guccigemini55
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Dazed, were u specific in your question? I answered what u asked, it was a yes or no answer as far as im concerned.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by guccigemini55Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Maybe if I happened to be older, but at 23? I'm not taking care of no ones child on purpose.
but what if she knocks you off your feet?
Trust me, I won't even let it go that far. However, if I happen to entertain the idea, and we do become something more, I might work something out. Nonetheless, like you said, she would have to do some major sweeping.
I've actually been in this situation before at 19 years old where I made myself believe I could actually become a good father just to be with someone special. It surely didn't work out that way and I'm particularly happy it didn't.click to expand
but you gave it a try.. your decision is based on a bad experience?
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by domz
I have no idea what is being discussed actually, didn't actually read the thread.
Dating single parents. Care to weigh in?click to expand
lmao!
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by guccigemini55Posted by PotHeadVirgo22Posted by guccigemini55Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Maybe if I happened to be older, but at 23? I'm not taking care of no ones child on purpose.
but what if she knocks you off your feet?
Trust me, I won't even let it go that far. However, if I happen to entertain the idea, and we do become something more, I might work something out. Nonetheless, like you said, she would have to do some major sweeping.
I've actually been in this situation before at 19 years old where I made myself believe I could actually become a good father just to be with someone special. It surely didn't work out that way and I'm particularly happy it didn't.
but you gave it a try.. your decision is based on a bad experience?
It's deeper than a bad experience. I'm just not ready to be some little girl or boys father figure. I'm still trying to work out my own kinks in life. And even once I become settled, it still isn't a great idea. All that bad experience did was make me realize I was about to commit on something I didn't thoroughly think through. Which leads to other bad descions. I'm not saying that someone else would be making a mistake by sticking it out with their partner's child. All I'm saying is "I'm" making the mistake. Though as time moves on and I become more mature on the subject matter, only then will I really consider being serious with a partner who has kids.
That being the case, I would never play with another's emotion or string them along just to get some ass. To me that's a bit evil. I'll definitely keep it 100 with her....click to expand
good man, a mature answer.. thats my point, douching a woman and stringing her along to get some ass but not wanting to commit because she has kids
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by guccigemini55
That she shouldnt be hiding you.. whats wrong with being upfront? why is she hiding you? my take is thats not a good enough reason not to call.. minor ear infection and 3 hours away, is the dad not equipped to cope—
That's what I thought. I just wanted a single mothers perspective, you know? Thank you.
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awwwwe 😢 .. i see where your argument is coming from in regards to fairness of making time for the guy 🙂
ok question, a woman.. 2 kids different fathers? thats me and straight up with everything i described.
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by guccigemini55Posted by DazedScorpPosted by guccigemini55
That she shouldnt be hiding you.. whats wrong with being upfront? why is she hiding you? my take is thats not a good enough reason not to call.. minor ear infection and 3 hours away, is the dad not equipped to cope—
That's what I thought. I just wanted a single mothers perspective, you know? Thank you.
awwwwe 😢 .. i see where your argument is coming from in regards to fairness of making time for the guy 🙂
It's hard for me to get my point across clearly sometimes. Merc in Scorp can be a bit difficult to understand. but thank you for taking the time to understand it, even though our ideas may not always agree. Means alot.click to expand
no youre welcome, i can understand the once bitten twice shy, but youre not saying that you wouldnt anyway.. what my point is, judge the woman by who she is, im talking from a guy douching a woman, her being everything that clicks/fits but taking it no further because she has children, if a guy knows he wont commit because of this then why go there in the first place, just be upfront.. im talking in general btw not to you, but dont allow bad experiences embrace you because of one bad experience with a woman.
Posted by LeoVirgoGirl
@GG ...
I don't know what situation you are in or how you got here so please forgive me for what am i about to say.
We all build everything on first impressions - even on this site.
Three things i have noticed about you ... 1. You are beautiful. 2. You have two kids 3. There is a word gucci in your title ... put yourself in the guys shoes and ask yourself if you know these three things what is the first thing that would come to your mind?
Even the nicest most generous surgeon who donated his free time to save children in 3rd world country would run the other direction ... young or old...
Now, on a good note ... woman i worked with on last job had two kids from previous marriage (she took in two more from her sister who is a drug addict) ... she met a single with no kids guy who is four years younger than her and they clicked... i don't know how it works, all i see is for some unknown reason these two people were joined ...
Maybe a little FAITH?
Luckily Im not really in a situation, i was interesed to know why a guy would disapear on a woman from not hearing from a friend in another thread but it wasnt some massive painful experience, its a conversation which crops up during relationship chats with people I know and was interested in others take on it 🙂..
would you mind elaborating please? my pic i dont look at whether im beautiful or ugly to me im the same as everyone else, beauty comes from within it doesnt matter what you look like, gucci/ that is my favourite perfume, its ??30 lol 2 children both made from love in long term relationships.. i dont mind your response, im open to it 🙂
Posted by PotHeadVirgo22
Whether or not I'm just hitting and running. Now if we come to a mutual agreement, then that's an exception. Otherwise......
Sorry Dxp effin up on me.🙂
absolutely 🙂
Posted by DazedScorpPosted by guccigemini55
Luckily Im not really in a situation, i was interesed to know why a guy would disapear on a woman from not hearing from a friend in another thread but it wasnt some massive painful experience, its a conversation which crops up during relationship chats with people I know and was interested in others take on it 🙂..
Is this on another thread? I don't remember reading that anywhere?click to expand
oh god do i really have to take you there? lol it started about something else.. me being the usual crazy ass loool!!
@ decan..
Nooooo no no.. Im not suggesting you would devalue a woman with kids, apologies for not being clear its the way ive written it, from seeing your posts over time im not thinking you are like that.. but I am curious to know why some guys wont go there..
how I read your response was A) wouldnt make it to be your boyfriend, b)didnt quite get this bit apart from wont be a free meal and day out, 1-5 (what do you mean by 1-5?) c)THE ONE, wont be ever?
Nooooo no no.. Im not suggesting you would devalue a woman with kids, apologies for not being clear its the way ive written it, from seeing your posts over time im not thinking you are like that.. but I am curious to know why some guys wont go there..
how I read your response was A) wouldnt make it to be your boyfriend, b)didnt quite get this bit apart from wont be a free meal and day out, 1-5 (what do you mean by 1-5?) c)THE ONE, wont be ever?
Posted by 25thDecanPosted by guccigemini55Posted by 25thDecan
Everyone any of you women finally decide to have a date with won't be a)your boyfriend b)another free meal and outing beyond the first 1-5 and c)the ONE. Ijs....women...
DECAN!! youre more open minded than this!!.. ok, why do women with kids have less value?
Um...I was pretty straight forward.
Every guy
That
Any woman
May date...finally instead of eliminating potential suitors as USUAL
Is
NOT
The LAST
GUY
She will date....you don't know THAT until looking back to see it. So holding a question session to MEN on relationships that didn't "get off the ground" is a pretty dramatic way to look at rejection. Ijs....not a jab...but seriously...it happens.
Now..where did "under value" or "devalue" women with kids? Wth?click to expand
personally, I dont like the dating game, I dont get with a guy unless i feel he has potential to be a life long partner, old fashioned whatever, its the way I am, I dont want to sleep around with every guy, neither do i want to hurt a guy by trying a few out as part of an elimination process, i like to be friends first and i kinda know from then.
I don't see a problem at all with single moms now if she has 4 kids by 4 different men thats a whole different situation.. In my time I,ve dated more then a few ladies with kids and it never bothered me as long as I,m not introduced on the first date and the kids are told to call me dad lol
but in all seriouseness thats never happened usually smart women will date you for a good bit before you even meet there kids. Just because she has a kid or 2 or is divorced with kids doesn't make some one that I wouldn't have dated. But she has to be a good mom too and that you can pick up on pretty quik.
but in all seriouseness thats never happened usually smart women will date you for a good bit before you even meet there kids. Just because she has a kid or 2 or is divorced with kids doesn't make some one that I wouldn't have dated. But she has to be a good mom too and that you can pick up on pretty quik.
Lol @ women become less attractive after 27 and men more. Explain steven tyler and all the other unattractive men over 27..I mean by now he should be looking like a sex god or mr universe or something yummy at least. That statistic is wack, lol. I think how u keep your looks has nothing to do with gender, its all in the genes and your life style . If u stay up all night every night and participate in bar fights..surely u wont look like cinderella or ken doll bcause of how u carry yourself. It has nothing to do with gender, botox and a few lifts..yeah. Lol, imagine a guy (lets say a teen) born ugly and imagine him saying 'oh, i dont worry about not getting girls now bcause i'll be hotter in a few years and they'll all want me' RIDICULOUS! Haha
I have my own theory why it may appear that men get more attractive with age. Its not the fact that they have improved in the looks department, its bcause the women (some) bcome less shallow with age..its no longer about looks, but more about substance, so they overlook how unattractive he is and rather focus on his character. So..ur still ugly, boo-boo, its just that we noticed how funny and intelligent u r. Dont think u got hotter with age. Lmao...please
I have my own theory why it may appear that men get more attractive with age. Its not the fact that they have improved in the looks department, its bcause the women (some) bcome less shallow with age..its no longer about looks, but more about substance, so they overlook how unattractive he is and rather focus on his character. So..ur still ugly, boo-boo, its just that we noticed how funny and intelligent u r. Dont think u got hotter with age. Lmao...please
PHV, im wondering why u think that, mind telling me why? This is a thread, im giving my input in a way i know how, so how does that equal to thinking im all that? Btw i do think im all that to me, i dont need somebody else telling me that i am or talk just to get that across...no. Im just talking and it has fuck all to do with being 'all that'
Piscesmoon, who is bitter? Bitter about what exactly? 'men find women attractive during their child bearing stage?..what if the woman doesnt care if she is viewed as attractive (at any age)? Personally, i know thats the least of my worries, i have other goals to achieve, so being past my 'sell by' date doesnt bother me nor do i care for that matter. Any guy who would view me based on that is simply not worth my time nor is he somebody that i would to know in the 1st place...so no love lost there, no worries whatsoever. Again thats just me, maybe other women fret about not being found attractive by a certain age, i dont. Just saying
U know there comes a stage in life where u stop caring about what others think of u, how they see u, etc and im in that stage and im thankful for it. I've realised that life is a journey, a personal journey and everybody else that i meet in this journey is just a companion for a few miles until we meet a crossroad and we each go our separate ways without feeling at loss. It took me a lot of heartache, a lot of disappointments until i found that person deep inside me, my true companion..the only one who was meant to keep me company until the end in this journey. Im into spirituality btw and it has been a guide to me. Others who arent into it may not understand where im coming from or my views about life and thats ok. I can honestly say, i dont need people, i want people..if they are unreachable, i will still be fine. Its all about soul searching
I dunno about it all being youth is sexy I find some women in there 40's and even 50,s to be damn hot and sexy its not all about age its about how you present yourself Not only in looks but in your self confidence
PHV- whatever, dude. Are u high again? Umm..sorry i forgot that u stopped, it must be exhaust fumes that i saw u inhaling the other day. Yeah, i saw that! An addict is always an addict *sigh* I like shaniqua btw, it has aqua in it..i'll give u a point for creativity. I guess getting high on exhaust fumes has its advantages, lol *smiles sweetly*
Btw let me just add that i dont blame u for doing unconventional things for your high, addictions are hard to break...i've smoked paper cigarrettes too while i was trying to quit just to curb the craving. But, dude, ur taking it too far when u start poking your head in chimneys just to get smoke. People are starting to talk and kids get all excited thinking its christmas cause 'santa' is on the roof yet again...stop that!
Aww, you speaking zulu...for me, thats cute, honestly. Where did u learn that? Im xhosa btw (like mandela) and its similar to that. U asked my name, well..my name is (what)..my name is (who)..my name is...SLIM SHADY!!! Another stoner right there, lol, just for u, my darling
On 2nd thought, i reread that since my zulu is not good and it actually says "im a recovering sex addict but i stopped having sex with people, i just hump lamp posts instead, do u think im progressing?" lmao..umm..NO! Hahaha. Im just playing with u. My name starts with T, i told u that on our last pm.
Is that a slang for something 'shrimp' or do u mean real shrimps? Im nowhere near the sea but ive seen shrimp sized..u know what, lol. Does that count as a shrimp?
PHV- since we are speaking about sea creatures (octopuses + shrimps) and slangs..im going to sleep now so good night, my 'bearded clam', lol. I bet u know what that slang means. Hahaha. Tood loo!
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