Secret Admirer— WTF—

Ok so if all of a sudden you get flowers at your home...BEAUTIFUL flowers!!! *did I mention beautiful RED roses?* But it just says SECRET ADMIRER...Would it freak you out too much and throw them out,because you don't know who they are from or would you put them on a Vase in the middle of your living room and show them off?

Oh and next question..Would you tell your SO? NO IT WAS NOT HIM...Im positive!!

It is kind of freaky though, considering I have not been living here that long and not many people know where I live.😢

I would hate to throw them out..They are very pretty....Its just freaky!!

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Posted by TaurusBadGirl
Ok so if all of a sudden you get flowers at your home...BEAUTIFUL flowers!!! *did I mention beautiful RED roses?* But it just says SECRET ADMIRER...Would it freak you out too much and throw them out,because you don't know who they are from or would you put them on a Vase in the middle of your living room and show them off?

Oh and next question..Would you tell your SO? NO IT WAS NOT HIM...Im positive!!

It is kind of freaky though, considering I have not been living here that long and not many people know where I live.😢

I would hate to throw them out..They are very pretty....Its just freaky!!

Idk it might be a stalker....that does sound creepy, nevertheeless, I would keep em, but check for cameras inside

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cameras?? ok now you freaked me out....😢 i see none so far...

Yes PHV i do agree with you there...But damn!! That's crazy..😢

Posted by everevolvingepithet
That's some next level love at those levels.

Im doing some PI snooping and I called the Flower Shop and it seems they were called in...and she said it was a man but she cannot give me his name *at his request* It was paid with a Discover card...but she won't say more...I think he gave her a good tip...even though I don't know how much info they are allowed to give out in these cases.

Posted by seraph
You're creeped out because it's too much, too fast.

A single flower (not a rose) with a little note might not have raised so many alarms.

Seraph good point..But that right there would of been done by a man in love...1 rose is a romantic gesture...someone saying *im sorry * or *im thinking about you* not the case here.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Maybe being the woman in the red dress tickled his pickle ?

😉 funny..

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Posted by seraph
You're creeped out because it's too much, too fast.

A single flower (not a rose) with a little note might not have raised so many alarms.

He should have known that before he sent them, he would have been better off just giving them to her in person......now he is a mysterious creep....smh

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I agree...but then again maybe he knew I would not accept it...

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Posted by seraph
You're creeped out because it's too much, too fast.

A single flower (not a rose) with a little note might not have raised so many alarms.

He should have known that before he sent them, he would have been better off just giving them to her in person......now he is a mysterious creep....smh

There was something like this that happened to someone on the Aries board one time and they as much as said the same, sent to the girl's workplace with no mention or inkling to who the lover boy was.

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To be honest with you I dont see the point of it..Why would you send flowers to someone if you are not going to reveal your identidy? He has to know it would creep me out...

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Posted by seraph
You're creeped out because it's too much, too fast.

A single flower (not a rose) with a little note might not have raised so many alarms.

He should have known that before he sent them, he would have been better off just giving them to her in person......now he is a mysterious creep....smh

I agree...but then again maybe he knew I would not accept it...

So if you saw him now and he claimed the roses....You wouldn't be creeped out—

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The part that creeps me out is not knowing who it's from and that there is a dark/morbid side to this..If he revealed his identity he is hiding nothing...the not knowing does creep me out..yes....I would probably say *no thank you not intrested* I dunno...

Posted by exoskeleton
that's sweet! don't throw them out. flowers are flowers. 🙂

i wonder what he'll send you next? 😈

Not throwing them out..they are very pretty..would post pics but my cam on phone is not letting me send...I hope he doesn't send anything else since im really not intrested..who ever he is.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Leaves it open to debate as to who the admirer may be. Was it a ring of roses or a booquet Taurusbadgirl ?

It was delivered in a big long box, 20 stems of roses and a few stems of baby breaths..the box had a red ribbon....very classy I might add.

Posted by DeadRingerr
I wouldn't throw them away! Must be someone you know..

Yes Im sure I have to know somethng about him since he knows so much about me...

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Posted by TaurusBadGirl

To be honest with you I dont see the point of it..Why would you send flowers to someone if you are not going to reveal your identidy?

Well the mystery and anticipation alone can be pretty exciting and intoxicating.
He may reveal himself, or he might not - Love from afar. Unrequited love. It happens.
But it makes your interest and imagination take flight.

You say you aren't interested, yet look at all of your questions in this thread.
You're practically bursting with curiosity (and that's putting it mildly.) 😉

For now, just enjoy. And feel good about yourself. There are a lot of
women out there who don't get flowers from anyone, and who don't
really have "admirers" or, secret or otherwise.

No reason to really feel creeped out yet.

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hhmmm I like how you put things...now I see why you have some of the women on dxp drooling for you😉 Ok im curious yes..If I said i wasn't I would be lying...am i interested in a romantic way because want to say YES to him? NO...not at all. I feel special yes..I just thought I would comment on it and see if you guys thought it was creepy to want to keep them....i looked up these flowers and they are not cheap at all... $ 100-150 dollars...so yeah it has my curiosity peaking all over😉

Or the Old Folks home and place a red rose in each ladies room, give them a nice thrill and a pretty. 🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithet
If you're a bit creeped by the flowers or keeping them, give them to an elder relative and go 'surprise ! you're awesome !' ?

UPDATE:
So I got a private call on my cell phone like maybe 20 min ago....*did you like the flowers*
Did not recognize the voice at all;(

LOL Like you couldn't gently feel down into the blossoms for that business.

honestly id be scared fuckless if i were you. dude has your number too. . .

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
If you're a bit creeped by the flowers or keeping them, give them to an elder relative and go 'surprise ! you're awesome !' ?

UPDATE:
So I got a private call on my cell phone like maybe 20 min ago....*did you like the flowers*
Did not recognize the voice at all;(

oh shit. i'm sorry, but this made me LOL.

did you just hang up?

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I asked who he was...and then he didn't answer...I got freaked out and hanged up.......I am scared because I have been getting weird phone calls for the last 3 weeks....But I can't say im asscoiating these flowers with those other phone calls..unless something else happends;(

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Posted by TaurusBadGirl

To be honest with you I dont see the point of it..Why would you send flowers to someone if you are not going to reveal your identidy?

Well the mystery and anticipation alone can be pretty exciting and intoxicating.
He may reveal himself, or he might not - Love from afar. Unrequited love. It happens.

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Unrequited love and love from afar also can lead a person to stalk.

3 years stalked so far. It's disgusting.

I'd call the flower place and tell them you don't want any future deliveries from that CC # unless he requests his identity to be revealed. I'd also ask them to contact the CC #'s owner to inform him of such.

Absolutely fine with being paranoid. But seriously, that's just a pussy move on his part. You're not in middle school.

Also, you're allowed to collect information for police with these calls - harrassment. Don't let it go too far without report. I made that mistake and it's just not worth your stress and time.

As in?

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...Duh. That was insinuated in my post. I didn't detail from there because she seems nervous enough already, which you're NOT helping out with by saying stuff like that.

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To be honest with you I dont see the point of it..Why would you send flowers to someone if you are not going to reveal your identidy?

Well the mystery and anticipation alone can be pretty exciting and intoxicating.
He may reveal himself, or he might not - Love from afar. Unrequited love. It happens.

Unrequited love and love from afar also can lead a person to stalk.

3 years stalked so far. It's disgusting.

I'd call the flower place and tell them you don't want any future deliveries from that CC # unless he requests his identity to be revealed. I'd also ask them to contact the CC #'s owner to inform him of such.

Absolutely fine with being paranoid. But seriously, that's just a pussy move on his part. You're not in middle school.

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Did that already...She said unless I had a police report she could not prevent anyone from sendng me flowers..I told her that she should warn her drivers that I would pepper spray them if they came back (i really wouldn't do that) So she said *don't you think if he can't send them throw us he will find another florist who will?* I agreed..I just told her thank you and hanged up.

Posted by sheathedclaws
...Duh. That was insinuated in my post. I didn't detail from there because she seems nervous enough already, which you're NOT helping out with by saying stuff like that.

Thank you...believe me I know...There are some crazy people out there..it's just crazy;(

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To be honest with you I dont see the point of it..Why would you send flowers to someone if you are not going to reveal your identidy?

Well the mystery and anticipation alone can be pretty exciting and intoxicating.
He may reveal himself, or he might not - Love from afar. Unrequited love. It happens.

Unrequited love and love from afar also can lead a person to stalk.

3 years stalked so far. It's disgusting.

I'd call the flower place and tell them you don't want any future deliveries from that CC # unless he requests his identity to be revealed. I'd also ask them to contact the CC #'s owner to inform him of such.

Absolutely fine with being paranoid. But seriously, that's just a pussy move on his part. You're not in middle school.

Did that already...She said unless I had a police report she could not prevent anyone from sendng me flowers..I told her that she should warn her drivers that I would pepper spray them if they came back (i really wouldn't do that) So she said *don't you think if he can't send them throw us he will find another florist who will?* I agreed..I just told her thank you and hanged up.

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*Through sorry for the typos....

Don't be sorry 🙂

but she cannot have them sent to you if you tell her NOT to. Get a police report for the calls and for the shop. It's your safety and nobody should take that lightly on your behalf.

HEH. had to show my screen...

Posted by sheathedclaws
Don't be sorry 🙂

but she cannot have them sent to you if you tell her NOT to. Get a police report for the calls and for the shop. It's your safety and nobody should take that lightly on your behalf.

*looking out the window, making sure doors are locked*

To be honest with you Im not one to get scared easily..You never think any of the things you see on TV would ever happen to you...in reality it can..i have seen it too many times.
My nephew works for the Medical Examiner's Office and he just picked up a body of a lady in her mid 40's, very pretty woman...she was killed in her apartment...The guy raped her in all the ways that you can imagine possible..he had her tide to her bed posts and then there were rose buds all over the bed....he strangled her to death...She was married but her husband was out on a business trip. They also found a rosary hanging on her neck...Husband said he knew nothng of such rosary..was not hers......Im not supposed to talk about this since its an uresolved case but hey you guys don't know me so..I guess I can.

omg that is too funny!!!🙂 I think I dont want to see flowers for a while after this....

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
omg that is too funny!!!🙂 I think I dont want to see flowers for a while after this....

When I said it was too funny I didn't mean about the lady getting killed..i was reffering to the comment above that one.

Oh my, I'm going to think and pray that the woman is at peace now... you know? Your nephew must have a strong gut.

My stepmother was abused by a man who killed a woman. she was pregnant with his child at the time. He murdered the woman when my stepmother was still with him. He's i max w/o parole for life, thank gosh. I won't involve details because I hate thinking about what they went through.

For years we told my step brother that his real father was in jail for stealing groceries. The day he found out, I was with him and it was horrendous to see his pain and self disgust.

If there is anything I can do, let me know. Even if I have to dropkick a motherfucker. 🙂

Posted by ellessque
unwanted gifts are one thing. from someone you specifically didn't show an interest in nor did you want any attention from them. proper measures should be taken to prevent that from escalating beyond that.

you aren't "there" yet.

you received flowers. that is innocent enough. enjoy them and go about your day.

at some point, this person will reveal themselves.

at that point, you can choose whether you want the attention or not and proceed accordingly.

stop turning this into a potential Lifetime movie....LOL

That's understandable, but with having weird phone calls for a few weeks now, it's a little bit more than flowers. It may sound dramatic, but, hell - I'm fine with forwarding any flowers to you Elle to enjoy! Win/win situation 😉

Posted by ellessque
unwanted gifts are one thing. from someone you specifically didn't show an interest in nor did you want any attention from them. proper measures should be taken to prevent that from escalating beyond that.

you aren't "there" yet.

you received flowers. that is innocent enough. enjoy them and go about your day.

at some point, this person will reveal themselves.

at that point, you can choose whether you want the attention or not and proceed accordingly.

stop turning this into a potential Lifetime movie....LOL

yes it does sound like the begining of a Lifetme movie doesn't it...LOL...Im not fretting it...nothing has happened and hopefully nothng will....🙂

Posted by sheathedclaws
Oh my, I'm going to think and pray that the woman is at peace now... you know? Your nephew must have a strong gut.

My stepmother was abused by a man who killed a woman. she was pregnant with his child at the time. He murdered the woman when my stepmother was still with him. He's i max w/o parole for life, thank gosh. I won't involve details because I hate thinking about what they went through.

For years we told my step brother that his real father was in jail for stealing groceries. The day he found out, I was with him and it was horrendous to see his pain and self disgust.

If there is anything I can do, let me know. Even if I have to dropkick a motherfucker. 🙂

Oh wow that is crazy..poor kid...and Im sure it was hard on your stepmom also....Sometimes you think you know people..in reality you don't. awww you are sweet sheathedclaws...I appreciate your kind words..But believe me I doubt this will go any further than just the flowers and the phone call.But thank you again to all of you for commenting and the kind words....😉

🙂 glad you're calm and level.

I would keep them. Why not? Just some dead flowers. I would tell my bf. Why not? He's just gonna see the bouquet anyway. I would want him to tell me if it were him that had an admirer. He'd think I was hiding something.

And, despite your belief that it wasn't you're SO... just maybe it was and he had someone else call to ask if you like them to keep the game going. Unless you have so little faith in his love for you...

Posted by lildol
And, despite your belief that it wasn't you're SO... just maybe it was and he had someone else call to ask if you like them to keep the game going. Unless you have so little faith in his love for you...

I know for a fact that it was not my Virgo...he doesn't play those games...I have very much faith in his love..he is the love of my life😉

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Posted by DeadRingerr
I wouldn't throw them away! Must be someone you know..

If she knew who it was it wouldn't be a secret.....

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She can still know the person, but not know they have a romantic interest in her; hence: secret admirer.

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Posted by everevolvingepithet
If you're a bit creeped by the flowers or keeping them, give them to an elder relative and go 'surprise ! you're awesome !' ?

UPDATE:
So I got a private call on my cell phone like maybe 20 min ago....*did you like the flowers*
Did not recognize the voice at all;(

"Nah red roses is just not my thing ya know ?! should have gone for the tulips"... haha

I personally would not keep the flowers from some creepy anonymous caller...he now probably thinks you like him for keeping them...when I was a teenager I had an anonymous caller that rang my phone and talked explicit to me...it happened a few times quite scary...until I got my brother to answer ...stopped after that...have been followed in vans etc in my lifetime as a kid and as an adult...as a teenager riding my bike to the library near some enclosed gate like a storeroom but you could see through it... had a guy whistle to get my attention and then he proceeded to wank...not to mention came into the library hanging around watching me...also on buses...in playground...near shops...perverts everywhere...I've witnessed as a child and young adult... better to be careful and watchful then brush it off as oh just flowers...

nothing should be taken lightly...the guy knows your address and your phone number...so he must know you have a guy...probably stalking with binoculars...

and all those people saying there just flowers...yeh well tell that to women who have started out as receiving just flowers ...then called then stalked then abused/killed ...yep just flowers...

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Yeah its the not knowing and getting the calls that worries me...some weird stuff has been happening but Im not sure I can associate it with the flowers like I said before...the bad thing is that my Virgo does not live here..Im always alone with my twins...so maybe that's all he has seen..but if he knows me he knows I have a bf because I don't hide it...if a guy talks to me about going out I say Nope, Im taken so I never give out the wrong message.I let men know that Im not avail.
But thank you for the advice😉

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Posted by DeadRingerr
I wouldn't throw them away! Must be someone you know..

If she knew who it was it wouldn't be a secret.....

She can still know the person, but not know they have a romantic interest in her; hence: secret admirer.

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Oh yeah I know he knows me because how else would he know my number or my address? I know these days you can get anything off the internet but he has to know me..Im sure. Maybe from FB..who the hell knows....😉

Awwwwww!!! Keep the flowers man! That was nice. Maybe they're from your man. Maybe he's playing a little game of incognito...😉

Posted by RealTalk
Awwwwww!!! Keep the flowers man! That was nice. Maybe they're from your man. Maybe he's playing a little game of incognito...😉

Awwww I knew my girl would show up and comment 😉 Naw Real I know it was not him..believe me I know him...he is very protective of me..The man doesn't even want me walking alone at night and if it would of been him he would of told me by know because he would not want to freak me out that way...he freaks out more than I do..lol Believe me...😉

Lol. Ooooooooh!!! I think I may have an idea of who it is...

Posted by Rockthenerds
Well, I guess the thread couldnt have come at a better time. Fwiw I've always had a crush on you ever since you shared with us that story of your possesed ex..mmmm AND the pics on your page suggest you're into the blehks which is kinda hot....sssooo yea... Hello!

yes that's why you hav ebeen calling me a bitch all day....don't you get tired of carrying that thing? It looks heavy....LMAO...Oh and yes I do..very much....im glad you liked the pics!

TaurusbadGirl.. use "Trapcall.com" to unblock the blocked numbers that call your phone. You would just sign up for the basic plan (4.95 a month) that recieves the "blocked number" then up pops the real number on your cellphone screen. Trust me I've been stalked before too, it works wonders.

Posted by TAURUSbelle
TaurusbadGirl.. use "Trapcall.com" to unblock the blocked numbers that call your phone. You would just sign up for the basic plan (4.95 a month) that recieves the "blocked number" then up pops the real number on your cellphone screen. Trust me I've been stalked before too, it works wonders.

I had heard of something like that but I wasn't sure they had that svc available..Thank you Taurusbelle I will surely look into that for sure....Yeah Its a pain when you can't see who is calling...It's going to be nice calling them back after I find out who it is...lol...Thank you

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
...It's going to be nice calling them back after I find out who it is...lol...Thank you

Yup! that's the most fun when you call THEM back. OR when you call and hear a lovely voicemail greeting with a NAME! The best part is you can cancel the unblocking service at anytime.

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...It's going to be nice calling them back after I find out who it is...lol...Thank you

Yup! that's the most fun when you call THEM back. OR when you call and hear a lovely voicemail greeting with a NAME! The best part is you can cancel the unblocking service at anytime.

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Sounds like im going to have fun doing this..lol Now I can't wait till they call back...A nae would be awesome!!!