He still isn't smiling

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by Stihl46 on Wednesday, November 18, 2015 and has 16 replies.

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@Stihl46
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I'm talking about the guy seeing the girl I worked with her name popped up in the people I may know on FB no I'm not creeping her page. Her profile pics of her and him he's not smiling I click her page all the current pics on her wall he's not really smiling or doesn't look overly happy. I know I've asked this before why wouldn't a guy smile if he's happy in a relationship?

He is a Gemini guy my other Gem friends are always smiling, he used to smile but since he's been with her he's stopped smiling completely. I'm just curious why I don't travel to the area where he works so I haven't seen him in 8 months we are in two different industries now as well.

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Posted by Stihl46
I'm talking about the guy seeing the girl I worked with her name popped up in the people I may know on FB no I'm not creeping her page. Her profile pics of her and him he's not smiling I click her page all the current pics on her wall he's not really smiling or doesn't look overly happy. I know I've asked this before why wouldn't a guy smile if he's happy in a relationship?

He is a Gemini guy my other Gem friends are always smiling, he used to smile but since he's been with her he's stopped smiling completely. I'm just curious why I don't travel to the area where he works so I haven't seen him in 8 months we are in two different industries now as well.

My ex-husband is a gem and he was always smiling - except in pictures. He never smiled in pictures, just this straight, hard look on his face. And if I tried to get him to smile, it would be a smart ass looking smirk. So, I don't think pictures are any indication whether he is happy or not.

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What I'm saying he's changed because of her he used to be a sharp dressed man now he's let himself go he's put on quite a bit of weight from the recent picture its got to be 20 plus pounds the last time I seen him he looked miserable.

It makes me think is she that toxic her last BF looks like a wreck after being with her for 3 years.

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Posted by Stihl46
What I'm saying he's changed because of her he used to be a sharp dressed man now he's let himself go he's put on quite a bit of weight from the recent picture its got to be 20 plus pounds the last time I seen him he looked miserable.

It makes me think is she that toxic her last BF looks like a wreck after being with her for 3 years.

People let themselves go when they're in a happy relationship. They stop trying to hard because their lover accepts them for who they are. We call it happy pounds. 🙂

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I guess I didn't pay close enough attention to you to get what everyone is saying.

Am I to conclude that since they say you are obsessing about a Scorp girl, that it means that this guy friend you have that you are obviously so in love with that you're jealous of his woman, that she is the one of your obsession ... because you cannot get over that he chose a girl, over you.

Or is the chic your obsessing over another chic ... in which case I would ask: does she realize you're jealous over this dude because he isn't loving on you, like you wish

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oh, I see ... thanks for clearing that up for me.

So, what's the history on his love for the man? Were they a couple and now the man chose a woman over him and that's why he's upset?

I don't get it. maybe i'd have to read his posts to get why the fuss over the dude.

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Posted by Stihl46
What I'm saying he's changed because of her he used to be a sharp dressed man now he's let himself go he's put on quite a bit of weight from the recent picture its got to be 20 plus pounds the last time I seen him he looked miserable.

It makes me think is she that toxic her last BF looks like a wreck after being with her for 3 years.

Being in love makes you fat apparently