you believe Twin Flame relationships are healthy?
Yes. It's our programming and most of what we believe is the "right" relationship that's unhealthy. I think your profile picture is a perfect example. Joker and Harley are 100% in a Karmic Relationship.
That's how I feel too! But there are so many disbelievers.. I know where I stand but the average person doesn't understand. I decided to tell my best friend about it a little and she found the whole chaser runner thing to be unhealthy.

But I'm one of those that believe this running is 100% necessary at some point.
How is the running necessary?
It allows the chaser to grow spiritually in the meantime, allows us to work out the lessons to be taught from the runner unbeknownst to them.

the sepration period is a negative one if you make it one.
! Goodness your user name just tripped me out. I always read this post occasionally because someone mentioned the twin flame thing to me so I've been exploring the idea. And he would always say you're like the Harleyquin to my joker lol 😢 hmm maybe it's possible lol sorry for the randomness
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Not at all!
I totally get what you're saying. I think we're like that too. And that led to my original question to see if people thought it was healthy.. sometimes the intensity of the twin flame connection borderlines dysfunctional and emotionally unstable when things are not well and both are not spiritually advanced.. Alot of pain is associated with TFs and usually in the early stages but the love keeps them inseparable no matter how annoying, how angry they make you you need them as much as they need you. Can't stop loving them, can't get rid of them essentially even if you move on they are with you in spirit
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Ugh!! You said it all, everything was sooo intense and overwhelming . I couldn't control a single emotion , and what made it worse is we could feel each other and immediately know how the other felt. I tried putting space between us, and that felt worse.... It hurt worse than anything I've felt relationship wise before. We are pretty much separated right now. Because of his life problems , but I can still feel him. I tried to explain this to my friend, because I had this its not over feeling and it was strong. It wasn't because I didn't want it to not be over because at the time I was definitely fed up and done. Even changed my number. I never change my number. And I still felt it wasn't over. He's moving away soon. So eventually I'll reach out to him. But honestly even if I didn't ,I feel like I would know everything is perfectly fine And I'll see him again .
100% can relate to this! I did the same thing cut him off and he said he would cut me off but he didn't actually and came back surprised me but I felt it coming for weeks.
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Hi everyone, I have been doing alot of thinking trying my best to understand my relationship with my twin... I feel like he really needs at this moment but he won't let me help either so I'm talking to other people exploring my options.. I don't know what to do with him anymore.. But that's not the topic I wanted to bring up.

One thing that stuck out was the Venus and Saturn aspects.

Saturn is karmic and this aspects especially the hard ones shows where Venus had hurt Saturn in the past. Funnily enough Venus seems to be the one afraid the most.

Just curious to hear if any of you notice any kind of Venus and Saturn aspects between you and your twin?
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See, I know my twin.. But I think I have met my false twin recently.. Like it's almost* as powerful as my twin... For whatever reason I feel compelled to run from this amazing man at the same time I'm shocked in my feelings for him and him for me this early.. I feel myself falling in love and I can't stop it and its scary...

I'm not even sure I believe in false twins but this feels really karmic and heavy like right under the level of intensity of my twin but its much more smoother

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See, I know my twin.. But I think I have met my false twin recently.. Like it's almost* as powerful as my twin... For whatever reason I feel compelled to run from this amazing man at the same time I'm shocked in my feelings for him and him for me this early.. I feel myself falling in love and I can't stop it and its scary...

I'm not even sure I believe in false twins but this feels really karmic and heavy like right under the level of intensity of my twin but its much more smoother
what is your sun, moon, and venus, as well as his?
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See, I know my twin.. But I think I have met my false twin recently.. Like it's almost* as powerful as my twin... For whatever reason I feel compelled to run from this amazing man at the same time I'm shocked in my feelings for him and him for me this early.. I feel myself falling in love and I can't stop it and its scary...

I'm not even sure I believe in false twins but this feels really karmic and heavy like right under the level of intensity of my twin but its much more smoother
That is what I have experienced. I have a lot in common with this what for now I will call false town, but we also have differences.

We don't see eye to eye. He doesn't u detest and me and I don't understand him. There is bad communication, yet a very strong attraction that makes me crazy every time I see him. Ultimately, I know it's not healthy what I feel so I try to stay away. The weird let us I don't think he feels it negative at all, or is AWARE of it.
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not sure what to do about mine or this connection has we havbeen a baby together now but now I'm running coz he truly hurt me now he's back with apology n acceptance of the baby while I moved on to a relationship that is a lot easier to understand.. Logical... and simply just very easy compared to m TF connection.. But no matter what my true deep core spirit is still with him. n now that he's back 2 months before hIs baby is due makes me happy n scared at ththe same time.. I'm lost n dun nor what the hell to do. in the past we admitted in being very addicted to each othother as when we fight he hates me then he wants me the next day.. very unhealthy when the communication is poor yet we cud not cut it off completely. he hurt me too much I had to make a decision to conpltely move on to someone who will never hurt me.. now, in asking him to meet in person to prove to me that we can just meet without touching each other. He says I am funny and that it will b hard if we are going to raise a child together... sex was never tha same after we been together and it is the reason why I allowed myself to be pregnant in the first place.. this baby is my everything he's made from lov making i never experienced in my life... but now I don't know what to dwear truly... I love my TF very very deeply but at the same time very very scared he will hurt me again .. I also love my partner now but it can not be compared... can you guys relate—? Am I just crazy? lol
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not sure what to do about mine or this connection has we havbeen a baby together now but now I'm running coz he truly hurt me now he's back with apology n acceptance of the baby while I moved on to a relationship that is a lot easier to understand.. Logical... and simply just very easy compared to m TF connection.. But no matter what my true deep core spirit is still with him. n now that he's back 2 months before hIs baby is due makes me happy n scared at ththe same time.. I'm lost n dun nor what the hell to do. in the past we admitted in being very addicted to each othother as when we fight he hates me then he wants me the next day.. very unhealthy when the communication is poor yet we cud not cut it off completely. he hurt me too much I had to make a decision to conpltely move on to someone who will never hurt me.. now, in asking him to meet in person to prove to me that we can just meet without touching each other. He says I am funny and that it will b hard if we are going to raise a child together... sex was never tha same after we been together and it is the reason why I allowed myself to be pregnant in the first place.. this baby is my everything he's made from lov making i never experienced in my life... but now I don't know what to dwear truly... I love my TF very very deeply but at the same time very very scared he will hurt me again .. I also love my partner now but it can not be compared... can you guys relate—? Am I just crazy? lol
I can relate to loving someone very deeply and wishing that they had not done some things to me.

No you are deffo not crazy honey. Very human.
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Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.

The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'

I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
Yep. That's karmic. Twin flame is yin and yang. Where you mesh beautifully despite challenges. Twins want to work together. Karma repels.
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I feel deep deep down they want to work together but the connection is too intense for one or the other and so they run !!!! ?
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They are ur mirror n yes it feels like home but uncomfortable because it bring out the clutter in ur closet to come up for healing

Funny u mentioned this . I sang feel like home Song earlier with tears strolling down my face.. it touched deep to the core.. no matter how long. Will this connection or feelings ever stop 😢
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When the guy you thought was your soulmate hurts you it takes years. And you have to hate them in the end.
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not sure what to do about mine or this connection has we havbeen a baby together now but now I'm running coz he truly hurt me now he's back with apology n acceptance of the baby while I moved on to a relationship that is a lot easier to understand.. Logical... and simply just very easy compared to m TF connection.. But no matter what my true deep core spirit is still with him. n now that he's back 2 months before hIs baby is due makes me happy n scared at ththe same time.. I'm lost n dun nor what the hell to do. in the past we admitted in being very addicted to each othother as when we fight he hates me then he wants me the next day.. very unhealthy when the communication is poor yet we cud not cut it off completely. he hurt me too much I had to make a decision to conpltely move on to someone who will never hurt me.. now, in asking him to meet in person to prove to me that we can just meet without touching each other. He says I am funny and that it will b hard if we are going to raise a child together... sex was never tha same after we been together and it is the reason why I allowed myself to be pregnant in the first place.. this baby is my everything he's made from lov making i never experienced in my life... but now I don't know what to dwear truly... I love my TF very very deeply but at the same time very very scared he will hurt me again .. I also love my partner now but it can not be compared... can you guys relate—? Am I just crazy? lol
I can relate to loving someone very deeply and wishing that they had not done some things to me.

No you are deffo not crazy honey. Very human.
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Thank u. Maybe what he has done if another man did it it Wundt be as bad but because he did it, it hurt like hell something I never Xperienced before... and it scares me to death... yet I care for him so deeply n my soul is still with him.... now we have to try to b just friends coz we may hurt each other again n I don't want that to happen to us... but it's hard for us to be just friends without needing to touch each other. I'm preying we can.... I'm normally extremely detached but with him I'm extrmely weak.. 😢 so good luck to me or to us ..
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They are ur mirror n yes it feels like home but uncomfortable because it bring out the clutter in ur closet to come up for healing

Funny u mentioned this . I sang feel like home Song earlier with tears strolling down my face.. it touched deep to the core.. no matter how long. Will this connection or feelings ever stop 😢
When the guy you thought was your soulmate hurts you it takes years. And you have to hate them in the end.
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I believe TF hurts u a lot deeper than a soulmate.. and yes, I had to hate him too it was the only way to mov forward coz I love him too much.. Survival mode
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Right this guy it's like more of a dislike than a like at the moment. I kind of resent him and meeting him. And he never even did anything truly wrong - it has to be past like stuff.

The part I dislike about him is that which is different from me. And it's what I cannot connect with, the reason I know this is not 'meant to be'

I just don't think he's all the way a twin flame. It's like he has a lot of twin flame qualities but not
Yep. That's karmic. Twin flame is yin and yang. Where you mesh beautifully despite challenges. Twins want to work together. Karma repels.

I feel deep deep down they want to work together but the connection is too intense for one or the other and so they run !!!! ?
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Whatever it is, it has brought up a lot of emotional issues for me. From my issues with family, friends and just my whole life up until now I've thought about. I say it's this because this sadness just deepened as I thought about other areas of my life, it's been like the trigger.

Deep deep down inside, I would like for it to work, but I don't think it can. That scares me, and I run. I'm def the runner, but I wonder if it's because I'm the one who's supposed to learn the most. I'm the one who needs the healing in my life? Or from past life? Or even notices and feels all this.
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Sorry I didn't fully understand.
Are you saying going through what you did with your tf has made you more open to love from another?

How did you clear things with your tf? I'm trying to figure out how to break this link I feel that drives me crazy and is not healthy. I feel like I need to break it to move on with my life. It's been like this for a year on and off. I'm getting ready to move and I feel like this is going to be a big chapter in my 'new' life. I don't want any of this baggage anymore.
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Posted by mangomania
Last year this time i had dreams of a man that i would fall in love with. This man made me happy. I couldnt see his face. This went on four months. Then i met a woman who told she had a friend that would love to go with me. We exchanged numbers. I was a lil weary because i didnt know her. Finally, i contacted the guy after 1 month. Our conversation on the phone lasted 3 hours. We went out 2 weeks later. I realized this man was the man in my dreams. It was so natural. Ive been with him before. We would finish each other sentences. We werent intimate until months later. It was beautiful. 6 months of happiness i have never experienced. He would say things like we were together in the past.
Then 1 month ago he just stop contacting me. Dropped off the face of the earth. It has been hard to deal with but it geys easier to deal with. I believe this man was my twin flame. He was the yin to my yang. I learned so much from him. I wish i could be with him. I say all this to say i feel blessed to have experienced this but can someone answer this...will i get over this. This man was my twin flame...I feel a void...please help me.
it would only make sense if you were his twin-flame, were you?
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I think some of these twin flame connections are actually empaths - emotional vampires connections. At least the ones where your gut is telling you to stay the hell away from the person while experiencing a strong pull towards the TF at the same time.
Or maybe natural givers and natural takers being drawn to each other because they have many insecurities in common. Who knows ..

#deglamorizer