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Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.click to expand
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
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Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI can say that to leave place where you not abused or hurt is hard. Money doesn't talk here. It's simply decades of what you used to vs unknown.Posted by GemitatiI read that people don't get divorced for infidelity. #1 reason is finances.Posted by nikkistarI know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.Posted by GemitatiWho said anything about being perfect? Perfection doesn't exist. Humans are fallible. Deflecting and trying to state that I stated I was perfect is just a means for you to try and condone what you are actively doing. What I stated was actual verbiage my ex-husband used directly to me, when we spoke during our AMICABLE divorce. Cause you know, people can have amicable divorces without attorneys.Posted by nikkistarYOU agreed to marry him!Posted by GemitatiYou are biased because of your current situation. You are actively in an adulterous relationship, which completely jades your perception on this particular subject. You would rather blame the women for not being good enough, then to actually look at it in a neutral way, and instead want to blame me, the wife, as lacking something. It had nothing to do with me, and everything to do with his perception of himself.Posted by nikkistarWhat have you lacked that he was looking for in other woman?Posted by LadyNeptuneIt was the start of it. The months leading up to me finding out, he was doing weird stuff with his cellphone. Changing his PW, angling the phone away from me, that kind of stuff. After a few months of this behavior, on Christmas Eve, I checked our cell phone records and saw the same number pop up over and over, and the nights he was "working late" he was on the phone with her for hours. Only time the calls/texts stopped was when he was out of town for work, and they were actually physically together since they worked on the same project. I confronted him on Christmas Eve, and he let it all out. I made him call her in front of me and tell her it was over, then I found her husband on facebook and let him know. After about a year of trying to make it work, and heavy fighting, we decided to part ways.Posted by nikkistarWow so gross. Is that why he's now an ex? Or was it just the straw that broke the camels back...
Happens all the time.
My ex-husband had an affair with a co-worker that was also married with children.
Edit: He is a Corporate Executive. So I would say that environment seems conducive to illicit affairs amongst co-workers.
Hours in the phone doesn't happen in happy marriages.
He was the one that felt like he was too good for me, because he was the one that thought he contributed more to our family. He was the one that became annoyed, that "his money" was being spent "unwisely", and that he was not able to "spend it the way he wanted" on superficial things. Because he delegated all of our household responsibilities solely to me, since he was out of town 2 weeks out of every month. I was the one left unable to work a full time position in order to take care of our toddler son, pay the bills, clean the home. I was forced to be a stay-at-home mom for years, eventhough my own aspirations were the same as his. We had long agreed not to have our son grow up like we did, shuffled from daycare to daycare, essentially raising ourselves. When he reached his pinnacle, it would then be my turn to reach for my dreams. He was the one that turned that agreement against me, and thought he was "too good" for me. He called me stupid a number of times in front of our son, because HE thought he was better. It had NOTHING to do with me lacking anything.
I reached those goals without him, after our divorce. And he now sees me as the women he fell in love with in the first place. The career minded woman, that is intelligent. He himself, lost sight of me. He himself realized that "his money" was budgeted well, and the bills that it took to maintain everything.
He was the one with the warped sense of worth, not me.
I am sure no one is that perfect as you just described yourself. You seem have that attitude 'know it all thus holier than others'.
From thread to thread you are perfect!
Not buying it.
However, I am black and white when it comes to what I perceive as right and wrong. Sleeping with a married individual is one of those things I find wrong. Period, point blank to me.
If an individual is unhappy in a relationship for their own reasons, then that person has the responsibility to verbalize that to their partner. Or to leave if the relationship is not living up to what they want. You aren't being forced to stay in a marriage. And guess what? He agreed to marry me too. It was a decision BOTH of us agreed to. Not just I.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
Money talks loudest I guess.click to expand
Plus relatives and friends and co-workers and neighbors are talking and having parties to discuss what he/she had done without knowing shit!
Because when you 2 come to parties with your spouse you had lost contact with - you hide it. You call each other 'honey' or something and if you are smart enough you don't drink and hit each other in the face while people are there.
So...you are throwing the show and show goes on!
You try to stay away from each other at home specially if you have several homes.
But that's how it's been...
And getting into another relashionship makes you wonder what if it's going to be the same?
At least here I am walking my daughter down the isle without people gossiping around me!
Posted by DonJohnValid! I had been encorporated for a long time. But I had never used my work email for anything BUT work!Posted by GemitatiPosted by DonJohnWhy did you give her your email?
just LMAO @ corporate women.
srs
Just few months ago, I was in vegas working with some people... oh my God the married women are so out in the open. winking at me and chit. The one that really went over the top was this 50 something married woman... Kissed my face on the side... ok maybe it was cus i'm cute and i remind her of her son. but wait, i'm a chinaman just LOL
Then I get an e-mail from her the night I return at around midnight. My girl was like Who msged you at this hour? I be like it's a co-worker from Nevada. She grabs my phone and reads the e-mail...... it read
"blah blah.... email ends with I miss you already."
My girl was losing her mind thinking I had an affair. I didn't doe. but fuark i could've smashed that old rickety criticity bish if i wanted. 100%
Stupid question.
Duh i was working with her. That means we have contacts. Send info docs etc
U ever work?click to expand
Strangely enough I would never send anything by email to co-worker because you know there is department that watching you?
Have YOU ever worked?
Yea I am used to be IT Engineer and that's how it works. People get fired for emails of this sort without even realizing WHY!
Posted by nikkistarThat's your reaction on my opinion that it takes 2 to married and divorce!Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.click to expand
You painted him as a dick and you painted you as a Cinderella! Beauty and the Beast!
I am sure you could dig some dirt on yourself but...
Posted by GemitatiWoman, you are delusional at best and you lack any reading comprehension. No wonder you have spent the last decade being the ultimate side chick.Posted by nikkistarThat's your reaction on my opinion that it takes 2 to married and divorce!Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.
You painted him as a dick and you painted you as a Cinderella! Beauty and the Beast!
I am sure you could dig some dirt on yourself but...click to expand
Posted by nikkistarit is true that one would get more opportunities to step out when business trips are involved. not a good combo when mixing with a growing egoPosted by MyStarsShineYup.Posted by nikkistarThey have more opportunity .... ' sorry darling, I have to stay late at the office to shuffle some more papers'Posted by LadyNeptuneI think white collar men cheat more. I think of it this way, you have men that are typically in the higher tiers in management. Usually executives, in a place of power. More often than not, they get smoke blown up their ass by all the people under them. They become overly egotistical, Most of these men start from no where, and they married their wives long before they held a power position. However, after they become more ego ridden and successful, they begin to think of themselves are "better" than their wives. Most of the spouses don't hold jobs nearly on the same level, for the sheer fact that most of them end up sacrificing parts of their dreams in order to allow the working hours the men need to reach those pinnacles in their career. It's the same for the women executives as well.Posted by MyStarsShineYour really think white collar males cheat more then blue collar? Interesting.
Men aren't doing masculine jobs so much as they would years ago so they have more energy and opportunity to meet women
If they were doing manly physical work, this wouldn't happen so much
Pen pushing has been the demise of some men.....they are doing women's work and not channeling their energy as they should
Shiny shoes and moisturiser have replaced hard work and getting hands dirty
Sad
My farther was a manual worker....he was home at the same time every day to be with his family.
For further reference, my ex was a "blue collar" when we first met. Played softball, drank beer, buzzed his hair off with clippers at home, surrounded by his family, and completely down to Earth He hated cheaters the entire time he was what I see as "normal" 6 years into our marriage, he took a promotion that had us move, and he began his rise up the corporate ladder. He now goes to my hair salon twice a month to get his hair style d, uses flat irons and blow dryers on his hair, has more high end hair and beard products than I do (he uses bumble and bumble), and currently uses a monthly clothing subscription service. I often hear him talk about how much better he thinks of himself over his family now.
The straw that broke the camel's back, so to speak, was the Marketing Executive he met on a flight on the way home from a business trip that I found out about. Girl #2
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Posted by nikkistarThat because you think you are perfect still and he is the only one guilty?Posted by GemitatiWoman, you are delusional at best and you lack any reading comprehension. No wonder you have spent the last decade being the ultimate side chick.Posted by nikkistarThat's your reaction on my opinion that it takes 2 to married and divorce!Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.
You painted him as a dick and you painted you as a Cinderella! Beauty and the Beast!
I am sure you could dig some dirt on yourself but...click to expand
And btw you were just told you are overly judgmental and I am suspecting you've got huge divorce settlement so you can live online!
And trust me I will spend another decade being whatever he wants me to be!
With pleasure! Cumming every day just hearing his voice...
Posted by GemitatiLearning how to change the time on VCRs, doesn't make you an IT Engineer. There is no way you were ever an IT Engineer. You lack the intelligence to form a coherent sentence, that and, you have a remedial vernacular at best.Posted by DonJohnValid! I had been encorporated for a long time. But I had never used my work email for anything BUT work!Posted by GemitatiPosted by DonJohnWhy did you give her your email?
just LMAO @ corporate women.
srs
Just few months ago, I was in vegas working with some people... oh my God the married women are so out in the open. winking at me and chit. The one that really went over the top was this 50 something married woman... Kissed my face on the side... ok maybe it was cus i'm cute and i remind her of her son. but wait, i'm a chinaman just LOL
Then I get an e-mail from her the night I return at around midnight. My girl was like Who msged you at this hour? I be like it's a co-worker from Nevada. She grabs my phone and reads the e-mail...... it read
"blah blah.... email ends with I miss you already."
My girl was losing her mind thinking I had an affair. I didn't doe. but fuark i could've smashed that old rickety criticity bish if i wanted. 100%
Stupid question.
Duh i was working with her. That means we have contacts. Send info docs etc
U ever work?
Strangely enough I would never send anything by email to co-worker because you know there is department that watching you?
Have YOU ever worked?
Yea I am used to be IT Engineer and that's how it works. People get fired for emails of this sort without even realizing WHY!click to expand
A person cannot be "encorporated" cause there is no such word as "encorporated". A business can be incorporated, but a person cannot.
Posted by GemitatiYou remind me of the teacher in Charlie Brown. WAH WAH WAH WAH WAH WAH WAHPosted by nikkistarThat because you think you are perfect still and he is the only one guilty?Posted by GemitatiWoman, you are delusional at best and you lack any reading comprehension. No wonder you have spent the last decade being the ultimate side chick.Posted by nikkistarThat's your reaction on my opinion that it takes 2 to married and divorce!Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.
You painted him as a dick and you painted you as a Cinderella! Beauty and the Beast!
I am sure you could dig some dirt on yourself but...
And btw you were just told you are overly judgmental and I am suspecting you've got huge divorce settlement so you can live online!
And trust me I will spend another decade being whatever he wants me to be!
With pleasure! Cumming every day just hearing his voice...click to expand
Posted by yupvirgoolol @ who has time for an affair when you can go home and sleep. that's exactly how my pisces mars thinks lol. nothing beats sleeping in my comfy bed lol
I think I've annoyed my colleagues by talking incessantly about my family.
Plus I'm the youngest in the faculty so affairs aren't in order and people think of me as a kid.
And who has the time for an affair when you can go home and sleep?
Posted by nikkistarShe must be feeling some sort of way that you had the courage she lacks to leave her unfulfilling relationship. Haters gonna hate!Posted by GemitatiWoman, you are delusional at best and you lack any reading comprehension. No wonder you have spent the last decade being the ultimate side chick.Posted by nikkistarThat's your reaction on my opinion that it takes 2 to married and divorce!Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.
You painted him as a dick and you painted you as a Cinderella! Beauty and the Beast!
I am sure you could dig some dirt on yourself but...click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneHer brain is coming up with some crazy justifications to stay married, and sleep with someone else. Probably comfort and finances. lol
She must be feeling some sort of way that you had the courage she lacks to leave her unfulfilling relationship. Haters gonna hate!
You know what they say, you can bring home appliances and blankets to work except for your partner. Affairs are just like, having shoes and clothes specifically for work. Besides, people spend most of their lives at work.
Posted by nikkistarShe's like in her 60s which means she got married in the pre-prenuptual age. Why wouldn't she leave and collect her 50% is beyond me.Posted by LadyNeptuneHer brain is coming up with some crazy justifications to stay married, and sleep with someone else. Probably comfort and finances. lol
She must be feeling some sort of way that you had the courage she lacks to leave her unfulfilling relationship. Haters gonna hate!click to expand
Posted by nikkistarYou are amazing! But you know it yourself!Posted by GemitatiYou remind me of the teacher in Charlie Brown. WAH WAH WAH WAH WAH WAH WAHPosted by nikkistarThat because you think you are perfect still and he is the only one guilty?Posted by GemitatiWoman, you are delusional at best and you lack any reading comprehension. No wonder you have spent the last decade being the ultimate side chick.Posted by nikkistarThat's your reaction on my opinion that it takes 2 to married and divorce!Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.
You painted him as a dick and you painted you as a Cinderella! Beauty and the Beast!
I am sure you could dig some dirt on yourself but...
And btw you were just told you are overly judgmental and I am suspecting you've got huge divorce settlement so you can live online!
And trust me I will spend another decade being whatever he wants me to be!
With pleasure! Cumming every day just hearing his voice...
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Too bad you don't get relieve. I am sorry.
Posted by GemitatiRelief*Posted by nikkistarYou are amazing! But you know it yourself!Posted by GemitatiYou remind me of the teacher in Charlie Brown. WAH WAH WAH WAH WAH WAH WAHPosted by nikkistarThat because you think you are perfect still and he is the only one guilty?Posted by GemitatiWoman, you are delusional at best and you lack any reading comprehension. No wonder you have spent the last decade being the ultimate side chick.Posted by nikkistarThat's your reaction on my opinion that it takes 2 to married and divorce!Posted by GemitatiI was told to respect my elders, but you are making it exceedingly difficult to do this.Posted by nikkistarAnd that is exactly what I am doing with your approval or without it!Posted by GemitatiHey, that's your life. I do not pay your bills, I do not contribute anything that directly impacts your life. What I think of your current situation is moot, and shouldn't mean anything to you.
I know that he would be happiest man alive if his wife have a shit about him.
All he wants is his family!
And when I told him to try and reconciliate he called me in a whole week to tell me that everything is going to remain as it is!
I've never asked if this is because of me or her being non responsive to the trial of getting back together.
No one gets divorce because everyone is used to be comfortable. And for divorce something drastic must happen.
No one leaves family's of 25 years for unknown...
If that is the life you wish to lead, go for it.
Have you ever seen me asking 'should I stop'? No
Again, I never said anything about you asking of anything. You are overly defensive about EVERYTHING.
You painted him as a dick and you painted you as a Cinderella! Beauty and the Beast!
I am sure you could dig some dirt on yourself but...
And btw you were just told you are overly judgmental and I am suspecting you've got huge divorce settlement so you can live online!
And trust me I will spend another decade being whatever he wants me to be!
With pleasure! Cumming every day just hearing his voice...
Too bad you don't get relieve. I am sorry.
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Posted by DonJohnIs inauguration got into your head, moron?Posted by GemitatiPosted by DonJohnValid! I had been encorporated for a long time. But I had never used my work email for anything BUT work!Posted by GemitatiPosted by DonJohnWhy did you give her your email?
just LMAO @ corporate women.
srs
Just few months ago, I was in vegas working with some people... oh my God the married women are so out in the open. winking at me and chit. The one that really went over the top was this 50 something married woman... Kissed my face on the side... ok maybe it was cus i'm cute and i remind her of her son. but wait, i'm a chinaman just LOL
Then I get an e-mail from her the night I return at around midnight. My girl was like Who msged you at this hour? I be like it's a co-worker from Nevada. She grabs my phone and reads the e-mail...... it read
"blah blah.... email ends with I miss you already."
My girl was losing her mind thinking I had an affair. I didn't doe. but fuark i could've smashed that old rickety criticity bish if i wanted. 100%
Stupid question.
Duh i was working with her. That means we have contacts. Send info docs etc
U ever work?
Strangely enough I would never send anything by email to co-worker because you know there is department that watching you?
Have YOU ever worked?
Yea I am used to be IT Engineer and that's how it works. People get fired for emails of this sort without even realizing WHY!
lol @ this mental patient.
u just completely changed ur premise. u asked me why she has my contact. not why she sent the e-mail. for that question u'd have to ask her, idiot.
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Posted by Aliensusedourbogrollthat sounds ominous
You should see what it's like at the mines.
I'm not going to lie. You have explained my worst fear. And all the reasons of why it happens are true.
I've seen it happen so many times over the years with people that I have worked with. I know that nobody has the initial intent on having an affair, but when you're spending so mkuch time with a person, who has the same work stresses as you do. People are bound to form bonds and learn about one another in this sort of way. You can see a person for who they really are in the work place. How they deal with stress, how they solve problems, if they help others or not. ANYWAYS. Worst fear explained. I try not to develop any friendships with the opposite gender when I'm at work. I try to seek out female company.
I've seen it happen so many times over the years with people that I have worked with. I know that nobody has the initial intent on having an affair, but when you're spending so mkuch time with a person, who has the same work stresses as you do. People are bound to form bonds and learn about one another in this sort of way. You can see a person for who they really are in the work place. How they deal with stress, how they solve problems, if they help others or not. ANYWAYS. Worst fear explained. I try not to develop any friendships with the opposite gender when I'm at work. I try to seek out female company.
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Any of you guys play?
If so, what game?
I like:
*Julian - means youthful. I like how it sounds like it doesn't grow old for me. :)
Who?
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I met a guy this morning in the supermarket in town....he started to chat to me...seemed nice enough, had a bottle of French Vodka in his hand but didn't seem like an aggressive man. I returned some wood kindling to the store as it was damp and he
You are talking bollocks
Lots of men go with other women because of their own inadequacies, ie needing to prove they still have *it*' to massage their egos etc. Some because they are weak and need variety. It often has nothing to do with the woman they are with, but their own lack of esteem and inability to grow up and admit they are getting older. "oh I so need a woman on the end of my dick to feel good about myself..I couldn't help it".
Nikki is an intelligent strong woman.....anyone could see that from the way she writes...and LOOK ^^^ she can actually string a sentence together