Breaking up

In previous relationships,

are you the one that usually initiates that

or it's the other way around?

I realized when I ws younger, in High school I was always doing the break ups! But as I got older-I usually stick it out...
If im really NOT into you I am the 1st to call it quits.

I always do the breaking up. There were times when I wanted "him" to do it but it never worked.

I usually do the breaking up.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
In previous relationships,

are you the one that usually initiates that

or it's the other way around?

I do the breaking up about 80% of the time

I've always been the one doing the breaking up. TBH, I don't think my ego would ever get over being dumped, doesn't matter if I care or not. It must feel very humiliating. I think I'd hate the guy after that lol.

Posted by WaterCup
I've always been the one doing the breaking up. TBH, I don't think my ego would ever get over being dumped, doesn't matter if I care or not. It must feel very humiliating. I think I'd hate the guy after that lol.

Same here 🙂

50/50

80/20

dumpee/dumped

I am usually the one who breaks up with another or usually they break up with me coz thats how i want it anyway. So yeh either its usually coz I want it that way easier to handle coming from myself if it isnt working why then would you want to keep doing something if its not working or if you can see its not working or not going to work out then why hang around onyl to be hurt later on down the track.

I mean is it not common sense to end it if you know its not going to work out or unsure if its going to work out?

Thats why i end things, its a definate thing for me when i end things.

You know final, the finality of all things. I say to you i dont want to be with you because I dont want to that is why.

Like its hard enough to be unsure if you want to be with someone let alone having to put up with wondering how you actually feel and having to second guess all the time the way you feel. I know myself well enough to know what i want and not want and whos good for me or not etcetc and i dont have time to be wondering about how another feels and if that hurts you then we arent to be together, go find someone else for that, coz that isnt me. I have better things to do with my time ratherthen second guessing what another is thinking feeling wondering if you not going to be straight up front and honest about your own shit then go away from me and leave me alone and find someone else to cling to and harass. To me this is too much and I find it harrassing for someone to be like this towards me. I understand people do get like this at times in their lives and it is sometimes a necessary part of life to be like this but not all the time. Its way too much for me I dont like clingy people i find it somewhat harassing that they are like this. Too much of anything is not good at all!

i dont get into other peoples bullshit and ego ways. Prefer people who are decent and real and honest with how they are as opposed to people who play on others emotions to get them to do what they want them to do, will never work with me seen it one too many times and heard of it one too many times. People like that can get fucked for all I care meaning just that.

What's your sign mfw??_.

Posted by Prince_Pisces

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Posted by Prince_Pisces
Well there was one time a sugar daddy I had, dropped me and took back everything he gave me LOL!

fucking indian givers ehh... 😛

Right? All i could do at the time was hope he got into a really bad car wreck, or something that left him in a coma, so i could keep everything LOL!

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I wonder where that expression comes from and why? Anyone?

Posted by tiziani
I used to make them break up with me. Nowadays, as was mentioned, I'm walking away. Drama free life style .

How did you do that??_ make them break up with you??

WHEN I SAW BREAKING UP AND YOUR NAME
I THOUGHT SOMETHING ELSE
DAMN

I've only had a few serious relationships.

The ones that weren't serious, breaking up wasn't present really because I was never fully there in the relationship, so it was more like both parties would drift away.

For the serious ones ....

Gemini - I left him
Libra - we parted equally, discussing it fully
Taurus & Leo - I was seeing both of these at the same time. One day, I introduced them to each other, their eyes met and that was all she wrote. They are still married 33 years later and 4 children.
Virgo - we are still together

Posted by Damnata
80/20

dumpee/dumped

Such a Virgo

Posted by Prince_Pisces

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Posted by Prince_Pisces
Well there was one time a sugar daddy I had, dropped me and took back everything he gave me LOL!

fucking indian givers ehh... 😛

Right? All i could do at the time was hope he got into a really bad car wreck, or something that left him in a coma, so i could keep everything LOL!

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OMG, hahahaha

Posted by P-Angel

I've only had a few serious relationships.

The ones that weren't serious, breaking up wasn't present really because I was never fully there in the relationship, so it was more like both parties would drift away.

For the serious ones ....

Gemini - I left him
Libra - we parted equally, discussing it fully
Taurus & Leo - I was seeing both of these at the same time. One day, I introduced them to each other, their eyes met and that was all she wrote. They are still married 33 years later and 4 children.
Virgo - we are still together

Why did you introduce them to each other? Did you know they would end up together?

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Taurus & Leo - I was seeing both of these at the same time. One day, I introduced them to each other, their eyes met and that was all she wrote. They are still married 33 years later and 4 children.

Why did you introduce them to each other? Did you know they would end up together?

No, I didn't know they would end up together.

I had been dating him (Leo) for several months. And though the sex is beyond description, and though we liked each other a lot ... it was obvious to both of us that feelings wouldn't develop beyond where we were.

She (Taurus) had recently experienced a horrible break up, and being her stubborn self, refused to let go ... her and I dating was more for her benefit, to attempt to make her feel loved, wanted and special. Her ex (Aries) had ripped her apart personally and she was struggling with self worth. The relationship wasn't going anywhere and wasn't suppose to go anywhere ... it was only there for her to feel loved.

One night, she asked to meet this guy I had been seeing, so I asked him how he felt about the two of them meeting. And in his maleness, he's having threesome ideas.

I don't think so. But, he agreed to meet her because she wanted to, and I felt it was her right to know the other person I was seeing, if she wanted.

She fixed us supper .... we walked through the door .. their eyes locked, and their eyes for each other never stopped.

She had a two kids already ... I scooped them up, we went to McDonalds for dinner .... and the two of them became life partners.

to this day, we all laugh about it ... we know that the only reason I even met the dude was for this purpose.

OK, I was saying before I was rudely cut off, that's beautiful. Just goes to show, there's a reason to every encounter. It's what you make of it 🙂

So, yeah, you're bisexual?

DAMN THOSE GREEN EYES

Ive been cheated on in all my relations but I was the one who left even though I left I feel like the one who was dumped.

Posted by LilyTree\
Own up and speak your mind, you yellow-bellied, playing-with-emotions jerk-who-thinks-he-knows-what's-best!

Easy, Trigger-- did you see where he said this?

"Then my Pisces ex put things into a different perspective and set me straight... "

I think he knows that wasn't the best way to go.

Unless you just enjoy flogging the fishies, then by all means.. carry on. 😉

Posted by aquapiscescusp

So, yeah, you're bisexual?

No, not really ... and, yes, at the same time.

I don't view this concept like most other people. To me, being attracted to a person or desiring to love a person isn't sexually driven.

Sex isn't love ... it's an expression.

Me loving her wasn't based on my sexuality ... while at the same time, I'm certain that every person's soul is androgynous, so to want to love a person irregardless of gender is natural.

Posted by tiziani
I've also just realized how old I'm becoming on here to be able to recall old thread topics twice or more on command.

Oh boy you don't know half of it lol

i want to be dumped. being the one to do the dumping has meant i've never felt really fulfilled or right or happy in the past... that for whatever reason i was in the relationship in the beginning was the WRONG reason and WHEN am i EVER going to find the right reason to stay—

of course i will regret saying this when i actually DO get dumped one of these days... but i think it's a necessary marker in life... and besides, when will i ever get a reason to eat a tub full of ice cream in one sitting, crying while watching my crime tv shows and looking really ugly?

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Posted by aquapiscescusp

So, yeah, you're bisexual?

No, not really ... and, yes, at the same time.

I don't view this concept like most other people. To me, being attracted to a person or desiring to love a person isn't sexually driven.

Sex isn't love ... it's an expression.

Me loving her wasn't based on my sexuality ... while at the same time, I'm certain that every person's soul is androgynous, so to want to love a person irregardless of gender is natural.

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I understand??_ 🙂

Posted by tiziani

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Posted by tiziani
I've also just realized how old I'm becoming on here to be able to recall old thread topics twice or more on command.

Oh boy you don't know half of it lol

Were you lurking in the last thread when this happened? Funnily enough it was a Pisces and Scorpio that lost in on me, and they proceeded to praise Aries men to high heaven. That didn't last long, though.

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i wonder if it's "set up"?
that's horrible! to have something set up.
If you love the Aries men in real life for example, why parallel them to those who are on dxp??

the ones on dxp could be making up stuff and make you "hate" aries men.
but that is being "influenced".
you can hate the ones on dxp, but your world view on the ones you know in real life will always remain. i'm aware though that there are people out there that will go out in the real world and believe that all aries men are horrible due to astrology influence. This makes the prejudice and bias.

d'you all believe this kind of "act" is malicious?