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Try these:

1. Go around him and pretend like you lost something and you're looking for it. If he's a decent human being, he'll help you look for your non-existent lost item. Talk to him as you're both looking for it. Acquaintanceship is formed 🙂

2. Ask for directions to some place when you're leaving. As he's explaining, ask open ended questions like you're clarifying.


He ended up coming up and talking to me a couple days ago.

I didn't have to drop anything either haha
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Posted by aquarius09
Try these:

1. Go around him and pretend like you lost something and you're looking for it. If he's a decent human being, he'll help you look for your non-existent lost item. Talk to him as you're both looking for it. Acquaintanceship is formed 🙂

2. Ask for directions to some place when you're leaving. As he's explaining, ask open ended questions like you're clarifying.


He ended up coming up and talking to me a couple days ago.

I didn't have to drop anything either haha

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Fantastic! So what's the progress? Does he has a gf or single?
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Posted by aquarius09
Try these:

1. Go around him and pretend like you lost something and you're looking for it. If he's a decent human being, he'll help you look for your non-existent lost item. Talk to him as you're both looking for it. Acquaintanceship is formed 🙂

2. Ask for directions to some place when you're leaving. As he's explaining, ask open ended questions like you're clarifying.


He ended up coming up and talking to me a couple days ago.

I didn't have to drop anything either haha




Fantastic! So what's the progress? Does he has a gf or single?

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Didn't quite get there?

He came up to me and asked a lot of questions.. like if I work, if I'm in school, my name asked I how often I workout and says he sees me there all the time etc

All I know so far is he is his name, he works in the medical field, he does dialysis.

And he said I am young and I am guessing he is around 30? I'm 21

He does have an accent but still really good English.



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Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.

I was cheesin pretty hard
Dude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.
That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!

What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?


Have some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.
I do nod my head and smile.

But have never waved.

I was actually thinking of dropping something lol

Good idea ill see how it goes next time i see him


Good luck!
So he finally came up and talked to me last night

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how'd that go?
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Just work out close to him and if he still doesn't do anything, screw it, say something to him.
lol i swear he does this to me he will come workout by me, and stares me down.

I was cheesin pretty hard
Dude sounds reserved as all hell. I used to do things like this back in college when I was attracted to non-asian girls. It's pretty intimidating initially, so he's probably waiting on you to say something. I don't have this issue anymore, but it seems like if you don't say anything to him, it's just gonna be a eye fu--ing contest.
That is what I am thinking but I just do not confront guys!

What would be a way to give him a green light without saying anything?


Have some courage! Just say hey, nod your head at him or wave at him next time you guys eye fu__ each other. Or purposely walk by him and drop something of yours close to him so he can pick it up for you and call you out on it. If he doesn't help you there, he's pretty much a waste of time.
I do nod my head and smile.

But have never waved.

I was actually thinking of dropping something lol

Good idea ill see how it goes next time i see him


Good luck!
So he finally came up and talked to me last night


how'd that go?
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He came up on the stairs next to me and asked of I mind.

Then asked how often I workout because he sees me a lot (mentioned im always alone)

Ended up just asking me a lot of questions such as if I work if I'm in school what my name is etc.

Just getting to know me really.

He was nice. Has an accent but still really good English.

It didn't go any further than just conversation. Have not seen him since though so we will see