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Sex-agree wit statement or no?
Disagree.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Disagree.
Care to elaborate? I have formed my own opinion about this statement, but wanted to hear others.
Oh bullshit, take responsibility for yourself!
No one can manipulate you unless you let them, you have the power and freedom to say no.
If someone treats you the way you don't like then you walk away and find people who treat you the way you want, don't stick around with dixkheads that treat you like shit thinking that they're going to change for you because you're playing the victim, quit your whinging and bitching and move on with your life.
Women are just as responsible for the patriarchy, Women raised the children that are responsible for the society we live in today.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by LadyNeptune
Disagree.
Care to elaborate? I have formed my own opinion about this statement, but wanted to hear others.
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You don't restrict and deny someone you care about. So disagree emphatically.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Oh bullshit, take responsibility for yourself!No one can manipulate you unless you let them, you have the power and freedom to say no.
If someone treats you the way you don't like then you walk away and find people who treat you the way you want, don't stick around with dixkheads that treat you like shit thinking that they're going to change for you because you're playing the victim, quit your whinging and bitching and move on with your life.
Women are just as responsible for the patriarchy, Women raised the children that are responsible for the society we live in today.
Your an idiot.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Oh bullshit, take responsibility for yourself!No one can manipulate you unless you let them, you have the power and freedom to say no.
If someone treats you the way you don't like then you walk away and find people who treat you the way you want, don't stick around with dixkheads that treat you like shit thinking that they're going to change for you because you're playing the victim, quit your whinging and bitching and move on with your life.
Women are just as responsible for the patriarchy, Women raised the children that are responsible for the society we live in today.
Your an idiot.
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You're dumbass
So according to dipshit here young child brides should tell their families and culture to fuck off.
No I don't want your arranged marriage.
No I don't want your vaginal mutalation.
I'll just leave. That's a totally plausible course of action for a 13yr old female to survive.
K.
Posted by -elle-
the only thing I got out of that was....."Blame Men!"
*shrugs*
I disagree too.
I agree they are blaming men. Women are just as bad. I think the perspective is different.
Posted by Rozaeon
Wtf did i just read
Lol part of some article I came across.
Posted by LadyNeptune
So according to dipshit here young child brides should tell their families and culture to fuck off.No I don't want your arranged marriage.
No I don't want your vaginal mutalation.
I'll just leave. That's a totally plausible course of action for a 13yr old female to survive.
K.
You are taking this to a different level. I like it. Good points. I was just thinking in a more "free" society.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Ummm no... in the US women are free to be the skankiest lesbian feminists to walk the planet. Women are allowed to murder their husbands and not only get away with it, but keep the kids too.
Not sure where the subservient mumbo jumbo comes from but... you're free to do whatever you want, but you're enslaved to the consequential accountability for whatever you do.
Have a nice day.
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Ummm no... in the US women are free to be the skankiest lesbian feminists to walk the planet. Women are allowed to murder their husbands and not only get away with it, but keep the kids too.
Not sure where the subservient mumbo jumbo comes from but... you're free to do whatever you want, but you're enslaved to the consequential accountability for whatever you do.
Have a nice day.
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Op didn't say US. Op said men and women.
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
I don't believe in your vs you're
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Ummm no... in the US women are free to be the skankiest lesbian feminists to walk the planet. Women are allowed to murder their husbands and not only get away with it, but keep the kids too.
Not sure where the subservient mumbo jumbo comes from but... you're free to do whatever you want, but you're enslaved to the consequential accountability for whatever you do.
Have a nice day.
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I think it's looking at the more traditional view of sex and women and how it is in modern society. I thought the spin of perspective was interesting. You don't typically see it laid out like that. Usually it's alot of man bashing, but this appears to try to justify their opinion by focusing on a more "positive " focus, they care vs they look down on you.
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
Oh keep your sipping tea, I just thought it was ironic the triggered bitch called me an idiot and now she's going on a rant about child brides and vag mutilation, I thought women do that to each other in Africa which has nothing to do with what I said.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Ummm no... in the US women are free to be the skankiest lesbian feminists to walk the planet. Women are allowed to murder their husbands and not only get away with it, but keep the kids too.
Not sure where the subservient mumbo jumbo comes from but... you're free to do whatever you want, but you're enslaved to the consequential accountability for whatever you do.
Have a nice day.
Op didn't say US. Op said men and women.
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Yes, it was just men and women, but I think people will post about their own cultures/ experiences and maybe ones they know (hopefully ) about.
Just because women have more freedoms in the US now then they did in the past, doesn't mean the system is perfect.
In fact if you look at how we punish certain crimes it becomes all too clear. 20+ years for drug use/dealing and yet a rapist will get 4 years and be realeased after a year and 2 months.
Same thing for child rapists, they serve very little time compared to let's say theft crimes. Basically we value property over our children.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
Oh keep your sipping tea, I just thought it was ironic the triggered bitch called me an idiot and now she's going on a rant about child brides and vag mutilation, I thought women do that to each other in Africa which has nothing to do with what I said.
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You thought wrong. Hence the idiot label.
Posted by Neno2
Too lazy to read?But i blame women?they are too sexy
Haha. At least you are honest.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
A woman wrote this, right? lol
It's a woman's mindset to evaluate in terms of emotions. Lmao @ oh noes they are vulnerable and that's why they don't want other guys to smash their chick cuz it would hurt their feelings.
Nothing to do with emotions, all about being territorial and not being made a cuck. That's why you have guys in FWB scenarios with chicks and they are still territorial and the chick's heart goes pitter patter cuz that means he wants more. lol.
Posted by -elle-
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
Oh keep your sipping tea, I just thought it was ironic the triggered bitch called me an idiot and now she's going on a rant about child brides and vag mutilation, I thought women do that to each other in Africa which has nothing to do with what I said.
Just nod and smIle....that's what I do when the topic gets awkward and I realise that what I posted on was not what I thought it was and OP doesn't know either
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Yeah, I might nor have thought deep enough on the topic before I posted part of an article lol.
Posted by Damnata
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
A woman wrote this, right? lol
It's a woman's mindset to evaluate in terms of emotions. Lmao @ oh noes they are vulnerable and that's why they don't want other guys to smash their chick cuz it would hurt their feelings.
Nothing to do with emotions, all about being territorial and not being made a cuck. That's why you have guys in FWB scenarios with chicks and they are still territorial and the chick's heart goes pitter patter cuz that means he wants more. lol.
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I think it was a woman. Must be nice for them to get all the milk without even "owning" the cow.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Ummm no... in the US women are free to be the skankiest lesbian feminists to walk the planet. Women are allowed to murder their husbands and not only get away with it, but keep the kids too.
Not sure where the subservient mumbo jumbo comes from but... you're free to do whatever you want, but you're enslaved to the consequential accountability for whatever you do.
Have a nice day.
Op didn't say US. Op said men and women.
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Just saying how it is in the us.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by Damnata
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
A woman wrote this, right? lol
It's a woman's mindset to evaluate in terms of emotions. Lmao @ oh noes they are vulnerable and that's why they don't want other guys to smash their chick cuz it would hurt their feelings.
Nothing to do with emotions, all about being territorial and not being made a cuck. That's why you have guys in FWB scenarios with chicks and they are still territorial and the chick's heart goes pitter patter cuz that means he wants more. lol.
I think it was a woman. Must be nice for them to get all the milk without even "owning" the cow.
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Who do you think is responsible for that?
Posted by -elle-
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
I don't believe in your vs you're
Grammar Savage!
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lol basically
Posted by -elle-
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
Oh keep your sipping tea, I just thought it was ironic the triggered bitch called me an idiot and now she's going on a rant about child brides and vag mutilation, I thought women do that to each other in Africa which has nothing to do with what I said.
Just nod and smIle....that's what I do when the topic gets awkward and I realise that what I posted on was not what I thought it was and OP doesn't know either
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Lmao I just remembered I couldn't care less about breeder drama and I'm not getting anything out of Lady Nepturd but triggered 3rd wave feminism so I'm outta here
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by -elle-
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
Oh keep your sipping tea, I just thought it was ironic the triggered bitch called me an idiot and now she's going on a rant about child brides and vag mutilation, I thought women do that to each other in Africa which has nothing to do with what I said.
Just nod and smIle....that's what I do when the topic gets awkward and I realise that what I posted on was not what I thought it was and OP doesn't know either
Lmao I just remembered I couldn't care less about breeder drama and I'm not getting anything out of Lady Nepturd but triggered 3rd wave feminism so I'm outta here
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I love how the word 'feminism' is thrown out like an insult.
Yes I'm pro me. Shocking.
Posted by Damnata
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by Damnata
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
A woman wrote this, right? lol
It's a woman's mindset to evaluate in terms of emotions. Lmao @ oh noes they are vulnerable and that's why they don't want other guys to smash their chick cuz it would hurt their feelings.
Nothing to do with emotions, all about being territorial and not being made a cuck. That's why you have guys in FWB scenarios with chicks and they are still territorial and the chick's heart goes pitter patter cuz that means he wants more. lol.
I think it was a woman. Must be nice for them to get all the milk without even "owning" the cow.
Who do you think is responsible for that?
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I think everyone in some degree. I'm not placing it on any certain gender. You have the people that create ideas and expectations, those that enforce, and those that fight. Everyone plays a role.
Women are just as bad as men sometimes. You hear women talking about other women being whores, bitches, etc. I think ideas have been perpetuated and, even when fought against, still exist because people find comfort in what they know and in being accepted by others (conformity). Even though women are "free" in.my country, there is still a stigma placed upon them. Guys are often times glorified.
Media plays a big part in what is culturally accepted too.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Oh bullshit, take responsibility for yourself!No one can manipulate you unless you let them, you have the power and freedom to say no.
If someone treats you the way you don't like then you walk away and find people who treat you the way you want, don't stick around with dixkheads that treat you like shit thinking that they're going to change for you because you're playing the victim, quit your whinging and bitching and move on with your life.
Women are just as responsible for the patriarchy, Women raised the children that are responsible for the society we live in today.
not all women have the freedom you think they do. it is a known fact that women are still sold like slaves in this world. so you might want to rethink that.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
i would say the same goes for women. i had friend, she would beat her boyfriends and what ever she could get away with when it came to controling them.
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by -elle-
Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
Posted by -elle-
neither of your grammar is very good.
Oh keep your sipping tea, I just thought it was ironic the triggered bitch called me an idiot and now she's going on a rant about child brides and vag mutilation, I thought women do that to each other in Africa which has nothing to do with what I said.
Just nod and smIle....that's what I do when the topic gets awkward and I realise that what I posted on was not what I thought it was and OP doesn't know either
Lmao I just remembered I couldn't care less about breeder drama and I'm not getting anything out of Lady Nepturd but triggered 3rd wave feminism so I'm outta here
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you used both the term third wave feminism and trigger wrong.
third wave feminism highlights queer women , women of color and gender roles in general.
are you one of those people that listen to rush limbaugh?
and maybe think it's clever to refer to gloria steiniem as a feminazi?
I really hate to use the term dumb as I think there are different types of intelligence and I don't want to privilege one type of the other BUT in this case, I have to say that the comments made
especially about feminism and triggering are just dumb.
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
i would say the same goes for women. i had friend, she would beat her boyfriends and what ever she could get away with when it came to controling them.
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Lol wtf why did the guys put up with that shit? Why does anyone put up with abusive shit? I can't imagine anything else but financial dependency being the reason?
Posted by SassyKiwi
Posted by WitchmitchAries
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
i would say the same goes for women. i had friend, she would beat her boyfriends and what ever she could get away with when it came to controling them.
Lol wtf why did the guys put up with that shit? Why does anyone put up with abusive shit? I can't imagine anything else but financial dependency being the reason?
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it had nothing to do with money. i think some people have low selfesteem and then get caught up in bad relationships.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Not so much feminine desires as yours. Not all women crave a different dick every other weekend and whatnot, but nice try. Stand up for what you want instead of dragging an entire gender into it.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Not so much feminine desires as yours. Not all women crave a different dick every other weekend and whatnot, but nice try. Stand up for what you want instead of dragging an entire gender into it.
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It's part of an article I came across lol . Plus I don't think it implies a new dick everyday, but maybe sex before marriage, multiple sex partners, sexual interests, etc.
Posted by tiziani
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
7You're talking about capitalism imo.
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Care to expand?
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Most straight men are afraid and threatened by everything, so that's probably true LOL!
Lol. Gay men aren't?
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Not so much feminine desires as yours. Not all women crave a different dick every other weekend and whatnot, but nice try. Stand up for what you want instead of dragging an entire gender into it.
It's part of an article I came across lol . Plus I don't think it implies a new dick everyday, but maybe sex before marriage, multiple sex partners, sexual interests, etc.
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What publication is this article from? Taliban Times
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by Prince_Pisces
Most straight men are afraid and threatened by everything, so that's probably true LOL!
Lol. Gay men aren't?
Why would we be? ❤
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Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
Not so much feminine desires as yours. Not all women crave a different dick every other weekend and whatnot, but nice try. Stand up for what you want instead of dragging an entire gender into it.
It's part of an article I came across lol . Plus I don't think it implies a new dick everyday, but maybe sex before marriage, multiple sex partners, sexual interests, etc.
What publication is this article from? Taliban Times
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Lol. You never know ?. I really don't remember. Pretty sure it was a lady that wrote it. I posted it because normally it's male bashing, but here she tried to take a more sentimental approach lol
Posted by tiziani
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Posted by tiziani
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours
7You're talking about capitalism imo.
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If you look at certain periods of history or whatever few traces of it we have left, before money became a thing, sexuality was not restricted for women. Religion encouraged it. So there's a problem trying to link male weakness/lust for control/lust for power with restricting female sexuality because there's no consistent timeline there. You can read about times where men were in power, in control, at the head of society and saw no interest in restricting female sexuality whatsoever even if they still had the means to do so.
Sex has been restricted in capitalist society that that it can be sold. And not just directly, but obviously a lot of sexual desire fuels the purchases of any number of items we're marketed and sold today. It's not a man vs woman thing, it's the same old people making a buck by re-writing history and playing sides off against one another imo.
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You definitely have a point.
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Men do not restrict our sexuality because they do not value us; they restrict it because of the opposite. Men are quite aware of how much we mean to them and this need for us can easily be misconstrued as being a weakness. So what do men do about their weakness? What do they do about things that they feel are beyond their wilful control? They try to deny their vulnerability while forcing their will. Thus we have many rules, stigmas, religious guidelines and laws to insure that women are kept in a psychological position of subservience. It is no secret that most men do not like to even think of the woman of their affection being with another man. Fear causes men to manipulate women into denying their feminine desires which in turn causes us to feel guilty and sinful for certain behaviours