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Need advice for a friend
She's not willing to take the steps. Can't do anything but encourage her.
Posted by hoeflationPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflation
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Did you say Saju on FT is same as Bazi?
Yes on there
But I have no idea wtf Saju is I’ve never heard of it except on that app
Might google laterclick to expand
Thanks
Do you find it accurate on FT?
Saju (사주/四柱) means the four pillars of destiny - Chinese, Japanese and Korean conceptual term describing a person's destiny or fate based on the sexagenary cycle or 60 Gapja (육십갑자/六十甲子) called Ancient Chinese zodiac .
Posted by hoeflationPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflationPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflation
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Did you say Saju on FT is same as Bazi?
Yes on there
But I have no idea wtf Saju is I’ve never heard of it except on that app
Might google later
Thanks
Do you find it accurate on FT?
The Saju readings are shortcuts to something a bazi reader would tell you
Like if they say when will I meet my souls mate as just an example
They’re looking at the spouse star showing up at the luckiest decade but they do all the figuring that out for you and just give you a date 😅click to expand
Lol
I’ve been reading the day to day Saju reports and find them dead on!
I’m not looking for a soulmate 🤣
Posted by Dastard2020
So I have a female friend that I've known for many years. We've lost touch but recently reconnected. She's gained over a 100 pounds, is working at a job she hates and making minimum wage. She is depressed about her current situation. My advice to her was to see a therapist/psychiatrist who could perhaps address and treat her mental struggles and distress more effectively.
But she says she can't afford it. She's so depressed about the thought of never being able to own a house, she's depressed and angry about being overweight, she's upset about not being able to afford her medical bills and doesn't want to see a doctor because she is afraid she is going to be told to lose weight, she's upset she hasn't had a girlfriend in years as a result of her weight gain.
She's been living in a trailer park for years now and was suriving on food stamps, financial aid from the government and unemployment money. She still lives in a trailer park but I've help her get the job she now has (which she hates).
I told her perhaps she can afford to see a specialist with the money she's making but she squanders all her money on grubhub and groceries (junk food).
I want to do more for her but I feel like the next step would be to just give her money I don't feel comfortable doing that. Nor do I think she'd be able to pay me back.
Any thoughts?
I think exercise would solve half of her problems. Keep pushing her to exercise. Exercise improves mental health by reducing anxiety, depression, and negative mood and by improving self-esteem and cognitive function. For this reason, I would try a personal trainer before a therapist. Exercise strangely regulates craving... I think it gives a lot of good endorphins that replaces the ones people get from over-eating. It will also eventually make you feel full sooner. Diet is NOT the key. Let it happen naturally with exercise or she'll end up with saggy skin. Slow and steady but consistent.
I think you could help by being a work-out buddy.... scheduling a time everyday to go for a one hour walk.
Based on what you wrote, she's got alot of anxiety (worrying about the future), predicting negatively about her future. She can get a second job. There's alot work from home jobs out there that she could pick-up as second gig.
I read a snarky comment years ago that exercise is a poor woman's plastic surgery.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Dastard2020
So I have a female friend that I've known for many years. We've lost touch but recently reconnected. She's gained over a 100 pounds, is working at a job she hates and making minimum wage. She is depressed about her current situation. My advice to her was to see a therapist/psychiatrist who could perhaps address and treat her mental struggles and distress more effectively.
But she says she can't afford it. She's so depressed about the thought of never being able to own a house, she's depressed and angry about being overweight, she's upset about not being able to afford her medical bills and doesn't want to see a doctor because she is afraid she is going to be told to lose weight, she's upset she hasn't had a girlfriend in years as a result of her weight gain.
She's been living in a trailer park for years now and was suriving on food stamps, financial aid from the government and unemployment money. She still lives in a trailer park but I've help her get the job she now has (which she hates).
I told her perhaps she can afford to see a specialist with the money she's making but she squanders all her money on grubhub and groceries (junk food).
I want to do more for her but I feel like the next step would be to just give her money I don't feel comfortable doing that. Nor do I think she'd be able to pay me back.
Any thoughts?
I think exercise would solve half of her problems. Keep pushing her to exercise. Exercise improves mental health by reducing anxiety, depression, and negative mood and by improving self-esteem and cognitive function. For this reason, I would try a personal trainer before a therapist. Exercise strangely regulates craving... I think it gives a lot of good endorphins that replaces the ones people get from over-eating. It will also eventually make you feel full sooner. Diet is NOT the key. Let it happen naturally with exercise or she'll end up with saggy skin. Slow and steady but consistent.
I think you could help by being a work-out buddy.... scheduling a time everyday to go for a one hour walk.
Based on what you wrote, she's got alot of anxiety (worrying about the future), predicting negatively about her future. She can get a second job. There's alot work from home jobs out there that she could pick-up as second gig.
I read a snarky comment years ago that exercise is a poor woman's plastic surgery.click to expand
Great advice 👍
I haven't had a girlfriend in years and I'm not even fat, give me the money instead
Posted by Walk_on_by
I haven't had a girlfriend in years and I'm not even fat, give me the money instead
Her situation is tough because she only wants to date Scorpio women. So her dating pool is even smaller than the average overweight woman.
She's an Aries btw.
are you the "friend"
Posted by hoeflation
What does her bazi look like? 😅
No idea.
Is this a good site to calculate her bazi?
https://www.prokerala.com/feng-shui/bazi-calculator.php
Posted by Wurted
does the trailer have wheels
Nomad life
Honestly I don't know. We've reconnected online. She never showed me where she lives, but she did tell me she lives in a trailer park. I think she's hiding. She's so ashamed of herself clearly but too prideful to admit it.
Posted by hoeflationPosted by Dastard2020Posted by hoeflationNo idea.
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Is this a good site to calculate her bazi?
https://www.prokerala.com/feng-shui/bazi-calculator.php
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https://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/Chineseastrology.htmclick to expand
It's not loading for me for some reason. Can you enter her info?
March 25th, 1978
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Posted by hoeflationPosted by Dastard2020Posted by hoeflationIt's not loading for me for some reason. Can you enter her info?Posted by Dastard2020https://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/Chineseastrology.htmPosted by hoeflationNo idea.
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Is this a good site to calculate her bazi?
https://www.prokerala.com/feng-shui/bazi-calculator.php
click to expand
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March 25th, 1978
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
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wtf
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What does that mean? @_@
Posted by hoeflationPosted by Dastard2020Posted by hoeflationPosted by Dastard2020wtfPosted by hoeflationIt's not loading for me for some reason. Can you enter her info?Posted by Dastard2020https://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/Chineseastrology.htmPosted by hoeflationNo idea.
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Is this a good site to calculate her bazi?
https://www.prokerala.com/feng-shui/bazi-calculator.php
click to expand
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March 25th, 1978
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
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What does that mean? @_@
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Looks like she’s in luck 😅
Must be something wrong 🤣click to expand
Definitely. She attracts a lot of misfortune.
That's why I choose to keep my distance despite wanting to help her. She chooses to surround herself in negativity. Her best friend is a lonely, self-hating, hardcore alcoholic with no direction in life. He's in the same situation as her in the relationship department, and he also happens to be overweight.
🫖☕️
Posted by hoeflationPosted by Dastard2020Posted by hoeflationPosted by Dastard2020Looks like she’s in luck 😅Posted by hoeflationPosted by Dastard2020wtfPosted by hoeflationIt's not loading for me for some reason. Can you enter her info?Posted by Dastard2020https://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/Chineseastrology.htmPosted by hoeflationNo idea.
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Is this a good site to calculate her bazi?
https://www.prokerala.com/feng-shui/bazi-calculator.php
click to expand
click to expand
March 25th, 1978
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
click to expand
What does that mean? @_@
click to expand
Must be something wrong 🤣
Definitely. She attracts a lot of misfortune.
That's why I choose to keep my distance despite wanting to help her. She chooses to surround herself in negativity. Her best friend is a lonely, self-hating, hardcore alcoholic with no direction in life. He's in the same situation as her in the relationship department, and he also happens to be overweight.
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Is he a Scorpio?click to expand
He's a Leo I think. I remember she told me on the day of his birthday he was throwing a pity party, getting drunk and going on self-hating, nihilistic rants and alternating to egomaniac rants back and forth. This was back in late July/early August of last year.
I think his whole family passed or something. Not quite sure. But he's damaged beyond repair.
Posted by Dastard2020Posted by Walk_on_by
I haven't had a girlfriend in years and I'm not even fat, give me the money instead
Her situation is tough because she only wants to date Scorpio women. So her dating pool is even smaller than the average overweight woman.
She's an Aries btw.click to expand
Based
I find this a strange situation. Something don't add up.
Maybe suggest a “clarity walk” around sunset?!
Walking seems to help alleviate my depression
Walking seems to help alleviate my depression
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by Dastard2020Posted by Walk_on_byHer situation is tough because she only wants to date Scorpio women. So her dating pool is even smaller than the average overweight woman.
I haven't had a girlfriend in years and I'm not even fat, give me the money instead
She's an Aries btw.
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No wait a minute. 😆 Is this friend on dxp? You almost had me.click to expand
I won't say out of respect for her.
She only goes after straight, Scorpio women. Which is quite problematic.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflationPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflationPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflation
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Did you say Saju on FT is same as Bazi?
Yes on there
But I have no idea wtf Saju is I’ve never heard of it except on that app
Might google later
Thanks
Do you find it accurate on FT?
The Saju readings are shortcuts to something a bazi reader would tell you
Like if they say when will I meet my souls mate as just an example
They’re looking at the spouse star showing up at the luckiest decade but they do all the figuring that out for you and just give you a date 😅
click to expand
Lol
I’ve been reading the day to day Saju reports and find them dead on!
I’m not looking for a soulmate 🤣
I think I have already run all the predictions. Apparently I'm meeting my soulmate this is my year. But uh...I already declared May through December self care months. So maybe I will meet him at a spa. 🤣click to expand
That’s funny. 😀
Where is the soulmate section, I’ve never seen that lol, maybe because they don’t see one for me 😅
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BadderBunnyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflationPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflationPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by hoeflation
What does her bazi look like? 😅
Did you say Saju on FT is same as Bazi?
Yes on there
But I have no idea wtf Saju is I’ve never heard of it except on that app
Might google later
Thanks
Do you find it accurate on FT?
The Saju readings are shortcuts to something a bazi reader would tell you
Like if they say when will I meet my souls mate as just an example
They’re looking at the spouse star showing up at the luckiest decade but they do all the figuring that out for you and just give you a date 😅
click to expand
Lol
I’ve been reading the day to day Saju reports and find them dead on!
I’m not looking for a soulmate 🤣
I think I have already run all the predictions. Apparently I'm meeting my soulmate this is my year. But uh...I already declared May through December self care months. So maybe I will meet him at a spa. 🤣
That’s funny. 😀
Where is the soulmate section, I’ve never seen that lol, maybe because they don’t see one for me 😅
Its the when will I meet my true love quiz.click to expand
😄
Thanks
@BadderBunny
Lol…..I’m not 🤣
Five years of single bliss
Lol…..I’m not 🤣
Five years of single bliss
Posted by Dastard2020
So I have a female friend that I've known for many years. We've lost touch but recently reconnected. She's gained over a 100 pounds, is working at a job she hates and making minimum wage. She is depressed about her current situation. My advice to her was to see a therapist/psychiatrist who could perhaps address and treat her mental struggles and distress more effectively.
But she says she can't afford it. She's so depressed about the thought of never being able to own a house, she's depressed and angry about being overweight, she's upset about not being able to afford her medical bills and doesn't want to see a doctor because she is afraid she is going to be told to lose weight, she's upset she hasn't had a girlfriend in years as a result of her weight gain.
She's been living in a trailer park for years now and was suriving on food stamps, financial aid from the government and unemployment money. She still lives in a trailer park but I've help her get the job she now has (which she hates).
I told her perhaps she can afford to see a specialist with the money she's making but she squanders all her money on grubhub and groceries (junk food).
I want to do more for her but I feel like the next step would be to just give her money I don't feel comfortable doing that. Nor do I think she'd be able to pay me back.
Any thoughts?
REAL depression is a bitch. It's not a mood rather a way of existing.
That kind of depression ribs you of the motivation and energy to do the things to get you out of depression. It's like a trap.
Reduces will power as well.
And color your judgement it's hard to see the good and opportunities because it dies the world in shades if gray.
So my advice is for her to pick on things to work on. It does sound like exercise would address a couple issues at once.
Go to them gym. It will take time to see results but she will feel better over time and see results.
For now everyday or other day. Mornings are best. No skipping days. It's about building the habit.
So even if she just there for 20 minutes I stead of 30 or a hour it counts.
Posted by poppyflowerPosted by nanochip
🫖☕️
How’s the 🍵click to expand
Not sure, but I think this is about a user who has some beef with some other users 😂 Which I believe occurred when I was on a dxp break, so I don’t know what it’s fully all about 😂
Go to the nearest restaurant, order something, then in front of everyone bill yourself. That will show em lmao!!!
Shouldn't you be focusing on sucking a fat dxpnet Asian cock anyway?
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by MyStarsShine
@BadderBunny
Lol…..I’m not 🤣
Five years of single bliss
2029 and they said "I'm excited for you". What? lol.click to expand
They obviously excited for me having years of freedom 🤣😆
Posted by BadderBunny
@MyStarsShine
I suppose if this happens my dxp graduation shall be complete. 😆
😂😆
My advice would be to let her be. She’s got a job, a roof above her head, similarly poor neighbours, plenty of food to keep her fat, and she clearly does not want to date.
Her situation is far from desperate. She has not hit the rock bottom, or any “milestone” that would make her want to change, so why would you?
Her situation is far from desperate. She has not hit the rock bottom, or any “milestone” that would make her want to change, so why would you?
Posted by Undine
My advice would be to let her be. She’s got a job, a roof above her head, similarly poor neighbours, plenty of food to keep her fat, and she clearly does not want to date.
Her situation is far from desperate. She has not hit the rock bottom, or any “milestone” that would make her want to change, so why would you?
The thing is, people don't casually gain 100 lbs unless they struggle with food addiction or they have like.. a thyroid disorder or on some sort of medication that fks with their blood sugar so I mean.. unless she was pretty big to begin with, I don't really see this happening 😅
Posted by Dastard2020
So I have a female friend that I've known for many years. We've lost touch but recently reconnected. She's gained over a 100 pounds, is working at a job she hates and making minimum wage. She is depressed about her current situation. My advice to her was to see a therapist/psychiatrist who could perhaps address and treat her mental struggles and distress more effectively.
But she says she can't afford it. She's so depressed about the thought of never being able to own a house, she's depressed and angry about being overweight, she's upset about not being able to afford her medical bills and doesn't want to see a doctor because she is afraid she is going to be told to lose weight, she's upset she hasn't had a girlfriend in years as a result of her weight gain.
She's been living in a trailer park for years now and was suriving on food stamps, financial aid from the government and unemployment money. She still lives in a trailer park but I've help her get the job she now has (which she hates).
I told her perhaps she can afford to see a specialist with the money she's making but she squanders all her money on grubhub and groceries (junk food).
I want to do more for her but I feel like the next step would be to just give her money I don't feel comfortable doing that. Nor do I think she'd be able to pay me back.
Any thoughts?
Um like something doesn't sound quite right in this picture. With the weight sichiation. How did she managed to gain over a hundred pounds? That's a lot of weight bubba. Unless the last time you've seen her she was I assume really skinny? Like 110lbs and now at 210? Cus if she was already fat from the jump she would be pushing 400lbs by now.
As far as any thoughts, I would probably go along what the others on this thread advise. Cus id probably give the same advice too.
Posted by RollergirlOrcPosted by Undine
My advice would be to let her be. She’s got a job, a roof above her head, similarly poor neighbours, plenty of food to keep her fat, and she clearly does not want to date.
Her situation is far from desperate. She has not hit the rock bottom, or any “milestone” that would make her want to change, so why would you?
The thing is, people don't casually gain 100 lbs unless they struggle with food addiction or they have like.. a thyroid disorder or on some sort of medication that fks with their blood sugar so I mean.. unless she was pretty big to begin with, I don't really see this happening 😅click to expand
Possibly yes, but blood tests and help with health issues could be provided by a primary care doctor, on a basic health insurance, not by us. Unfortunately, many women put on substantial weight past the 40es. I was doing my new guest bedroom recently and had to take into consideration that many of the women that may use it are overweight 🙀
I’m just testing my Scorpio
psychic detective skills 😃🥴
I think this is Bluemoon
D, I’m delighted you two
have become friends 😂
psychic detective skills 😃🥴
I think this is Bluemoon
D, I’m delighted you two
have become friends 😂
"She's so depressed about the thought of never being able to own a house"
NOBODY CAN BUY A HOUSE!!!
If you didn't already buy a house before 2020 your not getting a fucking house. Now will our economy completely collapse to force us on to a digital currency? probably, but their still not gonna give us houses anymore.
We all have to find new dreams.
NOBODY CAN BUY A HOUSE!!!
If you didn't already buy a house before 2020 your not getting a fucking house. Now will our economy completely collapse to force us on to a digital currency? probably, but their still not gonna give us houses anymore.
We all have to find new dreams.
Posted by Astrobyn
"She's so depressed about the thought of never being able to own a house"
NOBODY CAN BUY A HOUSE!!!
If you didn't already buy a house before 2020 your not getting a fucking house. Now will our economy completely collapse to force us on to a digital currency? probably, but their still not gonna give us houses anymore.
We all have to find new dreams.
I am 😂
Posted by MyStarsShine
I’m just testing my Scorpio
psychic detective skills 😃🥴
I think this is Bluemoon
D, I’m delighted you two
have become friends 😂
What makes you think this is about Bluemoon? I'm curious to know.
@_@
Posted by Dastard2020Posted by MyStarsShine
I’m just testing my Scorpio
psychic detective skills 😃🥴
I think this is Bluemoon
D, I’m delighted you two
have become friends 😂
What makes you think this is about Bluemoon? I'm curious to know.
@_@click to expand
Birthday
Posted by hoeflationPosted by RollergirlOrcPosted by UndineThe thing is, people don't casually gain 100 lbs unless they struggle with food addiction or they have like.. a thyroid disorder or on some sort of medication that fks with their blood sugar so I mean.. unless she was pretty big to begin with, I don't really see this happening 😅
My advice would be to let her be. She’s got a job, a roof above her head, similarly poor neighbours, plenty of food to keep her fat, and she clearly does not want to date.
Her situation is far from desperate. She has not hit the rock bottom, or any “milestone” that would make her want to change, so why would you?
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Oh I’ve casually gained 100 lbs 😅click to expand
Damn. What's your secret. I thought Taurus was skinneeeeee. #chunkyands Also who is this bluemoon chick?
Posted by hoeflationPosted by RollergirlOrcPosted by hoeflationPosted by RollergirlOrcOh I’ve casually gained 100 lbs 😅Posted by UndineThe thing is, people don't casually gain 100 lbs unless they struggle with food addiction or they have like.. a thyroid disorder or on some sort of medication that fks with their blood sugar so I mean.. unless she was pretty big to begin with, I don't really see this happening 😅
My advice would be to let her be. She’s got a job, a roof above her head, similarly poor neighbours, plenty of food to keep her fat, and she clearly does not want to date.
Her situation is far from desperate. She has not hit the rock bottom, or any “milestone” that would make her want to change, so why would you?
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Damn. What's your secret. I thought Taurus was skinneeeeee. #chunkyands Also who is this bluemoon chick?
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I got a gf 🤣 #nowicangetfat
She’s an old poster who was apparently here all along lurking
Don’t worry you’re not a Scorpio woman she won’t try to get close to youclick to expand
Are there hordes of secret female lurkers waiting to bag DXP lotharios?
Seriously tho, I can actually see situationally how a very depressed person can gain 100lbs working an office or remote job + a harsh winter climate + being close proximity to the fast food options and being seduced by the convenience. This is the American reality for so many
I mean when I turned 30, I can gain 10 fucking pounds alone just by eating at Olive Garden 1 time 😒
I mean when I turned 30, I can gain 10 fucking pounds alone just by eating at Olive Garden 1 time 😒
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Dastard2020Posted by MyStarsShine
I’m just testing my Scorpio
psychic detective skills 😃🥴
I think this is Bluemoon
D, I’m delighted you two
have become friends 😂
What makes you think this is about Bluemoon? I'm curious to know.
@_@
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Birthday
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But she says she can't afford it. She's so depressed about the thought of never being able to own a house, she's depressed and angry about being overweight, she's upset about not being able to afford her medical bills and doesn't want to see a doctor because she is afraid she is going to be told to lose weight, she's upset she hasn't had a girlfriend in years as a result of her weight gain.
She's been living in a trailer park for years now and was suriving on food stamps, financial aid from the government and unemployment money. She still lives in a trailer park but I've help her get the job she now has (which she hates).
I told her perhaps she can afford to see a specialist with the money she's making but she squanders all her money on grubhub and groceries (junk food).
I want to do more for her but I feel like the next step would be to just give her money I don't feel comfortable doing that. Nor do I think she'd be able to pay me back.
Any thoughts?