
GemsRaGalsBestPal
@GemsRaGalsBestPal
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Posted by Rabbit
So tell me...was you ankle sprained before or after this occurred? Were you getting shit faced at a bar with a sprained ankle or did you sprain your ankle after you got shit faced?
Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Wow, LetItBe, are you feeling ok? Are you on your period? Do you need some Midol? Maybe a swift kick to the ovaries? Lower back? You have THE most seething vagenda I have seen in a loooong time.
God, god, god, I am so glad you understand how much I need this apology. I mean, can I be honest here? For the last two-ish years (you know while I have rarely been active here) I have been at home weeping, self-condemning, growing some of the longest underarm hair you??ve seen this side of the African jungle. Finally, I have scraped myself and my unbrushed teeth covered in sweaters of plaque off the floor and crawled over to my cobweb covered laptop to hope and pray that I would finally get that apology so I could move on. Get into the shower, wash the crust from my ass crack, shave the braided hair from my legs and go back to my real life. Seriously, my family and friends have been wondering what on earth has been keeping me so down.
Anyhaps, you could believe all of that, OR, just OR you could believe that I recently sprained my ankle (I know, I know, please try to contain your sympathy) and like so many people gimped and laid up I had some time to play around on DXP and other —time waster?? websites. So, like the narcissist that I am (oh, and I am, I am massively obsessed with myself, fuck, I'm lucky I can even see past my own nose I am so obsessed with myself) I like to search my name upon return to see if I may have missed anything you know??_. ABOUT ME, because, God, I love me. Or, maybe even someone asking where I am, so then I can send them a nice private message saying hello, but whateves.
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Posted by shellshocker
Oh... you're having a temper tantrum.
carry on



Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by shellshocker
Oh... you're having a temper tantrum.
carry on
Yes! I am a little peeved at this bullshit. Happy? Was that good for you?
P.S. Thanks for all that helpful insight and advice. Totes appreciated.click to expand

Posted by shellshockerPosted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by shellshocker
Oh... you're having a temper tantrum.
carry on
Yes! I am a little peeved at this bullshit. Happy? Was that good for you?
P.S. Thanks for all that helpful insight and advice. Totes appreciated.
I am satisfied, yes
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Posted by scorchedearthPosted by Damnata
I cannot help but laugh..not maliciously.
But this thread is classic Aries Moon.
what's that supposed to mean?click to expand







Posted by scorchedearth
she seems irritated but this is not aries moon nuclear meltdown like we're capable of. this would be maybe a 3-4 on the pissed scale comparatively. 😉
i'm also debating if i should mention that rabbit was just being really creepy by searching her posts to try to catch her in a lie.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Ladies, ladies... let me solve this....
Clearly, I am fucking PISSED. I am sitting her eating some peppermint ice cream and watching Top Chef. I can barely contain my anger. Do you think I should see someone? Grab a Valium? I do keep Xanax around the house... is it time to drop one?
In other news....
OMGILOVEPEPPERMINTICECREAMZZZSEASON!!!!!!!!!
Damnata, I'm cool, perhaps annoyed for a second. Scorched has my levels nailed, but she's also familiar with me and my own particular writing style . I can have quite the flair to my rants and stuff and things and stuff... Did you see that AMAZING brilliance that creepy ass Rabbit dug up and reposted in this thread. I am quite proud of that one for sure, it was also a response to trolling, but a whole different level of it.
I can honestly say that DXP has only truly hurt my feelings once. It was years ago and very unlikely to ever happen again. I was young and dumb and inexperienced in the ways of trolling.
Anyhaps, what you witnessed here— It's just that dramatic style that I love.... you did catch the Gemini Sun and the references to my theater activities.... riiiiiight? 🙂
Anyway, nice to meet you fellow mooner. God, I miss the days of the Aries moon club. *le sigh*

Posted by Rabbit
There are far creepier things I could have done. Frankly IDGAF enough to do any of that crap.





Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
STOIC GOAT!!!!!!!!!! I love it.
Why didn't I think of that first? It's not that I approach to whine and complain, it's more of a "let me let you know the kind of people you are dealing with" and then let the powers at be in the universe take care of it from there. Duh. Seems like such a simple way to go about it now.... thank you for weighing in.
So classy.
Ugh, I'm only mad it didn't occur to me first. DANGGIT and I typically try to be classy. It's the whole reason I went about my emails in the way I did. Calm, cool collected, never accusatory without just cause.
I have been spinning this in my head ALL day about how when I relay the story, what will his defense be? I typically don't start fights when I haven't considered every outcome and what my move would be in any situation.... if I deem something will not have a good outcome for me, I typically keep it to myself (like in the instance of bringing up grievances with friends).
Where I hadn't gotten to yet was the dynamic of how best to relay the information to the owners. It's all in the presentation of information and what that person believes your motives to be. you gain much more ground with altruistic motivation that anything else.
And truth be told, I do want them to know, even if just for the sake of knowing. Thank you, thank you, thank you for some sage advice.
Also, great word usage on the "microcosm", had to go look that one up. Extended vocabularies is one of my favorites qualities in people.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Which brings me to my question... I can prove that he signed for a credit card transaction without me present and likely deduce he took my wallet, but will the police even give a shit? I live in Houston no less....
What's the best outcome (besides doucebag just returning it to me) I can expect?

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
What if I show up to one of my favorite bars and she confronts me? Gets up in my face?
I wish I hadn't said no questions asked, can't I just spin that to mean I won't get you into legal trouble—? Not, I won't tell your boss—?
And what kind of honor do I owe a thief?
"No honor among thieves?"

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Remember, when he was dropped off back at the bar and his car, I was not with him. So, there is nowhere I could have left my wallet that would have left a choice being him taking it to later return.
Then, for my very last point, I asked him 5 days ago via facebook email (which I know he saw due to his read receipt) about my wallet. An email which he ignored.
Now, I do not believe that it is at all plausible that he mistakenly or otherwise innocently took my wallet.
P.S. There was also $ 60 cash in my wallet. Were I going to give him money to take a cab, it would have came from there. Conveniently, that money was also missing when I picked up my wallet just a short time ago.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
I mean, let's look at this cleanly... I was too intoxicated to drive my own vehicle (and let me tell you, I was definitely OVER the edge), was going to take a cab, but her boyfriend takes me and my car to my house.... because he's sober enough to drive.
EVEN IF something went down, who do you blame? The wasted girl or your sober ass boyfriend?
I swear women who point fingers at women first drive me bananas. I mean really? It's your man who owes you fidelity and loyalty, not the woman. And unless she's some kind of succubus who goes after taken men for sport.... you have no business even bothering yourself with that woman.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Why is the girlfriend jumping to conclusions? I have no idea. I don't know her or them.
I had no ill intentions with her boyfriend. I was in fact SHIT FACED drunk
That is quite simply not what happened. I was at a bar celebrating the opening of my new show and I went overboard. I got carried away. True, there's nothing more disgusting than a drunken woman, but that doesn't make it my fault for someone taking a pass at me.
Lastly, I have frequented the bar this guy works at for YEARS. When he offered to get me home, I didn't think anything of it. Don't leave your car here, it might get broken into, blah, blah, blah. It was nothing more than what I thought was a friendly gesture to a good patron and an acquaintance.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Shellshocker this behavior from you is strange considering you and I have never been at odds. I am wondering if you are being trollish simply for that reason or perhaps you just need a little Thursday night entertainment. Nonetheless, I will address your points...

Posted by seraph
People can't be stolen. Unless you tie them up and toss them in the trunk of your Eldorado.
They go willingly. The culprit is *always* the individual who had the choice *to not* cheat. The other woman/man may be slime, but the cheater has the option to not cheat.

Posted by Rabbit
So at the beginning of the thread you say this guy gave you a ride home two days ago.
And then several posts later you say you Facebook messaged him five days ago about your wallet.
Ummm....

Posted by MontgomeryPosted by scorchedearth
she seems irritated but this is not aries moon nuclear meltdown like we're capable of. this would be maybe a 3-4 on the pissed scale comparatively. 😉
i'm also debating if i should mention that rabbit was just being really creepy by searching her posts to try to catch her in a lie.
Of course you think it's creepy-- I've caught you in lies the same way.
Which is why you have me blocked. 😄
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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Ok, ok LIB, since you decided to troll my posts AGAIN (so predictable by the way, I like how much I can count on you in that way).... here we go with my responses....


Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Maybe you should..... "Let it be".
Today is not your day.😉

Posted by LetltBPosted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Ok, ok LIB, since you decided to troll my posts AGAIN (so predictable by the way, I like how much I can count on you in that way).... here we go with my responses....
Awww...is this how you go about claiming to be a victim? You offer a thread in a public forum, don't like the responses and then call people a troll? Unless you are someone else, this is only the second thread I've responded to.click to expand

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPalPosted by LetltBPosted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Ok, ok LIB, since you decided to troll my posts AGAIN (so predictable by the way, I like how much I can count on you in that way).... here we go with my responses....
Awww...is this how you go about claiming to be a victim? You offer a thread in a public forum, don't like the responses and then call people a troll? Unless you are someone else, this is only the second thread I've responded to.
Oh no babydoll, been the same person on here since I joined in 2010. But, you already knew that didn't you?
You remember me, we went head to head in the past. You lost. Sad tale. *le sigh*
Oh, well, anyhaps.... I'm so glad to see you were able to find that deep-seated need to troll me. It never gets old playing with you sweet cheeks. I do feel so flattered.
Oh, and I see we've taken to posting pictures again and using loose words without any direct meaning. I get it comprehension never was your strong suit. Conjecture though, man.... #nailedit
Don't hurt yourself trying to use your words honey; stick with picture books, much more suited for you kitten.click to expand






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Perhaps I should work on ALWAYS choosing the EXACT right words... this is DXP after all and EVERYTHING YOU EVER SAY will be picked apart and thrown in your face.
SS, my intent is this... it has been something like 5 hours (fuck should I go back and count the EXACT minutes from his facebook email telling he had my wallet? don't want to get blasted about a small time lapse because I estimated....) since I found out that for a fact this guy stole from me. While standing in my home. STOLE FROM ME FROM INSIDE MY OWN HOME. I am pissed. I am shocked. I don't know HOW to react. I am trying to figure out what I am going to do. I feel violated.
It's not about the cab fare and it's certainly not about $ 60 measly ass dollars. It's about the fact that this guy STOLE from me. That I would have had to go through the entire hassle of replacing my passport card - wanna know what a bitch that is—? and on top of that I would have to tell my boss I am an irresponsible jackass who lost receipts for the business credit card and that our expenses would
be fucked for the month.
It's about had I not caught him in all of that he would have just let it allllll go and let me suffer AND FOR WHAT— I did nothing wrong other than what I have agreed what a doucher choice on my part - get drunk and trusted someone who I truly shouldn't have.
It's about that. It's about the bullshit fuck you he would have sent my way had I not fucking trapped him.