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thoughts?
Should you be allowed to date if you dont have a job?
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thoughts?
Yes?
Idk. I kind of get what your saying, but in a sense forcing sexual tension upon people could backfire if applied to quickly.
Idk. I kind of get what your saying, but in a sense forcing sexual tension upon people could backfire if applied to quickly.
Lol yes you should. Besides, if you make it a law, it will only become more attractive to do so lol.
I also feel that the color of your skin matters too. White unemployed people.. should be on a per individual basis. Everyone else should be denied to be on the market.
*make a law forbidding dating without a job*
Just any job? I can think of some interesting ones.
Posted by elllesquefull-time jobless billionare?
"allowed to date" is a pretty strong statement.
In my personal experience, I have had less of a problem with this than the person who was unemployed. In the future, that would be the *only* reason I wouldn't pursue. Not due to financial stability.....but the emotional instability that comes with it (insecurites, etc.)
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
If we're talking always jobless, yeah I don't think that's going to last long but hey when there's a taker, there's always a giver.
If you're going dutch you're outta luck.
If you're going dutch you're outta luck.
Posted by tizianinotwithstanding trust funds, 401Ks, or CDs...Posted by DMVyou're running with the idea that don't have a job = don't have money
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.click to expand
one cannot have money without a job
Posted by tizianiHow about those who always work 24/7 should not be allowed to date.
lmao
for what it's worth, I don't think it's sensible to date when unemployed. But going as far as "allowed" or "not allowed" is pushing it.
Posted by aquasnozwhen there is a giver, theres always a taker.
If we're talking always jobless, yeah I don't think that's going to last long but hey when there's a taker, there's always a giver.
If you're going dutch you're outta luck.
absolutely right
Posted by elllesqueis true tho
#capricorninvenusproblems 😛
Posted by tizianiJust a lot of anger and broken hearts!Posted by aquasnozI think that law naturally takes care of itself don't you 😛Posted by tizianiHow about those who always work 24/7 should not be allowed to date.
lmao
for what it's worth, I don't think it's sensible to date when unemployed. But going as far as "allowed" or "not allowed" is pushing it.click to expand
Posted by DMVWhat about playing poker in your spare time?Posted by tizianinotwithstanding trust funds, 401Ks, or CDs...Posted by DMVyou're running with the idea that don't have a job = don't have money
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
one cannot have money without a jobclick to expand
Posted by Palerioyou can sell drugs for all i care. just as long as you carry your own weight and aint trying to live off of mePosted by DMVWhat about playing poker in your spare time?Posted by tizianinotwithstanding trust funds, 401Ks, or CDs...Posted by DMVyou're running with the idea that don't have a job = don't have money
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
one cannot have money without a jobclick to expand
Posted by DMVHave you been bitten by a tarantula?Posted by Palerioyou can sell drugs for all i care. just as long as you carry your own weight and aint trying to live off of mePosted by DMVWhat about playing poker in your spare time?Posted by tizianinotwithstanding trust funds, 401Ks, or CDs...Posted by DMVyou're running with the idea that don't have a job = don't have money
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
one cannot have money without a jobclick to expand
Posted by elllesqueGetcha a Venus in Sag guy 😛
I've also concluded that it's tough out here for a career driven woman...
Men in my world (the 9-5 world) will try to compete with me salary wise and the single men I encounter in my age range can't....which leaves me pissy when they make it an issue.
Those that do things their own way......seem to have no desire to compete with me. I like it that way and am attracted to that.
I would like salary to be a nonissue in my relationships.
I much prefer to be a muse over an adversary 🙂
Posted by DMVI'm okay with you working so I don't have to.
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
unless you look at someone and think to yourself "they have a job and will support me while I remain jobless. im not gonna even look for a job" I don't think it should matter, because someone can still be jobless but trying to get a new job.
unless it's mutual agreement, I don't think people should be leeches and live off of someone else or rely on someone else. but it depends on every circumstance I guess. every situation and every person has different reasonings behind their decisions, and let's face it there will always be the one who reasons that they should find someone to live off of. that's just a fact.
unless it's mutual agreement, I don't think people should be leeches and live off of someone else or rely on someone else. but it depends on every circumstance I guess. every situation and every person has different reasonings behind their decisions, and let's face it there will always be the one who reasons that they should find someone to live off of. that's just a fact.
Posted by elllesqueit is tough out there. but there are some jewels.
I've also concluded that it's tough out here for a career driven woman...
Men in my world (the 9-5 world) will try to compete with me salary wise and the single men I encounter in my age range can't....which leaves me pissy when they make it an issue.
Those that do things their own way......seem to have no desire to compete with me. I like it that way and am attracted to that.
I would like salary to be a nonissue in my relationships.
I much prefer to be a muse over an adversary 🙂
i mean how many of you DXP's are broke and dating.
Posted by elllesquetotally agree. Olive Garden is $ 6.95 for all u can eat soup salad, breadsticks.
I do think your opinion is painted by your venus, dmv. you can equate love to the quantity and quality of material things.
there is nothing wrong with that.
I would not feel comfortable paying all the bills if I lived with someone (unless it was temporary and the time frame agreed upon) nor would I like footing the bill every time we went out.....at some point....if someone wasn't even trying.....I would grow resentful.
I do think that someone who may not have a lot disposable income could still find ways to show love and affection. Evenings in. Walks in the park. Spending quality time. I value those things a little more than *things*.
I can't deal with a man without passion though. There are men out there that do want women to take care of them.....I am not speaking about those men. I would prefer to not cross paths with that scenario.
i just dont understand why women date bums and then complain that theyre dating bums.
Some men are still bums because us women are NOT putting our foot down and demanding more of them. we're allowing them to not see their true potential.
Posted by elllesqueThe dollar menu is cheaperPosted by DMVI can most certainly agree with this.Posted by elllesquetotally agree. Olive Garden is $ 6.95 for all u can eat soup salad, breadsticks.
I do think your opinion is painted by your venus, dmv. you can equate love to the quantity and quality of material things.
there is nothing wrong with that.
I would not feel comfortable paying all the bills if I lived with someone (unless it was temporary and the time frame agreed upon) nor would I like footing the bill every time we went out.....at some point....if someone wasn't even trying.....I would grow resentful.
I do think that someone who may not have a lot disposable income could still find ways to show love and affection. Evenings in. Walks in the park. Spending quality time. I value those things a little more than *things*.
I can't deal with a man without passion though. There are men out there that do want women to take care of them.....I am not speaking about those men. I would prefer to not cross paths with that scenario.
i just dont understand why women date bums and then complain that theyre dating bums.
Some men are still bums because us women are NOT putting our foot down and demanding more of them. we're allowing them to not see their true potential.click to expand
No
I only care about implementing a law to forbid fixed signs to date other modality.
They should only date fixed. It's as the good lord jesus intended.
They should only date fixed. It's as the good lord jesus intended.
Posted by elllesquepimpin ain't easy
There are men out there that do want women to take care of them.....I am not speaking about those men. I would prefer to not cross paths with that scenario.
Posted by DMVSo you mean someone unwilling to GET a job, then...
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
Right?
Posted by Ands2016Lmao
no money to buy lube but DJ says no need for lube... if you take your time
I have...... but I also had 7k nest egg to pool from... but yeah I guess it is if you can pull at least 40% of the weight in the relationship... sure why not..
Posted by elllesque
...and the trash...I refuse to take out the trash if I am in a relationship.
—?? ummm okay.....
I'd never let you lift a finger Ellle 😉
Posted by Prince_PiscesPosted by elllesqueI've had to do that. It's horriblePosted by LoboI was being silly (but I really hate the chore of taking out the trash)Posted by elllesque
...and the trash...I refuse to take out the trash if I am in a relationship.
—?? ummm okay.....click to expand
only you PP hahahahahahaha ....... thank GOD you made it through....
Posted by elllesqueAre you at least a great cook?
...and the trash...I refuse to take out the trash if I am in a relationship.
$ menu...........
Posted by elllesquewidth="640" height="360" src="http://url.dxpnet.com?f=https% 3A www% 2Eyoutube% 2Ecom embed ZyhrYis509A" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen>Posted by PalerioI can be whatever you want me to be *libra venus with neptune in the 1st* 😛Posted by elllesqueAre you at least a great cook?
...and the trash...I refuse to take out the trash if I am in a relationship.click to expand
Posted by elllesqueI need you to take out the trash, I'm excellent cook 😛Posted by PalerioI can be whatever you want me to be *libra venus with neptune in the 1st* 😛Posted by elllesqueAre you at least a great cook?
...and the trash...I refuse to take out the trash if I am in a relationship.click to expand
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Dazed should sing this to you Ellle lol.....
Dazed should sing this to you Ellle lol.....
it's not polite to spit........(sigh).....
Jesus. Let's try again...
I find this interested, because once you throw gender into the mix and we're having s different conversation.
Posted by DMVI'm not seeing the dilemma. The other person can decide to stay home and not date said jobless person. No one is forced to go out and pay for a date.
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
I find this interested, because once you throw gender into the mix and we're having s different conversation.
Posted by DMV😆! You should have started the thread with this.
i mean how many of you DXP's are broke and dating.
Posted by Damnatathis I can get behind
I only care about implementing a law to forbid fixed signs to date other modality.
They should only date fixed. It's as the good lord jesus intended.
Posted by Ands2016I mistakenly left my paycheck stub on my dining room table. This taurus I was dating saw it and I cant get rid of his ass.
the taurus rule is if you 6x your first paycheck you can date.
he only wants me for my abiliy to make money and make him cum.
Posted by Ands2016I like different lubes. Fire and Ice, all that tingle shit is good.
no money to buy lube but DJ says no need for lube... if you take your time
Posted by elllesqueid like to add to this, a good work ethic
I am an idependent career woman and I do not demand or expect my partner to equal or exceed me in the financial arena.
I do, however, expect him to meet or exceed my passion though.
Which means he has to have that zest for life, his own independence and not be codependent on me or anyone else.
Posted by AriesLady8exactly. How could anyone date a bum? Male or female.
This topic is hilarious. I wouldn't recommend it. You're focus should be on getting yourself together. Plus it will eventually create problems if you're male or female. No one wants a man who can't provide and no ones wants a lazy hoe with no ambition.
Posted by BlackNovawait, your a dude?
Dear thread,
The comments posted by Ellesque following my hidden post, which related to modern career women, now have no context.
Please ignore her subsequent posts. She is not crazy woo woo .....
I just...changed my mind about entering this discussion.
Now you know how we men feel !
Thanks.
Posted by Ands2016HmmmmmmPosted by DMVborrow money from him 😛Posted by Ands2016I mistakenly left my paycheck stub on my dining room table. This taurus I was dating saw it and I cant get rid of his ass.
the taurus rule is if you 6x your first paycheck you can date.
he only wants me for my abiliy to make money and make him cum.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisinglol at the first part.
Jesus. Let's try again...
Posted by DMVI'm not seeing the dilemma. The other person can decide to stay home and not date said jobless person. No one is forced to go out and pay for a date.
isnt that taking advantage of the other person. I mean theyre going to look past all that in the beginning but after a while, they will grow to resent your inability to pay for dates.
I find this interested, because once you throw gender into the mix and we're having s different conversation.click to expand
Im mainly referring to men since society seems to accept that a woman stays home barefoot and pregnant.
Posted by MagicMonaAnd what electric company accepts magic beans?
i think people should be focused on getting a job instead of trying to date. people want to go out, do things, etc. that costs money. unless both parties are fine sitting in the house doing nothing but netflix and chill. last time i checked, netflix costs money too. so does the condoms to 'chill'. being a broke ass and dating does not mix.
I totally agree with everything you said.
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