Twin flame stuff....

So, I have no idea if I believe in this. However, I do know it isn't supposed to be this romantic fairy tale- that its actually about facing all your BS for ascending.

Ive read that there will be many signs of synchronicity leading to this meeting. That typically there will be something unique related to birthdays, dates, etc... That this person will appear out of nowhere.

Let me tell you some crazy shit.... I'm gonna break it down as simply as possible cause I hate reading 6 paragraphs on here....

1. I randomly get a DM on IG last year after doing lots of energy work to clear blockages dealing with relationships. I typically never even reply to any, yet its a local artist he says "he was drawn to me".... I decide to meet him for a drink. His energy is intense, we dont meet again for like 9 months.

2. Leading up to this meeting I see 222 EVERYWHERE... my coworker starts talking about it randomly, too. We research it. This number has been following me like crazy. I then ask for his birthtime to do a chart he was born at 2:22. Him and his 2 brothers were all born at 2:22... NOT SHITTING YOU.

3. He asks me my birthday I tell him Oct 4th. It just so happens to be his mothers bday AND HIS GRANDMOTHERS!!!!!

4. He tells me that his family has some metaphysical phenomena in the family. That his mother was visited when she was a child and told that she'd have 3 sons, they'd all be born at 2:22 and they'd be visited at some point.

5. He tells me about these visits he would receive when he was in grad school. That an alien type figure would aggressively shake his bed and occasionally pull him out of his bed onto the floor. When he finally confronted this entity he asked "Why me?".... the figure said "But, I am you".... then left him alone. His artwork is predominately based on space and symbolism.

6. After him telling me this story on our second date, I go home and get in bed. I have the light on and I'm reading. All of the sudden my bed starts shaking, hard! I immediately look over at my side table that is filled with my crystal's, stone etc...Nothing is moving, just my bed. I say out loud "What the fuck?" as to question if im hallucinating, the shaking stops for two seconds, then as a confirmation does two final hard shakes as to confirm "this is real". I saw nothing. I wasnt scared. I immediately turned my light off and went to sleep. It was almost like I knew that was supposed to happen... i cant explain it. Even writing this is doesnt seem real. I promise you it was real.

This has been a very turbulent, yet peaceful experience. We have been on/off. Things I thought were healed have resurfaced. This person literally shows me unconditional acceptance that ive never seen. I have showed OUT on a few occasions. There is a strong mirroring situation. He is extremely spiritually awake.

I dont know if twin flames are real...idk WTF is going on.... just crazy synchronicity...perhaps coincidental?

Does anyone here have a Twin Flame story?!?!?! I want to hear them. Any insight into this phenomena?

Posted by tiziani

well for me this is one of those topics (like telepathy the other day) where I feel it's strange for people to come down with a hammer on it either way.

It's hard to prove or disprove because it's just one of those things that's far out there.

All I take from it is the stuff about how spirits come to this dimension in groups, and then descend to Earth as two souls, then ascend again to the same group of spirits before they all sail into the next dimension.

And seriously that concept along has done wonders for my artwork lol

so there's my 2 cents. Ride the wave as far as you want it to take you.

It's just so crazy! Even typing this out im like "You sound full of shit"....haha!!!!

Posted by Silverado

Hopefully your experience is better than mine was. I will say however, that my transformation has been wonderful but it took a lot of pain. As for my twin, that remains to be seen still...

I would not wish this on my worst enemy, it literally takes you through the entire roller coaster of emotions, sometimes in one week, lol!

If you think you are in one, good luck - you'll definitely need it!

It's very very triggering. On almost every level. Did you have any strange 'signs' that confirmed your situation?

wow, your experience is bizarre to say the least - my ex male Libra friend was born on 10/4 and so was his second wife but I see no other coincidence there

so we come in groups ? that sounds plausible - I recall early readings that said you will encounter people along your life path that are supposed to be there - Libra and Gemini have come into my life several times and Pisces was always there sloshing through the mud like the catfish they were

interesting stuff for sure - keep us posted on your ascension lol

twin flame experiences are just that - and we can grow by them but it also requires that we take a step back and regroup before we can move forward . they are intriguing; however, this visit the mother had and the alien thing shaking the bed is a pretty wild ride

I have dreamt of my involvement with aliens many times in the last 20 years - nothing before that - I know one other person who also has dreams of aliens

but no visits ... yet

Hi, I'm new to DXP, but I'm currently with my TF. Holy shit, it's hard. It's the hardest thing I've ever encountered. We had/ have so many synchronicities starting when I was a little girl. My twin is 10 years older than me and nothing that I would've been interested in in the past. Good luck and best wishes!

I have a twin flame story. I think. He's the only one that I've had experiences like this with. This is long cause it spans for over 15 yrs. Sorry.

We met when I was 22ish. I honestly cant remember because I'm about to turn 40 this year so it has been a long ass time. Lol

When I met him(hes a Libra) I felt like I knew him forever. Slept with him the first night and back then I never did that. He was probably the 3rd person I ever slept with. Sex at first wasnt that great to be honest. So I kind of didnt take him seriously at first and I didnt think he felt the same. So I kind of ghosted for a while.

Then we started talking again and sex was a little better. It started turning into this fwb thing where I would go to his place. He'd order pizza and we would play Tekken or watch a movie and then go have sex. I never slept over. So again.. didnt think he took me serious but I was falling for him. I was so shy back then and my first real boyfriend had just broke my heart before we met. Plus, I met some of his friends once when they came over one night while hanging out and he never took me out on dates.

Anyway we were off and on. Before I got married we got back together and had an intense affair. But I got sick and he couldnt handle it I guess. Anyway after that I got married and then a year after I got married he contacted me again. And I met him, told him I was married b4 we did anything but he didnt care. So yeah that happend. During that time we talked and turns out he always thought I didnt want him as a boyfriend. But he said now I'm married and it's to late. But we kept in touch. I fell for someone else after that and separated from my husband. He is now with someone else and I think they are engaged but he hasn't admitted to it(I saw her Facebook page with a ring on her finger). I am in one of my no contact phases with him now cause he still hasn't brought me into his life, his gf doesnt know about me and one day I was at his job buying something from him. I asked for a hug (completly platonic) and he hesitated. He tells me later that a friend of his gf was there. So that hurt. Honestly at this point I am 100% happy with just being friends but he doesn't seem to want that.

So things that have happend with us...telepathically there have been times where I have has this really annoying nagging voice in my head.. it was him saying my name over and over like a kid trying to get their parents attention. After hours of annoyance I would finally text him and tell him about it and he would tell me that it was very weird cause he had just been thinking about me.

Our birthdays match up(he was the one who pointed it out) mine is 8/9 and his is 10/11. He is 3 years older than I am.

We have very similar personalities and likes/interest. I have called him the male version of me sometimes.

He was born in Barbados but moved to Brooklyn, Ny. I was born in Brooklyn, NY. Then both our families moved to Florida to practically the same city and we have both lived here since.

That's about it. Sorry it was long.

Posted by mudra_

I never doubted the twin flame thing but also never put a lot of thought behind it.

When my ex and I met, we had nothing but 2s everywhere. All throughout our engagement even up until the day we got married. Train 2, bus 2, boat name "Good Times II", $ 22.22, 2:22, ticket number 537222222. Even the day after he left back to the UK, my parents took me to the casino and I won $ 220.22 off $ 2. All the feelings behind it, how it all panned out. It really makes me think more about this as they say twin flame can really force you to learn some of the hardest lessons of your life and still have so much intense love. But I also believe we are fully supported by higher energy outside of ourselves that deliver signs and synchronicities.

I believe we have soul groups for sure. Karmic situations.

Yea, what you're experiencing is pretty wild. Settle your nerves and rest in grattitude about it. Appreciate the magic.

is there written significance of the 2s and TFs - seems like both of you had 2s in the picture

Posted by Impulsv

Too long I’d i wrote everything that has happened

Too many syncs , telepathy and metaphysical.

Its so interesting!!! Are you in physical contact?

my twin flame ramblings…

I've read a lot of the material - watched vids on some of the channels run by couples who've worked it out, explaining everything they went through, how amazing it is, but also how difficult and painful it was to get there, etc. At a minimum, its interesting at the level of human experience and as social phenomena.

I can't say I'm a believer in the grand metaphysical story they are telling. A lot of it seems arbitrary and excessive (there being just two, attempts to trace the concept back to antiquity, belief that the reunion raises the overall consciousness of humanity, etc.), some people seem to clearly be hijacking it to justify one-sided or even neglectful/abusive relationships, and for some it just seems like egomania of cosmic proportions. BUT, I do think its a great story, very romantic, etc. I’m all for entertaining placebo-like beliefs that are otherwise harmless to maximize experience, and I think belief shapes reality to a degree anyway.

Though I reject the overall narrative, I actually believe the experiences themselves, and much of the metaphysical phenomena around it are real. I’m sure I’ve had almost every twin flame symptom - the instant recognition, emotional connections that are so euphoric that you don't even question whether or not you're experiencing some sort of transcendence or merger, the dreams (big for me) - some of which seem like revelations, predictions, or even actual visitations with or *within* that person, the clusters of synchronicities you experience that constantly remind you of them, often in deeply symbolic and highly improbable ways, the push & pull, extreme highs and lows, buried fears & insecurities all surfacing, the extreme mirroring, and really just that bond that feels so strong its like their presence is constantly with you. I could tell stories that no one really ought to rationally believe unless they experienced them first-hand. The thing is – I’ve had many of these things happen more than once for me (maybe some of us are in triplets, etc.?), and in slightly different ways/contexts w/diff. people, and the stronger bonds are not anything that ever worked out (once bc I had a prior commitment). Plus the negative aspects to it were so strong that I’m relieved on many levels to not be in that kind of pairing.

I can look back on the experiences now, and stuff I wrote during that time, and it all sounds ridiculous, is really embarrassing, and often comical (never thought I’d be desperate enough to call psychics or visit websites that play music with sparkling angel gifs). Again, I would never expect anyone to believe any of it w/o experiencing it. When you’re in it, you feel you just *know* its real, and you remember that feeling forever. There are of course psychological categories for obsessive forms of love like Limerence or ROCD, and though the lists of symptoms does have strong overlap, I think when you go through something like this, at a minimum you’re much more open-minded around the paranormal, and perhaps more spiritual categories of love.

On other grounds (but also partly due to the experience), I have come to believe in multiple lives and what are commonly dubbed “soul groups” or “soul families” – basically souls that you have an affinity with through successive incarnations, that often shift roles for the purpose of learning (the movie Cloud Atlas sums it up almost perfectly for me), so the kind of magnetism, strong familiarity you feel, the karmic lessons, and even the synchs can be explained on that paradigm. Ultimately I now believe in something like what new agers commonly call “The Source”, which is basically a sort of higher “frequency”, “dimension”, or whatever metaphorical category you want to use – where all consciousness is a Unity of sorts, a state we ultimately came from and return to, but we’re temporarily separated from for purposes of varied experience/growth/expansion. I’ve found that most of the major religions have at least some mystical branch that believes this in part, and tries to acclimate to it, or approach it in some way. So in that sense, I sort of believe everyone is your Twin Flame. OTOH, maybe that’s just my Venus in Gemini trying to turn heaven into the ultimate celestial orgy. I have no idea….

Really though, the whole experience for me just shifted my beliefs entirely – breaking me out of a lot of the constraints of my formerly overly conservative/narrow-minded religious beliefs, opening me up more to astrology, aspects of eastern religion, the paranormal, the subconscious, and the power of intention overall. I think that’s the real benefit for me. I prefer a more enchanted world. Since then, I’ve had so many more experiences that further bolster that sort of worldview, but I think something really has to catalyze that openness which then makes the experiences more common. There’s a danger in the Twin Flame story though, like if you can’t be with that one person (very common), and you think it’s the only person you can ever love, or that this kind of love is the only form of romantic love worth having.

Posted by Metatron

my twin flame ramblings…

I've read a lot of the material - watched vids on some of the channels run by couples who've worked it out, explaining everything they went through, how amazing it is, but also how difficult and painful it was to get there, etc. At a minimum, its interesting at the level of human experience and as social phenomena.

I can't say I'm a believer in the grand metaphysical story they are telling. A lot of it seems arbitrary and excessive (there being just two, attempts to trace the concept back to antiquity, belief that the reunion raises the overall consciousness of humanity, etc.), some people seem to clearly be hijacking it to justify one-sided or even neglectful/abusive relationships, and for some it just seems like egomania of cosmic proportions. BUT, I do think its a great story, very romantic, etc. I’m all for entertaining placebo-like beliefs that are otherwise harmless to maximize experience, and I think belief shapes reality to a degree anyway.

Though I reject the overall narrative, I actually believe the experiences themselves, and much of the metaphysical phenomena around it are real. I’m sure I’ve had almost every twin flame symptom - the instant recognition, emotional connections that are so euphoric that you don't even question whether or not you're experiencing some sort of transcendence or merger, the dreams (big for me) - some of which seem like revelations, predictions, or even actual visitations with or *within* that person, the clusters of synchronicities you experience that constantly remind you of them, often in deeply symbolic and highly improbable ways, the push & pull, extreme highs and lows, buried fears & insecurities all surfacing, the extreme mirroring, and really just that bond that feels so strong its like their presence is constantly with you. I could tell stories that no one really ought to rationally believe unless they experienced them first-hand. The thing is – I’ve had many of these things happen more than once for me (maybe some of us are in triplets, etc.?), and in slightly different ways/contexts w/diff. people, and the stronger bonds are not anything that ever worked out (once bc I had a prior commitment). Plus the negative aspects to it were so strong that I’m relieved on many levels to not be in that kind of pairing.

I can look back on the experiences now, and stuff I wrote during that time, and it all sounds ridiculous, is really embarrassing, and often comical (never thought I’d be desperate enough to call psychics or visit websites that play music with sparkling angel gifs). Again, I would never expect anyone to believe any of it w/o experiencing it. When you’re in it, you feel you just *know* its real, and you remember that feeling forever. There are of course psychological categories for obsessive forms of love like Limerence or ROCD, and though the lists of symptoms does have strong overlap, I think when you go through something like this, at a minimum you’re much more open-minded around the paranormal, and perhaps more spiritual categories of love.

On other grounds (but also partly due to the experience), I have come to believe in multiple lives and what are commonly dubbed “soul groups” or “soul families” – basically souls that you have an affinity with through successive incarnations, that often shift roles for the purpose of learning (the movie Cloud Atlas sums it up almost perfectly for me), so the kind of magnetism, strong familiarity you feel, the karmic lessons, and even the synchs can be explained on that paradigm. Ultimately I now believe in something like what new agers commonly call “The Source”, which is basically a sort of higher “frequency”, “dimension”, or whatever metaphorical category you want to use – where all consciousness is a Unity of sorts, a state we ultimately came from and return to, but we’re temporarily separated from for purposes of varied experience/growth/expansion. I’ve found that most of the major religions have at least some mystical branch that believes this in part, and tries to acclimate to it, or approach it in some way. So in that sense, I sort of believe everyone is your Twin Flame. OTOH, maybe that’s just my Venus in Gemini trying to turn heaven into the ultimate celestial orgy. I have no idea….

Really though, the whole experience for me just shifted my beliefs entirely – breaking me out of a lot of the constraints of my formerly overly conservative/narrow-minded religious beliefs, opening me up more to astrology, aspects of eastern religion, the paranormal, the subconscious, and the power of intention overall. I think that’s the real benefit for me. I prefer a more enchanted world. Since then, I’ve had so many more experiences that further bolster that sort of worldview, but I think something really has to catalyze that openness which then makes the experiences more common. There’s a danger in the Twin Flame story though, like if you can’t be with that one person (very common), and you think it’s the only person you can ever love, or that this kind of love is the only form of romantic love worth having.

I totally resonate with what you wrote. I am not sold on the Twin Flame thing either. Which is why I wanted to read others thoughts. The metaphysical experiences are just really crazy for me. I read Carl Jung book on synchronicity... and its also made me realize how hard it is for synchronicity on a mathematical level to happen! Its just all so interesting!

My bed has shaken sometimes and I've had astral sex with a bloke who lived thousands of miles away.......twin flame? No a pain in the arse...

Posted by MyStarsShine

My bed has shaken sometimes and I've had astral sex with a bloke who lived thousands of miles away.......twin flame? No a pain in the arse...

Hahahahaha!

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I never doubted the twin flame thing but also never put a lot of thought behind it.

When my ex and I met, we had nothing but 2s everywhere. All throughout our engagement even up until the day we got married. Train 2, bus 2, boat name "Good Times II", $ 22.22, 2:22, ticket number 537222222. Even the day after he left back to the UK, my parents took me to the casino and I won $ 220.22 off $ 2. All the feelings behind it, how it all panned out. It really makes me think more about this as they say twin flame can really force you to learn some of the hardest lessons of your life and still have so much intense love. But I also believe we are fully supported by higher energy outside of ourselves that deliver signs and synchronicities.

I believe we have soul groups for sure. Karmic situations.

Yea, what you're experiencing is pretty wild. Settle your nerves and rest in grattitude about it. Appreciate the magic.

is there written significance of the 2s and TFs - seems like both of you had 2s in the picture

That would be nice to know. I read that 2s in angel number signs are "everything is going to be ok no matter what, it's the right path"

I remember he gave me this morganite necklace I wore every single day and the night of our 2 year anniversary, it broke. It fell off my neck so randomly while we were on Skype. For some reason, I couldn't stop crying. He kept assuring me he could get me a new chain and not to worry. But there was something so out of the ordinary energetically about that moment. Like deep down I just knew something I didn't know then but see so clearly now. The way I cried about that necklace was pretty much how I cried when I found out he left. I've never been so upset even when losing diamond earrings lol. Wtf.

I still think about him and when I do, there will be a series of 2s or a HUGE sign with a single 2 on it. It's not just seeing the 2s and relating it to him. It's a burning feeling I get in my heart, he pops into my head and I look up and see 2s like running into a fkn brick wall.

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jfc that sounds painful - so sorry - I've never experienced this phenomenon and I find it interesting that many other people have so I have to give it some significance

Posted by heliumfiasco

I totally resonate with what you wrote. I am not sold on the Twin Flame thing either. Which is why I wanted to read others thoughts. The metaphysical experiences are just really crazy for me. I read Carl Jung book on synchronicity... and its also made me realize how hard it is for synchronicity on a mathematical level to happen! Its just all so interesting!

Synchronicity is one of my favorite concepts from one of my favorite thinkers, I see them all the time now and have had synchronicities that were literally about the concept of synchronicity lol; I also think it makes for one of the best explanations of astrology. It won't ever be accepted by the scientific community of course bc it entails that meaning is something intrinsic to the very fabric of existence, rather than just something people project onto it. I love his famous account of the scarab beetle coincidence during one of his therapy sessions and I find myself retelling that a lot. I've said on here before I think just studying/reading Jung is akin to a mystical experience lol. Its not surprising that he has such a cult following even among academics. His stuff is so stimulating, and ties into so many other areas I'm interested in, I find myself having to just put his books down after brief sessions, and pacing around a bit in a state of awe to just let some of the ideas sink in. The thought of being stranded on an island with nothing but the bare necessities and his collected works excites me. All 19 volumes from Princeton University Press can be downloaded in .pdf format for free from Library Genesis here:

http://library1.org/_ads/4B4EF4C3C9F169F269A5C9CA37200E57

Posted by blvckphvse

I have been receiving A LOT of signs lately in regard to a person from my past and it's been eating me alive. What is going on in the universe lately!!??

me too but not the ones I want lolol - is it retrograde ? not sure what it is

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Posted by blvckphvse

I have been receiving A LOT of signs lately in regard to a person from my past and it's been eating me alive. What is going on in the universe lately!!??

me too but not the ones I want lolol - is it retrograde ? not sure what it is

I don't know what it is either, but it seems like many people are being effected by it right now. I feel like I desperately need to get to the bottom of this, it's consuming me!! 😭

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I'm more in just observation mode and smiling with feigning interest - I'd rather just stay focused on what I need to get accomplished for me - as those other things come and go and go and come ... hoping the time passes quickly and the planets shift and all goes back to normal whatever that is lol

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Posted by blvckphvse

I have been receiving A LOT of signs lately in regard to a person from my past and it's been eating me alive. What is going on in the universe lately!!??

me too but not the ones I want lolol - is it retrograde ? not sure what it is

I don't know what it is either, but it seems like many people are being effected by it right now. I feel like I desperately need to get to the bottom of this, it's consuming me!! 😭

I'm more in just observation mode and smiling with feigning interest - I'd rather just stay focused on what I need to get accomplished for me - as those other things come and go and go and come ... hoping the time passes quickly and the planets shift and all goes back to normal whatever that is lol

That's a good mindset to have during times like this. I don't have an abundance of other things to focus on right now, so it's got me caught in my damn head -_-

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maybe try to capture some of that strange energy into creative art - like a beautiful flower with an arrow shot through it and it's bleeding

@Metatron

Thank you VERY much for the link to Jung's books!

the gemini was probably a twin flame, i cant count the tmes we've broken up and got back together. we met because we both did something (like going against our friend circe). we lied and hid our relationship until we couldnt do it anymore.

it seems that we met at the worst possible time because i was super depressed ( just started first year at university), i managed to lose all my friend from high school and the move was huge. i contemplated doing bad things like cutting, and i met him on my friends bday party.

my thoughts were filled by him almost everyday, he was sociable and liked by everyone. those times i would suck at replying and there were some sweet things he texted encouraging me and saying he would always be behind be pushing me forward we started dating, it just naturally happened..like i dont think he asked me out actually.

but we also had terrible moments where we would break up and at that after realize that we both didnt really want to, and asked ourselves the reason why, his friends even said he was depressed. super sad everytime we broke up and super happy when back together, it was like being on drugs majority of the time.

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Posted by heliumfiasco

I totally resonate with what you wrote. I am not sold on the Twin Flame thing either. Which is why I wanted to read others thoughts. The metaphysical experiences are just really crazy for me. I read Carl Jung book on synchronicity... and its also made me realize how hard it is for synchronicity on a mathematical level to happen! Its just all so interesting!

Synchronicity is one of my favorite concepts from one of my favorite thinkers, I see them all the time now and have had synchronicities that were literally about the concept of synchronicity lol; I also think it makes for one of the best explanations of astrology. It won't ever be accepted by the scientific community of course bc it entails that meaning is something intrinsic to the very fabric of existence, rather than just something people project onto it. I love his famous account of the scarab beetle coincidence during one of his therapy sessions and I find myself retelling that a lot. I've said on here before I think just studying/reading Jung is akin to a mystical experience lol. Its not surprising that he has such a cult following even among academics. His stuff is so stimulating, and ties into so many other areas I'm interested in, I find myself having to just put his books down after brief sessions, and pacing around a bit in a state of awe to just let some of the ideas sink in. The thought of being stranded on an island with nothing but the bare necessities and his collected works excites me. All 19 volumes from Princeton University Press can be downloaded in .pdf format for free from Library Genesis here:

http://library1.org/_ads/4B4EF4C3C9F169F269A5C9CA37200E57<div class="bqfade">click to expand

that link didn't work - can you send again please ?

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that link didn't work - can you send again please ?

Hmmm..works for me. Try:

https://libgen.is/book/index.php?md5=4B4EF4C3C9F169F269A5C9CA37200E57

At the bottom of that page you'll see the links to Gen.lib.rus.ec, Libgen.io, Z-Library, etc. One of them should allow you to dl. Try Gen.lib.rus.ec - and then click "GET" up top if that opens for you.

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@Metatron

Thank you VERY much for the link to Jung's books!

The link didn’t work for me

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I had to copy and paste it to make it work, so did you try that?