Suddenly He Talks ?

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Posted by saggurl88
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Terminal Illness

He wants to mend every cubicle he hurt
Nah, he's not ill.

After so many years though ... Don't he have something better to do with his life ?



Did you change up your look and start getting cuter? ?

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Still look the same... I think.

Though when we went for company function few months ago, I did look more presentable.

Seriously... that shallow ??
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Posted by Chickpeas
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Chickpeas
Posted by The_Ands
Terminal Illness

He wants to mend every cubicle he hurt
Nah, he's not ill.

After so many years though ... Don't he have something better to do with his life ?



Did you change up your look and start getting cuter? ?




Still look the same... I think.

Though when we went for company function few months ago, I did look more presentable.

Seriously... that shallow ??

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He's a man and you might look hot! ?

I'm just throwing out 1 option lol
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Chickpeas
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Chickpeas
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Chickpeas
Posted by The_Ands
Terminal Illness

He wants to mend every cubicle he hurt
Nah, he's not ill.

After so many years though ... Don't he have something better to do with his life ?



Did you change up your look and start getting cuter? ?




Still look the same... I think.

Though when we went for company function few months ago, I did look more presentable.

Seriously... that shallow ??


He's a man and you might look hot! ?

I'm just throwing out 1 option lol

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I dressed very casually at work, loose black pants and loose top.

He lied before and speak very unprofessionally, that's partly reason I stopped talking to him.

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He lied before and speak very unprofessionally, that's partly reason I stopped talking to him.




Posted by Chickpeas
And now he just dropped by my desk, wanting to resume the long chat.

He said When is your Birthday again ?

Remember we were going to get you a Vibrator.

That he made me a normal human being, and now I regressed back.




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Just now, he said I once stood on top of my desk with short skirt because of cockroach.















Gold.
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What should I do now ?? 😢

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Posted by seraph
Posted by Chickpeas


He lied before and speak very unprofessionally, that's partly reason I stopped talking to him.




Posted by Chickpeas
And now he just dropped by my desk, wanting to resume the long chat.

He said When is your Birthday again ?

Remember we were going to get you a Vibrator.

That he made me a normal human being, and now I regressed back.




Posted by Chickpeas


Just now, he said I once stood on top of my desk with short skirt because of cockroach.















Gold.


What should I do now ?? 😢



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Get naked!!!

Why are you so concern about nobody who means nothing to you??!
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Posted by seraph
Posted by Chickpeas
Posted by seraph
Posted by Chickpeas


He lied before and speak very unprofessionally, that's partly reason I stopped talking to him.




Posted by Chickpeas
And now he just dropped by my desk, wanting to resume the long chat.

He said When is your Birthday again ?

Remember we were going to get you a Vibrator.

That he made me a normal human being, and now I regressed back.




Posted by Chickpeas


Just now, he said I once stood on top of my desk with short skirt because of cockroach.















Gold.


What should I do now ?? 😢




Unless you really feel uncomfortable (in which case you should tell him to back off a bit) just ignore it. It doesn't seem like harassment at the moment, so nip it in the bud: tell him you forgive him and it's a matter to be forgotten, and politely give the impression that you aren't open to advances that are beyond the realm of professional friendliness.

If people get the impression that you aren't open for business, and you aren't ambiguous in your polite yet clear communication of this, only the truly unwise will pursue the matter further in your particular environment. In which case your next point of contact above you can be informed, or failing that, HR.
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That's not what this post all about!

Wake up!
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Chickpeas
Posted by seraph
Posted by Chickpeas


He lied before and speak very unprofessionally, that's partly reason I stopped talking to him.




Posted by Chickpeas
And now he just dropped by my desk, wanting to resume the long chat.

He said When is your Birthday again ?

Remember we were going to get you a Vibrator.

That he made me a normal human being, and now I regressed back.




Posted by Chickpeas


Just now, he said I once stood on top of my desk with short skirt because of cockroach.















Gold.


What should I do now ?? 😢




Get naked!!!

Why are you so concern about nobody who means nothing to you??!

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I did get half naked once because of a roach.

That thing flew and landed on my top, I took it off whilst screaming.

This person lied to my boss before about me.

So yes, I am concern about my reputation.

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Chickpeas
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Posted by seraph
Posted by Chickpeas
Posted by seraph
Posted by Chickpeas


He lied before and speak very unprofessionally, that's partly reason I stopped talking to him.




Posted by Chickpeas
And now he just dropped by my desk, wanting to resume the long chat.

He said When is your Birthday again ?

Remember we were going to get you a Vibrator.

That he made me a normal human being, and now I regressed back.




Posted by Chickpeas


Just now, he said I once stood on top of my desk with short skirt because of cockroach.















Gold.


What should I do now ?? 😢




Unless you really feel uncomfortable (in which case you should tell him to back off a bit) just ignore it. It doesn't seem like harassment at the moment, so nip it in the bud: tell him you forgive him and it's a matter to be forgotten, and politely give the impression that you aren't open to advances that are beyond the realm of professional friendliness.

If people get the impression that you aren't open for business, and you aren't ambiguous in your polite yet clear communication of this, only the truly unwise will pursue the matter further in your particular environment. In which case your next point of contact above you can be informed, or failing that, HR.
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I am uncomfortable ... because I don't talk or joke like that and he knows that too.

I even changed my working hours so we don't stay together with no one else in the office.

It's gross and unprofessional. He always threatened to hug me at any given time knowing I am not a touchy feely person.

Thank you for your advise, it's good. I might have given wrong impression I suppose.

No HR here.