All that cheating talk (Page 2)

Posted by aquapiscescusp
P-Angel, this leads back to what I was originally thinking. If you are truly connected emotionally with your partner, you would know when something would be off.

Oh, I know when EVERYTHING is off with my man. He could have a hangnail, and I can tell something is amiss with him.

That's why in here I lose my mind when people come in here to ask us, random people, about their own relationship.

Aren't YOU the person living it? What the fuck are you asking us for?

Don't you KNOW? And why the fuck don't you know?

There was one Scorpio chic in here not long ago, who was the girlfriend of a man for 6 months ... and she came to say that her man is acting weird, and she's wondering if he's upset.


Dude .... 6 months, and you don't KNOW his emotional reactions?


People amaze me most times ... it's like they are living a one-sided life, completely oblivious.

I for one, recognize what cheating is for me ... and it would be a cold day in hell that a person would find me emotionally bonding with a person other than my husband.

Posted by P-Angel


Sex is not love.

Sex is an expression of love.

So, cheating cannot be physical ... it can only be the expression.


If a person cheats on you, then to the emotional bond is where you have to look .... not where his dick is dipping. Half the time, he doesn't even know the bitch's name.


If I was told that my man was cheating .... I'd look at my emotional connection with him. I wouldn't look at sex, at all ... because sex an expression of the cheater, and not the condition in which lead him there.

Lol thats funny our relationship was on the rocks which is why he was making out with that tranny I guess??_??_But i thought he would at least have the guts to dump me instead of causing me pain??_.

thats the thing with you water signs??_..its easier to beg for forgiveness than to ask permission or something like that??_??_Its this crazy fucking cycle??_..

I fucking hate love and emotions its a fucking game that I'm not good at and it frustrates the shit out of me??_.I hate people I really do, I detest cheap sentiment??_??_because I don't have the emotional intelligence to go in deep my logic mind is so cynical thinking "is he the one thats going to crush my soul" I feel like a male praying mantis and relationships are like a big mama mantis that could rip my head of just when I'm about to feel good..

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
P-Angel, this leads back to what I was originally thinking. If you are truly connected emotionally with your partner, you would know when something would be off.

Oh, I know when EVERYTHING is off with my man. He could have a hangnail, and I can tell something is amiss with him.

That's why in here I lose my mind when people come in here to ask us, random people, about their own relationship.

Aren't YOU the person living it? What the fuck are you asking us for?

Don't you KNOW? And why the fuck don't you know?

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I'm like this too. That's why when someone tells me they've been cheated on for months and years -- I actually worry about their state of mind!

Posted by P-Angel

There was one Scorpio chic in here not long ago, who was the girlfriend of a man for 6 months ... and she came to say that her man is acting weird, and she's wondering if he's upset.


Dude .... 6 months, and you don't KNOW his emotional reactions?


People amaze me most times ... it's like they are living a one-sided life, completely oblivious.

I think I'm in love with P-Angel. 😉

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

... he had the nerve to say "you knew this was coming" umm excuse me? no I didn't fucking know

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

.... our relationship was on the rocks which is why he was making out with that tranny I guess??_??_But i thought he would at least have the guts to dump me instead of causing me pain??_.

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Classic case of an ignorant person.

Pisces aren't going to feel sorry for you. If it's right in front of your face, and you refuse to acknowledge it, then that's your problem.

He meant it that you should have seen it coming ... and the fact that you didn't see it, is your problem.

Pisces people do look to be cold-hearted at these times, so I understand the grief most people have with the Fishes.

But, we seriously believe this .... just like this thread is stating ....


You SHOULD KNOW what you are living, and you SHOULD KNOW every nuance of your partner ..... if you don't know what is right in front of your face, then you're existing inside a relationship that resides in your head, where YOU are the only person who matters.


Just like, if I had sex with my partner, and he asked me afterwards anything like .... "did you like it" or, "was it good" ... then that's the last time I'd have sex with him.

.... because it would mean he wasn't paying attention.

If you have to ask ... then, I don't want you.

A Pisces won't feel sorry for your ignorance ... sorry, but, true

Posted by P-Angel

Pisces people do look to be cold-hearted at these times, so I understand the grief most people have with the Fishes.

But, we seriously believe this .... just like this thread is stating ....


You SHOULD KNOW what you are living, and you SHOULD KNOW every nuance of your partner ..... if you don't know what is right in front of your face, then you're existing inside a relationship that resides in your head, where YOU are the only person who matters.


Just like, if I had sex with my partner, and he asked me afterwards anything like .... "did you like it" or, "was it good" ... then that's the last time I'd have sex with him.

.... because it would mean he wasn't paying attention.

If you have to ask ... then, I don't want you.

A Pisces won't feel sorry for your ignorance ... sorry, but, true

Posted by P-Angel

Pisces people do look to be cold-hearted at these times, so I understand the grief most people have with the Fishes.

But, we seriously believe this .... just like this thread is stating ....


You SHOULD KNOW what you are living, and you SHOULD KNOW every nuance of your partner ..... if you don't know what is right in front of your face, then you're existing inside a relationship that resides in your head, where YOU are the only person who matters.


Just like, if I had sex with my partner, and he asked me afterwards anything like .... "did you like it" or, "was it good" ... then that's the last time I'd have sex with him.

.... because it would mean he wasn't paying attention.

If you have to ask ... then, I don't want you.

A Pisces won't feel sorry for your ignorance ... sorry, but, true

Meh too much maintenance, too much deep feels to get caught up in a whirlpool that can only take someone like me down to the bottom of the sea when I need to be free as the wind??_

Piscean folk know whats right in front if their face they know what they want and they are real go getters! I guess relationships reside in what they feel and what they feel is all that matters.

They are very much like a sea of emotions and they really are good at making you feel what they feel god knows I did a lot and i guess it does just get too much that you need to shut off??_.

Piscean folk are can be mean manipulators on a level that verges on psychotic??_I don't have the time anymore to have struggle out of emotional strongholds??_

Christ girl the last thing I want from pisces is pity??_.I may be unfamiliar with the "game" but there is nothing that an Aquarius but only If its worth learning in the first place??_??_.

I guess the difference between a piscese and an aqua is whether a piscese "doesn't feel" sorry for others ignorance"??_Aquas "do feel" sorry for other peoples lack of understanding??_.and feel the need to teach them to know better.

Posted by andsssssss
SHE TASTED LIKE YOU BUT SWEETER!!!

Oh shut the fuck up ! she was a walking botch job! and she probably tasted like beer!

sorry second last paragraph was supped to say theres nothing that an aqua can't learn! lol

Posted by duchessedenemours
It wouldn't matter to me if the cheating was purely physical. I wouldn't tolerate it.

The topic isn't really asking whether you'd tolerate it or not ..... it's asking the question:


Why don't you know something is amiss?


I truly believe that people fuck themselves up with cheaters, more so than the actual cheater does ... people hang on with blind eyes when they know something is wrong. And most times do nothing about the situation except hope.

If people would wake up to realize that if the relationship is fucked up in reality, and not just in theory ... then they wouldn't even be there to walk in on their partner fucking someone on the couch.

The signs are usually right in front of your face ..... but, people are so attached to their own feelings that they simply can't bare to face the truth.

And of course you would tolerate it .... so long as your emotional needs were being met, because then you'd be blinded, like all females.

... assuming you are female, based on your name.

Well I guess you never really know your with a cheater until they cheat thats how I know and how I'll eventually find out??_??_

And when I do find out this little aqua likes to go hurricane katrina style leaving with a lasting impression and most importantly a lesson, which is not to fuck with peoples feelings otherwise I'll bust the windows out ya car!!

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

Well I guess you never really know your with a cheater until they cheat thats how I know and how I'll eventually find out??_??_

When in reality, you should know ... your statement above proves why your Pisces told you that you should have seen it coming. That means it was obvious, and in your face ... but, you were too oblivious.

If you never know ... then you're a lousy partner in that you aren't paying attention.

In which case ... have fun in your little aqua going Katrina to pacify your uncontrolled hysteria.

A Pisces would say, "no thank you with all that drama" .. and then jump stream

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

... you never really know ....

.... I'll bust the windows out ya car!!

You're really kind of ignorant.

Fucking oath I should know if I'm being cheated on especially after a fuckwit like that??_..Yeh he did say I should have seen it coming only to reaffirm his defensive disposition??_he wasn't taking responsibility for his actions as if to say my actions or lack of attention drove him to do it get fucked! lol??_.Its just like on jerry springer when the person who cheated confesses to her boyfriend and then goes ape shit at him to piss him to get him all stirred up it happens all the time??_..only I made sure I didn't leave the situation a victim.

Yes I'm oblivious but I need to be sometimes so I don't get caught up in peoples emotional bullshit! Does it make me a lousy partner? Hell no, no body knows how to love like I do, you would cringe at the thought of me leaving you. people wanna play games with other peoples emotions, well I'm an all or nothing guy??_.fuck around with me and you get left with nothing.

look grandma I've only ever had two relationships in my whole life and they both lasted 1 year??_??_how many marriages have you had—_.of course I'm untaught in the ways of love whats your excuse for being vapid? lighten up and stop calling everyone ignorant as if you know everything.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Fucking oath I should know if I'm being cheated on especially after a fuckwit like that??_..Yeh he did say I should have seen it coming only to reaffirm his defensive disposition??_he wasn't taking responsibility for his actions as if to say my actions or lack of attention drove him to do it get fucked! lol??_.Its just like on jerry springer when the person who cheated confesses to her boyfriend and then goes ape shit at him to piss him to get him all stirred up it happens all the time??_..only I made sure I didn't leave the situation a victim.

Yes I'm oblivious but I need to be sometimes so I don't get caught up in peoples emotional bullshit! Does it make me a lousy partner? Hell no, no body knows how to love like I do, you would cringe at the thought of me leaving you. people wanna play games with other peoples emotions, well I'm an all or nothing guy??_.fuck around with me and you get left with nothing.

look grandma I've only ever had two relationships in my whole life and they both lasted 1 year??_??_how many marriages have you had—_.of course I'm untaught in the ways of love whats your excuse for being vapid? lighten up and stop calling everyone ignorant as if you know everything.

Near impossible to read, just like most of your other posts.

The parts I could comprehend, after wading through that pile of manure, was WEIRD.

The funniest part was he was begging and pleading with me to stay and saying sorry, then I smashed everything in our apartment and a lot of his stuff got broken and he was yelling at me to get out I was already out the door. fucking pathetic

Just let it all out, don't hold back lol

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Fucking oath I should know if I'm being cheated on especially after a fuckwit like that??_..Yeh he did say I should have seen it coming only to reaffirm his defensive disposition??_he wasn't taking responsibility for his actions as if to say my actions or lack of attention drove him to do it get fucked! lol??_.Its just like on jerry springer when the person who cheated confesses to her boyfriend and then goes ape shit at him to piss him to get him all stirred up it happens all the time??_..only I made sure I didn't leave the situation a victim.

Yes I'm oblivious but I need to be sometimes so I don't get caught up in peoples emotional bullshit! Does it make me a lousy partner? Hell no, no body knows how to love like I do, you would cringe at the thought of me leaving you. people wanna play games with other peoples emotions, well I'm an all or nothing guy??_.fuck around with me and you get left with nothing.

look grandma I've only ever had two relationships in my whole life and they both lasted 1 year??_??_how many marriages have you had—_.of course I'm untaught in the ways of love whats your excuse for being vapid? lighten up and stop calling everyone ignorant as if you know everything.

Near impossible to read, just like most of your other posts.

The parts I could comprehend, after wading through that pile of manure, was WEIRD.

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Who the fuck are you? your weird! Don't try and comprehend my posts grandpa they are not for you??_??_Pisces angel likes to argue I can't deny her that.

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Fucking oath I should know if I'm being cheated on especially after a fuckwit like that??_..Yeh he did say I should have seen it coming only to reaffirm his defensive disposition??_he wasn't taking responsibility for his actions as if to say my actions or lack of attention drove him to do it get fucked! lol??_.Its just like on jerry springer when the person who cheated confesses to her boyfriend and then goes ape shit at him to piss him to get him all stirred up it happens all the time??_..only I made sure I didn't leave the situation a victim.

Yes I'm oblivious but I need to be sometimes so I don't get caught up in peoples emotional bullshit! Does it make me a lousy partner? Hell no, no body knows how to love like I do, you would cringe at the thought of me leaving you. people wanna play games with other peoples emotions, well I'm an all or nothing guy??_.fuck around with me and you get left with nothing.

look grandma I've only ever had two relationships in my whole life and they both lasted 1 year??_??_how many marriages have you had—_.of course I'm untaught in the ways of love whats your excuse for being vapid? lighten up and stop calling everyone ignorant as if you know everything.

Near impossible to read, just like most of your other posts.

The parts I could comprehend, after wading through that pile of manure, was WEIRD.

Who the fuck are you? your weird! Don't try and comprehend my posts grandpa they are not for you??_??_Pisces angel likes to argue I can't deny her that.

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I'm weird? Your 'partner' cheated on you with a tranny, and I'm weird?

Mmmmkay.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Just let it all out, don't hold back lol

I find it therapeutic ??_??_ this was a good topic.

Posted by CapTenn

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Fucking oath I should know if I'm being cheated on especially after a fuckwit like that??_..Yeh he did say I should have seen it coming only to reaffirm his defensive disposition??_he wasn't taking responsibility for his actions as if to say my actions or lack of attention drove him to do it get fucked! lol??_.Its just like on jerry springer when the person who cheated confesses to her boyfriend and then goes ape shit at him to piss him to get him all stirred up it happens all the time??_..only I made sure I didn't leave the situation a victim.

Yes I'm oblivious but I need to be sometimes so I don't get caught up in peoples emotional bullshit! Does it make me a lousy partner? Hell no, no body knows how to love like I do, you would cringe at the thought of me leaving you. people wanna play games with other peoples emotions, well I'm an all or nothing guy??_.fuck around with me and you get left with nothing.

look grandma I've only ever had two relationships in my whole life and they both lasted 1 year??_??_how many marriages have you had—_.of course I'm untaught in the ways of love whats your excuse for being vapid? lighten up and stop calling everyone ignorant as if you know everything.

Near impossible to read, just like most of your other posts.

The parts I could comprehend, after wading through that pile of manure, was WEIRD.

Who the fuck are you? your weird! Don't try and comprehend my posts grandpa they are not for you??_??_Pisces angel likes to argue I can't deny her that.

I'm weird? Your 'partner' cheated on you with a tranny, and I'm weird?

Mmmmkay.

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Shut up!! It sounds dirty when you say it!!

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Just let it all out, don't hold back lol

I find it therapeutic ??_??_ this was a good topic.

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You know what, it is therapeutic 🙂

Will you be more aware next time, if there is a next time?

reliving the moments and feeling the old wounds open up still feels nasty??_??_.sure I'll do it again just not with a Piscean??_.ever since the "experience" I've labelled myself a Pisces watcher and I have learned a lot from observing them and their motives??_.I looked up our compatibility when we first got together and the book said I would learn a lot of karmic lessons from this union and I did??_but I did learn a lot just now as well??_..I guess for me to realise my relationship potential I have to come out of my own mind and actually "be" in the relationship??_..lol??_..its kind of interesting when you pair air and water together??_.water signs can drown you??_.and air signs can leave you breathless lol I need to go to bed

I knew something was off with my ex. After 17 years of marriage, yeah I knew. Deep down, I knew. I had always trusted him unconditionally, yet my gut told me something was off. All of a sudden, it seemed at the time, he wasn't truthful and his stories weren't matching up. Once I put the pieces together, I realized he was cheating, I sat back and gathered evidence, let him hang himself. I let it go on too long, but I had to make sure and start getting things in order. Then, I confronted him, he admitted it and kicked him out immediately. Needless to say, I came of rather well in the divorce.

Posted by P-Angel

Pisces people do look to be cold-hearted at these times, so I understand the grief most people have with the Fishes.

But, we seriously believe this .... just like this thread is stating ....


You SHOULD KNOW what you are living, and you SHOULD KNOW every nuance of your partner ..... if you don't know what is right in front of your face, then you're existing inside a relationship that resides in your head, where YOU are the only person who matters.
...

A Pisces won't feel sorry for your ignorance ... sorry, but, true

So.. they're weak, passive-aggressive AND self-serving?

Golly, I just find that hard to believe, across the board, about the Fishies.

You SHOULD know what is going on with your partner, yes--

But you're also telling us that failure to do so means that Pisces will start taking advantage of you, and grab a side-piece-- instead of doing the mature thing: moving on.

That's not just malicious; it's weak.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
reliving the moments and feeling the old wounds open up still feels nasty??_??_.sure I'll do it again just not with a Piscean??_.ever since the "experience" I've labelled myself a Pisces watcher and I have learned a lot from observing them and their motives??_.I looked up our compatibility when we first got together and the book said I would learn a lot of karmic lessons from this union and I did??_but I did learn a lot just now as well??_..I guess for me to realise my relationship potential I have to come out of my own mind and actually "be" in the relationship??_..lol??_..its kind of interesting when you pair air and water together??_.water signs can drown you??_.and air signs can leave you breathless lol I need to go to bed

I don't think you should be weary of all Pisces. I have met some very nice Pisces people.

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Posted by truecap
I knew something was off with my ex. After 17 years of marriage, yeah I knew. Deep down, I knew. I had always trusted him unconditionally, yet my gut told me something was off. All of a sudden, it seemed at the time, he wasn't truthful and his stories weren't matching up. Once I put the pieces together, I realized he was cheating, I sat back and gathered evidence, let him hang himself. I let it go on too long, but I had to make sure and start getting things in order. Then, I confronted him, he admitted it and kicked him out immediately. Needless to say, I came of rather well in the divorce.

I admire your patience. I can't hold myself in. The minute I sense something is off I'm right away to say something.

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Calm, cold, rational and patient. I also had two children to think about.

Oh, when I confronted him, that conversation started off that way, then the scorp venus took over. It was a little more emotional than I would have liked.

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Posted by duchessedenemours
It wouldn't matter to me if the cheating was purely physical. I wouldn't tolerate it.

The topic isn't really asking whether you'd tolerate it or not ..... it's asking the question:


Why don't you know something is amiss?


I truly believe that people fuck themselves up with cheaters, more so than the actual cheater does ... people hang on with blind eyes when they know something is wrong. And most times do nothing about the situation except hope.

If people would wake up to realize that if the relationship is fucked up in reality, and not just in theory ... then they wouldn't even be there to walk in on their partner fucking someone on the couch.

The signs are usually right in front of your face ..... but, people are so attached to their own feelings that they simply can't bare to face the truth.

And of course you would tolerate it .... so long as your emotional needs were being met, because then you'd be blinded, like all females.

I haven't tolerated it in the past, I don't see why I would start now.

Your theory may work for you, but it doesn't for everyone. Maybe if you weren't so attached to it...

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My point flew over your head. That's what happens when people get defensive.

Posted by truecap

I knew something was off with my ex.

I'm not surprised .... you have always appeared to be quite in-tune.

And this is the whole point of the thread .... if you're a partner, and you don't know something is amiss ... then you're extremely self absorbed, and only recognize yourself.

I'm with the OP ... I don't get how a person doesn't know.

Posted by duchessedenemours
It wouldn't matter to me if the cheating was purely physical. I wouldn't tolerate it.

+1

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Posted by duchessedenemours
It wouldn't matter to me if the cheating was purely physical. I wouldn't tolerate it.

The topic isn't really asking whether you'd tolerate it or not ..... it's asking the question:


Why don't you know something is amiss?


I truly believe that people fuck themselves up with cheaters, more so than the actual cheater does ... people hang on with blind eyes when they know something is wrong. And most times do nothing about the situation except hope.

If people would wake up to realize that if the relationship is fucked up in reality, and not just in theory ... then they wouldn't even be there to walk in on their partner fucking someone on the couch.

The signs are usually right in front of your face ..... but, people are so attached to their own feelings that they simply can't bare to face the truth.

And of course you would tolerate it .... so long as your emotional needs were being met, because then you'd be blinded, like all females.

I haven't tolerated it in the past, I don't see why I would start now.

Your theory may work for you, but it doesn't for everyone. Maybe if you weren't so attached to it...

My point flew over your head. That's what happens when people get defensive.

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Noo

Your point was lost when you attempted to take her inventory, and tell her what *she* would do.


Nice to see you blocked me, though-- lol.


Some people just can't handle dissent.