Men and Boobs.....Why do you stare at them—

Okay.....I was not sure where to post this ......so Misc seems like a good place for boobs ....since we don't have an anatomy subject.

I have to ask women ......do you find that men stare at your boobs when you are talking to them, they don't look at your face but rather your bust line. Okay, I will not lie I have big boobs, but it is just plain rude. I had this client I was working on today in the massage clinic. When I was talking to him about his health and asking him questions he kept staring at my chest. I was like okay buddy, my boobs don't have all the answers. It made for a very uncomfortable massage. When we were done I was showing him some helpful stretches, I swear he was mesmerized by my boobs. I was thinking to myself *okay now focus* oooooo he was focused alright. Gee it was so annoying.

So men what is your deal with boobs?
Women what experiences have you had with this?

PD

Okay, I can understand why you want to look at them, but do you always make sure to not be so obvious. It was just weird because I knew he knew I noticed him looking at them. I even put his file in front of them to distract him, and that seemed to finally get his attention to look at me while talking to him.

BTW - I kept him face down most of the massage .......I did not want him staring at them while working on him. Thank goodness he was almost asleep when I turned him around face up. *sigh*

*sigh, and shakes head* Men!!

PD

Posted by Pisces_Dream

I have to ask women ......do you find that men stare at your boobs when you are talking to them, they don't look at your face but rather your bust line.

I was like okay buddy, my boobs don't have all the answers.

rofl @ that last line. i know exactly what you mean. i'm with you on the irritation as well.

Posted by deemnsout4ever
plus,as smart man would check out the bubblebutt ...ever wondered why we hold the door open for you ladies....yep

Now I know .....lol I thought guys were just being polite.

Give them sunglasses— my boobs or the client— lol

PD

Posted by Jason2213
I tend to avoid eye contact in actual one on one conversations since I'm a bit shy. But I stay away from the chest to avoid being thought of as a pervert.


I don't know...the thought of closing my mouth over a lover's nipple makes all but one part of my body weak. Boobs are magical.

So do you think this is what is going through a guys mind when he is looking at boobs??

PD

I dunno ladies .....even if you don't have a lot of boobage ....guys seemed to like them either way. Don't you find?

PD

Posted by deemnsout4ever

Posted by Pisces_Dream
I dunno ladies .....even if you don't have a lot of boobage ....guys seemed to like them either way. Don't you find?

PD

...because we don't have any


and yes,the sunglasses,put them on your boobs 🙂

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lol @ bling ......sure the sunglasses should help deflect attention

Posted by *Tasha
my boobs are nice. i don't like to show cleavage though i feel like a skank. i don't think i've had the problem idk

When I am working ....especially in massage clinic I have to dress very conservative which involves a polo with very high v cut. Definately not sexy at all. That is why I could not understand why this dude kept staring.

When I go out, I will show cleavage. 🙂

PD

lol @ eden .....Yeah they would probably like it. LOL

PD

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Posted by Pisces_Dream

Posted by Jason2213
I tend to avoid eye contact in actual one on one conversations since I'm a bit shy. But I stay away from the chest to avoid being thought of as a pervert.


I don't know...the thought of closing my mouth over a lover's nipple makes all but one part of my body weak. Boobs are magical.

So do you think this is what is going through a guys mind when he is looking at boobs??

PD

Maybe. When guys look at boobs, its like a crystal ball. Looking at what could be a future...or fantasizing it.

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LOL ...that is cute Jason.......

Ladies ....did you hear that .....our boobs are psychic— 😛

Well time to put the twins to sleep ....thanks for the fun feed back. 😛

PD

I've never quite gotten how anyone could like an ass. I mean... you sit on it and er... "do your business" on that end. I don't find that sexy.


"Ooooooooo nice turdcutter"

Nope. Just not sexy. But hey... whatever blows your skirt up I guess 😛

I just don't think boobs are that big of a deal either. Their actually kind of annoying. Damn things 😛

I have a very small chest so I don't get oggled at alot but it has happened. I had a friend convince me to wear a wonderbra out once (she told me it would improve my posture and give me a better shape)..........Right..... all it improved was dudes hands on crap. And that made me feel bad for them. It was just a bunch of padding. *shakes head* Made me feel like I was false advertising.

I'm not fake like that 😄

Posted by deemnsout4ever

Posted by Pisces_Dream
I dunno ladies .....even if you don't have a lot of boobage ....guys seemed to like them either way. Don't you find?

PD

...because we don't have any

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Naw, that can't be it... we don't have dicks and we don't stare them!

Posted by deemnsout4ever
Although ,to be honest,I still don't buy into the idea that women check out hair,eyes,teeth,hands.......then feet !!! ,when checking out a guy 🙂

I like eyes and smiles... never look at hands (not even for a wedding ring) nor feet.

Speaking of wedding rings... my ex used to always scope out women (in my presence even) and the first thing he would look for is whether they had a ring on their finger. What's the deal with that??

GOD I LOV TITS

Maybe he's on the phone w/ his mistress or maybe he had his hand in his pocket a few minutes before. Doesn't do it for me... my first reaction to that pic was to wrinkle my nose and say eww. I am not much into looking at men's bodies, I like faces (eyes and smiles as I said), that is my measure of attractiveness (even for women). I can't say I focus much below the neck. Besides, the size of a man's pecker does not indicate that he can do a damn thing with it - I've had men on the smaller side that performed a lot better than men on the larger side. Just saying...

Maybe he walks around w/ a sock in his pants all the time to see what reaction he can get...

Posted by WinterBorn
What's that down around his left knee? A spare??

OMG, I missed that! LOL

Oh, it needs to be photo-shopped for some subtle differences (with out the blow up) and see if Bella can spot them 😄

He has a gun tucked in at his waist and a knife strapped to his calf...
(a bad boy for Bella)

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
he's a capricorn btw, so maybe he is a phony..... 😢




🙂

HA! We're the realists of the zodiac... he's just afraid of failure so has to improvise (WITH A SOCK)!!

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
well I saw Ian's and you didn't so..... *rasberry*

his is way better anyway.and it's not a sock.

Ian's packing is he?? How good is he with his hands though?? LOL

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Posted by lildol

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
well I saw Ian's and you didn't so..... *rasberry*

his is way better anyway.and it's not a sock.

Ian's packing is he?? How good is he with his hands though?? LOL

He's mine,back off lady!

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Didn't your mother ever teach you to share your toys—

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
I don't share.

You can have the sock guy all to yourself!! LOL

talk about a bunch of horney bitches.

*grabs Ian by one arm and pulls*

He's mine Bella - he's good with his hands!!

Posted by Jason2213
Harry Potter tells us that boobs are magical.

lol!

i — bewbiez ^_^

Posted by Jason2213
*saws off Ians arms* Run Ian!

You'll have to cut off more than that... Bella wants what's in his pants!!

Let's see... how can I make these hands work for me now?

We can use and abuse our favorite parts this way!!!

Hmmm... who wants his tongue— LOL

Posted by ianthefish
hey you two.. theres no fighting in the harem...

now both of you fall behind..

I didn't know you like a woman from behind...

*getting the strap on*

Let's go for a ride baby!!!

Posted by ianthefish
you follow me is all it means...
dont try to turn it all kinky and shit..

Nothing wrong with a little kink to spice things up a bit my dear... I go easy on you.

*slaps Ian's ass*

Posted by ianthefish
ill hurt you

*singing: "come on baby make it feel like it should... make it hurt so good"*

I can think of all sorts of creative things to do with your... well you, period!! *sheepish grin*

Posted by FeistyAquarian

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
eyes are the most important thing for me,and the first thing I look at.

Me too! They're like boobs to me...the bigger the better! I love huge eyes.

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like these?

S h i t! I stare at boobs... does that make me a man?

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
S h i t! I stare at boobs... does that make me a man?

That's hot

Posted by deemnsout4ever

ta.the best ones are firm with a little layer of jiggle around them

that sounds exactly like my tush. ^_^

Posted by deemnsout4ever
*claps*

*takes a bow*

haha 😄

Posted by VirgoHero

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
S h i t! I stare at boobs... does that make me a man?

That's hot

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I knew you'd say that!!! LOL!!

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

Posted by VirgoHero

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
S h i t! I stare at boobs... does that make me a man?

That's hot

I knew you'd say that!!! LOL!!

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Awww damn... I must be a man too! That explains so much!

But really, most men (esp American men) are "Boob Guys" - probably because America, more than any other place, has turned women's breasts into a sex object and something to be lusted after, rather than just simple anatomical parts whose main function is to nurse their young.

As for them staring... they just weren't taught proper manners, I guess. Most men look; I don't think they can help it. But smart ones learn to glance fast, and not stare openly. I prefer men who look at my face and eyes - and fortunately, my boobs are not so big that they make it an impossible dream! LOL

I leave for two days .....and you all have covered other anatomies ....that made me chuckle.

Fiestyaqurian .....those pics made me laugh ....especially the one where she is flashing the cows ....hahahahahaha

As for looking at other women's boobs ....I only look if I think wow .....I like her boobs ....I wish I had them that size and shape. Boobs are kind of pretty arn't they? If we think of all the greek and roman god statues ....many of the women were bare breasted or you could see her curvatures. men too ....sexuality has always been beautiful ....When did the human body become so dirty?

Growing up ....I always thought this woman had the best figure. I have always loved wonder woman. My secret confession ....I have always wanted to be wonder woman ....a strong woman .....with great boobs .....and gold bracelets!!!

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PD

I must say.... I may have small boobs but they are great boobs. 😄 Nice shape to them... yeah my boobs are just fantastic 🙂 lol 😛

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I love Wonderwoman. I should get a costume for Halloween!!

That'd be fun PD. She's hot!

I'm gonna go back to my roots and be a German frauline barmaid 😉
Wasn't my idea... I ususally just dress in black/witchy type clothes but it was requested so.... eh.

Posted by Gingerscorp
I must say.... I may have small boobs but they are great boobs. 😄 Nice shape to them... yeah my boobs are just fantastic 🙂 lol 😛

Yeah ...over the years ...I have always felt mine have drawn way too much attention...but I have come to accept them ....and I think Jason might be right they have magical powers. lol A few years back I was hired to be a district sales manager to represent the entire state of Colorado and my regional manager later told me he hired becaue of the way I looked. The clientel I was working with was mainly men and he thought I would do well. He was right ....I did REALLY well. I know it is sexist ....but it was true.

I think it is fine for men or anyone to look at boobs ....but to make it so obvious ....wow ...that was a bit much for me. I guess I might have to learn to deal with it in the industry I am working in. *Sigh*

PD

Posted by Gingerscorp
That'd be fun PD. She's hot!

I'm gonna go back to my roots and be a German frauline barmaid 😉
Wasn't my idea... I ususally just dress in black/witchy type clothes but it was requested so.... eh.

I can see that being really cute on you Ginger with your Red Hair!!! ooooo maybe you can wear your new boots— 😉

PD

LOL Well... I'm just hoping I don't end up looking like a slutty Heidi but I told Aries I would do it *rolls eyes*

Def going to be putting my hair into braids which I LOVE to do. I guess it's a farm girl thing 😛

Posted by Gingerscorp
LOL Well... I'm just hoping I don't end up looking like a slutty Heidi but I told Aries I would do it *rolls eyes*

Def going to be putting my hair into braids which I LOVE to do. I guess it's a farm girl thing 😛

Awww braids that will be adorable. I love your red hair!! As for being sluty .....well it is one day that it is socially acceptable ...just do it. 😛 Be daring!!!

PD

OMG you people must spend your life on here

Posted by james tate
OMG you people must spend your life on here

Hey I was gone for two days!!!! 😢

Funny thing James ....I was thinking the same thing about some DXP peeps.

I did take a break today from DXP.... and went shopping and bought some new coats with cute little hats and boots .....🙂