Purpleaqua01
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Do you believe that when drunk you say how you TRULY feel?
I feel like drinking always makes me tell the truth. I def kicked myself the next day for saying all that lmao. But I’m wondering if a guy would lie to a girl, saying he’s in love just to troll or idk make her go home with him
“What’s thought when
sober is said when drunk”
Irish saying
sober is said when drunk”
Irish saying
No, definitely not. While drunk i said the stupidest shit - stuff that never crossed my mind when sober. Sometimes, while intoxicated - i even talked in tongues (yet, it's a bit of a struggle to that sober - or at least way harder).
But hey... this is just me (and others alike) - cause i did/do know people who are more honest while drunk - saying stuff they tend to hide when sober.
But hey... this is just me (and others alike) - cause i did/do know people who are more honest while drunk - saying stuff they tend to hide when sober.
When you’re drunk the defenses are down, hence speaking the truth....
Alcohol made him lose his inhibitions, so he was telling the truth about how he felt at that moment.
If he feels the same when sober is a different question....
If he feels the same when sober is a different question....
I too believe he was telling you the truth. He's probably off thinking about what he's going to do about what he said to you. Just be cool cause he'll be back.
Truth? It's more a loose tongue.
Posted by Wizardz_
No lol. It make you say drunk stuff that you regret the next day
Yeah like this dude I remember a long time ago was so drunk he told his wife to eat his pussy 🤣
The pattern here was you telling him you want to be friends and shutting anything else down. Ball is in your court. He had enough liquid courage to gush his feelings on you. Its doubtful he is gonna be vocal about those feelings again unless you give some sort of acknowledgement and reciprocation.
"He looks dead at me & says that he more than just loves me he’s in love with me.. I laughed cause I thought he was joking but he was dead serious. He wasn’t stumbling or sloppy or anything. But I had to leave & kinda dipped out before him because I didn’t want to go home with him"
You laughed at him and then left. Not the reaction most hope for when they lay their heart bare.
"He looks dead at me & says that he more than just loves me he’s in love with me.. I laughed cause I thought he was joking but he was dead serious. He wasn’t stumbling or sloppy or anything. But I had to leave & kinda dipped out before him because I didn’t want to go home with him"
You laughed at him and then left. Not the reaction most hope for when they lay their heart bare.
Oh, I didn't see the part where you laughed in his face after he told you he's in love with you. Wow, if it were me you probably wouldn't hear from me again because I'd be too embarrassed. Why did you do that?
I’ve always been under control while drunk like it’s not going to make me get on table n dance topless. So I call bs
one time in uni, i drank too much and revealed that a guy friend is cheating on my female friend. all i remember is that he was an air sign and she really took me in a corner to interrogate me.
girl yeah he a hoe.
ooopsies 🙊🙊
i've always told on people when it comes to cheating.
girl yeah he a hoe.
ooopsies 🙊🙊
i've always told on people when it comes to cheating.
Posted by SoundAndFuryPosted by MyStarsShine
When you’re drunk the defenses are down, hence speaking the truth....
When you're drunk you're more likely to tell the truth of how you're feeling in that moment, yes. But alcohol also affects our emotions and how we process information. You aren't in your right mind while drunk. I like the way @Undine put itclick to expand
You’ve a loose tongue 🤪
When i used to be drunk, i always told the truth ....
Posted by Undine
Alcohol made him lose his inhibitions, so he was telling the truth about how he felt at that moment.
If he feels the same when sober is a different question....
Exactly😢 he hasn’t reached out to me at all
Posted by dontgiveup
Things that been in my head tend to come out. So I would say yes.
Sober thoughts come out when drunk.
Same here. My ex would purposely get me drunk so I’d tell the truth & I’d do the same to him lmao
Posted by MareInfamePosted by Purpleaqua01
I have this guy who’s liked me for awhile. He’s an Aries with HEAVY Pisces placements. Honorable mention he’s a Leo mars(pride is crazy). So we hooked up one night & we’ve been friends for years(since high school). It got kinda awkward after that because at the time I didn’t want anything serious. But he’s done a lot for me even after the fact I just feel like we both didn’t know how to act around each other after that. I feel bad about it now because I wish I had shown him that I did actually have feelings for him I just wasn’t as open back then(a few months ago). So I see him out & we clicked instantly like nothing had happened like we always do. He says he wished we hadn’t done anything, he only sees me as a friend. So as the night goes on we’re drinking and he starts getting super handsy but I honestly loved it lol he was showing the whole bar right infront of his friends that he liked me. So I told him I really did like him & kinda wished things had been different(while drunk) & I told him I genuinely loved him & would do anything for him. He looks dead at me & says that he more than just loves me he’s in love with me.. I laughed cause I thought he was joking but he was dead serious. He wasn’t stumbling or sloppy or anything. But I had to leave & kinda dipped out before him because I didn’t want to go home with him. I checked on him the next day & he said he’ll hit me up & let’s do dinner. It’s been days & I haven’t heard a thing from him.
Do you think he was just playing with my head? He was super cold with me when sober & when he got some liquor in his system it was a whole other story. He says he has commitment issues. Which I knew that & that’s why I’m so scared to get close to him. Because he really is a player I would know I used to be his wingman lmao. He loves the chase.
He’s an Aries sun, Pisces moon, mercury, Venus, Leo mars(conjunct my Leo moon)
Funny… I was actually wondering the same thing last weekend. I was at my Sag friend’s wedding… she married a Gemini and I was all for them being together… so, it was a very special occasion for me too.
But he got drunk at his wedding - not sure why you would let that happen on your wedding day, but he did. She didn’t seem bothered. Anyway, after he got that way… he was getting too close to me, slow hugging me, putting his hand on my back, neck, lower back and kept repeating how happy he was that I was there. I was nice, but kept sliding away from him. Just not the occasion for me to get angry and create a scene. I wanted all of us to celebrate.
I’ve only been in his presence a couple of times due to the pandemic. But my Sag friend is one of my besties. And he and I know of each other a lot. I also know his brother.
Anyway… I want to forget that happened and not put so much weight on it. But I have to admit, it made me uncomfortable and made me wonder😑.
In your case, I think he meant it. Especially because he wasn’t slurring and looked at you directly and said it in serious tone. But it’s probably best you don’t get involved with him. You already said he was a player🙄👎🏼… that’s just a waste of time for you.
He also sounds immature if he’s ignoring you now and giving you the cold shoulder plus he said he sucks at commitment. He’s a DRAG. Put your energy on someone that actually deserves your time, love and affection. Give yourself that gift.click to expand
From someone who dated a hoe a $ $ Gemini for 4 years I can answer this one lol. If he meant it it depends on his moon sign.. because your moon sign comes out when your drunk. And also every Gemini I know is very sloppy when drinking. Like they don’t know when to stop. I would honestly just take as him being way too wasted. I’ve had my ex call me by someone else’s name before while drinking that’s how incoherent he would get. I feel bad for the bride tho.
& he really is a drag man. Even before I low key sabotaged the relationship I was still waiting for him to tell me he wanted me.. but he did show me. Always with action & then he’d say the opposite. Which is why I’m worried that him saying he’s in love with me with no actions behind it is him really just trolling me. I know for a fact he felt rejected by me at first.
Posted by LadyNeptune
The pattern here was you telling him you want to be friends and shutting anything else down. Ball is in your court. He had enough liquid courage to gush his feelings on you. Its doubtful he is gonna be vocal about those feelings again unless you give some sort of acknowledgement and reciprocation.
"He looks dead at me & says that he more than just loves me he’s in love with me.. I laughed cause I thought he was joking but he was dead serious. He wasn’t stumbling or sloppy or anything. But I had to leave & kinda dipped out before him because I didn’t want to go home with him"
You laughed at him and then left. Not the reaction most hope for when they lay their heart bare.
I laughed because of his actions are totally opposite. I left a few things out, like he felt really rejected by me after we hooked up & I continued dating around. So he kinda tried to hook up with a few friends of mine knowing I’d find out. He can be kinda malicious lol. But I told we could stay friends because I know he had commitment issues and I didn’t want him to get scared off. But I low key wanted him to step up. But I think he has a lot to learn & I don’t think I have the patience to teach another boy how to love. He hasn’t reached out it’s been a whole week. & it’s like he purposely bumps into me at these places he knows I’ll be at but we’re both drunk so idk how we could talk in that environment.
& I know most ppl would be like ew he tried to get with your friends. But I am standing my ground which is why I dipped on him instead of going home with him when that’s really what I wanted to do lol. But maybe him saying that was just how he felt in that moment. I guess that’s possible
Posted by _fyrephish
There is an old saying that says a drunken tongue speaks a sober mind. IMO, it depends on a person's personality when sober. If they are unlikely to speak freely when sober, they may feel more courageous when drunk. The converse is also true. When drunk, a tongue can say things that it would not mean when sober.
Yes. He can be shy when he’s sober. He holds back a lot. & he did admit while he was drunk that I make him nervous lol
And to be truthfully honest with you, NTA (No Troll Attempt) some people can't handle their alcohol. They let alcohol control them. Like right now I'm drunk. Been at it since late last night and still at it. I'm a chill drunk. I tend to think the worst drunk is women. When they get drunk it's an absolute turn off and cringeworthy.
Posted by _fyrephishPosted by Purpleaqua01Posted by _fyrephish
There is an old saying that says a drunken tongue speaks a sober mind. IMO, it depends on a person's personality when sober. If they are unlikely to speak freely when sober, they may feel more courageous when drunk. The converse is also true. When drunk, a tongue can say things that it would not mean when sober.
Yes. He can be shy when he’s sober. He holds back a lot. & he did admit while he was drunk that I make him nervous lol
Aww lol, he sounds kindhearted these are the types that can be so much fun when drunk. They say and do the funniest stuff because they hold so much inside. I wish you all the best with it 😊click to expand
I think because I make him nervous he’s avoiding me. He hasn’t hit me up in a week. & I see that he’s going out with other girls rn lol. I’m trying to just give him his space & let him figure things out. I’m so heartbroken tho. Because it makes me feel like he didn’t mean it & or he just doesn’t want to be with me.
I didn’t read everything you wrote. But as a general rule, this asshole Virgo I knew (lot of Virgo planets and sag sun 👎) always said what he thought when drunk. Or WROTE it in an email. It got to a point where I didn’t know when he was/wasn’t drunk. Time went on and he got worse. I had to tell him not to call me when he was drunk.
He knew he could make a mess of things but there were things he didn’t remember. When I reminded him he was very apologetic. But being the sociopathic narcissist that Virgo’s are (saggies also, to a point, read up on Ted Bundy) he would later claim not to be sorry because he “spoke truth.” I think he was an “exceptionally” high functioning alcoholic suffering from wet brain disease. But like most drunken lowlifes, according to him he’s fine.
So yes. “In vino veritas” is a thing. Remember for future reference.
He knew he could make a mess of things but there were things he didn’t remember. When I reminded him he was very apologetic. But being the sociopathic narcissist that Virgo’s are (saggies also, to a point, read up on Ted Bundy) he would later claim not to be sorry because he “spoke truth.” I think he was an “exceptionally” high functioning alcoholic suffering from wet brain disease. But like most drunken lowlifes, according to him he’s fine.
So yes. “In vino veritas” is a thing. Remember for future reference.
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by peachy06Posted by Lionheart917
Scorpio sun sags moon here. It doesn't matter if I’m drunk or not. I'll say what's on my mind, lol
True, we don't need to be drunk to tell it like it is 🤣🤣🤣
Lol, it’s hilarious cause we don’t hold anything back. And it all just comes naturally and authentic, good or bad.click to expand
Other signs can master such abilities. And lose friend, spouses, end up twice divorced, and more in the process. The abundance of over confidence from Sag makes them think they’re special in this regard. 🙄🤮
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by peachy06Posted by Lionheart917
Scorpio sun sags moon here. It doesn't matter if I’m drunk or not. I'll say what's on my mind, lol
True, we don't need to be drunk to tell it like it is 🤣🤣🤣
Lol, it’s hilarious cause we don’t hold anything back. And it all just comes naturally and authentic, good or bad.click to expand
Other signs can master such abilities. And lose friend, spouses, end up twice divorced, and more in the process. The abundance of over confidence from Sag makes them think they’re special in this regard. 🙄🤮
it´s wishful thinking ......
ask yourself this: in which other situation in your life would you 100% trust a drunk person?
ask yourself this: in which other situation in your life would you 100% trust a drunk person?
Posted by _fyrephishPosted by Purpleaqua01Posted by _fyrephishPosted by Purpleaqua01Posted by _fyrephish
There is an old saying that says a drunken tongue speaks a sober mind. IMO, it depends on a person's personality when sober. If they are unlikely to speak freely when sober, they may feel more courageous when drunk. The converse is also true. When drunk, a tongue can say things that it would not mean when sober.
Yes. He can be shy when he’s sober. He holds back a lot. & he did admit while he was drunk that I make him nervous lol
Aww lol, he sounds kindhearted these are the types that can be so much fun when drunk. They say and do the funniest stuff because they hold so much inside. I wish you all the best with it 😊
I think because I make him nervous he’s avoiding me. He hasn’t hit me up in a week. & I see that he’s going out with other girls rn lol. I’m trying to just give him his space & let him figure things out. I’m so heartbroken tho. Because it makes me feel like he didn’t mean it & or he just doesn’t want to be with me.
You care I get it. I know what you're feeling, it's a nagging pain in the chest and it can leave you feeling anxious and in your head about the whole situation. But respectfully, I wouldn't waste a single moment more anticipating what he may or may not be doing and/or thinking as it relates to you. What I've learned is that you have to be good to yourself by making yourself a priority. If someone wants you they will come for you. What's for you will not pass you by. His lack of initiation to have you says that he's not as invested in this connection are you are. I'm just saying, don't put yourself on hold, take yourself out, live life and have fun. Does he want space? Cool. Go orbit in outer space and explore some sexy intergalactic men.😄 It's true, there really are too many fish in the ocean, throw this one back to the sharks. 💜click to expand
Yes I agree. I’m still hurt but I’m realizing that he could nit have meant that.. I’ll honestly never forgive him that’s how hurt I am.
Posted by peachy06Posted by 81gemsPosted by Lionheart917Posted by peachy06Posted by Lionheart917
Scorpio sun sags moon here. It doesn't matter if I’m drunk or not. I'll say what's on my mind, lol
True, we don't need to be drunk to tell it like it is 🤣🤣🤣
Lol, it’s hilarious cause we don’t hold anything back. And it all just comes naturally and authentic, good or bad.
Other signs can master such abilities. And lose friend, spouses, end up twice divorced, and more in the process. The abundance of over confidence from Sag makes them think they’re special in this regard. 🙄🤮
Jealous much ?click to expand
Now why on earth would anybody want to be jealous for not having any ability for drunk talking? Do it even occur to you that some people prefer to just stay quiet, relax, meditate and soak it all in while drunk?
Better yet don't even bother answering those cus I know you probably got me on mute anyway and I'm not coming back to this thread.
Yes.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by 81gems
I didn’t read everything you wrote. But as a general rule, this asshole Virgo I knew (lot of Virgo planets and sag sun 👎) always said what he thought when drunk. Or WROTE it in an email. It got to a point where I didn’t know when he was/wasn’t drunk. Time went on and he got worse. I had to tell him not to call me when he was drunk.
He knew he could make a mess of things but there were things he didn’t remember. When I reminded him he was very apologetic. But being the sociopathic narcissist that Virgo’s are (saggies also, to a point, read up on Ted Bundy) he would later claim not to be sorry because he “spoke truth.” I think he was an “exceptionally” high functioning alcoholic suffering from wet brain disease. But like most drunken lowlifes, according to him he’s fine.
So yes. “In vino veritas” is a thing. Remember for future reference.
Ted Bundy had a catchphrase "respect the dead ... wear a condom".click to expand
YYYYYYYYUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCKKKK!
That monster was seriously fucked up. Why he was a monster. Deserved every bit of electricity he got.
Posted by Undine
Alcohol made him lose his inhibitions, so he was telling the truth about how he felt at that moment.
If he feels the same when sober is a different question....
It’s so true!!!
It’s NOT the truth - it’s the truth of drunk moment! Same like people look ‘fuckable’ when drunk and oy vey…in the morning. 😂😂😂
I never get drunk. Also I cannot stand drunk people.
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Do you think he was just playing with my head? He was super cold with me when sober & when he got some liquor in his system it was a whole other story. He says he has commitment issues. Which I knew that & that’s why I’m so scared to get close to him. Because he really is a player I would know I used to be his wingman lmao. He loves the chase.
He’s an Aries sun, Pisces moon, mercury, Venus, Leo mars(conjunct my Leo moon)