Please rate my pettiness at the moment..:

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When the power goes out in the entire building at work...

Then your child's father comes to your job bringing flowers...

But you don't want him... you're just happy to see him crawling at your feet..

Then angry that he thinks your stupid enough to not think he's full of shit..

So you walk past him like he was a random man on the street...

I hate that I'm this way now. The lawd is still working on me...

Let the roast session begin smh

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When the power goes out in the entire building at work...

Then your child's father comes to your job bringing flowers...

But you don't want him... you're just happy to see him crawling at your feet..

Then angry that he thinks your stupid enough to not think he's full of shit..

So you walk past him like he was a random man on the street...

I hate that I'm this way now. The lawd is still working on me...

Let the roast session begin smh



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I think I have a different understanding of the word petty. Especially considering.

Petty would have been to take the flowers, without saying a word and give them to someone else in front of him then sashay away.
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When the power goes out in the entire building at work...

Then your child's father comes to your job bringing flowers...

But you don't want him... you're just happy to see him crawling at your feet..

Then angry that he thinks your stupid enough to not think he's full of shit..

So you walk past him like he was a random man on the street...

I hate that I'm this way now. The lawd is still working on me...

Let the roast session begin smh



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I think I have a different understanding of the word petty. Especially considering.

Petty would have been to take the flowers, without saying a word and give them to someone else in front of him then sashay away.

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Oh my friends have a different version of petty. Like they don't understand my emotions.

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She was screwing around and when he left, she did the same to him, got hitched.

Aaahhh well. On my way to the money.
he is such a serious idiot that i actually feel bad for him
I dont


i understand lol
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Lol. Not hurting as much but I'm angry still. Like I don't want him to get hit by a bus....
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Unless I am missing something....
Nah you're not. Just comforting to know I wasn't the mean spiteful bitch my friends said I was..

Or could be...

The fact that I feel like laughing in his face and is glad that the same happened to him that happened to me.. they told me I was bitter.

I can wear bitter, I guess. Only if they match my shoes...


wtf is wrong with your friends I actually thing you did the right thing

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I'm not supposed to feel anything...

I didn't speak, I should have spoken to him because we still have a baby, you know, be cordial. The bigger person and shit.

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Unless I am missing something....
Nah you're not. Just comforting to know I wasn't the mean spiteful bitch my friends said I was..

Or could be...

The fact that I feel like laughing in his face and is glad that the same happened to him that happened to me.. they told me I was bitter.

I can wear bitter, I guess. Only if they match my shoes...

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Okay, well

1) Are theses his friends or yours because..."spiteful b*tch"? Eh?

2) The mere fact that you didn't laugh in his face keeps you out of the petty lane.

3) You seem to be talking about two different things. Are they saying you're petty because you want to laugh in his face and just mentioned this to them over conversation or are they saying you're petty because you walked by him ignoring his gesture when he showed up with the flowers?

When did making a decision to ignore someone that hurts you become "petty"?

That's why I stated "unless I am missing something"
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I'm not supposed to feel anything...

I didn't speak, I should have spoken to him because we still have a baby, you know, be cordial. The bigger person and shit.



Naw. Depends on the context.

You see him on the street while you're with your baby or he come over to pick up your son? Yes, to keep harmony.

The man shows up at your place of business to get a emotional reaction out of you because things went sour with the ex? He's lucky security didn't escort him out.
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Unless I am missing something....
Nah you're not. Just comforting to know I wasn't the mean spiteful bitch my friends said I was..

Or could be...

The fact that I feel like laughing in his face and is glad that the same happened to him that happened to me.. they told me I was bitter.

I can wear bitter, I guess. Only if they match my shoes...



Okay, well

1) Are theses his friends or yours because..."spiteful b*tch"? Eh?

2) The mere fact that you didn't laugh in his face keeps you out of the petty lane.

3) You seem to be talking about two different things. Are they saying you're petty because you want to laugh in his face and just mentioned this to them over conversation or are they saying you're petty because you walked by him ignoring his gesture when he showed up with the flowers?

When did making a decision to ignore someone that hurts you become "petty"?

That's why I stated "unless I am missing something"

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1). They're supposed to be MY friends... I get this feeling you don't get my tone

2). That's what I thought.

3). Both...

Because I'm supposed to be over it and friends now. If I'm over it, I wouldn't act this way.

I mean.. see me, do me dirty. Yeah it'll hurt and I'll be angry, I'll get over it. Wish you well in life I just don't fuck with you anymore.

This is bitterness to them. I don't get it. I'll grow up one day then... not tuuhhday
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I'm not supposed to feel anything...

I didn't speak, I should have spoken to him because we still have a baby, you know, be cordial. The bigger person and shit.



Naw. Depends on the context.

You see him on the street while you're with your baby or he come over to pick up your son? Yes, to keep harmony.

The man shows up at your place of business to get a emotional reaction out of you because things went sour with the ex? He's lucky security didn't escort him out.

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Thank you!!!