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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
lol I don't give a crap about Pick Up, it's worthless in my view. I am talkin from my experience and funny enough lots of men make the same experiences 😉

I actually do well with women but that doesn't mean I believe everything they say.

There is a pattern with women. See women who say I am not like that are probably in their 30s already, they have matured. But they probably used to be like that in the past. There is a saying that goes like this "men are idiots, women are liars" or "men want sex, women want it all. ^^ I believe in those sayings.
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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
Yeah, kind of like that one thread on DXP that had women telling men what a man feels when he ejaculates during sec....
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TheSag is laying down facts in this thread.
Lol but using celebrities to back up his views isn't realistic. Most of us won't have fame, fortune, and sex being thrown across our path. Be real.



You miss his point completely. Jackman's 'average' wife was his wife BEFORE he got famous. Read my comments here to understand my viewpoint on the average joe. Let me know if you have questions.
1. lol Let me remind you of something: it's women who have sky high standards so all I did was taking those "perfect" celebrity males with high status, money and looks to show you what a high valuable man is capable of doing once he gets access to money and fame. So what I was basicly saying was, that a high status male, even if he wasn't famous or a multi millionaire is unlikely to settle down for the average or even a high status woman at all cause women will always throw themselves at him. 😉

2. That's what we were saying, Jackman married her BEFORE he got famous.

And like I said there might be one Hugh Jackman but there are thousands of Charlie Sheens.



Even if there were ten thousand Charlie Sheens, it would represent approximately 0.00000400833% of the global male population aged 15yrs - 60yrs

Your data set isn't big enough to back up your premise.

What were you saying about TheSag, laying down the facts?



Total global population approx: 7.5 billion

Total global MALE population: 50.4% of 7.5 billion => 3.78 billion

Total global MALE population aged 15yrs - 60yrs: 66% of 3.78 billion => 2.4948 billion


*I chose 15-60 year age group as being sexually active, because you reckon it is related to male genetics, suggesting ALL males are sexually unfaithful and sexually promiscuous.

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LOL

Not only a white knight but also a nerd, huh?

Did you even get that we were talking about high status males and their opportunities? You would be the first one to fuck 3 girls at once if you could, so spare me your worthless numbers about male population. ^^

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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
lol I don't give a crap about Pick Up, it's worthless in my view. I am talkin from my experience and funny enough lots of men make the same experiences 😉

I actually do well with women but that doesn't mean I believe everything they say.

There is a pattern with women. See women who say I am not like that are probably in their 30s already, they have matured. But they probably used to be like that in the past. There is a saying that goes like this "men are idiots, women are liars" or "men want sex, women want it all. ^^ I believe in those sayings.
Translation: I don't believe what women say.

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That's what I already said.
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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
lol I don't give a crap about Pick Up, it's worthless in my view. I am talkin from my experience and funny enough lots of men make the same experiences 😉

I actually do well with women but that doesn't mean I believe everything they say.

There is a pattern with women. See women who say I am not like that are probably in their 30s already, they have matured. But they probably used to be like that in the past. There is a saying that goes like this "men are idiots, women are liars" or "men want sex, women want it all. ^^ I believe in those sayings.
Translation: I don't believe what women say.


That's what I already said.
I used to not believe what men said either. I started listening, and I like men more now. Maybe give it a try, man.
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I will 😉
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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
lol I don't give a crap about Pick Up, it's worthless in my view. I am talkin from my experience and funny enough lots of men make the same experiences 😉

I actually do well with women but that doesn't mean I believe everything they say.

There is a pattern with women. See women who say I am not like that are probably in their 30s already, they have matured. But they probably used to be like that in the past. There is a saying that goes like this "men are idiots, women are liars" or "men want sex, women want it all. ^^ I believe in those sayings.
Translation: I don't believe what women say.


That's what I already said.
Poor dude, you must be hurtin'. Be more optimistic, pessimists are too beta. Right, @Capz ?

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I am just being realistic.

People who don't live in a dream world, are getting by better.
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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
lol I don't give a crap about Pick Up, it's worthless in my view. I am talkin from my experience and funny enough lots of men make the same experiences 😉

I actually do well with women but that doesn't mean I believe everything they say.

There is a pattern with women. See women who say I am not like that are probably in their 30s already, they have matured. But they probably used to be like that in the past. There is a saying that goes like this "men are idiots, women are liars" or "men want sex, women want it all. ^^ I believe in those sayings.
Translation: I don't believe what women say.


That's what I already said.
I used to not believe what men said either. I started listening, and I like men more now. Maybe give it a try, man.
I will 😉
Obviously, you're gonna run into liars and people who don't know themselves from both genders, but I don't think that's gonna be a problem, because you already don't trust.
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I call it being realistic and cautious.
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TheSag is laying down facts in this thread.
Lol but using celebrities to back up his views isn't realistic. Most of us won't have fame, fortune, and sex being thrown across our path. Be real.



You miss his point completely. Jackman's 'average' wife was his wife BEFORE he got famous. Read my comments here to understand my viewpoint on the average joe. Let me know if you have questions.
1. lol Let me remind you of something: it's women who have sky high standards so all I did was taking those "perfect" celebrity males with high status, money and looks to show you what a high valuable man is capable of doing once he gets access to money and fame. So what I was basicly saying was, that a high status male, even if he wasn't famous or a multi millionaire is unlikely to settle down for the average or even a high status woman at all cause women will always throw themselves at him. 😉

2. That's what we were saying, Jackman married her BEFORE he got famous.

And like I said there might be one Hugh Jackman but there are thousands of Charlie Sheens.



Even if there were ten thousand Charlie Sheens, it would represent approximately 0.00000400833% of the global male population aged 15yrs - 60yrs

Your data set isn't big enough to back up your premise.

What were you saying about TheSag, laying down the facts?



Total global population approx: 7.5 billion

Total global MALE population: 50.4% of 7.5 billion => 3.78 billion

Total global MALE population aged 15yrs - 60yrs: 66% of 3.78 billion => 2.4948 billion


*I chose 15-60 year age group as being sexually active, because you reckon it is related to male genetics, suggesting ALL males are sexually unfaithful and sexually promiscuous.


LOL

Not only a white knight but also a nerd, huh?

Did you even get that we were talking about high status males and their opportunities? You would be the first one to fuck 3 girls at once if you could, so spare me your worthless numbers about male population. ^^


You make a lot of assumptions my friend.

My conservative real world data crunching provides some...facts...about the limitations of your premise, while you pull your facts from pocket of your grandmas flannel nightgown.

ps

You don't even understand the meaning of 'white knighting'

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So dou you. I say men with high status will get lots of women cause they can. You contradict me.

What real world data, honey? About male population? Wow, you are smart. lol

You are the definition of a white knight. 😉
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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
lol I don't give a crap about Pick Up, it's worthless in my view. I am talkin from my experience and funny enough lots of men make the same experiences 😉

I actually do well with women but that doesn't mean I believe everything they say.

There is a pattern with women. See women who say I am not like that are probably in their 30s already, they have matured. But they probably used to be like that in the past. There is a saying that goes like this "men are idiots, women are liars" or "men want sex, women want it all. ^^ I believe in those sayings.
Translation: I don't believe what women say.


That's what I already said.
Poor dude, you must be hurtin'. Be more optimistic, pessimists are too beta. Right, @Capz ?


I am just being realistic.

People who don't live in a dream world, are getting by better.
See, I am not certain you are being realistic.

You know best, but maybe your experience and the conclusions you've came up with are too subjective to be realistic. Who knows... Maybe mine are less realistic than yours.

Whatever the truth is, being a pessimist under disguise is not beneficial at all. I think a more optimistic approach will both make you feel better, and will attract better experiences your way. You know best whats good for you tho. Good luck
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As for the height thing something is funny:

In Northern Europe countries most women wanted or still want to date men who are at least 1.80m (5'11) which is still way taller than the american/canadian average male height, yet american women want to date men around 6ft, which is like 1.83m. lol No woman in Europe says "I want him to be 1.83m". So I guess 6ft just like 1.80m just sound better because those are full numerals. And I also guess since the average height in Europe has gone up in recent years european women go for 1.85m nowadays which is almost 6'1 ( again almost no european woman says I want him to be 1.86m). The good thing for shorter men though is that a lot of women, especially shorter women can't even tell the difference between 5'10, 5'11 or 6ft.



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And speaking as someone who has dated men that fulfilled my list and STILL found them wanting, life works better when you are open to all possibilities.
You know, from my experience every woman who claimed her man fullfilled all her needs and lists were actually lowering them in hindsight. He might have been 6'2 and a manger, yet he was balding, let alone being "dark and handsome". Or he might have been an Alpha male with a good body, yet he wasn't quite the career type of guy she had dreamt about, but so what, he could cook pancakes once a month, right? lol



And with that being said, I figured out a long time ago that I haven't had a crush/fling with a girl that I really liked who was older than 27 since 2010. The last girl that I really liked was like 23 when I met her. I feel sooooooooo shallow now and I can't do anything about it... 😢




No I'm serious. 100% fulfilled my ENTIRE list. But that's why I also said your standards change. Life experience teaches you what you truly need to be happy and that list of what your looking for evolves.


I agree that standards change, especially for women who get older but then again, let me tell you something about my AWESOME experiences with women:

most of women's standards are conflicting when you pay attention to them apart from the looks department. A man can't be a good looking macho, strong yet sensitive, who loves kids, animals, money, the environment and spends money for charity projects. They just don't exist in real life.

And IF there actually was a perfect guy outhere who fullfills everything that a woman dreams about, then one thing is for sure: he will never commit to any woman, at least not on a long term. Why would he? He gets all the pussy for free and he is not going to change his life style s. If Mick Jagger and Keith Richards can sleep with thousands of women then Mr. Perfect is going triple that. ^^
"Especially for women." So your saying women experience change more deeply than men...
In my view women, not all of them, lower their standards, throgh the years
Not me, I raise it!
If you think so.
Women who lower their standards throughout the years do it bc they get desperate to have someone, maybe bc of stability, economy, sex, character, personality,. etc.

Usually if a woman lowers her standards, the guy will lack one or many of those listed above.

He might have money but not be loyal, might be loyal but have a shitty character, no money but wants stability etc.

The more people I meet, the closer I get to what I want in a guy.

I usually like guys who are smart, have a distinctive personality, are ambitious, and athletic. I'm not too worried about physical appearance, but I do have a certain type of men I'm very attracted to:

Tall, dark and steamy ?




"Tall, dark and steamy" - that's what 99% of all women claim to want. ^^

Obviously a woman will lower her standards because not too many guys will meet her standards anyways but also there will be less men avaible for her at a certain age because even if a guy meets her standards he will have a bigger pool of younger women who he will be also attracted to.



So even though I agree with some of your points your pool of guys will lower naturally with age, cause let's face it: most women go for guys who are older than them, so when you are in your 30s you will look for guys at your age or older, maybe much older. Problem though is, there are not too many guys left in their mid to late 30s and 40s in good shape, let alone having 6 packs and. who are in their physical prime. A lot of them will have thinner hair or just get bald. They still might be attractive but you will automatically turn a blind eye. Some of them might have kids, be divorced and maybe they will have some money issues too. There might also be a lot of single men around, working in good jobs and with no children or any baggage from the past, yet they might be inexperienced with women. if they are inexperienced with women, then chances are they are not as hot or attractive than you would like them to be.
Thats why I said, I like guys who are smart, have a distinctive personality, etc.

But my type of guy is usually tall, dark and steamy. it doesn't mean that's all I'm looking for.

Another problem with some women is that they simply sit down and wait for guys to approach her, that's why they mostly get the jerks, cheaters, etc. They want someone to go clubbing, someone they want to show off to friends and social media. etc. They want the man that other women want, the hunk, the guy with the nice car, who parties all the time with different girls..the pimp. lol

I tend to like the shy guys, the ones who don't like to be flashy, or show off what they have or don't have. the down-to-earth, smart, hard-working men.

When it comes to people who have kids, well I myself have 2 and this is another reason why I don't date just any guy. Not because they won't accept me with my baggage like most people think, is actually bc they know I'm strong and independent woman who doesn't need a man to "carry my baggage" so I'm not looking for just any person.

Yes, it makes it harder, and my chances of finding someone are slim but it doesn't mean that I have to settle for just any person. Also, I wouldn't mind if a guy already has kids as long as he can support them and loves them.

Is hard to generalize as we all meet different people and each person makes us feel different as well.




Agreed, especially the first part.

And let me tell you something else, you might not like it but in my view most women in the western world go for the same men, depending on their age:

15-19 year old women - they are kind of "brainwashed" by Hollywood and look for the perfect, yet good looking nice guy, the guy everybody likes but they get bored of him soon

20-30 year old women want action, good looking bad boy basicly the guys you described in your post. And from what I know the good looking tall hunks are the ones who cheat the most, cause they can since women go for them. Talking about high valuable guys and Hollywood... 😉

30+ year old women - they want the solid guy, the provider

Sounds very cliche, right? But I think it's true.

I highly believe most women have dated at least 1-2 bad boys in their lives and those who claim they would never date them are the ones who already have.
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Yes! that's right, I've seen it with my friends.

But things are just complicated.

Between my 15 -26 yrs I dated the shy guy, never had cheating issues but he was very controlling. we broke up many times bc of this and it was an ongoing cycle. So, sometimes you just don't know. lol

I have never felt romantically attracted by a guy who seeks attention and all that is just not my type of guy. I don't mind having them as fwbfor the mean time but I don't get into them romantically, which I have seen that irritated them bc they just want women at their feet. lol

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I find it hard to believe that men in this thread are still pushing these tired pick-up artist site theories when you have real actual women in this thread telling you what we are really like and really want. I guess just keep listening to other men and never learn a damn thing about women, eh?
Yeah, kind of like that one thread on DXP that had women telling men what a man feels when he ejaculates during sec....
Hahaha! Oh my God, really?
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Yeah, really.

It's symptomatic of this website. Sort of the "I have my story and I'm sticking to it" mentality.

I think it's in the now estrogen soaked Man Cave forum.
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As for the height thing something is funny:

In Northern Europe countries most women wanted or still want to date men who are at least 1.80m (5'11) which is still way taller than the american/canadian average male height, yet american women want to date men around 6ft, which is like 1.83m. lol No woman in Europe says "I want him to be 1.83m". So I guess 6ft just like 1.80m just sound better because those are full numerals. And I also guess since the average height in Europe has gone up in recent years european women go for 1.85m nowadays which is almost 6'1 ( again almost no european woman says I want him to be 1.86m). The good thing for shorter men though is that a lot of women, especially shorter women can't even tell the difference between 5'10, 5'11 or 6ft.



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And speaking as someone who has dated men that fulfilled my list and STILL found them wanting, life works better when you are open to all possibilities.
You know, from my experience every woman who claimed her man fullfilled all her needs and lists were actually lowering them in hindsight. He might have been 6'2 and a manger, yet he was balding, let alone being "dark and handsome". Or he might have been an Alpha male with a good body, yet he wasn't quite the career type of guy she had dreamt about, but so what, he could cook pancakes once a month, right? lol



And with that being said, I figured out a long time ago that I haven't had a crush/fling with a girl that I really liked who was older than 27 since 2010. The last girl that I really liked was like 23 when I met her. I feel sooooooooo shallow now and I can't do anything about it... 😢




No I'm serious. 100% fulfilled my ENTIRE list. But that's why I also said your standards change. Life experience teaches you what you truly need to be happy and that list of what your looking for evolves.


I agree that standards change, especially for women who get older but then again, let me tell you something about my AWESOME experiences with women:

most of women's standards are conflicting when you pay attention to them apart from the looks department. A man can't be a good looking macho, strong yet sensitive, who loves kids, animals, money, the environment and spends money for charity projects. They just don't exist in real life.

And IF there actually was a perfect guy outhere who fullfills everything that a woman dreams about, then one thing is for sure: he will never commit to any woman, at least not on a long term. Why would he? He gets all the pussy for free and he is not going to change his life style s. If Mick Jagger and Keith Richards can sleep with thousands of women then Mr. Perfect is going triple that. ^^
"Especially for women." So your saying women experience change more deeply than men...
In my view women, not all of them, lower their standards, throgh the years
Not me, I raise it!
If you think so.
Women who lower their standards throughout the years do it bc they get desperate to have someone, maybe bc of stability, economy, sex, character, personality,. etc.

Usually if a woman lowers her standards, the guy will lack one or many of those listed above.

He might have money but not be loyal, might be loyal but have a shitty character, no money but wants stability etc.

The more people I meet, the closer I get to what I want in a guy.

I usually like guys who are smart, have a distinctive personality, are ambitious, and athletic. I'm not too worried about physical appearance, but I do have a certain type of men I'm very attracted to:

Tall, dark and steamy ?




"Tall, dark and steamy" - that's what 99% of all women claim to want. ^^

Obviously a woman will lower her standards because not too many guys will meet her standards anyways but also there will be less men avaible for her at a certain age because even if a guy meets her standards he will have a bigger pool of younger women who he will be also attracted to.



So even though I agree with some of your points your pool of guys will lower naturally with age, cause let's face it: most women go for guys who are older than them, so when you are in your 30s you will look for guys at your age or older, maybe much older. Problem though is, there are not too many guys left in their mid to late 30s and 40s in good shape, let alone having 6 packs and. who are in their physical prime. A lot of them will have thinner hair or just get bald. They still might be attractive but you will automatically turn a blind eye. Some of them might have kids, be divorced and maybe they will have some money issues too. There might also be a lot of single men around, working in good jobs and with no children or any baggage from the past, yet they might be inexperienced with women. if they are inexperienced with women, then chances are they are not as hot or attractive than you would like them to be.
Thats why I said, I like guys who are smart, have a distinctive personality, etc.

But my type of guy is usually tall, dark and steamy. it doesn't mean that's all I'm looking for.

Another problem with some women is that they simply sit down and wait for guys to approach her, that's why they mostly get the jerks, cheaters, etc. They want someone to go clubbing, someone they want to show off to friends and social media. etc. They want the man that other women want, the hunk, the guy with the nice car, who parties all the time with different girls..the pimp. lol

I tend to like the shy guys, the ones who don't like to be flashy, or show off what they have or don't have. the down-to-earth, smart, hard-working men.

When it comes to people who have kids, well I myself have 2 and this is another reason why I don't date just any guy. Not because they won't accept me with my baggage like most people think, is actually bc they know I'm strong and independent woman who doesn't need a man to "carry my baggage" so I'm not looking for just any person.

Yes, it makes it harder, and my chances of finding someone are slim but it doesn't mean that I have to settle for just any person. Also, I wouldn't mind if a guy already has kids as long as he can support them and loves them.

Is hard to generalize as we all meet different people and each person makes us feel different as well.




Agreed, especially the first part.

And let me tell you something else, you might not like it but in my view most women in the western world go for the same men, depending on their age:

15-19 year old women - they are kind of "brainwashed" by Hollywood and look for the perfect, yet good looking nice guy, the guy everybody likes but they get bored of him soon

20-30 year old women want action, good looking bad boy basicly the guys you described in your post. And from what I know the good looking tall hunks are the ones who cheat the most, cause they can since women go for them. Talking about high valuable guys and Hollywood... 😉

30+ year old women - they want the solid guy, the provider

Sounds very cliche, right? But I think it's true.

I highly believe most women have dated at least 1-2 bad boys in their lives and those who claim they would never date them are the ones who already have.


Yes! that's right, I've seen it with my friends.

But things are just complicated.

Between my 15 -26 yrs I dated the shy guy, never had cheating issues but he was very controlling. we broke up many times bc of this and it was an ongoing cycle. So, sometimes you just don't know. lol

I have never felt romantically attracted by a guy who seeks attention and all that is just not my type of guy. I don't mind having them as fwbfor the mean time but I don't get into them romantically, which I have seen that irritated them bc they just want women at their feet. lol



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You know, it's not like I like what I am saying about my impressions with women. I actually don't like saying stuff like that but I have come this conclusion for myself after so many years of being involved with women and by listening to other guy's experiences as well. 😉

And I am not saying men will always cheat on you if a hot girl crosses his path. If a man loves a woman he won't cheat on her. But the more valuable he becomes and the more women chase after him, the less affected he might become by just one woman. It's the same with women who get like hundreds of matches on tinder, they are not going to settle down too fast for the very first guy. They might not even settle at all and just enjoy the attention.
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Lol but using celebrities to back up his views isn't realistic. Most of us won't have fame, fortune, and sex being thrown across our path. Be real.



You miss his point completely. Jackman's 'average' wife was his wife BEFORE he got famous. Read my comments here to understand my viewpoint on the average joe. Let me know if you have questions.
1. lol Let me remind you of something: it's women who have sky high standards so all I did was taking those "perfect" celebrity males with high status, money and looks to show you what a high valuable man is capable of doing once he gets access to money and fame. So what I was basicly saying was, that a high status male, even if he wasn't famous or a multi millionaire is unlikely to settle down for the average or even a high status woman at all cause women will always throw themselves at him. 😉

2. That's what we were saying, Jackman married her BEFORE he got famous.

And like I said there might be one Hugh Jackman but there are thousands of Charlie Sheens.



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1. Prove it. Oh wait you can't because that statement is merely your prejudice talking.

2. Again using celebrities to back up your statements is futile as their experiences are so far removed from the common man.

Try again.

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Posted by TheSag
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Posted by CapTenn
TheSag is laying down facts in this thread.
Lol but using celebrities to back up his views isn't realistic. Most of us won't have fame, fortune, and sex being thrown across our path. Be real.



You miss his point completely. Jackman's 'average' wife was his wife BEFORE he got famous. Read my comments here to understand my viewpoint on the average joe. Let me know if you have questions.
1. lol Let me remind you of something: it's women who have sky high standards so all I did was taking those "perfect" celebrity males with high status, money and looks to show you what a high valuable man is capable of doing once he gets access to money and fame. So what I was basicly saying was, that a high status male, even if he wasn't famous or a multi millionaire is unlikely to settle down for the average or even a high status woman at all cause women will always throw themselves at him. 😉

2. That's what we were saying, Jackman married her BEFORE he got famous.

And like I said there might be one Hugh Jackman but there are thousands of Charlie Sheens.




1. Prove it. Oh wait you can't because that statement is merely your prejudice talking.

2. Again using celebrities to back up your statements is futile as their experiences are so far removed from the common man.

Try again.

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1. Can you disprove it?

2. Ok I will walk down the street, grab a bank manager, who is 6'2 tall and looks like Diego Sanchez Gonzales Rodrigo Mascarena with a 12 pac and ask him whether he is single or not.

I will report later. 😉
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Posted by TheSag
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TheSag
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by CapTenn
TheSag is laying down facts in this thread.
Lol but using celebrities to back up his views isn't realistic. Most of us won't have fame, fortune, and sex being thrown across our path. Be real.



You miss his point completely. Jackman's 'average' wife was his wife BEFORE he got famous. Read my comments here to understand my viewpoint on the average joe. Let me know if you have questions.
1. lol Let me remind you of something: it's women who have sky high standards so all I did was taking those "perfect" celebrity males with high status, money and looks to show you what a high valuable man is capable of doing once he gets access to money and fame. So what I was basicly saying was, that a high status male, even if he wasn't famous or a multi millionaire is unlikely to settle down for the average or even a high status woman at all cause women will always throw themselves at him. 😉

2. That's what we were saying, Jackman married her BEFORE he got famous.

And like I said there might be one Hugh Jackman but there are thousands of Charlie Sheens.




1. Prove it. Oh wait you can't because that statement is merely your prejudice talking.

2. Again using celebrities to back up your statements is futile as their experiences are so far removed from the common man.

Try again.


1. Can you disprove it?

2. Ok I will walk down the street, grab a bank manager, who is 6'2 tall and looks like Diego Sanchez Gonzales Rodrigo Mascarena with a 12 pac and ask him whether he is single or not.

I will report later. 😉
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1. It's been disproved in this thread alone by the termed 'cat ladies' of dxp who are saying that the list doesn't matter, its just an ideal.

2. There are plenty of 6'2 men who are married/gfriend up... and plenty more who are single. That has less to do with height and aesthetics and more to do with age, culture, and income imo.

Also this thread is about why WOMEN are single, not men. Lets not verge too off topic.

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Being picky - as you say, is a biological imperative. LOL at people trying to rationalize as though we aren't still animals, and we are in control of our choices. ?
We are the one animal that has control over our sexual urges and the one animal that fucks out of desire instead of the biological urge to procreate (although I suppose you could argue that desire streams from the procreation urge...).
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Being picky - as you say, is a biological imperative. LOL at people trying to rationalize as though we aren't still animals, and we are in control of our choices. ?
We are the one animal that has control over our sexual urges and the one animal that fucks out of desire instead of the biological urge to procreate (although I suppose you could argue that desire streams from the procreation urge...).
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It most definitely does. Our decisions stem from our Reptilian Brain, not our New Brain. That's the main reason why Nueromarketing works.
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I will NOT compromise just to keep the d*ck. Let me explain:

My exbf (Saggy; he's white) chastised my son in MY home! I'm sorry, but I'm a STRONG Hispanic woman that will protect my son and will go thru HELL for him first, before allowing ANY man to chastise my son; that's MY job! Allot of women out there in the "lonely" world will NOT protect their children from their boyfriend(s) and what happens? The boyfriend(s) end up killing the child.

The first time this happened it was on Valentine's day; I had my son crawl into bed with me, layed there thinking and thinking, got up and asked bf to drive us home. I calmed down and we made up. Well, less than a week later, was the scenario as indicated above. I had ENOUGH! I swam away.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Being picky - as you say, is a biological imperative. LOL at people trying to rationalize as though we aren't still animals, and we are in control of our choices. ?
We are the one animal that has control over our sexual urges and the one animal that fucks out of desire instead of the biological urge to procreate (although I suppose you could argue that desire streams from the procreation urge...).
So my desire for women all of this time stems from me wanting to procreate? Whoever wrote that definitely didn't write with an inclusive mind. So why do homosexuals have sex? What is our goal? Not coming at you, Neptune. Just asking questions because some of these comments have me like ?
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Very true. That's why I would argue that while biologically we are driven in many ways we are the one animal that places thought over instinct. Perhaps homosexuals are the biological answer to overpopulation. I read a study once where you are statistically more likely to be homosexual if you are a 3rd, 4th, 5th child etc.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TheSag
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TheSag
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by CapTenn
TheSag is laying down facts in this thread.
Lol but using celebrities to back up his views isn't realistic. Most of us won't have fame, fortune, and sex being thrown across our path. Be real.



You miss his point completely. Jackman's 'average' wife was his wife BEFORE he got famous. Read my comments here to understand my viewpoint on the average joe. Let me know if you have questions.
1. lol Let me remind you of something: it's women who have sky high standards so all I did was taking those "perfect" celebrity males with high status, money and looks to show you what a high valuable man is capable of doing once he gets access to money and fame. So what I was basicly saying was, that a high status male, even if he wasn't famous or a multi millionaire is unlikely to settle down for the average or even a high status woman at all cause women will always throw themselves at him. 😉

2. That's what we were saying, Jackman married her BEFORE he got famous.

And like I said there might be one Hugh Jackman but there are thousands of Charlie Sheens.




1. Prove it. Oh wait you can't because that statement is merely your prejudice talking.

2. Again using celebrities to back up your statements is futile as their experiences are so far removed from the common man.

Try again.


1. Can you disprove it?

2. Ok I will walk down the street, grab a bank manager, who is 6'2 tall and looks like Diego Sanchez Gonzales Rodrigo Mascarena with a 12 pac and ask him whether he is single or not.

I will report later. 😉
1. It's been disproved in this thread alone by the termed 'cat ladies' of dxp who are saying that the list doesn't matter, its just an ideal.

2. There are plenty of 6'2 men who are married/gfriend up... and plenty more who are single. That has less to do with height and aesthetics and more to do with age, culture, and income imo.

Also this thread is about why WOMEN are single, not men. Lets not verge too off topic.

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1. We were talking about high status men and their habits. What does any dxpnet woman and their lists have to do with such a man's sexual and romatic habits?

2. I never doubted that.



Btw I met a half colombian half german guy named Carlos Gutierez Valente Reich Müller Stahl. He was like 6'3 tall, latin lover type of a guy with blue eyes and olive skin. He was a millionaire who spends his weekends in the Uruguayan high society Punta del Este. He has fathered 8 kids with 8 women who used to be models. he told me he just can't commit cause "I am just way too sexy and hot to get involved with just one woman, it's in my nature to share my love with all of them, you know chico?!"

You see, that's what Jorge told me. 😢

P.S. I mean Carlos.
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Posted by RedShoes
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We've been over this before - like last week. Ya

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whats your sign 😆
It's Finbuff. He's a Cancer
isn't that Soul?
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No. It's a user that everyone calls a pedophile and I still can't figure out what they base it on. The story behind it

I think @Prince_Pisces, @Soul, @Hare, @Arielle83 and @AdmiralCrabbyPatterson can explain why.
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Btw I met a half colombian half german guy named Carlos Gutierez Valente Reich Müller Stahl. He was like 6'3 tall, latin lover type of a guy with blue eyes and olive skin. He was a millionaire who spends his weekends in the Uruguayan high society Punta del Este. He has fathered 8 kids with 8 women who used to be models. he told me he just can't commit cause "I am just way too sexy and hot to get involved with just one woman, it's in my nature to share my love with all of them, you know chico?!"

You see, that's what Jorge told me. 😢

P.S. I mean Carlos.

I just don't think it's sensible or reasonable to take a handful of American celebrities (or one or two people you may have met) and use them to support the notion all men are genetically predisposed to cheat and want sex with any woman who offers it.

What about the thousands of wealthy high status men who are unknown by u and the general public, you don't know their personal circumstances.

Even if a young rock star is fucking ten women, he's probably not married or even in a mutually committed relationship, so technically he's not cheating and simply taking advantage of opportunity and circumstance.

Throw in the adrenaline of a concert, some coke or ecstasy at the after-party, plenty of opportunity and you can hardly claim it is male genetics.



*My two celebrity examples are simply to make a point that contradicts your original premise, which is a logical fallacy.



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Ever heard of Silvio Berlusconi?

Dominique Strauss-Kahn?

John F. Kennedy?

Martin L. King?

Francois Mitterand?

Franck Ribery?

Boris Becker?

Diego Maradona?

Billy Idol?

George Best?

Carl XVI. Gustaf

Muhammad Ali?

Roman Polanski?

Bill Clinton?

Bill Cosby?

Juan Carlos?

....I don't even know where to stop. I could probably name another hundred men.

Those are politicians, kings, athletes, men from economy, actors. Most of them were married and had tons of affairs, ONS with waitresses, models and lots of prostitutes, some with underaged women. They fathered many children also.



"Even if a young rock star is fucking ten women, he's probably not married or even in a mutually committed relationship, so technically he's not cheating and simply taking advantage of opportunity and circumstance."

So, you agree they take advantage of their opportunity which I have said here like a 100 times? Thank you.

Yeah, there might be faithful wealthy men too, no doubt. But chances are that high status men are not going to settle down that easily and the reason for it is because they don#t have to - women will chase them and they will enjoy their opportunities.
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Posted by RedShoes
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We've been over this before - like last week. Ya

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whats your sign 😆
It's Finbuff. He's a Cancer
isn't that Soul?
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Just to clear up your confusion this is the only account I have.

I would think you out of all people would be smart enough to know the difference between me and that fuck face.

To keep myself from reaching through your computer screen and bitch smacking you I'll just write it off as sarcasm.
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Posted by MagicMona
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MagicMona
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by LillyPetal
Being picky - as you say, is a biological imperative. LOL at people trying to rationalize as though we aren't still animals, and we are in control of our choices. ?
We are the one animal that has control over our sexual urges and the one animal that fucks out of desire instead of the biological urge to procreate (although I suppose you could argue that desire streams from the procreation urge...).
So my desire for women all of this time stems from me wanting to procreate? Whoever wrote that definitely didn't write with an inclusive mind. So why do homosexuals have sex? What is our goal? Not coming at you, Neptune. Just asking questions because some of these comments have me like ?
Very true. That's why I would argue that while biologically we are driven in many ways we are the one animal that places thought over instinct. Perhaps homosexuals are the biological answer to overpopulation. I read a study once where you are statistically more likely to be homosexual if you are a 3rd, 4th, 5th child etc.
Interesting. I am the first born; I have never heard those statistics. You just taught me something new
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Idk how reliable it was. Read it a few years ago and they were saying something about how with each pressing pregnancy the protective cells (or some shit) that a woman has in an around her womb diminish, allowing more of outside influences to effect the fetus.
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Posted by starwars
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We've been over this before - like last week. Ya

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whats your sign 😆
It's Finbuff. He's a Cancer
isn't that Soul?
Just to clear up your confusion this is the only account I have.

I would think you out of all people would be smart enough to know the difference between me and that fuck face.

To keep myself from reaching through your computer screen and bitch smacking you I'll just write it off as sarcasm.

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Please explain what happened.

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Posted by RedShoes
Posted by Soul
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Posted by RedShoes
Posted by starwars
Posted by Fun4Life
We've been over this before - like last week. Ya

Image Not Found
whats your sign 😆
It's Finbuff. He's a Cancer
isn't that Soul?
Just to clear up your confusion this is the only account I have.

I would think you out of all people would be smart enough to know the difference between me and that fuck face.

To keep myself from reaching through your computer screen and bitch smacking you I'll just write it off as sarcasm.



Please explain what happened.

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I just despise finbuff in every way. They are a pos in my eyes, and the type of person to just block you when you show them up. Basically they talk a bunch of shit but can't take any.
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Posted by TheSag


Btw I met a half colombian half german guy named Carlos Gutierez Valente Reich Müller Stahl. He was like 6'3 tall, latin lover type of a guy with blue eyes and olive skin. He was a millionaire who spends his weekends in the Uruguayan high society Punta del Este. He has fathered 8 kids with 8 women who used to be models. he told me he just can't commit cause "I am just way too sexy and hot to get involved with just one woman, it's in my nature to share my love with all of them, you know chico?!"

You see, that's what Jorge told me. 😢

P.S. I mean Carlos.

I just don't think it's sensible or reasonable to take a handful of American celebrities (or one or two people you may have met) and use them to support the notion all men are genetically predisposed to cheat and want sex with any woman who offers it.

What about the thousands of wealthy high status men who are unknown by u and the general public, you don't know their personal circumstances.

Even if a young rock star is fucking ten women, he's probably not married or even in a mutually committed relationship, so technically he's not cheating and simply taking advantage of opportunity and circumstance.

Throw in the adrenaline of a concert, some coke or ecstasy at the after-party, plenty of opportunity and you can hardly claim it is male genetics.



*My two celebrity examples are simply to make a point that contradicts your original premise, which is a logical fallacy.




Ever heard of Silvio Berlusconi?

Dominique Strauss-Kahn?

John F. Kennedy?

Martin L. King?

Francois Mitterand?

Franck Ribery?

Boris Becker?

Diego Maradona?

Billy Idol?

George Best?

Carl XVI. Gustaf

Muhammad Ali?

Roman Polanski?

Bill Clinton?

Bill Cosby?

Juan Carlos?

....I don't even know where to stop. I could probably name another hundred men.

Those are politicians, kings, athletes, men from economy, actors. Most of them were married and had tons of affairs, ONS with waitresses, models and lots of prostitutes, some with underaged women. They fathered many children also.



"Even if a young rock star is fucking ten women, he's probably not married or even in a mutually committed relationship, so technically he's not cheating and simply taking advantage of opportunity and circumstance."

So, you agree they take advantage of their opportunity which I have said here like a 100 times? Thank you.

Yeah, there might be faithful wealthy men too, no doubt. But chances are that high status men are not going to settle down that easily and the reason for it is because they don#t have to - women will chase them and they will enjoy their opportunities.




How did we get here?
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I don't know..



😢 😢 😢

I said something and then all those bad people started picking on me...... 😢

I need love



😢

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Men are always talking about what’s “natural” but in nature it’s always the males of the species that have to be pretty or work really hard to get the females.

I want to see more men dressing up and wearing makeup. Dance for me. Build me a fucking house. Impress me, you mediocre fucks.
I agree with this point of view, but society has been repressing this attitude for various reasons, so only gay men are into this, which is kinda sad
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Posted by LadyPootsAlot
Posted by hydorah
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men are always talking about what’s “natural” but in nature it’s always the males of the species that have to be pretty or work really hard to get the females.

I want to see more men dressing up and wearing makeup. Dance for me. Build me a fucking house. Impress me, you mediocre fucks.
I agree with this point of view, but society has been repressing this attitude for various reasons, so only gay men are into this, which is kinda sad
Straight men display their plumage in other ways.
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but very limited and coarse, mostly display of strength. A lot of men feel castrated and submissive to the sexual scarcity and female based eroticism.

I think this situation is what triggers some guys to become transgenders and shit.

They just want to feel pretty, and it is actually, somehow, the expression of biological masculinity
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Posted by hydorah
Posted by LadyNeptune
Men are always talking about what’s “natural” but in nature it’s always the males of the species that have to be pretty or work really hard to get the females.

I want to see more men dressing up and wearing makeup. Dance for me. Build me a fucking house. Impress me, you mediocre fucks.
I agree with this point of view, but society has been repressing this attitude for various reasons, so only gay men are into this, which is kinda sad
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Too much talking not enough booty shaking. Common hydorah!