@Lunabee
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666
Posted by Dastardly
Just have a fling hunny. It's all good.
Ikr. The thirst is real but there's *something* wrong with every one.
cats will always be there for you
burn his number out of your brain !
I don't know anyone who's surrounded by alcoholics and young boys as much as the op
When I was planning my wedding I booked a venue that wasn't very fancy or popular. I chose it because I knew the owner and because my grandmother had her wedding shower more than 50 years prior.
When I was doing the invitations I had to call for the exact street address. I almost died when he told me 666 ****** Street!!!!! I should've canceled right then and there. Trust the universe. Listen to the sign.
Raw garlic eh?
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Interesting that he shared the addiction with
you-- I had someone share something similar
with me recently in the cat food aisle of the
grocery, of all places.
She's a neighbor-- and it wasn't about her but
her parties, and those who attend (specifically,
her kids, my age)-- right after she had invited
me.
Yeah... thanks but no thanks.
I'm grateful for the oversharing.
Posted by enfant_terrible
I don't know anyone who's surrounded by alcoholics and young boys as much as the op
ireland bro
everybody who isn't a young boy is an alcoholic
French vodka? Psssh you can take him.
I've always had men coming to lean on or seek comfort as well. Don't get me wrong, I actully love being there n offering a shoulder to lean on honestly. I've this urge to fix people.That's addictive. But I've always known when n where to stop it. As soon as I know its draining me, I cut them off. I would never get into a relationship with these guys for one thing. I feel it can get toxic.
It's nice that you learnt to step back from this pattern 🙂
😄
People always share things with me Monty lol.......i get the most intimate details and sometimes tmi 😛
Posted by Lunabee
just go with your gut! I"m weird about seeing those numbers too but they have zero power unless we give it.Him doing cocaine isn't exactly condusive to his request but he WAS honest..
So...... you gonna call him?
Are you kidding?
Lol
Posted by Teena
I've always had men coming to lean on or seek comfort as well. Don't get me wrong, I actully love being there n offering a shoulder to lean on honestly. I've this urge to fix people.That's addictive. But I've always known when n where to stop it. As soon as I know its draining me, I cut them off. I would never get into a relationship with these guys for one thing. I feel it can get toxic.It's nice that you learnt to step back from this pattern 🙂
Scorpio sun/Taurus moon club 🙂
Yes it is great i learned to step away!!
x
Posted by Teena
I've always had men coming to lean on or seek comfort as well. Don't get me wrong, I actully love being there n offering a shoulder to lean on honestly. I've this urge to fix people.That's addictive. But I've always known when n where to stop it. As soon as I know its draining me, I cut them off. I would never get into a relationship with these guys for one thing. I feel it can get toxic.It's nice that you learnt to step back from this pattern 🙂
Scorpio sun/Taurus moon club 🙂
Yes it is great i learned to step away!!
x
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Yayy! 🙂
Posted by Teena
I've always had men coming to lean on or seek comfort as well. Don't get me wrong, I actully love being there n offering a shoulder to lean on honestly. I've this urge to fix people.That's addictive. But I've always known when n where to stop it. As soon as I know its draining me, I cut them off. I would never get into a relationship with these guys for one thing. I feel it can get toxic.It's nice that you learnt to step back from this pattern 🙂
Scorpio sun/Taurus moon club 🙂
Yes it is great i learned to step away!!
It takes time, my Scorpio friend 🙂 x
x
Yayy! 🙂
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So i asked my cards about Mr 666
*past lives*
😱
lol
Posted by enfant_terrible
I don't know anyone who's surrounded by alcoholics and young boys as much as the opireland bro
everybody who isn't a young boy is an alcoholic
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I'm sure there's plenty of overlap.
They have frozen beer & lemonade on a stick
for the kids in Wales.
*Shandy*
😛
Posted by exo
*man at shoppers drug mart checks out two cartons of chocolate milk, his total comes to $ 6.66*him: "ha ha, maybe i should get something else..."
cashier: *glares*
me: *eye twitch*
him: "ha ha..."
No! 😱
Haha
Great story Exo
Posted by MyStarsShine
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
🙂
*~*~*~*~*
But what makes you think he was trying to lean on you? Looks like he was just hitting on you.
I met a guy this morning in the supermarket in town....he started to chat to me...seemed nice enough, had a bottle of French Vodka in his hand but didn't seem like an aggressive man. I returned some wood kindling to the store as it was damp and he was explaining it could be a different strain of branch, hence the dampness
Anyway i walked out of the shop and he follows me and we talked of all the famous people that had passed away during 2016 and when he said Bowie, he sang *Ashes to Ashes* 🙂. He told me he used to do cocaine and is back on the source again after being on the wagon for 10 years. He asks for my mobile number and i wouldn't give it to him so he gives me his and repeated it a few times, so i wouldn't forget. He kept saying *call me, call me*.
His number is ~
0*7...then... 666 **** 😱
Haha! I had started to eat raw garlic the night before and heard *vampires* in my thoughts...and the word protection. I knew if this guy had gotten my number, he would have been texting me and calling me, so i am glad i held strong. He was very attractive and a lovely guy, but even so he is very needy and i don't want anyone hanging off me that way.
I thought of Arielle's thread and how her husband is having a relationship with his drug.....it made me very wary that if ever i date again, it can't be with an addict.....
When i got home i lit a white candle for him and wished him well
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....
I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
🙂
*~*~*~*~*
Congrats on making a smart decision. No one needs a partner with an addictive disorder. I attract needy types all the time and always have. If they're not fur bearing, (ie. animals), I've learned to pass them by and take care of me.
I met a guy this morning in the supermarket in town....he started to chat to me...seemed nice enough, had a bottle of French Vodka in his hand but didn't seem like an aggressive man. I returned some wood kindling to the store as it was damp and he was explaining it could be a different strain of branch, hence the dampness
Anyway i walked out of the shop and he follows me and we talked of all the famous people that had passed away during 2016 and when he said Bowie, he sang *Ashes to Ashes* 🙂. He told me he used to do cocaine and is back on the source again after being on the wagon for 10 years. He asks for my mobile number and i wouldn't give it to him so he gives me his and repeated it a few times, so i wouldn't forget. He kept saying *call me, call me*.
His number is ~
0*7...then... 666 **** 😱
Haha! I had started to eat raw garlic the night before and heard *vampires* in my thoughts...and the word protection. I knew if this guy had gotten my number, he would have been texting me and calling me, so i am glad i held strong. He was very attractive and a lovely guy, but even so he is very needy and i don't want anyone hanging off me that way.
I thought of Arielle's thread and how her husband is having a relationship with his drug.....it made me very wary that if ever i date again, it can't be with an addict.....
When i got home i lit a white candle for him and wished him well
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....
I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
🙂
*~*~*~*~*
Weird my weight for the past two to three times I've weighed myself is 666.
Hey that's sweet you said those nice things about him even though you didn't wanna get in touch with him. But this really made me wonder if a good amount of women have said that I'm lovely or seem like it. A guy like me has no choice but to hope women think I'm lovely haha. That's the Leo trait, especially with Jupiter.
Posted by St_MicJupiterLeo11th
Hey that's sweet you said those nice things about him even though you didn't wanna get in touch with him. But this really made me wonder if a good amount of women have said that I'm lovely or seem like it. A guy like me has no choice but to hope women think I'm lovely haha. That's the Leo trait, especially with Jupiter.
🙂. Well he was a nice bloke, even though I didn't want to be involved with him. Yes, women have thought you lovely.....your pic shows a fun loving, interesting guy.
Posted by MyStarsShine
For years, i was the woman that men came to, to lean on, be comforted by and depend upon.....I am glad i to be learning to step back from all that now
🙂
*~*~*~*~*
But what makes you think he was trying to lean on you? Looks like he was just hitting on you.
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I read people
Posted by St_MicJupiterLeo11th
Hey that's sweet you said those nice things about him even though you didn't wanna get in touch with him. But this really made me wonder if a good amount of women have said that I'm lovely or seem like it. A guy like me has no choice but to hope women think I'm lovely haha. That's the Leo trait, especially with Jupiter.🙂. Well he was a nice bloke, even though I didn't want to be involved with him. Yes, women have thought you lovely.....your pic shows a fun loving, interesting guy.
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? Thanks much! I appreciate you saying that. Hey so are you British? And that's great you read people, do you get paid?
Posted by St_MicJupiterLeo11th
Posted by St_MicJupiterLeo11th
Hey that's sweet you said those nice things about him even though you didn't wanna get in touch with him. But this really made me wonder if a good amount of women have said that I'm lovely or seem like it. A guy like me has no choice but to hope women think I'm lovely haha. That's the Leo trait, especially with Jupiter.🙂. Well he was a nice bloke, even though I didn't want to be involved with him. Yes, women have thought you lovely.....your pic shows a fun loving, interesting guy.
? Thanks much! I appreciate you saying that. Hey so are you British? And that's great you read people, do you get paid?
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Yes I am
Sometimes I charge, but also I work for free too...healing and reading
*white witch*
🙂
You are so wise, never ignore the gut!
Posted by TaurusinTexas
You are so wise, never ignore the gut!
🙂
Well mine screams at me now
Thankfully
x
Posted by TaurusinTexas
You are so wise, never ignore the gut!🙂
Well mine screams at me now
Thankfully
x
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Lucky you, I've been mindfully practicing, not ignoring mine and it never fails, if I do, I regret it!
Posted by TaurusinTexas
You are so wise, never ignore the gut!🙂
Well mine screams at me now
Thankfully
x
Lucky you, I've been mindfully practicing, not ignoring mine and it never fails, if I do, I regret it!
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We all have it, but it takes time to trust it
Keep on keeping on Miss Taurus
🙂
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just go with your gut! I"m weird about seeing those numbers too but they have zero power unless we give it.
Him doing cocaine isn't exactly condusive to his request but he WAS honest..
So...... you gonna call him?