So if a man calls you silly a lot what does that mean? Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
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It’s a very bad thing. It means you naughty
It depends on the context, but I only would use that tactic for mind treetrunking to get my desired goal accomplished. OP explain to him that uplifting you instead of using "neg" words work better with you.
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
silly racist or jus silly?
Silly, funny or silly foolish?
Posted by 2Moon
Good I think, I think he is playing - teasing you.
Depends how he says it..
hard to know in a test.
Posted by GODZ
i want to put you in the "yes daddy zone" imo
oh shit. that is so funny you say that because he also says "i am your daddy" depending on what we are talking about.
Posted by LibraSupreme
It depends on the context, but I only would use that tactic for mind treetrunking to get my desired goal accomplished. OP explain to him that uplifting you instead of using "neg" words work better with you.
ok you need to explain more on mind treetrunking thingy.
Posted by Parkourler
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
You would call her silly instead of being straight with about something that bothered you? lol you do Aries like it when people are straight with them and not calling Silly? lol
Posted by exoskeleton_
silly racist or jus silly?
When did silly become racist?
how did it become racist?
Posted by PhoenixStorm
It depends on HIS perception of the word.
Silly means funny to some people but it could mean stupid to others. I would just ask him.
I remember my sons dad used to call me “nasty girl“ and I got so offended 🤣🤣 he meant nasty as in naughty or bad (in a good way) but I took offense to it and asked him to use another word.
He and I had different perceptions of the word. So I would just start by asking him what he means by it.
i will ask him thank you
Posted by thatlibralife
Depending on the context, seems dismissive...but you would know better..
it is hard to tell in a text, you know like the work Ok
Posted by MyStarsShine
Silly, funny or silly foolish?
That is what i am trying to find out but it happens in texting so i cant read his body. the men on here are saying something way different then the women on here
all the women on here are saying what i am wondering about the word silly when he calls me it. but the men on here seem to say why a guy would call a woman silly or why they would call a woman silly. That is very interesting. just saying
Come to think of it
Cant recall hearing straight men regularly use the word “silly” as part of their vocabulary
Cant recall hearing straight men regularly use the word “silly” as part of their vocabulary
Posted by exoskeleton_
silly racist or jus silly?
Lawdy 😅
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by LibraSupreme
It depends on the context, but I only would use that tactic for mind treetrunking to get my desired goal accomplished. OP explain to him that uplifting you instead of using "neg" words work better with you.
ok you need to explain more on mind treetrunking thingy.click to expand
Idk this guy so I can only speak of the lady killers I know. Some people treetrunk mentally to lower the lady value in a subliminal way and make her have self doubt which in turn allows easy manipulation.
I'd like to know a lady's perspective on the regular use of 'cutie' from a considerably younger SO. 😑 😒
Posted by GODZPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by GODZ
i want to put you in the "yes daddy zone" imo
oh shit. that is so funny you say that because he also says "i am your daddy" depending on what we are talking about.
btw sorry tho i wanted to say "he". it's because in french "he" phonetically is the same as "i".
and it happen a lot that i do this mistake writting "i" instead of he, its most of the time when i dont thinkclick to expand
it is all good. i got what you were saying. it still cracks me up too thinking about what you said. He is always say "that is because i am your Daddy" and i say i will never call you Daddy. 😆
Posted by Pesto101
I'd like to know a lady's perspective on the regular use of 'cutie' from a considerably younger SO. 😑 😒
there is "a guy does something so sweet it is cute", the good cute. The other cute is "guy trying to be a strong tough guy and it is not working"
like "he soo cute i just want to eat him up"
or "Aw look how cute he is being trying so hard"
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by LibraSupreme
It depends on the context, but I only would use that tactic for mind treetrunking to get my desired goal accomplished. OP explain to him that uplifting you instead of using "neg" words work better with you.
ok you need to explain more on mind treetrunking thingy.
Idk this guy so I can only speak of the lady killers I know. Some people treetrunk mentally to lower the lady value in a subliminal way and make her have self doubt which in turn allows easy manipulation.click to expand
i google it and this is what it said
Mindlessly defending, laughing at or admiring a person, typically someone of a celebration status.
so you think he trying to make me feel less so he looks better? doing this he appears to be a great catch?
Posted by brianafay
Come to think of it
Cant recall hearing straight men regularly use the word “silly” as part of their vocabulary
😆 something to think about.
Posted by GemiAwesomeAss
By any chance does he say
You are silly! At YOUR age I would hope you know WHAT
THAT
IS...🙄
He just says Silly or silly woman.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by LibraSupremePosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by LibraSupreme
It depends on the context, but I only would use that tactic for mind treetrunking to get my desired goal accomplished. OP explain to him that uplifting you instead of using "neg" words work better with you.
ok you need to explain more on mind treetrunking thingy.
Idk this guy so I can only speak of the lady killers I know. Some people treetrunk mentally to lower the lady value in a subliminal way and make her have self doubt which in turn allows easy manipulation.
i google it and this is what it said
Mindlessly defending, laughing at or admiring a person, typically someone of a celebration status.
so you think he trying to make me feel less so he looks better? doing this he appears to be a great catch?click to expand
No I could be completely wrong. If the contact is in a playful way it's nothing more than just playful banter. I'm just a scarred person who knows more short term than ltrs. Good luck on you and him for prosperity.
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by LibraSupremePosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by LibraSupreme
It depends on the context, but I only would use that tactic for mind treetrunking to get my desired goal accomplished. OP explain to him that uplifting you instead of using "neg" words work better with you.
ok you need to explain more on mind treetrunking thingy.
Idk this guy so I can only speak of the lady killers I know. Some people treetrunk mentally to lower the lady value in a subliminal way and make her have self doubt which in turn allows easy manipulation.
i google it and this is what it said
Mindlessly defending, laughing at or admiring a person, typically someone of a celebration status.
so you think he trying to make me feel less so he looks better? doing this he appears to be a great catch?
No I could be completely wrong. If the contact is in a playful way it's nothing more than just playful banter. I'm just a scarred person who knows more short term than ltrs. Good luck on you and him for prosperity.click to expand
And you might not be wrong. You have given me some food for thought. Thank you.
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by GemiAwesomeAss
By any chance does he say
You are silly! At YOUR age I would hope you know WHAT
THAT
IS...🙄
He just says Silly or silly woman.
mostly text and had lunch together. there has been no sex. some sex talk. And what does that mean "Well now your turn". my guess your in a mood tonight.
Ok. It’s time for an example...my friend who was divorced and dated man who called her silly after she attempted giving him bj!
Well...now your turn...click to expand
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Pesto101
I'd like to know a lady's perspective on the regular use of 'cutie' from a considerably younger SO. 😑 😒
there is "a guy does something so sweet it is cute", the good cute. The other cute is "guy trying to be a strong tough guy and it is not working"
like "he soo cute i just want to eat him up"
or "Aw look how cute he is being trying so hard"
https://media.giphy.com/media/YNEMTALvZdHyPwbO4Y/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand
Uh oh lol
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Parkourler
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
You would call her silly instead of being straight with about something that bothered you? lol you do Aries like it when people are straight with them and not calling Silly? lolclick to expand
She lashed out and mentioned my insecurities when I criticized her, my point is, ask him if he is annoyed, or if he has his period, nobody likes people who are unfriendly all the time.
I forgot to mention, calling someone silly, in my eyes, is belittling.
Depends on his style with ppl in general but i don't like the term at all.
Depends on his style with ppl in general but i don't like the term at all.
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Parkourler
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
You would call her silly instead of being straight with about something that bothered you? lol you do Aries like it when people are straight with them and not calling Silly? lol
She lashed out and mentioned my insecurities when I criticized her, my point is, ask him if he is annoyed, or if he has his period, nobody likes people who are unfriendly all the time.click to expand
my ex was a virgo who criticized me all the time and about stupid stuff because he didnt like the real me and wanted me to be something i am not. When i ask him if i have done something wrong he says it is all good. That man thingy "i can handle it". The guy i am talking about is an Aries. I am just going to chalk it up that he not really interested in me. I think the other guy is right, he want to put me into "I am Daddy" thingy because he has said "thats because i am your Daddy" thingy to me.
Posted by Pesto101
I forgot to mention, calling someone silly, in my eyes, is belittling.
Depends on his style with ppl in general but i don't like the term at all.
i agree it can be used when someone doesnt think much of you.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by ParkourlerPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Parkourler
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
You would call her silly instead of being straight with about something that bothered you? lol you do Aries like it when people are straight with them and not calling Silly? lol
She lashed out and mentioned my insecurities when I criticized her, my point is, ask him if he is annoyed, or if he has his period, nobody likes people who are unfriendly all the time.
my ex was a virgo who criticized me all the time and about stupid stuff because he didnt like the real me and wanted me to be something i am not. When i ask him if i have done something wrong he says it is all good. That man thingy "i can handle it". The guy i am talking about is an Aries. I am just going to chalk it up that he not really interested in me. I think the other guy is right, he want to put me into "I am Daddy" thingy because he has said "thats because i am your Daddy" thingy to me.click to expand
uugh, sounds familiar, men carry this unconscious expectation that we have to be able to handle everything, but what about
our boundaries/preferences? I never looked at it like that. That virgo was clearly threatened by your lack of passivityor a sexist. yeah I like it, I would have lengthy discussions with the aries, you aries are good at removing negativity quickly
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by ParkourlerPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by Parkourler
I used to do that with my aris ex when i was annoyed when she was dramatic, noisy or interrupting me. Maybe something is making him uncomfortable.
You would call her silly instead of being straight with about something that bothered you? lol you do Aries like it when people are straight with them and not calling Silly? lol
She lashed out and mentioned my insecurities when I criticized her, my point is, ask him if he is annoyed, or if he has his period, nobody likes people who are unfriendly all the time.
my ex was a virgo who criticized me all the time and about stupid stuff because he didnt like the real me and wanted me to be something i am not. When i ask him if i have done something wrong he says it is all good. That man thingy "i can handle it". The guy i am talking about is an Aries. I am just going to chalk it up that he not really interested in me. I think the other guy is right, he want to put me into "I am Daddy" thingy because he has said "thats because i am your Daddy" thingy to me.
uugh, sounds familiar, men carry this unconscious expectation that we have to be able to handle everything, but what about
our boundaries/preferences? I never looked at it like that. That virgo was clearly threatened by your lack of passivityor a sexist. yeah I like it, I would have lengthy discussions with the aries, you aries are good at removing negativity quicklyclick to expand
My ex virgo problem was he feared being alone. When i told him i wanted a divorce after 30 years, he did not say things like "i love you so much", the thing that kept coming out of his mouth was "i afraid of being alone". he remarried 3 months after our divorce. When people feel like they have no control over their lives they try to control people around them which does not work. The key to having control over ones life is to control themselves. it was so bad with his criticizing and bitching that i became suicidal. When i broke my foot i didnt even go to the hospital because of his bitching. I took care of my foot myself. I have a plan and was working on a life insurance policy. As for boundaries, that is more for what a person does to you not who that person is. So if someone yells at you, first tell them not to do that or i will walk away. You dont belittle them for it.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by alexscaries
He wants a piece of the action.
so you think he is interested then?
I think if he was expressing disappointment it wouldn't be confusing.click to expand
maybe he just has that 'you are like a sister" thing going on. 😆
Calling himself “Daddy” and you “silly”? He sounds like an idiot lol
Aren’t you turned off? 🥴
Aren’t you turned off? 🥴
Posted by MyStarsShine
Calling himself “Daddy” and you “silly”? He sounds like an idiot lol
Aren’t you turned off? 🥴
No because he has helped me through some hard times. People have their little things they like to be called or seen as. Daddy runs along the line as 'i am a pimp' or 'i am a boss'. they can be used in bad ways and they can be used as in endearments. i am just want some in put to what might be going on in is mind because he is the type of man that doesnt talk about his feelings. he is that Mans man type. "I need to be strong". either silly is being uses because he doesnt think much of me or it is an endearment because he finds me funny. It can even be he just doesnt know what to say to something i said so just says silly. lol one thing i do know he is not a stupid man. i also know a lot of people respect him.
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MyStarsShine
Calling himself “Daddy” and you “silly”? He sounds like an idiot lol
Aren’t you turned off? 🥴
No because he has helped me through some hard times. People have their little things they like to be called or seen as. Daddy runs along the line as 'i am a pimp' or 'i am a boss'. they can be used in bad ways and they can be used as in endearments. i am just want some in put to what might be going on in is mind because he is the type of man that doesnt talk about his feelings. he is that Mans man type. "I need to be strong". either silly is being uses because he doesnt think much of me or it is an endearment because he finds me funny. It can even be he just doesnt know what to say to something i said so just says silly. lol one thing i do know he is not a stupid man. i also know a lot of people respect him.click to expand
Okay. Good luck with him 👍
Usually, that's called sugar-coating. Maybe you said something stupid or you're being really naive about something. So hey, i take it - he's just trying to be nice/kind/respectable. That's a sign he's treating you with respect - despite of finding the stuff you said or did - kinda stupid or naive. Tho, as others mentioned above - it's also a way of teasing a loved one (:who's kinda silly - most of the time). 😏
Posted by GemiAwesomeAssPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by MyStarsShine
Calling himself “Daddy” and you “silly”? He sounds like an idiot lol
Aren’t you turned off? 🥴
No because he has helped me through some hard times. People have their little things they like to be called or seen as. Daddy runs along the line as 'i am a pimp' or 'i am a boss'. they can be used in bad ways and they can be used as in endearments. i am just want some in put to what might be going on in is mind because he is the type of man that doesnt talk about his feelings. he is that Mans man type. "I need to be strong". either silly is being uses because he doesnt think much of me or it is an endearment because he finds me funny. It can even be he just doesnt know what to say to something i said so just says silly. lol one thing i do know he is not a stupid man. i also know a lot of people respect him.
Ok. All I’ve learned about an Aries here is that Aries are straight forward, honest, don’t wait and don’t hear...All True...lop
Wouldn’t you KNOW by now what’s going on if he was seeing you as an item?click to expand
first i did the post more out of curiosity to see what men say. I even had a guy ask in the post about why women call a guy cute. Aries are forward when they know how they feel but there are times we are not sure about our feelings. Some Aries follow the rule' look at the bright side' even though we dont feel it. This man even told everyone he was doing great even though one of his best friends had died. So he follows the rule of being strong first before telling it like it is. For all i know he might not know how he feels about me. I do know he gives me mixed signals and there are a lot of different reason why a person does that, even an Aries.
Posted by neves
Usually, that's called sugar-coating. Maybe you said something stupid or you're being really naive about something. So hey, i take it - he's just trying to be nice/kind/respectable. That's a sign he's treating you with respect - despite of finding the stuff you said or did - kinda stupid or naive. Tho, as others mentioned above - it's also a way of teasing a loved one (:who's kinda silly - most of the time). 😏
Yes very true. lol there was one guy on here asking me why women call men 'Cute'. We mostly text and so it is hard to tell what is his meaning of the word. I have more of a curiosity about what men say about it or when they use that word what does it mean to them. The only thing i know about this guy that is true. He gives me mix signals which again there are a few different reason why a person does that. He did tell me once that he is the type that keeps his feeling to himself. that Mans Man type. lol
Posted by WitchmitchAries
So if a man calls you silly a lot what does that mean? Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Speaking from experience, it starts out with “silly”. Then a year or two into the relationship you get upgraded to “turkey”. A year after that it becomes “little shit”. Not sure what it’s going to be next.
Posted by WhorpioPosted by WitchmitchAries
So if a man calls you silly a lot what does that mean? Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Speaking from experience, it starts out with “silly”. Then a year or two into the relationship you get upgraded to “turkey”. A year after that it becomes “little shit”. Not sure what it’s going to be next.click to expand
that sounds like something parents do with children. lol
Posted by ElvisStalinWoodsPosted by WhorpioPosted by WitchmitchAries
So if a man calls you silly a lot what does that mean? Is it a bad thing or a good thing?
Speaking from experience, it starts out with “silly”. Then a year or two into the relationship you get upgraded to “turkey”. A year after that it becomes “little shit”. Not sure what it’s going to be next.
Wut?click to expand
Well he is not gey. he is a very old school Mans Man. 😆
Posted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by neves
Usually, that's called sugar-coating. Maybe you said something stupid or you're being really naive about something. So hey, i take it - he's just trying to be nice/kind/respectable. That's a sign he's treating you with respect - despite of finding the stuff you said or did - kinda stupid or naive. Tho, as others mentioned above - it's also a way of teasing a loved one (:who's kinda silly - most of the time). 😏
Yes very true. lol there was one guy on here asking me why women call men 'Cute'. We mostly text and so it is hard to tell what is his meaning of the word. I have more of a curiosity about what men say about it or when they use that word what does it mean to them. The only thing i know about this guy that is true. He gives me mix signals which again there are a few different reason why a person does that. He did tell me once that he is the type that keeps his feeling to himself. that Mans Man type. lolclick to expand
When women talk among themselves about a man - and one them says he's cute - that means she likes him (appearance wise). Tho, if the conversation takes place between a man and a woman (a date for example - or texting) - and the subject of attractiveness is approached by one of the parties - most women have a tendency to tell the guy that he's cute (You're cute... ^^) - without actually meaning it (in their head - they might think something like "He's meeeh!"). She's just trying to be nice (: so to speak). That being said - depends on the given context.
I did tease some girls friends by saying stuff like... " You silly goose!" Tho, that's mainly cause they were acting kinda silly - while texting and stuff. 😏 And i don't mean stupid, more like "acting silly was their way of teasing me" - or maybe "childish" is the right word (: which was actually a mutual thing - something we both did while texting). 🤭
5 pages later still no examples of what context he used it in. For instance, share parts of the text conversations you guys have.. ex:
Me: It took me a whole 30 mins to get over my fear of insects to clean up a dead bee by my window
Him: Oh you silly woman
Give us something to work with here
Me: It took me a whole 30 mins to get over my fear of insects to clean up a dead bee by my window
Him: Oh you silly woman
Give us something to work with here
Posted by nevesPosted by WitchmitchAriesPosted by neves
Usually, that's called sugar-coating. Maybe you said something stupid or you're being really naive about something. So hey, i take it - he's just trying to be nice/kind/respectable. That's a sign he's treating you with respect - despite of finding the stuff you said or did - kinda stupid or naive. Tho, as others mentioned above - it's also a way of teasing a loved one (:who's kinda silly - most of the time). 😏
Yes very true. lol there was one guy on here asking me why women call men 'Cute'. We mostly text and so it is hard to tell what is his meaning of the word. I have more of a curiosity about what men say about it or when they use that word what does it mean to them. The only thing i know about this guy that is true. He gives me mix signals which again there are a few different reason why a person does that. He did tell me once that he is the type that keeps his feeling to himself. that Mans Man type. lol
When women talk among themselves about a man - and one them says he's cute - that means she likes him (appearance wise). Tho, if the conversation takes place between a man and a woman (a date for example - or texting) - and the subject of attractiveness is approached by one of the parties - most women have a tendency to tell the guy that he's cute (You're cute... ^^) - without actually meaning it (in their head - they might think something like "He's meeeh!"). She's just trying to be nice (: so to speak). That being said - depends on the given context.
I did tease some girls friends by saying stuff like... " You silly goose!" Tho, that's mainly cause they were acting kinda silly - while texting and stuff. 😏 And i don't mean stupid, more like "acting silly was their way of teasing me" - or maybe "childish" is the right word (: which was actually a mutual thing - something we both did while texting). 🤭click to expand
it is really funny how one word can have soo many meanings depending on the context which is why there is a lot of misunderstanding in texts. Most of the time when he calls me silly is when i text something deep with some humor or a smart ass remark or both. 😆 so i just cant get a feel for what silly really means when he uses it because i have no body language to go off.
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