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What is the purpose?

I did it when I first joined DXP, but I'm not sure why I felt the need to do so with strangers on the internet.

From homemade crab legs..

To credit cards with $ 100,000 credit limits..

To made up volunteer positions..

To having that one friend that seems to have experienced every situation presented on DXP..

Why? And what placements are most notorious for doing so?

I believe Water suns are in the lead currently.
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Just kidding...lol

Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?

Maybe it's because of social media in general?

I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.

Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.

Here...I don't care.


There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.
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Just kidding...lol

Are they exaggerated though or is it the presentation of which they are shared?

Maybe it's because of social media in general?

I know I share here because there is no consequence. I share what I want, when I want with no fear.

Sharing with non strangers involves letting people know what is going on in my life and then they start measuring and asking questions and telling cousins and talking about you behind your back.....and most people closest to me don't have a single clue about anything in my.life and I like it like that. I get entertained at the stories they make up because I'm so private.

Here...I don't care.

There's a difference in sharing and verifiable exaggerations.

Not really. There is only difference in perception.

Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.

Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)

Why?

Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.

It's not fair, but it is what it is.

There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.

So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.
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It effects the ratings for DXP: The Reality Series!
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Not really. There is only difference in perception.

Example.....I shared when I bought my new SUV in 2019. Barely nobody noticed.

Whorpio shared her new ride. People were like....you're lying....even years later (❤ you)

Why?

Because of the perception of that person which has been built over time with posting history.

It's not fair, but it is what it is.

There was a time here that I couldnt say 2+2=4 without being called a liar. You as well.

So....at the end of the day....stop caring about it. Let people share because they want to. Who cares if it's bullshit. It doesnt affect you.

I can’t remember where I heard this, but I once heard it’s easy to fall in love online because your mind fills in the blanks of things you don’t know about the person you’re pursuing (i.e. since you don’t date them IRL, you obviously don’t know everything about them regarding body language, daily routine, etc. so your mind just comes up with fantasies as to how that person is in regards to those unknowns).

I imagine it’s the same when people get online to call each other liars: their imaginations fill in the blanks they don’t see of the accused person (especially if the accused only shows bits and pieces of their life).
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Posted by _Dazed

What is the purpose?

I did it when I first joined DXP, but I'm not sure why I felt the need to do so with strangers on the internet.

From homemade crab legs..

To credit cards with $ 100,000 credit limits..

To made up volunteer positions..

To having that one friend that seems to have experienced every situation presented on DXP..

Why? And what placements are most notorious for doing so?

I believe Water suns are in the lead currently.

😧 you exaggerated about volunteering? Like getting groceries? It inspired me so much... I feel duped😩
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I was only able to do it once before every place started delivering!
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Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

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😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.
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Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.
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Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Whorpio@wild_flo was definitely not part of that.

I'm referring to something more recent.
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Her and I have only talked about two people from here. Not really comprehensively, more like “that person is really annoying”.

If you’re referring to what I was talking about with Nikki, I was referring to a different user trying to turn me against @wild_flo. This person is friends with nikki so I figured I’d ask nikki if she personally heard of anything wild_flo has done to betray friends, for my own sake.
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
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Posted by _Dazed
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Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

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Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.
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Please tell me that 55" is a 4k..
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Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

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😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Out another dxper?

First off, I have no idea what you’re talking about and second, considering that we actually hang out IRL, we’re not plotting against anyone. Instead we’re worrying about ourselves and having girl time but if there’s anyone who truly knows her it’s me.
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That's not what i heard.
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.
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I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao

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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao
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Behind the scenes mean girls.
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Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao

Behind the scenes mean girls.

No
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Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?
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over the years, my personal favorite are users who draw from a seemingly bottomless reservoir of anecdotes around their "close friends" that are horrible people who do horrible things, and coincidentally share the same sign as the person who hurt them....



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What is the purpose?

momentary relief for hemorrhoidal flare-ups, and continuing to spread the gospel of "you in danger gurl"...
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

Please tell me that 55" is a 4k..

Nope! Got it at Best Buy for $ 400!!
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Can you see ALL the "details" clearly?
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Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao

Behind the scenes mean girls.

No

Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?

Because she’s hella paranoid
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Paranoid about what?

She seems open with information? what could she possibly be hiding?
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao

Me too...it's like, what is the point?
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I would be the worst and spreading even more rumors about myself. People are so funny. 😆

DXP Telephone game lmao
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Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao

Behind the scenes mean girls.

No

Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?

Because she’s hella paranoid

Paranoid about what?

She seems open with information? what could she possibly be hiding?
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Posted by WhorpioThis person is friends with nikki so I figured I’d ask nikki if she personally heard of anything wild_flo has done to betray friends, for my own sake.


What friend? I am only super close to a few users, and most of them are the dudes, or lesbians. lol I still don't even know who the person you were referring to, because you were too vague.

And as I answered you, about @Wild_flo so there is no miscommunication and me "supposedly" gossiping. I don't know flo well enough to judge her, or make a judgement about her. I don't have the rapport with her to make a judgment. And I don't think mariposa is a bad person, I just don't know her on that level.
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Posted by nikkistar

What friend? I am only super close to a few users, and most of them are the dudes, or lesbians. lol I still don't even know who the person you were referring to, because you were too vague.

And as I answered you, about @Wild_flo so there is no miscommunication and me "supposedly" gossiping. I don't know flo well enough to judge her, or make a judgement about her. I don't have the rapport with her to make a judgment. And I don't think mariposa is a bad person, I just don't know her on that level.

Yeah, I sensed a little confusion from my vagueness in your response. I thought about replying saying ”I think I get what you’re saying. The beef the two have between each other is strictly between them, and unless I have firsthand experience of either of them doing something to hurt me I should just focus on my individual ‘relationship’ with each person”. But I figured that would just be a waste of space in your inbox lol like “duhh whorpio you don’t need to reword what I said”.
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Posted by Wild_Flo
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Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo
Posted by _Dazed
Posted by Wild_Flo

Dazed... that’s enough. I get it y’all have your beef but you’re trying too hard.

Image Not Found

😒

Like I said I’m very protective of people I care about and you’re pushing it. That Leo moon needs to step down from the soap box.

Well I'm the same.. and I heard through the grapevine that you and the one you care about were trying to out another DXPer.

Different topic.

This is just not right.

I've been the product of people doing that and I never really understood why or where the motivation comes from.

Hell, there was a rumour in 2013 that I lived in my car and it was passed around so diligently that someone actually reached out and asked if I needed help. Bless her heart.....but why do people do those things?

That shit is annoying.

Is it because I share things like I'm gonna watch porn on my new 55" smart tv?

That's dumb.

I wonder how these rumors even get started and believed, when people are mostly internet strangers lmao

Behind the scenes mean girls.

No

Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?

Because she’s hella paranoid

Paranoid about what?

She seems open with information? what could she possibly be hiding?

She’s not hiding anything. That’s just how she is. Our friendship has gotten extremely close through the years and it takes a lot for her to trust.

I mean you were the same way when we started talking years ago.. remember? Guarded.
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Not guarded with my emotions, but rather my body.. cuz I thought you were going to murder me.
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Posted by Whorpio
Posted by _Dazed
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No

Why does Whorpio think you're pulling the same shit she accuses nano of?

It’s like PTSD. I’ve already been burned by two chicks I considered friends. I ain’t finna let it happen a third time.
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I've known @Wild_flo and she is the sweetest. I've talked with her off DXP and I don't see any reason to think she would betray or burn you at all. She's pretty upfront, if you can't tell. She also gets hurt pretty easily by things but she will tall you about that as well. I have nothing bad to say EVER about her.

I don't hang out with her since we are in a different state. But you shouldn't place your friendship or experience with her based on previous people.

Also a lot depends on how shady you are with someone (Not saying you are)

Your friendship is on an individual basis, getting info about her from other dxp members, most likely won't help you much because it will be based on your interactions with her. She is super cute and a great friend, from my experience.
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Posted by Black-Mamba
Posted by _Dazed

What is the purpose?

I did it when I first joined DXP, but I'm not sure why I felt the need to do so with strangers on the internet.

From homemade crab legs..

To credit cards with $ 100,000 credit limits..

To made up volunteer positions..

To having that one friend that seems to have experienced every situation presented on DXP..

Why? And what placements are most notorious for doing so?

I believe Water suns are in the lead currently.

are you trying to talk shit about @ladyneptune?
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ARe you jealous?
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Posted by nikkistar

What friend? I am only super close to a few users, and most of them are the dudes, or lesbians. lol I still don't even know who the person you were referring to, because you were too vague.

And as I answered you, about @Wild_flo so there is no miscommunication and me "supposedly" gossiping. I don't know flo well enough to judge her, or make a judgement about her. I don't have the rapport with her to make a judgment. And I don't think mariposa is a bad person, I just don't know her on that level.

Yeah, I sensed a little confusion from my vagueness in your response. I thought about replying saying ”I think I get what you’re saying. The beef the two have between each other is strictly between them, and unless I have firsthand experience of either of them doing something to hurt me I should just focus on my individual ‘relationship’ with each person”. But I figured that would just be a waste of space in your inbox lol like “duhh whorpio you don’t need to reword what I said”.
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Yup, that was my exact intent. Sometimes, its better to just allow the beef to be between the individuals without getting sucked into the mess. Base your own friendships, on your own experiences.
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