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@dewiklaessen1991 you will know eventually one way or another.. your heart will dawn it on you.

@SpiceNSugar10 I personally think that all depends on what YOU want to do. in my experience im and learning not to depend so much on other peoples input and honor my own movement primarily. What type of energy comes up when you are feeling like you want to contact them? Be discerning. Listen to that good intuition. You should contact him if you're coming from a place of "detachment" not connecting to any specific out come. AND especially if you're in good spirits. Whatever you decide though is ultimately up to you.. so I would suggest understanding why you want to contact them first at least. And just know whatever choice you make WILL be the right choice. And... i find when I'm thinking of someone a lot it's usually because they are thinking of me too! Use your inner guide.

@impulsv I remember back in october, i met someone and i was feeling torn. I felt tethered to my twin. but then i spoke to him (spiritually) and he said "go ahead." he then gave me the message that it was part of my growth. So maybe it is your imagination, but isn't imagination part of intuition? 😉

i found this post (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/metaphysical/my-journey-with-my-twin-flame-from-my-experience-4555172/) that was helpful as hellllll I wish this woman was online still, she's very insightful
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Love is a funny thing
Isn't it amazing how we have no free will when it comes to twin flames?
Basically forced to love this person and once we met them our lives would never be the same and all of this was planned before we both were born.

I try with all my might to move on.
I even wonder if I have met my false twin recently and the urge to love and past life we have is intense as well however, it's not as soul piercing, it doesn't make me want to jump off a cliff in the name of love like with my TF, it's more calm and safe. But I worry...

My twin now we're apart at the moment, he comes in waves or seasons where for weeks /months i ll only think of him maybe once a day or a small thought then other times it becomes unbearable and all consuming it makes it hard for me to focus on my life it's that bad. All day long for the past two weeks he's there in my mind in my dreams, I keep meeting people who either look like him or have the same name, I run into his co-workers it's just overwhelming...

I'm afraid if we don't end up together and I marry and have a family with the other guy I will always be forced to endure these periods where I feel him so powerful it's difficult to know where my thoughts/emotions are mines or his.

I would call it cursed, but its a blessed Union. The glue that forever bonds two people together no matter what is something most people would only dream to have.. He pisses me off but I can't never hate him. I love him more than anything in the world and it scares the hell out me.

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Love is a funny thing
Isn't it amazing how we have no free will when it comes to twin flames?
Basically forced to love this person and once we met them our lives would never be the same and all of this was planned before we both were born.

I try with all my might to move on.
I even wonder if I have met my false twin recently and the urge to love and past life we have is intense as well however, it's not as soul piercing, it doesn't make me want to jump off a cliff in the name of love like with my TF, it's more calm and safe. But I worry...

My twin now we're apart at the moment, he comes in waves or seasons where for weeks /months i ll only think of him maybe once a day or a small thought then other times it becomes unbearable and all consuming it makes it hard for me to focus on my life it's that bad. All day long for the past two weeks he's there in my mind in my dreams, I keep meeting people who either look like him or have the same name, I run into his co-workers it's just overwhelming...

I'm afraid if we don't end up together and I marry and have a family with the other guy I will always be forced to endure these periods where I feel him so powerful it's difficult to know where my thoughts/emotions are mines or his.

I would call it cursed, but its a blessed Union. The glue that forever bonds two people together no matter what is something most people would only dream to have.. He pisses me off but I can't never hate him. I love him more than anything in the world and it scares the hell out me.
Well my twin who has six Capricorn placements turned out to be an unevolved @sshole. Last time I saw him we were hanging out in an arcade and there he was rolling a joint, asking me to make sure no one could see. Basically he does all the things I've held myself from doing. Drugs, binge drinking, hook ups, narcissism. He brought out my jealousy and all the things about myself I needed to let go to become a better person. And despite all this, I'm a better woman since meeting him, but I'll marry him in the next lifetime once he grows up. I wish I never met him but feel truly grateful since he brought me to my current soulmate, and that's as all I need right now.
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I can agree with twins taking opposite sides of certain behaviors. It's kinda weird how someone can be so similar and because we're so similar we become like oppsites. One of us has to take on certain negative traits and the other will take the positive. Truly Yin/Yang. A perfect match if we're both spiritutally evolved and have patience to compromise in the areas of life we don't want to the most.

I don't want to repeat this next life, we already dealt with issues in th
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*in the past of a same general theme of fear and lack of trust and poor communication. And I figure we're still in our 20s and God willing I'm blessed enough to live go be 100 I can't imagine dealing with this kind of heartache for the next 80 years.

Even the guy I'm seeing is so wonderful i know deep down I can't love him like my twin and that hurts me to know im just not capable of it not that I would not like to.

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Your post cut off. 😛

His soul is unevolved for mine. It's like he doesn't remember his true self. Whatever.
I guess I'm holding onto some hope, it's all I can do. I fear his life and I feel inclined to save him but at the end if the day he's in charge of his destiny. I can't force him to be spiritual or enlightened. That sucks. Lol
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I will share my twin flame story.

I met my twin the night before a major event in my life. The moment I saw him, I thought. ‘Holy F!!!! What are you doing here? I am in over my head.’

We met each other three times.

His parents are from the same town my mom is from overseas. He moved to this small town when he was 13. I moved to this town when I was 15. He hung out at my hang out where it was just me and my friends. no one hung out there. but he did it two years prior. We were both in the same profession just different media for it. His mother moved to a different area which is where my parents were living. (Very small population.) He asked me out to a party and I remember him asking me out to a party at the spur of the moment back in our home town when we were in our teens, when he came into the shop that I worked at. I would be invited to that same party a year later through a series of weird coincidences when I found myself camping with his close circle of friends.

The stuff that happened was so weird you would never believe me. We live in one of the largest cities in Canada. Certain sentences he said burned into me at the time. The resonated in me deeply. I would have people sit down on the subway and say the exact same sentence to me and get off at the next stop. It was really random stuff that no one else in their right mind would say. Especially to a stranger on a train! Every Tuesday for YEARS something like this would happen. I would meet someone who knew him, shared his birthday, find out he was invited to something I went to but he didn’t – and vice versa). He had a rare physical attribute. I would run into someone with this attribute. Every Tuesday for YEARS. YEARS!!!

With one sentence – a question really – he was able to break me of a three-four year pattern.

He made me into more of a risk taker. I made him more responsible.

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He is the only person I have ever met who got me. It was terrifying. Once, I literally ran out of the house just to get away from him. And every time, I would think phew. Okay. That is over. I don’t need to see him again. I can go my whole life and I will be okay. Within a few days the feeling comes back. It is like a weird itch.

I always feared he thought I was stalking him because our lives cris crossed so much. I wasn’t. I was avoiding him at all cost. It was just life pushing.

The best way I can describe it is: It was like being alone in a room with yourself but with someone else there. All that stuff you don’t want to admit or acknowledge is just hanging out there raw. Like someone ease dropping on your inner talk. It was unlike anything I have ever encountered.

This January I saw him for the fourth time. 9 years to the day of when we last talked under similar circumstances to the night we met. We didn’t say anything. I almost literally walked right into him. He looked uncomfortable and I got the hell out of there. But I debated whether I should help him out right in that moment. I didn’t. I wanted to tell him everything that has happened. I wanted to be friendly and light. But I couldn't.

I know I will never ever break the silence. I will never reach out to him.

seeing him again was a good thing. Reconfirmed that he is just a man no matter how entwined our lives were. It confirmed that I am happy in my relationship -- which I knew but it sort of settled it for me. I cannot handle that guy. I just can't. It is too much for me.
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Posted by littlesparrow

He is the only person I have ever met who got me. It was terrifying. Once, I literally ran out of the house just to get away from him. And every time, I would think phew. Okay. That is over. I don’t need to see him again. I can go my whole life and I will be okay. Within a few days the feeling comes back. It is like a weird itch.

I always feared he thought I was stalking him because our lives cris crossed so much. I wasn’t. I was avoiding him at all cost. It was just life pushing.

The best way I can describe it is: It was like being alone in a room with yourself but with someone else there. All that stuff you don’t want to admit or acknowledge is just hanging out there raw. Like someone ease dropping on your inner talk. It was unlike anything I have ever encountered.

Exactly. How can something be so frightening yet exciting at the same time?
We can't run from it, the bond is everlasting and we are souls exposed without skin we see right through each other because we are one..

Do you ever feel not good enough for your twin?
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The day I got engaged to my now ex is when the dreams started of Let's say, a man named Robert Smith.
I would have clear dreams of this person frequently about a few times a week sometimes less. And the dreams would be like a soap opera of our lives together, dates then the days after that going with friends and such. The dreams happened in a order of events. It was weird I never had reoccurring dreams let alone one that was continuing the story.

So, me and my ex broke up. I was still having the dreams. When I moved to the city I'm in the dreams stopped. Mind you they've been going on for a year and a half then after an episode of crying and frustration because my ex had asked me to return to be his side chick, after I turned him down I prayed asking God why can't I meet this Smith guy from my dreams??

I met my twin like two nights after.

When we split, I plunged into the dark night of the soul died, came back a more spiritual, more into my dormant psychic abilities and more into enlightment. It wasn't until then that I even realized his name was none other than Robert Smith. Just like the dreams. Bday the same day as in my dream, same profession, same appearance, same darkness,flaws, weaknesses, strengths, tattoos in the same body areas, same eyes, mixed color of hair, same power same kind of loss, family background. Almost Everything lined up. Something's were near exact like if he had a brother who died it was a sister. Or if he lived in Indiana in the dream it was actually Illinois. But everything else .Freaky exact. And these dreams were way before I even knew he existed. I don't speak about it except here... The thought is just not something anyone would believe.

For whatever reason I found him, he left me, I reached out to him, he pushed me away, he reached out to me, I reached back to him, he pushed me away.... I feel him strongly lately. I communicate through telepathy, I send him my love. He answers sometimes. I think though it's our energy and our souls. Our shared thoughts...
He's coming back. I just know it. I pray that this time things will be as they should.

I can go on and on about him... I love him with everything I have.
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Your post cut off. 😛

His soul is unevolved for mine. It's like he doesn't remember his true self. Whatever.
I guess I'm holding onto some hope, it's all I can do. I fear his life and I feel inclined to save him but at the end if the day he's in charge of his destiny. I can't force him to be spiritual or enlightened. That sucks. Lol
Mine is completely self-centered. There were moments where he implied knowing and wanting to get closer, but his ego and worldly needs got in the way of a love that could have been for a lifetime. I was willing to learn his native language but now- pff.

As for yours, he'll evolve on his own. I know a twin flame meeting can damage the heart chakra, so try closing your eyes and placing your hand over your heart, and buy a rose quartz. Place it in the light of the full moon and wear it all the time. If anything, put a bay leaf under your pillow to attract a soulmate partner or a person who's at the same level you're at now. It sounds crazy but these things work. It's possible to love a soulmate while preparing for the twin flame relationship. Don't hold yourself back from someone who can give you what you need just for him. I'm giving this advice for the both of us. Every relationship is different. Sometimes people stay, sometimes people are just walking by to open the window you couldn't reach.
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what a story... these stories sound very similar to one another.. opening a window you couldn't reach ! 😢
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I agree that it's like opening a window that you couldn't reach before, but sometimes I wish that window had stayed closed.

Yes, I feel that I've grown and evolved immensely as a result of this experience, but a part of me still believes that "ignorance is bliss."

I also wish that window had stayed closed too ... I wanna love again. I wanna b able to move on n forget. I'm trying ... Indeed I'm trying
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I agree that it's like opening a window that you couldn't reach before, but sometimes I wish that window had stayed closed.

Yes, I feel that I've grown and evolved immensely as a result of this experience, but a part of me still believes that "ignorance is bliss."

I also wish that window had stayed closed too ... I wanna love again. I wanna b able to move on n forget. I'm trying ... Indeed I'm trying
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In due time.. You will.
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TF returned... no idea what he wants.. I honestly don't have any feelings for him anymore... I am happy with my guy.. who every thing has been blissful and harmonious for months and like never before in a relationship.. I know he's karmic but if he's not my TF he's gotta be the next best thing minus the drama...

Listening to other TF people sometimes like actual twins and readers they make it seem like you are supposed to go through the drama and the pain... karmic relationships are "easy" but not as fulfilling which I would disagree... idk some people make you feel guilty for not being with your twin and i dont think that's fair.. because not just one person should be doing work and having to suffer enough from being on the awakened end, I think it's safe to draw the line somewhere.

I couldn't be happier right now and the thought of my twin actually depresses me, it's not helping I see his name everywhere either
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I have given up on my twin flame. I'm with someone new now and I haven't been this happy in years.

Twin flames are nice but too intense. I'd rather settle down with a soul mate than a twin flame.

A more practical, easy, and relaxing union.

R.I.P to my twin flame dream.

Best of luck to you all.

And remember, your "twin flame" isn't everything.

I once thought that about mine, I thought I could never love anyone like him again,ever. And I probably won't, but where I went wrong is that I made him my world.

Don't ever put anyone else before yourself.

Always love yourself and be kind to yourself.

If he/she isn't making you feel good about yourself, then seek this elsewhere, you won't regret it.

I sure don't. 🙂
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Then he was not a true twin... Real twins are already in spiritual union... At least the top tier ones ... If you have met your true twin flame in this lifetime you will be together .. Period... So many think they are with their twin and couldn't be far from the truth ... Not twins at all... Only a karmic soulmate ... And once you release the karmic the soul mate manifest and that is what you are experiencing ... Many soulmates are finally coming together....
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And also true twins now are recognizing that the mission is not to be in physical union... The main goal between the two is to assist others ... Lifting other people's vibrations or to assist with this transition for all to 5 D... The romance is secondary between the twins at this point.... Because we know it never will go away... If you haven't reached this point ... There is no way your ready for physical union... Each twin are the example of unconditional love... No judgements ... If you are still complaining about what your twin is doing you are blocking the physical union from happening . (if you are a twin, which I doubt).. In fact most are not in twin flame connections ... Most are holding on to karmic... True twins have not walked away from the connection at all... It's impossible literally... And I do mean literally... And they have gone through but are very solid at this point ... Very... Another shift will happen again within the union of the twins... This is a promise ... All a part of God's plan ... And soul mates (romantic) ones are not going to be all roses.. Soul mates also reflect things you need to heal within yourself .... And many will meet their soul mates now... Which is wonderful ... The romantic soul mates in your life will bring not only evolution as a person but also align you with soul mate friends and even opportunities ... Aligned with your purpose ... Which means anyone with a romantic soul mate and still have karmic friends ... Negative karma etc that needs to be removed it will be highlighted now ... And the soul mate connection will not work or be in harmony....
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But what I don't understand is if we don't have to physically be together, it shouldn't be wrong to be with someone else.

No matter what there is that annoying pull, the energy, the telepathy and what i presume to be our higher selves communicating to me. because of the pain I went through I have no desire to connect with the twin, on a spiritual level I do not mind, being together as our higher selves, but physically or romantically no.

During my past life regression I had seen bits elapsed over a couple of years with Twin in the most recent lifetime, I won't go into details.. but the gist of the karmic lessons and stuff I'm pretty sure has been covered, since the last conversation we had, there's no need for closure and it feels balanced. If it was karmic alone all unexplainable energy pulls would go away, we dealt our karma...

Or have we?

I sadly don't think this is over.

Back in August during the big shift that alot of twins were feeling,

My angels and higher self were knudging me not to give up on twin, and should I pursue my current relationship, there will be a time where it will be tested by my twin, and I will have to chose at the worst time, at least 2 years from now..

Either way I'm like, I don't see that, but if it does, idk what I'd do.

Skipping to the chase, last weekend I'm meditating very deeply when suddenly I get memories from my childhood I have long forgotten.

It even goes one step further, when I remember more scenes from the last life.. I was surprised and just let it flow though very cautious.. long story short, my current was my mother in last life, and in that life she came to my rescue after twin had abused me and hurt me( I met him after My twin in this life) she cared for me took me in again from my husband to keep me safe, hired lawyers and all to get me to divorce him, and on the court day I didn't go through with it, I embarrassed my mom, wasted her money, and chose to go back to the abuse instead of using my head. I broke her heart, I chose my twin over her.. and as we left the courthouse, my mom slapped me, I went chasing after twin who basically buttered me up just to save his reputation, I called him and he never turned to look at me all the way into the street where I tripped down half a flight of stairs broke my leg and he still kept walking away..

Ultimately my death later in that life was due to him, I almost died off the steps, but previously he tried to drown me and almost succeeded(as a child I was terrified of water)

The only reason I bring this up is because of the possible impending karmic situation we three may face in the future.. who will I choose?

I will choose my current, I love him and he's truly the best thing to ever happen to me one hell of a soul mate.

Twin, lives a dangerous life, one that could end up with me killed, not that he's abusive in this life but he has issues that I don't believe he can overcome and it wouldn't be safe for me to go that route with him. Giving karmicly, he died and so did I from his actions. We can be friends soulfully.

I'm still dedicated to my mission and my current supports all that I do, we are both earth angels as well which makes everything so much easier..

I don't believe union is purely on earth, loving, accepting, telepathy, forgiveness between higher selves is enough union for anyone.. that's what I believe.. we screw up in our earth bodies but our true souls are above the chaos, when we ascend we have done our part as twins. And no I don't believe I am first wave either but still I stand by my opinion. Union can happen in spirit not only physical and romantical.



The end,

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Couple of days ago, I got into a huge fight with the person who I believe is my TF. Haven't spoken to him since. Without going into details, I was pondering the argument today and realized something:

I was blaming him for something that he does. Yet, he does this out of deep-rooted insecurity.

Why was I blaming him for this? Because of my own deep-rooted insecurity.


Once again the TF mirror-image comes back to slap me in the face. With anyone else, I would've walked away LONG ago. However, with this person, I just can't get myself to do that try as I might. Hence, I think it really is impossible to cut-off a TF. You can cut contact yes, but you can't cut-off the lessons that they will teach you about yourself.

So many people mistake TF's with SoulMates, but it's really a whole different ballgame. With a SoulMate there's a strong bond of mutual understanding and relative tranquility. For the most part, you're both "on the same wavelength".

With a TF, the bond is even stronger but the push/pull, arguing/forgiving, and learning about the other and the self is literally exhausting. You want to walk away but you can't. Because the reality is that you can't walk away from your own self no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want to do so.
Have you resolve this matter and how did it work out? Do you believe in it?
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Couple of days ago, I got into a huge fight with the person who I believe is my TF. Haven't spoken to him since. Without going into details, I was pondering the argument today and realized something:

I was blaming him for something that he does. Yet, he does this out of deep-rooted insecurity.

Why was I blaming him for this? Because of my own deep-rooted insecurity.


Once again the TF mirror-image comes back to slap me in the face. With anyone else, I would've walked away LONG ago. However, with this person, I just can't get myself to do that try as I might. Hence, I think it really is impossible to cut-off a TF. You can cut contact yes, but you can't cut-off the lessons that they will teach you about yourself.

So many people mistake TF's with SoulMates, but it's really a whole different ballgame. With a SoulMate there's a strong bond of mutual understanding and relative tranquility. For the most part, you're both "on the same wavelength".

With a TF, the bond is even stronger but the push/pull, arguing/forgiving, and learning about the other and the self is literally exhausting. You want to walk away but you can't. Because the reality is that you can't walk away from your own self no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want to do so.
Have you resolve this matter and how did it work out? Do you believe in it?
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This relationship has been like no other I have ever known. I have grown a lot from it, but the lessons have been long and painful. I do believe that this is some sort of deep karmic relationship whether you want to call it Twin Flame or not. We have been in and out of contact but during the time that there is no contact, I miss his presence in my life terribly. Despite this, I have learned to keep moving forward.

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Twin Flame

-The first thing about a twin flame connection is that meeting them feels like you have met God. This is not just a metaphor or symbolic for how great you feel, this is an actual occurrence where you meet the creator of the universe and all life inside yourself. There is nothing more holy. This connection is completely spiritual and you become consumed and burned up with divine love. You will feel it not just physically but emotionally, mentally and religiously too. You will want to worship them as you see your perfect godself reflected back at you.

-You are in an initial state of bliss, you often cannot think or even move for hours on end each day, and this lasts for a long time, making you incapable of functioning and continuing life at a normal rate. You feel like you're in a bubble of incredible energy where time and the rest of the world doesn't exist. You spend most of your time spaced out on what feels like ecstasy, tons of chemicals are released in your body and you are flying on an incredibly intense high. It is literally like being drugged up and often consecutive sick days are needed to be taken from work.

-Whether you were spiritual or not before, suddenly you are and everything in the entire universe makes sense. There is perfect order and you realise and understand everything about life. It is like being given a key to the book of life and all the secrets pour into your mind. There is nothing hidden any longer, you are one with all life and you cry uncontrollably in wonder and joy at everything that has been revealed to you. You feel like destiny really does exist after all.

-After the bliss stage you go through such an incredible purging that you feel like you had taken a trip to heaven and then were plunged into hell. Again this is not symbolic or exaggerated, this is actually how it feels. You face everything inside yourself, all the old habits, baggage and negativity you didn't realise was still there. You are faced with your unconscious self and forced to feel it, deal with it, and release it. Nothing can remain shrouded or hidden in darkness.

-Your beloved twin flame is an exact mirror image and reflection of you. Although on the outside they may appear different in their appearance and habits, on the inside they match you perfectly. What you see in them and how you react to them is directly related and dependent upon what you see in yourself and how you react to and treat yourself. This will cause many synchronicities to happen as well as inadvertent telepathic and empathic communication as you work out and balance the connection between you both.

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Near Twin Flame

-Sometimes you will see people calling this a false twin flame, soul catalyst, or secondary twin flame. You often meet a near twin flame either before or after meeting your actual/primary twin flame. A near twin flame helps prepare you for meeting your primary twin flame. You will feel an immense divine love with them but it is often not as prolonged as it is with a twin flame. There will also be synchronicity and telepathy shared just like with your primary twin flame but it is not always as overwhelming or as frequent.

-When meeting your near twin flame after meeting your actual twin flame it is usually for the purpose of giving you a mirror in the event of a separation with your primary twin flame. They help you release your blockages in a more controlled and less intense way. This is the person you will likely settle down with if you never meet your primary twin flame again.

-They heavily feel like a large part of you or even your other half just like a primary twin flame does. This can and does cause problems especially when you meet them before meeting your actual twin flame. You go through a pre-purging though again nowhere near as intense as with your primary twin flame. You usually meet your actual twin flame during the separation period with your near twin flame.

-Overall they will be supportive like a soulmate but carry the energy of a twin flame. This means you may love each other unconditionally and want only the best for each other and tend to show that harmoniously on the outside, especially during the initial stages, but on the inside and as time goes on you will start to feel the intense push and pull inside yourself. If you meet them after meeting your primary twin flame then things will be much calmer and more peaceful.

-The main difference between a near twin flame and a primary twin flame is that with a near twin flame you will go through the stages more smoothly and be able to handle it better and more consciously, whilst a primary twin flame will tend to drag you about all over the place with no chance to catch your breath and you will act mostly on unconscious instinct.
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Spot on... My actual false twin flame was my best friend ... And it wasn't romantic ... I just wasn't into relationships at the time... I just hung around my best friend a lot... I did notice that when I would say something about my actual twin she would get beyond angry and I do mean angry .... And I noticed something in her that just didn't sit right at all... We were friends for over 15 something years... My twin... His false looked a lot like myself even modeled and ran track like me .... Long story short she hated my guts ... I'm very intuitive ... However . I let the relationship play out... With him and her until last year I just flat out told him how much I loved him... Me and him connected spiritually... I actually honored their relationship ... And honored myself by telling him the truth for once at the time...Fast forward a couple of months me he left her and me and him increased our telepathy... I left so many things... That made me unhappy ... Like my job etc... I started studying more metaphysical things... Psychic abilities completely came back.... I also grew as a person tremendously .... Just a snap of my story and yes... Me and my twin are still together ... Gets annoying sometimes though .... He is with me everywhere literally smh ... We literally can feel each other ... Especially in our heart ... It aches a lot when we have that tug of war thing... He literally can feel when I'm sick... Same when he is sick... He even feels my cramps ... We heal each other all the time.... He doesn't take pills I do... So when he has a cold I can take the medicine and it heals... Sounds weird but very true ... Intense connection and most will not be able to handle it
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Posted by Impulsv
It's about an brief encounter with a man that scared her ( her own reasons) but I saw it as him opening the doors to so much potential n not necessarily Romatic.
She moves on n blames him for things that occur to her life. But throughout the years they meet n she is just afraid of the power she feels he has over her. She is haunted by this man at an old age until a realization in the end.

Yes we both did he returned twice only when I had lost all hope but in a sense I ran when I purpously pushed him so he could go since I feared going with the flow n investing more of my feelings would possible result in heart break.
Regardless heart break was the same if not worse.
That last paragraph is my story. The heartbreak was no joke. We're good now. I hope we'll always be good. It's the beginning though. But I think I get it.
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I just finally got finished reading all 25 pages. You guys I love you all. You all are so pure. Idk that's how I feel in the end. I hope you all are doing well. With or without the twin. I hope you all grew in the best way. --much love


I am much calmer now. I have spoken to my twin again a few times since my last post. I feel much stronger now. I have gotten to the point where I don't feel I need to be with him in order to know that he is never far away. It's empowering to have reached this point finally.

If this thread has helped people along the way then I'm really glad to have made it and hopefully, to have contributed to some healing out there.
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Posted by Cg2016

I just finally got finished reading all 25 pages. You guys I love you all. You all are so pure. Idk that's how I feel in the end. I hope you all are doing well. With or without the twin. I hope you all grew in the best way. --much love


I am much calmer now. I have spoken to my twin again a few times since my last post. I feel much stronger now. I have gotten to the point where I don't feel I need to be with him in order to know that he is never far away. It's empowering to have reached this point finally.

If this thread has helped people along the way then I'm really glad to have made it and hopefully, to have contributed to some healing out there.
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Awww I’m glad you’ve come so far! And I’m happy it’s going well. Reading this thread helped me gain more insight about the journey. I’m still with my twin, not officially because he’s a little resistant but we are romantically involved and he knows this is a divine partnership. And that’s all good for me.

Thank you for this thread and keep the faith!