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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
What kind of sexual attraction do you feel towards your tf.... ours is unbearable. Never experienced this before in my life. Even after my first boyfriend and I broke up, we were able to hang and not sleep with each other. But my tf and I, we can never hang and not have sex. It's literally wicked. Something on another level. It's uncontrollable. Even when we disagree or argue, we HAVE to have sex. It's like we don't have a choice. It's magnetic.

Posted by ImpulsvPosted by mysteriousTaurusHaha yup we know n see ur dark secrets . It's an inner knowing
Came to this crazy realization why my tf doesn't trust me atm, it's because I was trying to hook up with his friend. His friend didn't tell him. But he just knew, even while he's far away at school. He just had a feeling he couldn't trust me. Because the tf connection is so strong, it's like intuition or gut feeling. I was doing bad things behind his back and just knew without confirmation. That's scary. I can't hide anything from him. The only way for him to trust me is for me to be trust worthy but behind his back, most importantly. I' need to be more careful. Wow, I'm blown away. Everything just came back in my face. I thought I could get away with it, YEAH RIGHT
No matter how careful
U think u areclick to expand


Posted by mysteriousTaurusIt's extremely intense and like nothing you've ever known before.
What kind of sexual attraction do you feel towards your tf.... ours is unbearable. Never experienced this before in my life. Even after my first boyfriend and I broke up, we were able to hang and not sleep with each other. But my tf and I, we can never hang and not have sex. It's literally wicked. Something on another level. It's uncontrollable. Even when we disagree or argue, we HAVE to have sex. It's like we don't have a choice. It's magnetic.

Posted by scorpx3Because I was drunk and I'm attracted to his friend very much. His friend was all for it too, I'm pretty sure we could've kept it a secret but I was to drunk to drive to him. I don't like his friend, it's just sex. Nothing serious. No feelings for his friend.Posted by mysteriousTaurusWhy would you try to hook up with your tf's friend, if you believe your tf is really your tf?
Came to this crazy realization why my tf doesn't trust me atm, it's because I was trying to hook up with his friend. His friend didn't tell him. But he just knew, even while he's far away at school. He just had a feeling he couldn't trust me. Because the tf connection is so strong, it's like intuition or gut feeling. I was doing bad things behind his back and just knew without confirmation. That's scary. I can't hide anything from him. The only way for him to trust me is for me to be trust worthy but behind his back, most importantly. I' need to be more careful. Wow, I'm blown away. Everything just came back in my face. I thought I could get away with it, YEAH RIGHTclick to expand

Posted by scorpx3It really is just sexPosted by mysteriousTaurus"it's just sex. Nothing serious." ...lol. Okay.Posted by scorpx3Because I was drunk and I'm attracted to his friend very much. His friend was all for it too, I'm pretty sure we could've kept it a secret but I was to drunk to drive to him. I don't like his friend, it's just sex. Nothing serious. No feelings for his friend.Posted by mysteriousTaurusWhy would you try to hook up with your tf's friend, if you believe your tf is really your tf?
Came to this crazy realization why my tf doesn't trust me atm, it's because I was trying to hook up with his friend. His friend didn't tell him. But he just knew, even while he's far away at school. He just had a feeling he couldn't trust me. Because the tf connection is so strong, it's like intuition or gut feeling. I was doing bad things behind his back and just knew without confirmation. That's scary. I can't hide anything from him. The only way for him to trust me is for me to be trust worthy but behind his back, most importantly. I' need to be more careful. Wow, I'm blown away. Everything just came back in my face. I thought I could get away with it, YEAH RIGHTclick to expand



Posted by Paleriothis really helped me -- thank you --- can I private message you ?
I always thought no one was chasing, I guess, in different ways, we're both running away from ourselves.
The "chaser" runs from himself thinking the other person can fill that void, while he is instead supposed to be the one who needs to step up first. The "runner" runs from connection, he refuses to accept the strong bond as he doesn't realize the link is due to seeing his own image reflected through the other person. In the end they're both running from themselves, although the dynamics are very different.
Personally I wouldn't say the chaser is "more enlightened", they both recognize the bond, but yes, I would say is definitely more aware of how powerful it is, because it comes from within his bones, he's directly escaping from himself, which is much more painful than escaping from a mirrored image not coming from you directly. Imagine trying to escape from your body? I’ll talk about it later. The chaser thinks "the connection is there and I can't cut the invisible strings, also I kind of dig it" hence at some point he surrenders and decides to, voluntarily, embrace pain finding beauty in the act of suffering, which is extremely noble, but as grandiose as his gesture can be, at the end of the day, he still remains a masochist “idiot”. The runner, on the other end, thinks “this can’t be true, am I really connected? How can I be so in tune with someone I don’t necessarily want to be with? I’m scared, I better ruuuun!”. This toxic cycle it’s hard to break because the more you chase the more the counterpart runs, you never catch him and that is what spawns frustration and anger, pure anger. Then when you stop chasing the roles are usually switched, and they keep inverting once, more and again, until you strike the perfect balance.
Posted by AaliaHit me up!Posted by Paleriothis really helped me -- thank you --- can I private message you ?
I always thought no one was chasing, I guess, in different ways, we're both running away from ourselves.
The "chaser" runs from himself thinking the other person can fill that void, while he is instead supposed to be the one who needs to step up first. The "runner" runs from connection, he refuses to accept the strong bond as he doesn't realize the link is due to seeing his own image reflected through the other person. In the end they're both running from themselves, although the dynamics are very different.
Personally I wouldn't say the chaser is "more enlightened", they both recognize the bond, but yes, I would say is definitely more aware of how powerful it is, because it comes from within his bones, he's directly escaping from himself, which is much more painful than escaping from a mirrored image not coming from you directly. Imagine trying to escape from your body? I’ll talk about it later. The chaser thinks "the connection is there and I can't cut the invisible strings, also I kind of dig it" hence at some point he surrenders and decides to, voluntarily, embrace pain finding beauty in the act of suffering, which is extremely noble, but as grandiose as his gesture can be, at the end of the day, he still remains a masochist “idiot”. The runner, on the other end, thinks “this can’t be true, am I really connected? How can I be so in tune with someone I don’t necessarily want to be with? I’m scared, I better ruuuun!”. This toxic cycle it’s hard to break because the more you chase the more the counterpart runs, you never catch him and that is what spawns frustration and anger, pure anger. Then when you stop chasing the roles are usually switched, and they keep inverting once, more and again, until you strike the perfect balance.click to expand

Posted by SpiceNSugar
I've received nothing but the silent treatment for 2 years. I stopped trying a year ago. It's really hard and it hurts a lot to think that someone who means so much to you can't even bring themselves to respond to your attempts at communication.

Posted by saweetz1988Yes, mine said the same things... "I'm addicted to you", "I'll always be there for you", even several times "I love you". Yet, in the end, I was the one who kept my part of the love "bargain".Posted by SpiceNSugar
I've received nothing but the silent treatment for 2 years. I stopped trying a year ago. It's really hard and it hurts a lot to think that someone who means so much to you can't even bring themselves to respond to your attempts at communication.
Spice sugar.... 😢 I'm on that boat now, it's only been 1 week and it's so difficult... someone who says they r addicted to u can cut u off their life just like that... Bless you for doing it for 2 years.....it must have been extremely difficult . I honestly don't know how to bring him back.... I try to love more and send him more love but right now, anything is pushing him away.... do you attempt to get involved with someone else— I'm so scared if I do that it will kill me more.... I'm stuck really ..click to expand


Posted by SpiceNSugarPosted by saweetz1988Yes, mine said the same things... "I'm addicted to you", "I'll always be there for you", even several times "I love you". Yet, in the end, I was the one who kept my part of the love "bargain".Posted by SpiceNSugar
I've received nothing but the silent treatment for 2 years. I stopped trying a year ago. It's really hard and it hurts a lot to think that someone who means so much to you can't even bring themselves to respond to your attempts at communication.
Spice sugar.... 😢 I'm on that boat now, it's only been 1 week and it's so difficult... someone who says they r addicted to u can cut u off their life just like that... Bless you for doing it for 2 years.....it must have been extremely difficult . I honestly don't know how to bring him back.... I try to love more and send him more love but right now, anything is pushing him away.... do you attempt to get involved with someone else— I'm so scared if I do that it will kill me more.... I'm stuck really ..
You don't move on to someone new, you move on to healing yourself, and to strengthening your soul.click to expand

Posted by Palerio
I believe in most cases twin-flames relationships don't end up well, otherwise there wouldn't be a lesson to be learnt.
It freaking sucks and the absolute worst feeling is when you know that your other half is going to marry someone else because of you, because you cleared her karma. How cruel is that?
The possessiveness is real and needs to be pushed away, that's the lesson, but it's normal for you to feel entitled to have control over you other half, I mean it's you. How can you not have command over yourself? It isn't a nice feeling when you don't know where you're going...
The only way to escape that feeling is to lose yourself and start trusting other people more although it usually means confronting your demons intimately and first.
Still the thought of her being happy in the long term with someone else, because of you, it's really bothersome and will probably accompany you the rest of your life.

Posted by Libralula
Not one TF encounter will be the same and it doesn't always have to be painful forever, the pain is needed but how we handle that pain is what's important.
We're together but our lives are not perfect, yet we can work through it better almost. Where I'm weak he's strong and vice versa so we are the strength we need to move forward. And that makes such a difference to us but for people on the outside looking in, they wouldn't understand. We're not saints or perfect people, and we don't have to be.
Posted by PalerioOmg Palerio I can't wait for the stories 😄
I'm meeting mine tomorrow after 2 months.
Can't wait 🙂
Posted by LibralulaThanks so much for your kind words. I just found myself wondering again today if I was crazy but reading this helped. Like someone asked up top how long was your separation did he lost how he found out?
Not one TF encounter will be the same and it doesn't always have to be painful forever, the pain is needed but how we handle that pain is what's important.
We're together but our lives are not perfect, yet we can work through it better almost. Where I'm weak he's strong and vice versa so we are the strength we need to move forward. And that makes such a difference to us but for people on the outside looking in, they wouldn't understand. We're not saints or perfect people, and we don't have to be.


Posted by LibralulaWhat's his sign..
Not one TF encounter will be the same and it doesn't always have to be painful forever, the pain is needed but how we handle that pain is what's important.
We're together but our lives are not perfect, yet we can work through it better almost. Where I'm weak he's strong and vice versa so we are the strength we need to move forward. And that makes such a difference to us but for people on the outside looking in, they wouldn't understand. We're not saints or perfect people, and we don't have to be.

Posted by iPootMagicYou can run but you can't hide. Apparently, you can never truly sever the tie. You can only learn to heal through it.
Is there a way to "severe" the tie? I know that basically your TF is "you" in a way...but is there anyway to "turn it off" I guess?

Posted by Libralulathis article was a little difficult for me to understand.
Same as me
This is a really amazing article btw
http://soulmateassistance.blogspot.com/2010/09/attention-soul-mates-twin-flames-you.html?m=1


Posted by Impulsvimpulsv, you would like this, i know how much you like the tf stuff, as do I 🙂
Probably an integral block like mine. I read after avoiding it for Dayan still
I rushed it.

Posted by Libralulalet me read it over again and i'll let you know what i don't understand.
It was pretty straightforward.
What part did you find confusing? I can help clarify a bit for you if you'd like.
🙂


Posted by MahoganyLeoI will just say we're going to Copenaghen together.Posted by PalerioOmg Palerio I can't wait for the stories 😄
I'm meeting mine tomorrow after 2 months.
Can't wait 🙂click to expand


Posted by ImpulsvI've asked myself ALL the questions at the end of that article....and then some!
https://theimportant1111blog.wordpress.com/tag/i-hate-my-twin-soul/

Posted by SpiceNSugarOne of the questions I ask myself and will probably never have an answer to is if he felt the same connection that I did? do? Or was it just a figment of my imagination? Since we never had a romantic relationship, I wonder if it was all in my head.Posted by ImpulsvI've asked myself ALL the questions at the end of that article....and then some!
https://theimportant1111blog.wordpress.com/tag/i-hate-my-twin-soul/click to expand

Posted by sultrykittyOh yeah! That too!Posted by SpiceNSugarOne of the questions I ask myself and will probably never have an answer to is if he felt the same connection that I did? do? Or was it just a figment of my imagination? Since we never had a romantic relationship, I wonder if it was all in my head.Posted by ImpulsvI've asked myself ALL the questions at the end of that article....and then some!
https://theimportant1111blog.wordpress.com/tag/i-hate-my-twin-soul/click to expand

The user who posted this message has hidden it.what I found to be interesting and true in this article you posted, was that 'we feed off of each other when we are around each other'

Posted by Impulsvi liked this one!! find more 😉
https://theimportant1111blog.wordpress.com/tag/i-hate-my-twin-soul/


Posted by Impulsvim confused, can you explain? what do you mean by her? what do you mean by hypno regression, how did you do that exactly? and whos her? i thought you were straight
Nope ive never treated anyone koke thos in presemt time but i know in my past life I did. I did a hypno regression n I saw it myself
I treated him bad because as a monk I could not love her so I'd try to push her away

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