@SirHorns
12 Years5,000+ Posts
The phrase reflects cultural stereotypes and perceptions that may not accurately represent individual personalities. Chinese women, like all people, vary greatly in behavior and character. It is important to approach such statements critically and avoid generalizations based on nationality or gender.
Lol. Cute. But damn
wooooooow
You're either a wife or a whore, there's no in between.
Posted by GENERALIZOD
AT LEAST IT TAKES THE ATTENTION AWAY FROM HIS HAIRLINE.
BWAHAHAHAH!
Few things here:
-Those women giving that said are part of as group that has a goal of doing things for the best interest of women.
So either treating women like men goes against their best interests according to these women
Or
When biology comes into play, it makes sense to tell women who want to breed this, since completion is harsh as hell in China.
Like ANDS said, millionare by 30 or you die alone basically.
Also Tiz, his channel covers China in general.
Don I could comment on the protests or that manhunt for corruption with the communist party over there.
Posted by b1tchcrafts
STOP HATING ON CHINESE WOMEN OP
I'm not.
Compared to the west, that message those women send would be considered harsh by our standards.
Hence thee title.
LOL at single case scenario, there's tons of those and all within the last year. But you can go ahead and post your hip pop videos of Merica, where I don't live if you like. It won't hurt my feels, I don't take it personal.
20 million more men than women in China but all the urban ladies want a rich man and/or lifestyle so they ho or get with someone else's.
Why does that offend you? Is it like that in Canada too?
Posted by DonJohnson
that's a fine logic derrrrrrrrrrrrp. but have you seen the marriage and divorce stats?compare that to america, better yet Urban america, then you'll realize you're laughing at someone's acne, when you have AIDS.
but what is reality doe?
Ya, the marriage and divorce stats don't say anything about men visiting prostitutes or having mistresses... who get their ass BEAT! "Looks good on paper, dooeeeee!"
And there you go with urban America, nobody's comparing it but you. Can't have a discussion about China without DJ getting sensitive... "At least it's not as bad as urban Merica!" Nobody cares...
LMAO!
It's funny how everything is this or that, and there's no other choices. You're either married with kids, gotta catch your man while you're young n pretty, or you're a slutty old maid who will be lonely. Really? That's the supposed categories that women fall into? Where's the individuality? What happened to the idea that everyone chooses differently, for different reasons, and the outcome for everyone isn't always the same? Fuck that shit....I'm walking my own path and I don't care if anyone likes the route I take, or not.
It is, but it's not better, or worse than choosing not to. It's also no better or worse than someone who starts the married with kids life late. What a person chooses to do, what they want, what they learn and grow from those experiences are uniquely theirs. Trying to stuff people into boxes based on statistics is lame sauce.
Posted by MoonArtist
It is, but it's not better, or worse than choosing not to. It's also no better or worse than someone who starts the married with kids life late. What a person chooses to do, what they want, what they learn and grow from those experiences are uniquely theirs. Trying to stuff people into boxes based on statistics is lame sauce.On one hand, I'm tempted to agree with you, but on the other, I think education is key because not many people (particularly nowadays) plan with any kind of foresight if they plan at all! It's as if people are shooting from the hip or playing it by ear. As romantic as it sounds, it is also dangerous and irresponsible. But I noticed that concept of "citizenship" is practically non-existent as, again, it's about the singular even WITHIN a family unit. What's more, selfish though is encouraged as it's about paving YOUR own way and doing what YOU desire with no self awareness or realization that choices you make today may very well affect your family or children later (should you choose to have them.) As long as people strive to make educated, and not emotional, choices, more power to them. As long as it's understood that with children later in life come a heightened risk for the mother as well as sacrifices for the children (like daddy perhaps not having the energy to accompany the children to their ball games.) But reality needs to be considered, options weighed, and perspectives considered...Kind of like a scientific and logical thought processes should take place. That means a lot of contemplation. Easier said than done as I am still trying to find my way. Heh.
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But even that process isn't for everyone, nor does it mean instant downfall and misery if they don't work it out that way. Also, that process doesn't guarantee instant life path of pure bliss and no problems. It still comes back to each person figuring out what works for them, personally, and that's always trial and error. As for selfish vs. not selfish, following what others want doesn't even give an instant guarantee of the perfect life. For some it works and for others it doesn't.
CATS: GOTTA CATCH'EM ALL!
No but honestly, speaking for myself. I am mutable, I will adapt to cats and dying alone as well as I would adapt to married life. I have no preference at the end of the day. But I do have a cat so I am slowly building my way up to the cat life. lol.
Posted by LillyBlossom
Good point. You are right, there are no guarantees. I suppose that's where faith comes in...
Faith, and acceptance. Not always easy!
Nobody actually needs to settle for dying alone with cats just because they've reached a certain age. The reality is not as black or white as Don's agenda.
And what's "keeping the prime in perspective" anyway? Looks? The ability to have kids? 40 is the new whatever the fuck you make of it.
Posted by MoonArtist
It's funny how everything is this or that, and there's no other choices. You're either married with kids, gotta catch your man while you're young n pretty, or you're a slutty old maid who will be lonely. Really? That's the supposed categories that women fall into? Where's the individuality? What happened to the idea that everyone chooses differently, for different reasons, and the outcome for everyone isn't always the same? Fuck that shit....I'm walking my own path and I don't care if anyone likes the route I take, or not.
talks are only talks.
Reality is made up of all the different paths.
Specially women know how often the so-called good paths turn into nightmare. We have a big database.
You can marry with 24 and become children. Then the party is over with your husband as a gambler who loses all his wealth.
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