Haruuka
@Haruuka
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Can we trust someone again?
I will put his chart later because I’m busy lol
What!? No one? 🤕💔
I was with a Gemini for half my life. This is just how they are. I had to learn to let him go through my phone and read all my texts. He even read texts from girls. He used to call all the time and wonder where I was. You have to stand up to a Gemini and tell them to back off. They need boundaries otherwise they try to play games and push to see how far they can get away with things.
My ex used to call and scream and I would hang up on him and just text him. But I always did what I wanted to do. I never really gave in unless I wanted to. They just want to have their way and change your mind, but then they don';t even care once they get it. So it's best to do what you want and give him boundaries. Once you start, he will let up a little but they are possessive and nosy so he will always keep track of you.
My ex has a new girlfriend that is pregnant now and he is still trying to contact me and tells me I'm the only one he will ever love. I told him he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way and he needs to concentrate on them.
My ex used to call and scream and I would hang up on him and just text him. But I always did what I wanted to do. I never really gave in unless I wanted to. They just want to have their way and change your mind, but then they don';t even care once they get it. So it's best to do what you want and give him boundaries. Once you start, he will let up a little but they are possessive and nosy so he will always keep track of you.
My ex has a new girlfriend that is pregnant now and he is still trying to contact me and tells me I'm the only one he will ever love. I told him he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way and he needs to concentrate on them.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by saggurl88
I was with a Gemini for half my life. This is just how they are. I had to learn to let him go through my phone and read all my texts. He even read texts from girls. He used to call all the time and wonder where I was. You have to stand up to a Gemini and tell them to back off. They need boundaries otherwise they try to play games and push to see how far they can get away with things.
My ex used to call and scream and I would hang up on him and just text him. But I always did what I wanted to do. I never really gave in unless I wanted to. They just want to have their way and change your mind, but then they don';t even care once they get it. So it's best to do what you want and give him boundaries. Once you start, he will let up a little but they are possessive and nosy so he will always keep track of you.
My ex has a new girlfriend that is pregnant now and he is still trying to contact me and tells me I'm the only one he will ever love. I told him he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way and he needs to concentrate on them.
A Gemini is possessive
ThiS is news to meclick to expand
Yes they are crazy, wild and possessive. Mine had no Scorpio in his chart but he was a freaking maniac. He wasn't too controlling cause he was fine with me telling him no but he tried. They are like Scorpios in this manner, trying to get you to do stuff just to see how far they can push. It doesn't work for me cause I am not a push over. My placements usually dominate both, they are both softer once you fight back.
Scorpios learn and get soft but Geminis continue to fight the whole way.
You could try this:
https://www.iphonelife.com/content/10-tips-to-protect-your-iphone-hackers
Might help. 🤓
https://www.iphonelife.com/content/10-tips-to-protect-your-iphone-hackers
Might help. 🤓
Posted by Antiochus
People rarely change who they are at their core, meaning that if he did what he did due to superficial insecurities he can change but if he did it because it's him wanting to have control, knowledge etc. it's unlikely.
If you want to try it again at all costs it might be better to only slowly increase your trust in him while you give him a chance. Controlled trust if you will.
Yeah I know that people don’t change easily.
But he is insecure, always been this way, and ask me how can I love him and be with him, even tho I don’t see anything wrong with him
I will try this, thank you
Posted by Marai
Your sister is right, he doesn't love you. Its control, not love.
😔💔
Then why he always come back?
Crazy gemini always know everything I do, sometimes I feel like I wanna take him back because then I will feel safe at least
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Marai
Your sister is right, he doesn't love you. Its control, not love.
Hacking a phone? Sigh is being a water sign bad cause i see that as romantic
😂😂😂😂click to expand
It’s not romantic!!!!!
Hacking your phone means that you don’t have privacy or feel safe
I mean when were together he didn’t just read my messages, he also know were Iam at, always sent me “are you ok?” When I’m in hospital or something
I was thinking it’s because we’re colse and loves each other, till that moment I realize there is something wrong 😳
He didn’t admit at first, took him half a year to apologize, I know this is not romantic, it’s scary and crazy
Posted by saggurl88
I was with a Gemini for half my life. This is just how they are. I had to learn to let him go through my phone and read all my texts. He even read texts from girls. He used to call all the time and wonder where I was. You have to stand up to a Gemini and tell them to back off. They need boundaries otherwise they try to play games and push to see how far they can get away with things.
My ex used to call and scream and I would hang up on him and just text him. But I always did what I wanted to do. I never really gave in unless I wanted to. They just want to have their way and change your mind, but then they don';t even care once they get it. So it's best to do what you want and give him boundaries. Once you start, he will let up a little but they are possessive and nosy so he will always keep track of you.
My ex has a new girlfriend that is pregnant now and he is still trying to contact me and tells me I'm the only one he will ever love. I told him he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way and he needs to concentrate on them.
Oh dear god, what the hell 💔😔
You know what? Even tho I love him, I mean J really love him and accept his dark side
But when I remember my feelings when we together, I just can’t
He will do anything to know about everything, he is not that kind of men who will ask me
He just ask the people around me, I just don’t get it? 🤯
I wonder if they act like this with everyone, or just with us, because we sag don’t talk about our feelings that much 😂
Your ex sounds like mine, but the different my gemini didn’t get married, he is always with someone, but he told me that he wants me to be his wife, but I can’t imagine myself living a life with cameras in my home lmaaao
Ugh fk this shyt, the more I think about it, the more I get angry and can’t forgive 🤕💔
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by Haruuka
I’m taking break from my break to ask you guys about this
Taking break from my break sounds good😆
Whatever.. I know you all know about my story with the gemini
The thing is, he is in deep depression and I can see it in him, he ask me for another chance, that he is sorry for what he did (he never apologize before)
The thing is I love him, but I don’t wanna do something that will hurt me again
I mean he said that he (hacked) my phone because he is in love, and he can’t believe that I’m only talking with him, because I have a lot of followers in my social media blah balh and he is insecure and also told me that he tried to move on with other girl, but he couldn’t and when we were talking he cried and I hugged him and cried with him💔😟
I told him that I will think about it.
But I’m worried about that what if he did it again?
My sister told me that he will break my heart again and that he doesn’t love me
But I feel like I wanna give this chance, but at the same time I’m afraid He will do it again, because he is fking engineer and always do things like this and laugh when he scared me, like he always read my family messages and know also were Iam at, I mean how can anyone do this to someone they love?? I just don’t get?
The thing is, I wanna ask you guys do you think that he can change for good?
Do you think that it’s ok to trust him again??
I’m confused and can’t think clearly because it’s matters of the heart not brain
No. People never change their core being.
He is a manipulating control freak, even if he maybe did not hack your Phone and said it to intimidate you.
Youre hooked to the Adrenalin.
Get out or stay away before you are wrecked.click to expand
He never admitted before, but I know it because I got messages from my social media accounts, my what’s up, he hacked almost everything he know about .
Now he apologize and said that he didn’t mean to make me feel uncomfortable
He got a very cold heart, and in the same time I know he miss me, he cried and told me that it’s hard for him to live without me, He gain a lot of weight and he never been like this, I feel like he needs more than love me
I’m so confused, like I’m dealing with two people 💔
Posted by DeadInsidePosted by HaruukaPosted by DeadInside
No; especially sag
He is sag moon 😅
blocked and erasedclick to expand
Lol
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by HaruukaPosted by Black-MambaPosted by Marai
Your sister is right, he doesn't love you. Its control, not love.
Hacking a phone? Sigh is being a water sign bad cause i see that as romantic
😂😂😂😂
It’s not romantic!!!!!
Hacking your phone means that you don’t have privacy or feel safe
I mean when were together he didn’t just read my messages, he also know were Iam at, always sent me “are you ok?” When I’m in hospital or something
I was thinking it’s because we’re colse and loves each other, till that moment I realize there is something wrong 😳
He didn’t admit at first, took him half a year to apologize, I know this is not romantic, it’s scary and crazy
No it's anxiety
He needs talk therapy or medication
He's not crazy or scaryclick to expand
Yeah, but if it was woman who do this to a man, she will be crazy 😄
I will talk with him about the therapy tho
Posted by neves
You could try this:
https://www.iphonelife.com/content/10-tips-to-protect-your-iphone-hackers
Might help. 🤓
You’re missing the point
I changed my phone and number after what happened, but the point here is, I’m not sure if I should give him another chance or not.
It’s about trust, because if he did it again I will report him for sure, I told him that and he said that I have the right to do, but what I’m worried about what should I do, I mean why someone do this to me come back and make me so confuse 🤕💔
Posted by tiziani
It sounds like you're romanticising it already.
you say "he will do anything to know"
"..... except ask me"
so he's not that crazy. sounds pretty average and yeah disrespectful.
For whatever reason he's afraid of you, maybe he's just incapable.
Afraid? 😯🤔
Maybe he is afraid from my crazy Aries mars 😂
Maybe I’m crazy myself and drove this man crazy
Can I show our charts? I know this is cheap lol but I just wanna know
Posted by SkeletonPosted by HaruukaPosted by Marai
Your sister is right, he doesn't love you. Its control, not love.
😔💔
Then why he always come back?
Crazy gemini always know everything I do, sometimes I feel like I wanna take him back because then I will feel safe at least
Easy, you're his target point who easily are gullible and naive to be manipulated.click to expand
So what? What is his point
Why would he wanna marry someone who doesn’t wanna marry? I guess he is just crazy
But I will never give him what he wants ✔️
Posted by SkeletonPosted by HaruukaPosted by SkeletonPosted by HaruukaPosted by Marai
Your sister is right, he doesn't love you. Its control, not love.
😔💔
Then why he always come back?
Crazy gemini always know everything I do, sometimes I feel like I wanna take him back because then I will feel safe at least
Easy, you're his target point who easily are gullible and naive to be manipulated.
So what? What is his point
Why would he wanna marry someone who doesn’t wanna marry? I guess he is just crazy
But I will never give him what he wants ✔️
you care to much.click to expand
Thank you 🙏🏻
You make them work hard to get your trust back. its earned not given.
Posted by WitchmitchAries
You make them work hard to get your trust back. its earned not given.
With all my scorpio placements, Maybe I will love him and even marry him, but I will never trust him again
I hate that, but this is me
Posted by NemDeuxPosted by HaruukaPosted by NemDeuxPosted by Haruuka
I’m taking break from my break to ask you guys about this
Taking break from my break sounds good😆
Whatever.. I know you all know about my story with the gemini
The thing is, he is in deep depression and I can see it in him, he ask me for another chance, that he is sorry for what he did (he never apologize before)
The thing is I love him, but I don’t wanna do something that will hurt me again
I mean he said that he (hacked) my phone because he is in love, and he can’t believe that I’m only talking with him, because I have a lot of followers in my social media blah balh and he is insecure and also told me that he tried to move on with other girl, but he couldn’t and when we were talking he cried and I hugged him and cried with him💔😟
I told him that I will think about it.
But I’m worried about that what if he did it again?
My sister told me that he will break my heart again and that he doesn’t love me
But I feel like I wanna give this chance, but at the same time I’m afraid He will do it again, because he is fking engineer and always do things like this and laugh when he scared me, like he always read my family messages and know also were Iam at, I mean how can anyone do this to someone they love?? I just don’t get?
The thing is, I wanna ask you guys do you think that he can change for good?
Do you think that it’s ok to trust him again??
I’m confused and can’t think clearly because it’s matters of the heart not brain
No. People never change their core being.
He is a manipulating control freak, even if he maybe did not hack your Phone and said it to intimidate you.
Youre hooked to the Adrenalin.
Get out or stay away before you are wrecked.
He never admitted before, but I know it because I got messages from my social media accounts, my what’s up, he hacked almost everything he know about .
Now he apologize and said that he didn’t mean to make me feel uncomfortable
He got a very cold heart, and in the same time I know he miss me, he cried and told me that it’s hard for him to live without me, He gain a lot of weight and he never been like this, I feel like he needs more than love me
I’m so confused, like I’m dealing with two people 💔
Sorry girl, but you are making excuses.... justifying his behaviour so you don't feel like a fool when you do eventually take him back. Cause lets be honest... that is what you want.
The whole World and your mother might advise you against it.... but you still will take him back.
You have Not been hurt and humiliated enough it seems.
Go back to school.
And good luck.click to expand
Who said I will take him back? I’m just thinking about it
Posted by NemDeux
Smh so you'll take back a manipulative fat crying slob....because he activates your mother Teresa Buttons...
You must have a lot of self respect.
Be a role model for your Kids if not for yourself.
Fat crying 😭😂
Don’t be harsh on me, I’m just thinking about it.., there is no harm on that.
This man always come back, like he is really always there... 🤕😟💔
Why god made our opposite sign crazy like this 😔
Posted by HaruukaPosted by neves
You could try this:
https://www.iphonelife.com/content/10-tips-to-protect-your-iphone-hackers
Might help. 🤓
You’re missing the point
I changed my phone and number after what happened, but the point here is, I’m not sure if I should give him another chance or not.
It’s about trust, because if he did it again I will report him for sure, I told him that and he said that I have the right to do, but what I’m worried about what should I do, I mean why someone do this to me come back and make me so confuse 🤕💔click to expand
When it comes to material things/stuff like computers, phones and so on... there's usually a practical solution for every problem/inconvenience (what you see is what you get). All it takes is to know the model - and you can search for a way to deal with that issue. Since all the devices pertaining a given model - work the same and usually brake in a similar way.
Can't say the same about people. Yes, it's easy to judge (quick to judge - that is). It's easy to put a label on someone. Especially on a public forum - where even irrelevant details - are more than enough to deem someone as evil (and advise the one in question to keep away and such...). That being said - i don't know this guy. 🤷 Or at least - i know very little about him - to say something you don't already know. This is one of this things only you could answer - since you know him better than all of us. I mean, what you mentioned so far - might cover less than 5% of the whole story (of everything you know about him / after all - you're one of the main chars in this story). And not to mention - we know only the bad stuff (if he was all bad, I'd take it - you'd keep the distance and mention only how much you hate him and wish him gone - like that Leo guy that kept bothering you).
The thing is... whatever decision you'll make - that's something you'll live with (something that impacts your life). So hey, while taking in consideration everything you know about him (and you / the way you mix together) - just go with what you know is right. Or what feels right - if it's a "gut feeling (intuition)". Cause the usual feelings (despite of being really intense - at times) - are not that different than flipping a coin (: so called - sentimental bullshit). 💩
Posted by HaruukaPosted by saggurl88
I was with a Gemini for half my life. This is just how they are. I had to learn to let him go through my phone and read all my texts. He even read texts from girls. He used to call all the time and wonder where I was. You have to stand up to a Gemini and tell them to back off. They need boundaries otherwise they try to play games and push to see how far they can get away with things.
My ex used to call and scream and I would hang up on him and just text him. But I always did what I wanted to do. I never really gave in unless I wanted to. They just want to have their way and change your mind, but then they don';t even care once they get it. So it's best to do what you want and give him boundaries. Once you start, he will let up a little but they are possessive and nosy so he will always keep track of you.
My ex has a new girlfriend that is pregnant now and he is still trying to contact me and tells me I'm the only one he will ever love. I told him he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way and he needs to concentrate on them.
Oh dear god, what the hell 💔😔
You know what? Even tho I love him, I mean J really love him and accept his dark side
But when I remember my feelings when we together, I just can’t
He will do anything to know about everything, he is not that kind of men who will ask me
He just ask the people around me, I just don’t get it? 🤯
I wonder if they act like this with everyone, or just with us, because we sag don’t talk about our feelings that much 😂
Your ex sounds like mine, but the different my gemini didn’t get married, he is always with someone, but he told me that he wants me to be his wife, but I can’t imagine myself living a life with cameras in my home lmaaao
Ugh fk this shyt, the more I think about it, the more I get angry and can’t forgive 🤕💔click to expand
I don't understand the part of him always being with someone? Did he cheat?
My Gem had a Gemini Venus and never strayed but he was a huge player in the beginning and we had an open relationship until he started trying to pin me down and I said ok. I loved him at that time so I was only with him.
I am the type that runs though, and always has one foot out the door just in case. I think him being insecure about that, is what made him want to cling to me.
I have a pretty big ego and will kindly tell some one to fucc off when I've had enough. He used to get mad at me and say why is breaking up the only option I came up with. I used to tell him if he didn't like something feel free to pack his shyt. 😆
We had this discussion a few times a year, when he started bugging me too much. He always used to try and change my plans. Hanging out with friends and then him saying we were supposed to do something instead. I don't flake on people so this was a huge issue for him. I didn't even hang out with friends a lot. I could hang out once a month and he would say it was just last weekend. So then we would fight. lol
But I think your Gemini loves you, they don't really throw it around and bug you if they don't. They are pretty quick to go to someone else and leave when they don't love you.
Posted by HaruukaPosted by WitchmitchAries
You make them work hard to get your trust back. its earned not given.
With all my scorpio placements, Maybe I will love him and even marry him, but I will never trust him again
I hate that, but this is meclick to expand
still nothing wrong with making him work for it. as for marriage, well if there is no trust it wont work.
Posted by MaraiPosted by HaruukaPosted by Marai
Your sister is right, he doesn't love you. Its control, not love.
😔💔
Then why he always come back?
Crazy gemini always know everything I do, sometimes I feel like I wanna take him back because then I will feel safe at least
Co-depency? Lonely?
Not sure if he's with you for the right reasons as he said before he tried it with another girl.
How are you feeling? Dont you feel suffocated hes tracing all your whereabouts?click to expand
Yeah I felt suffocated and like crazy when he was doing it, but like I said before I changed my phone.
He said he is tried with her, but she doesn’t understand him blah blah
I don’t know what I feel, but I know one thing, I don’t wanna go through all that pain in the past, because when someone like him love, he do horrible things to make sure I don’t leave him, I don’t know why is he like this, he is cancer venus sag moon leo mars, Pisces rising
I don’t want him to be sad and drink a lot, or lose himself, but I don’t wanna be with him again, my heart can’t handle all that pain and trauma.
But I can’t do it and tell him, I feel bad and sad, I hate this.
Posted by RxciriinPosted by Black-MambaPosted by MaraiPosted by Black-MambaPosted by MaraiPosted by Black-MambaPosted by Marai
Your sister is right, he doesn't love you. Its control, not love.
Hacking a phone? Sigh is being a water sign bad cause i see that as romantic
😂😂😂😂
You're mental😂
But a romantic
I'm a water sign and a romantic, but hacking a phone is invasion of privacy, and disrespectful of the person that he wouldn't trust my word. Fuck nooooo... fuck that shit
I'm Scorpio rising, I'd hack someone phone
I'm water sign, a romantic, a Scorpio rising and I get jealous at Youtube videos but still no to hacking lol, not even to open chat convos unless he gives explicit consent
@OP if you're consistent with your boundaries aka growl with enough scare factor every time your privacy is at risk with it's maybe fine. If he's not too crazy. Lolclick to expand
When I first time asked him:” are you spying on my phone?” He answered me:” wow! Just imagine me being stalker “
Lol
Posted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by neves
You could try this:
https://www.iphonelife.com/content/10-tips-to-protect-your-iphone-hackers
Might help. 🤓
You’re missing the point
I changed my phone and number after what happened, but the point here is, I’m not sure if I should give him another chance or not.
It’s about trust, because if he did it again I will report him for sure, I told him that and he said that I have the right to do, but what I’m worried about what should I do, I mean why someone do this to me come back and make me so confuse 🤕💔
When it comes to material things/stuff like computers, phones and so on... there's usually a practical solution for every problem/inconvenience (what you see is what you get). All it takes is to know the model - and you can search for a way to deal with that issue. Since all the devices pertaining a given model - work the same and usually brake in a similar way.
Can't say the same about people. Yes, it's easy to judge (quick to judge - that is). It's easy to put a label on someone. Especially on a public forum - where even irrelevant details - are more than enough to deem someone as evil (and advise the one in question to keep away and such...). That being said - i don't know this guy. 🤷 Or at least - i know very little about him - to say something you don't already know. This is one of this things only you could answer - since you know him better than all of us. I mean, what you mentioned so far - might cover less than 5% of the whole story (of everything you know about him / after all - you're one of the main chars in this story). And not to mention - we know only the bad stuff (if he was all bad, I'd take it - you'd keep the distance and mention only how much you hate him and wish him gone - like that Leo guy that kept bothering you).
The thing is... whatever decision you'll make - that's something you'll live with (something that impacts your life). So hey, while taking in consideration everything you know about him (and you / the way you mix together) - just go with what you know is right. Or what feels right - if it's a "gut feeling (intuition)". Cause the usual feelings (despite of being really intense - at times) - are not that different than flipping a coin (: so called - sentimental bullshit). 💩click to expand
What I feel right is that I don’t wanna be with him.
But I do love him, it’s been year and I still feel like I’m dying inside because I’m not with him, I hate my feelings and I know I shouldn’t feel this way but I can’t hate him, or even feel normal without him ):
But I’m good at hiding my feelings and I will not take him back, because I will forget him one day, I’m sure.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by HaruukaPosted by saggurl88
I was with a Gemini for half my life. This is just how they are. I had to learn to let him go through my phone and read all my texts. He even read texts from girls. He used to call all the time and wonder where I was. You have to stand up to a Gemini and tell them to back off. They need boundaries otherwise they try to play games and push to see how far they can get away with things.
My ex used to call and scream and I would hang up on him and just text him. But I always did what I wanted to do. I never really gave in unless I wanted to. They just want to have their way and change your mind, but then they don';t even care once they get it. So it's best to do what you want and give him boundaries. Once you start, he will let up a little but they are possessive and nosy so he will always keep track of you.
My ex has a new girlfriend that is pregnant now and he is still trying to contact me and tells me I'm the only one he will ever love. I told him he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way and he needs to concentrate on them.
Oh dear god, what the hell 💔😔
You know what? Even tho I love him, I mean J really love him and accept his dark side
But when I remember my feelings when we together, I just can’t
He will do anything to know about everything, he is not that kind of men who will ask me
He just ask the people around me, I just don’t get it? 🤯
I wonder if they act like this with everyone, or just with us, because we sag don’t talk about our feelings that much 😂
Your ex sounds like mine, but the different my gemini didn’t get married, he is always with someone, but he told me that he wants me to be his wife, but I can’t imagine myself living a life with cameras in my home lmaaao
Ugh fk this shyt, the more I think about it, the more I get angry and can’t forgive 🤕💔
I don't understand the part of him always being with someone? Did he cheat?
My Gem had a Gemini Venus and never strayed but he was a huge player in the beginning and we had an open relationship until he started trying to pin me down and I said ok. I loved him at that time so I was only with him.
I am the type that runs though, and always has one foot out the door just in case. I think him being insecure about that, is what made him want to cling to me.
I have a pretty big ego and will kindly tell some one to fucc off when I've had enough. He used to get mad at me and say why is breaking up the only option I came up with. I used to tell him if he didn't like something feel free to pack his shyt. 😆
We had this discussion a few times a year, when he started bugging me too much. He always used to try and change my plans. Hanging out with friends and then him saying we were supposed to do something instead. I don't flake on people so this was a huge issue for him. I didn't even hang out with friends a lot. I could hang out once a month and he would say it was just last weekend. So then we would fight. lol
But I think your Gemini loves you, they don't really throw it around and bug you if they don't. They are pretty quick to go to someone else and leave when they don't love you.click to expand
He is that kind of men who always got girl, a girl who will be okay with everything
When I was with him he cut them off, all of them, and told me that he just want me blah blah
After we break up he come back to her (or them) I’m not sure how many, but he is always with someone because he can’t handle being alone, I know him.
The thing is he talking with me now, and said that he will leave her, I don’t even know her sign.
But I don’t wanna hurt her or anyone, When we were together I asked him did you break up with because of me? And he said no, but I don’t know
I think like skeleton said I care too much, but I don’t know, this is so confusing
I’m happy with my new job, will have new home soon, a new car, I will travel alone for the first time, but he come back crying and make me feel bad, like he is so sad because of me.
Like it’s my fault that he in a deep depression, I was really good and have everything right before he showed up, crazy gemini 🥺💔💔💔💔
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by HaruukaPosted by WitchmitchAries
You make them work hard to get your trust back. its earned not given.
With all my scorpio placements, Maybe I will love him and even marry him, but I will never trust him again
I hate that, but this is me
still nothing wrong with making him work for it. as for marriage, well if there is no trust it wont work.click to expand
He want me to trust him “completely “😂😂😂
Even if he works for it, I will never trust him again
Posted by Jade_Alexander
Mama,
Its hard and scary to let go.
That unknown feeling and the grief
But you will have time to heal, and the grief will lesson. Then your soul will feel safe again and you will blossom.
Let him go. You may love him, he may love you... but you two are toxic.
I let him go, and just learn how to live without him in my own way.
What we had was the best thing, we were like twins, and really happy in all way, but he messed all that up, I don’t know why, I keep thinking why? What I have done wrong?? Why someone love me did this to me? Maybe a lot of people think it’s ok to do this and it’s “romantic “ but it’s not.
Posted by HaruukaPosted by nevesPosted by HaruukaPosted by neves
You could try this:
https://www.iphonelife.com/content/10-tips-to-protect-your-iphone-hackers
Might help. 🤓
You’re missing the point
I changed my phone and number after what happened, but the point here is, I’m not sure if I should give him another chance or not.
It’s about trust, because if he did it again I will report him for sure, I told him that and he said that I have the right to do, but what I’m worried about what should I do, I mean why someone do this to me come back and make me so confuse 🤕💔
When it comes to material things/stuff like computers, phones and so on... there's usually a practical solution for every problem/inconvenience (what you see is what you get). All it takes is to know the model - and you can search for a way to deal with that issue. Since all the devices pertaining a given model - work the same and usually brake in a similar way.
Can't say the same about people. Yes, it's easy to judge (quick to judge - that is). It's easy to put a label on someone. Especially on a public forum - where even irrelevant details - are more than enough to deem someone as evil (and advise the one in question to keep away and such...). That being said - i don't know this guy. 🤷 Or at least - i know very little about him - to say something you don't already know. This is one of this things only you could answer - since you know him better than all of us. I mean, what you mentioned so far - might cover less than 5% of the whole story (of everything you know about him / after all - you're one of the main chars in this story). And not to mention - we know only the bad stuff (if he was all bad, I'd take it - you'd keep the distance and mention only how much you hate him and wish him gone - like that Leo guy that kept bothering you).
The thing is... whatever decision you'll make - that's something you'll live with (something that impacts your life). So hey, while taking in consideration everything you know about him (and you / the way you mix together) - just go with what you know is right. Or what feels right - if it's a "gut feeling (intuition)". Cause the usual feelings (despite of being really intense - at times) - are not that different than flipping a coin (: so called - sentimental bullshit). 💩
What I feel right is that I don’t wanna be with him.
But I do love him, it’s been year and I still feel like I’m dying inside because I’m not with him, I hate my feelings and I know I shouldn’t feel this way but I can’t hate him, or even feel normal without him ):
But I’m good at hiding my feelings and I will not take him back, because I will forget him one day, I’m sure.
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That sounds like - cognitive dissonance... 🤷
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Mama,
Its hard and scary to let go.
That unknown feeling and the grief
But you will have time to heal, and the grief will lesson. Then your soul will feel safe again and you will blossom.
Let him go. You may love him, he may love you... but you two are toxic.
I let him go, and just learn how to live without him in my own way.
What we had was the best thing, we were like twins, and really happy in all way, but he messed all that up, I don’t know why, I keep thinking why? What I have done wrong?? Why someone love me did this to me? Maybe a lot of people think it’s ok to do this and it’s “romantic “ but it’s not.
Sometimes good things go sideways
I totally get it. I went through these feelings in my marriage.
I did reconize a lot of co dependent thoughts in myself and startwd to address them. I found it made moving on easier. There was still pain, but also the strength to handle it.click to expand
I will meet him today and I will talk with him, I hope I don’t end up in his lap 😂😂
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by HaruukaPosted by Jade_Alexander
Mama,
Its hard and scary to let go.
That unknown feeling and the grief
But you will have time to heal, and the grief will lesson. Then your soul will feel safe again and you will blossom.
Let him go. You may love him, he may love you... but you two are toxic.
I let him go, and just learn how to live without him in my own way.
What we had was the best thing, we were like twins, and really happy in all way, but he messed all that up, I don’t know why, I keep thinking why? What I have done wrong?? Why someone love me did this to me? Maybe a lot of people think it’s ok to do this and it’s “romantic “ but it’s not.
Sometimes good things go sideways
I totally get it. I went through these feelings in my marriage.
I did reconize a lot of co dependent thoughts in myself and startwd to address them. I found it made moving on easier. There was still pain, but also the strength to handle it.
I will meet him today and I will talk with him, I hope I don’t end up in his lap 😂😂
So when the aqua broke up with me back in May, I felt devastated. It was the second time we had ended things and I didn’t know if I could go through another break up with him. It was more painful then losing my marriage. And I took all of that and used it as an opportunity to reflect on who I was, why I was involved with him, and what kind of relationship I wanted for myself. And I spent months looking deep and reevaluating the choices I had made and the things that of happened to me in my life.
And something with the knee changed. And who I was and my insecurities and my imperfections begin to mature or go away or heal.
I think he went through something similar because when we reconnected everything felt different this time. I had a chance to grow, he had a chance to think about what he really wanted and our relationship feels whole now. I feel so different in it with him, who he is is different, and how secure it feels is unlike what I had in the past.
We would have never reached this level if we had allowed our fear, grieve and codependency to win. On some level we just needed time apart to focus on ourselves. I am sharing this, because I think you really love this man. And I’m not saying You two can’t be together. But sometimes taking time apart to refocus and he’ll is what allows you to take that relationship to the next level.click to expand
I will talk with him because life is too short to ignore him, I don’t want him to feel sad or bad, I want him to move on .
If he really want me, then I will see and ask him do you wanna be my friend??
I just don’t have the power to fight 💭
Ummm..
Ok...
It's your sag hearted, good natured, fomo, nontraditional that is keeping you engaged.
I know. I'm a scorpio moon and who wants a perfect love song anyway—
Your self respect or the fact that you deny him is what keeps him coming back. Your self respect is making you attractive.
I ❤❤❤ a possessive man. Slightly controlling. I need to be with someone who cant be without me. The longing, the desire. It gets me out of bed.
It's the disrespect where we all need to draw the line.
There is nothing wrong with healthy possessive nature. Sounds like an oxymoron.
It's the disrespect that makes me cringe.
Ok...
It's your sag hearted, good natured, fomo, nontraditional that is keeping you engaged.
I know. I'm a scorpio moon and who wants a perfect love song anyway—
Your self respect or the fact that you deny him is what keeps him coming back. Your self respect is making you attractive.
I ❤❤❤ a possessive man. Slightly controlling. I need to be with someone who cant be without me. The longing, the desire. It gets me out of bed.
It's the disrespect where we all need to draw the line.
There is nothing wrong with healthy possessive nature. Sounds like an oxymoron.
It's the disrespect that makes me cringe.
Also, He...let me repeat HE is the cause of his own depression.
Not you.
Not you.
Posted by HaruukaPosted by saggurl88Posted by HaruukaPosted by saggurl88
I was with a Gemini for half my life. This is just how they are. I had to learn to let him go through my phone and read all my texts. He even read texts from girls. He used to call all the time and wonder where I was. You have to stand up to a Gemini and tell them to back off. They need boundaries otherwise they try to play games and push to see how far they can get away with things.
My ex used to call and scream and I would hang up on him and just text him. But I always did what I wanted to do. I never really gave in unless I wanted to. They just want to have their way and change your mind, but then they don';t even care once they get it. So it's best to do what you want and give him boundaries. Once you start, he will let up a little but they are possessive and nosy so he will always keep track of you.
My ex has a new girlfriend that is pregnant now and he is still trying to contact me and tells me I'm the only one he will ever love. I told him he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way and he needs to concentrate on them.
Oh dear god, what the hell 💔😔
You know what? Even tho I love him, I mean J really love him and accept his dark side
But when I remember my feelings when we together, I just can’t
He will do anything to know about everything, he is not that kind of men who will ask me
He just ask the people around me, I just don’t get it? 🤯
I wonder if they act like this with everyone, or just with us, because we sag don’t talk about our feelings that much 😂
Your ex sounds like mine, but the different my gemini didn’t get married, he is always with someone, but he told me that he wants me to be his wife, but I can’t imagine myself living a life with cameras in my home lmaaao
Ugh fk this shyt, the more I think about it, the more I get angry and can’t forgive 🤕💔
I don't understand the part of him always being with someone? Did he cheat?
My Gem had a Gemini Venus and never strayed but he was a huge player in the beginning and we had an open relationship until he started trying to pin me down and I said ok. I loved him at that time so I was only with him.
I am the type that runs though, and always has one foot out the door just in case. I think him being insecure about that, is what made him want to cling to me.
I have a pretty big ego and will kindly tell some one to fucc off when I've had enough. He used to get mad at me and say why is breaking up the only option I came up with. I used to tell him if he didn't like something feel free to pack his shyt. 😆
We had this discussion a few times a year, when he started bugging me too much. He always used to try and change my plans. Hanging out with friends and then him saying we were supposed to do something instead. I don't flake on people so this was a huge issue for him. I didn't even hang out with friends a lot. I could hang out once a month and he would say it was just last weekend. So then we would fight. lol
But I think your Gemini loves you, they don't really throw it around and bug you if they don't. They are pretty quick to go to someone else and leave when they don't love you.
He is that kind of men who always got girl, a girl who will be okay with everything
When I was with him he cut them off, all of them, and told me that he just want me blah blah
After we break up he come back to her (or them) I’m not sure how many, but he is always with someone because he can’t handle being alone, I know him.
The thing is he talking with me now, and said that he will leave her, I don’t even know her sign.
But I don’t wanna hurt her or anyone, When we were together I asked him did you break up with because of me? And he said no, but I don’t know
I think like skeleton said I care too much, but I don’t know, this is so confusing
I’m happy with my new job, will have new home soon, a new car, I will travel alone for the first time, but he come back crying and make me feel bad, like he is so sad because of me.
Like it’s my fault that he in a deep depression, I was really good and have everything right before he showed up, crazy gemini 🥺💔💔💔💔
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Oh! I wouldn't go back. Geminis are great at guilty tripping you. My ex Gemini does the same thing. They miss the happy times with Sag, but I just couldn't put up with him anymore, he was like a man child with no responsibilities and needed me to mother him.
He used to get us into debt and I would work hard and pull us back out. I'd have multiple jobs and he would have 1 but he would call off sick, come home early. Stuff like that. He drained me physically, but I don't get drained emotionally cause I won't let him. He always tries though. He knows I'm doing well and he still tries to implement future plans together, taking vacations buying stuff together. UM NOPE.
Don't feel bad for him, let him be someone elses problem. Love him like a family member instead of a love interest, like a cousin who is always in trouble and is trying to be needy.
We decided that we will be friends and see how things work out🤔
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I told him that I will think about it.
But I’m worried about that what if he did it again?
My sister told me that he will break my heart again and that he doesn’t love me
But I feel like I wanna give this chance, but at the same time I’m afraid He will do it again, because he is fking engineer and always do things like this and laugh when he scared me, like he always read my family messages and know also were Iam at, I mean how can anyone do this to someone they love?? I just don’t get?
The thing is, I wanna ask you guys do you think that he can change for good?
Do you think that it’s ok to trust him again??
I’m confused and can’t think clearly because it’s matters of the heart not brain