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Posted by HeartI can agree with twins taking opposite sides of certain behaviors. It's kinda weird how someone can be so similar and because we're so similar we become like oppsites. One of us has to take on certain negative traits and the other will take the positive. Truly Yin/Yang. A perfect match if we're both spiritutally evolved and have patience to compromise in the areas of life we don't want to the most.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWell my twin who has six Capricorn placements turned out to be an unevolved @sshole. Last time I saw him we were hanging out in an arcade and there he was rolling a joint, asking me to make sure no one could see. Basically he does all the things I've held myself from doing. Drugs, binge drinking, hook ups, narcissism. He brought out my jealousy and all the things about myself I needed to let go to become a better person. And despite all this, I'm a better woman since meeting him, but I'll marry him in the next lifetime once he grows up. I wish I never met him but feel truly grateful since he brought me to my current soulmate, and that's as all I need right now.
Love is a funny thing
Isn't it amazing how we have no free will when it comes to twin flames?
Basically forced to love this person and once we met them our lives would never be the same and all of this was planned before we both were born.
I try with all my might to move on.
I even wonder if I have met my false twin recently and the urge to love and past life we have is intense as well however, it's not as soul piercing, it doesn't make me want to jump off a cliff in the name of love like with my TF, it's more calm and safe. But I worry...
My twin now we're apart at the moment, he comes in waves or seasons where for weeks /months i ll only think of him maybe once a day or a small thought then other times it becomes unbearable and all consuming it makes it hard for me to focus on my life it's that bad. All day long for the past two weeks he's there in my mind in my dreams, I keep meeting people who either look like him or have the same name, I run into his co-workers it's just overwhelming...
I'm afraid if we don't end up together and I marry and have a family with the other guy I will always be forced to endure these periods where I feel him so powerful it's difficult to know where my thoughts/emotions are mines or his.
I would call it cursed, but its a blessed Union. The glue that forever bonds two people together no matter what is something most people would only dream to have.. He pisses me off but I can't never hate him. I love him more than anything in the world and it scares the hell out me.
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Posted by HeartI guess I'm holding onto some hope, it's all I can do. I fear his life and I feel inclined to save him but at the end if the day he's in charge of his destiny. I can't force him to be spiritual or enlightened. That sucks. Lol
Your post cut off. 😛
His soul is unevolved for mine. It's like he doesn't remember his true self. Whatever.

Posted by littlesparrowExactly. How can something be so frightening yet exciting at the same time?
He is the only person I have ever met who got me. It was terrifying. Once, I literally ran out of the house just to get away from him. And every time, I would think phew. Okay. That is over. I don’t need to see him again. I can go my whole life and I will be okay. Within a few days the feeling comes back. It is like a weird itch.
I always feared he thought I was stalking him because our lives cris crossed so much. I wasn’t. I was avoiding him at all cost. It was just life pushing.
The best way I can describe it is: It was like being alone in a room with yourself but with someone else there. All that stuff you don’t want to admit or acknowledge is just hanging out there raw. Like someone ease dropping on your inner talk. It was unlike anything I have ever encountered.




Posted by HeartPosted by HarleyTwinFlameMine is completely self-centered. There were moments where he implied knowing and wanting to get closer, but his ego and worldly needs got in the way of a love that could have been for a lifetime. I was willing to learn his native language but now- pff.Posted by HeartI guess I'm holding onto some hope, it's all I can do. I fear his life and I feel inclined to save him but at the end if the day he's in charge of his destiny. I can't force him to be spiritual or enlightened. That sucks. Lol
Your post cut off. 😛
His soul is unevolved for mine. It's like he doesn't remember his true self. Whatever.
As for yours, he'll evolve on his own. I know a twin flame meeting can damage the heart chakra, so try closing your eyes and placing your hand over your heart, and buy a rose quartz. Place it in the light of the full moon and wear it all the time. If anything, put a bay leaf under your pillow to attract a soulmate partner or a person who's at the same level you're at now. It sounds crazy but these things work. It's possible to love a soulmate while preparing for the twin flame relationship. Don't hold yourself back from someone who can give you what you need just for him. I'm giving this advice for the both of us. Every relationship is different. Sometimes people stay, sometimes people are just walking by to open the window you couldn't reach.click to expand


Posted by SpiceNSugar
I agree that it's like opening a window that you couldn't reach before, but sometimes I wish that window had stayed closed.
Yes, I feel that I've grown and evolved immensely as a result of this experience, but a part of me still believes that "ignorance is bliss."
Posted by saweetz1988In due time.. You will.Posted by SpiceNSugar
I agree that it's like opening a window that you couldn't reach before, but sometimes I wish that window had stayed closed.
Yes, I feel that I've grown and evolved immensely as a result of this experience, but a part of me still believes that "ignorance is bliss."
I also wish that window had stayed closed too ... I wanna love again. I wanna b able to move on n forget. I'm trying ... Indeed I'm tryingclick to expand




Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWow this is so crazy. I am now the runner too.....
*I'm the runner now btw*







Posted by SpiceNSugarHave you resolve this matter and how did it work out? Do you believe in it?
Couple of days ago, I got into a huge fight with the person who I believe is my TF. Haven't spoken to him since. Without going into details, I was pondering the argument today and realized something:
I was blaming him for something that he does. Yet, he does this out of deep-rooted insecurity.
Why was I blaming him for this? Because of my own deep-rooted insecurity.
Once again the TF mirror-image comes back to slap me in the face. With anyone else, I would've walked away LONG ago. However, with this person, I just can't get myself to do that try as I might. Hence, I think it really is impossible to cut-off a TF. You can cut contact yes, but you can't cut-off the lessons that they will teach you about yourself.
So many people mistake TF's with SoulMates, but it's really a whole different ballgame. With a SoulMate there's a strong bond of mutual understanding and relative tranquility. For the most part, you're both "on the same wavelength".
With a TF, the bond is even stronger but the push/pull, arguing/forgiving, and learning about the other and the self is literally exhausting. You want to walk away but you can't. Because the reality is that you can't walk away from your own self no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want to do so.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428This relationship has been like no other I have ever known. I have grown a lot from it, but the lessons have been long and painful. I do believe that this is some sort of deep karmic relationship whether you want to call it Twin Flame or not. We have been in and out of contact but during the time that there is no contact, I miss his presence in my life terribly. Despite this, I have learned to keep moving forward.Posted by SpiceNSugarHave you resolve this matter and how did it work out? Do you believe in it?
Couple of days ago, I got into a huge fight with the person who I believe is my TF. Haven't spoken to him since. Without going into details, I was pondering the argument today and realized something:
I was blaming him for something that he does. Yet, he does this out of deep-rooted insecurity.
Why was I blaming him for this? Because of my own deep-rooted insecurity.
Once again the TF mirror-image comes back to slap me in the face. With anyone else, I would've walked away LONG ago. However, with this person, I just can't get myself to do that try as I might. Hence, I think it really is impossible to cut-off a TF. You can cut contact yes, but you can't cut-off the lessons that they will teach you about yourself.
So many people mistake TF's with SoulMates, but it's really a whole different ballgame. With a SoulMate there's a strong bond of mutual understanding and relative tranquility. For the most part, you're both "on the same wavelength".
With a TF, the bond is even stronger but the push/pull, arguing/forgiving, and learning about the other and the self is literally exhausting. You want to walk away but you can't. Because the reality is that you can't walk away from your own self no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want to do so.click to expand



Posted by ImpulsvThat last paragraph is my story. The heartbreak was no joke. We're good now. I hope we'll always be good. It's the beginning though. But I think I get it.
It's about an brief encounter with a man that scared her ( her own reasons) but I saw it as him opening the doors to so much potential n not necessarily Romatic.
She moves on n blames him for things that occur to her life. But throughout the years they meet n she is just afraid of the power she feels he has over her. She is haunted by this man at an old age until a realization in the end.
Yes we both did he returned twice only when I had lost all hope but in a sense I ran when I purpously pushed him so he could go since I feared going with the flow n investing more of my feelings would possible result in heart break.
Regardless heart break was the same if not worse.


Posted by Cg2016
I just finally got finished reading all 25 pages. You guys I love you all. You all are so pure. Idk that's how I feel in the end. I hope you all are doing well. With or without the twin. I hope you all grew in the best way. --much love

Posted by nakedgirlavalanche
twin flames is an excuse to stick by the wrong person for a long time, but to each their own

Posted by SpiceNSugarPosted by Cg2016
I just finally got finished reading all 25 pages. You guys I love you all. You all are so pure. Idk that's how I feel in the end. I hope you all are doing well. With or without the twin. I hope you all grew in the best way. --much love
I am much calmer now. I have spoken to my twin again a few times since my last post. I feel much stronger now. I have gotten to the point where I don't feel I need to be with him in order to know that he is never far away. It's empowering to have reached this point finally.
If this thread has helped people along the way then I'm really glad to have made it and hopefully, to have contributed to some healing out there.click to expand
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@SpiceNSugar10 I personally think that all depends on what YOU want to do. in my experience im and learning not to depend so much on other peoples input and honor my own movement primarily. What type of energy comes up when you are feeling like you want to contact them? Be discerning. Listen to that good intuition. You should contact him if you're coming from a place of "detachment" not connecting to any specific out come. AND especially if you're in good spirits. Whatever you decide though is ultimately up to you.. so I would suggest understanding why you want to contact them first at least. And just know whatever choice you make WILL be the right choice. And... i find when I'm thinking of someone a lot it's usually because they are thinking of me too! Use your inner guide.
@impulsv I remember back in october, i met someone and i was feeling torn. I felt tethered to my twin. but then i spoke to him (spiritually) and he said "go ahead." he then gave me the message that it was part of my growth. So maybe it is your imagination, but isn't imagination part of intuition? 😉
i found this post (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/metaphysical/my-journey-with-my-twin-flame-from-my-experience-4555172/) that was helpful as hellllll I wish this woman was online still, she's very insightful