To the bitch who was cheating on her husband at basic training

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Burn...
They were together 6 years.

Married 6 months and went to basic at Ft. Jackson and Ft. Benning. I knew her husband and was there with him at Ft. Benning. He is very peaceful and calm even now not too angry about the situation but is filing for divorce. She graduated from basic last Thursday. He paid to go see her. She said she could only have her phone certain hours but while he was alone at a bar BC he didn't know anyone there in South Carolina, she was texting the other guy till midnight!!!! That's really late for people in basic!!!!


The husband went through her phone Saturday BC he had " hunch". He said the convos with the other guy were broken and didn't make sense, hence she probably deleted the juicy stuff. He confronted her about it and she said the other guy is just a guy friend. Hubby doesn't buy it and she knows he is filing for divorce. He also tried to call her to talk it out like adults but she hasn't responded. I told him he may be rushing a little.


However trust is gone in this relationship. She will be going to AIT which is where she will learn her Army specialty in about 2 weeks and will be distant. She will deploy. Trust is gone... She should also be aware that he posted that shit all over Facebook and deleted every picture of her. She says she doesn't want her reputation ruined, but why isnt she telling the full truth? Also she says she doesn't know what she wants. She is married and has been with someone 6 months but is willing to trade him in for someone she has known a little over two months max. My basic was all guys and so was Hubby's obviously, but there cannot be that much time spent with the opposite sex. From what I know it is possible to sneak and do things with the opposite sex, but you have to be sneaky. Guys and girls are still separated.

Side note hubby can't do the army anymore BC he was released with asthma, so he won't be having army cough. My friend pointed out that she has less use for hubby because she is the breadwinner at least temporarily.


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1. whats done in the dark comes out in the light
2, when your engaged you don't text another man til midnight
3. not necessary for him to post on facebook, take the "L" and bounce
4. Doesn't matter how long you are together 6 years or whatever, people cheat.
5. Cheating is very prevalent in this day and age. keep you chips stacked and be aware it could happen any time, feel free to check your partners phone at any time and this includes downloading software to their phone to monitor them, keep your wits about you, don't give all your trust to another person, even if engaged
6.great hes walking away, good riddance to a cheater
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Posted by KittenLaRouge
1. whats done in the dark comes out in the light
2, when your engaged you don't text another man til midnight
3. not necessary for him to post on facebook, take the "L" and bounce
4. Doesn't matter how long you are together 6 years or whatever, people cheat.
5. Cheating is very prevalent in this day and age. keep you chips stacked and be aware it could happen any time, feel free to check your partners phone at any time and this includes downloading software to their phone to monitor them, keep your wits about you, don't give all your trust to another person, even if engaged
6.great hes walking away, good riddance to a cheater
Number 5 all day
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Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Aquarius 28°08'
Moon Cancer 15°05' II Cancer 7°41'
Mercury Aquarius 1°48' III Cancer 28°57'
Venus Aquarius 16°25' IV Leo 23°14'
Mars Taurus 16°27' V Virgo 24°34'
Jupiter Taurus 27°21' VI Scorpio 4°41'
Saturn Capricorn 10°41' VII Sagittarius 15°43'
Uranus Capricorn 4°13' VIII Capricorn 7°41'
Neptune Capricorn 11°33' IX Capricorn 28°57'
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Disregard houses . I'd dont know the birth times. The first chart is his .



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He'll be fine. Good thing she has her own money. Men love to see women broken down and miserable when relationship is over. That's why it's important to have your own shit. Don't rely on a man.


He should definitely get into some therapy and talk to someone about this whole ordeal, but going on facebook just to smear her reputation because he's angry with her nasty decision is pathetic. I've been cheated on too. & I just accepted it. That doesn't mean that it didn't hurt me, that doesn't mean that didn't make me feel anything, I just had to accept what it was and move on. There's more to the story than what you are telling so I don't feel sorry for him at all.
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OK since I'm having trouble pasting her shit.

He says she doesn't know what she wants and the guy is just a friend. If you guessed by that statement that she is LIBRA your right sorry Libras.


7 degrees Libra

Moon either late Gemini or early Cancer

Mercury Libra 4 degrees

Venus 26 degrees Leo

Mars 19 degrees Libra

Jupiter 3.5 Virgo

Saturn 0 Aquarius

Uranus 9.5 Cap

Pluto Scorp 19 degrees
Lililth Cap
Neptune 14 Cap

Asc Node 14 cap

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Posted by frostey91
Posted by KittenLaRouge
1. whats done in the dark comes out in the light
2, when your engaged you don't text another man til midnight
3. not necessary for him to post on facebook, take the "L" and bounce
4. Doesn't matter how long you are together 6 years or whatever, people cheat.
5. Cheating is very prevalent in this day and age. keep you chips stacked and be aware it could happen any time, feel free to check your partners phone at any time and this includes downloading software to their phone to monitor them, keep your wits about you, don't give all your trust to another person, even if engaged
6.great hes walking away, good riddance to a cheaote>

Number 5 all day
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They were married 6 months not engaged. This is horrible timing. They were going to do the Army thing together at first. To top it off around Christmas too. Is would be a lot more angry. He is more composed than I would be. Being with someone 6 years is like 600 to me.
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He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.
Negligent or not, it's important to at least tell your partner what you're feeling, especially if you're tempted to cheat. I don't see the point of cheating, though. Why not just leave your partner if they're not okay with that?
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I agree 110% . There's no justification for her actions. The pain he will feel as the result of her selfishness may last a lifetime. I wish him well.
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Posted by Magenta_Azure
He'll be fine. Good thing she has her own money. Men love to see women broken down and miserable when relationship is over. That's why it's important to have your own shit. Don't rely on a man.


There's more to the story than what you are telling so I don't feel sorry for him at all.
There is more to the story however. He was not negligent in the fact that they both went somewhere knowlingly a few hours away for 2 and a half months. All he cared about was seeing her graduate as her graduation was 2 weeks after his and he almost missed it because the Army was holding him. He kept in contact with her as much as he could. In basic we got our phones for fucking 15 mins a week. He talked to her as much as she could. She ran after a shiny object.

As for smearing her whatever let him vent.

She should be exposed. People handle shit differently. She didn't want anyone to know, but he sees her as a fraud.

He did say the communication was broken sometimes throughout the relationship... I don't know to what extent. You have to think all relationships have some communication problems.
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A libra with venus in leo would sound like someone who wouldn't cheat... yikes...
Her transits say otherwise...

I started at Dec 1
Mars conjunct sun gave her pep in her step feeling refresshed wtc.
Neptune conjunct Venus points to falling in love with someone else
Neptune is killing this woman it's affecting her moon 2
Omg Mercury sextile Uranus getting new ideas from people outside your circle(,the army and maybe Rico Suave)

Neptune opposition Mars points to lack of control

Uranus sextile Uranus--- points to lots of changes in her life


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Honestly, I'm not all that surprised. Libra women can be so fucking fickle and ridiculous in romance and relationships. Air signs, are, really. But with Libras, you give them that new, exciting shiny object, and they will ditch anyone and anything and fixate on that. It's pretty ridiculous and fucked.

I've listened to all too many voice their thought process with this stuff and the overall gist was that they're selfish and callus individuals. For supposedly being this "nice" and caring sign, the attitude some have towards others is downright disgusting and user status.


(insert usual disclaimer that this isn't ALL, just the asshat variet, before the butthurt brigade shows up)

He's making the right decision in dropping her ass. There's no recovering from this, and of course she doesn't want her reputation sullied. Most don't want to have their "nice" front tarnished because ohnoes, they're seen as a bad person!!

Time for him to move on from someone who isn't such an emotionally selfish asshole.
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Posted by scorpx3
A libra with venus in leo would sound like someone who wouldn't cheat... yikes...
Her transits say otherwise...

I started at Dec 1
Mars conjunct sun gave her pep in her step feeling refresshed wtc.
Neptune conjunct Venus points to falling in love with someone else
Neptune is killing this woman it's affecting her moon 2
Omg Mercury sextile Uranus getting new ideas from people outside your circle(,the army and maybe Rico Suave)

Neptune opposition Mars points to lack of control

Uranus sextile Uranus--- points to lots of changes in her life


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First off, it's hilarious that V in Leo supposedly won't let her cheat. Are we forgetting that Leo is also highly egotistical and looking for anything that makes them feel great about themselves? They're loyal, sure, but only when they're getting theirs out of the situation. If not, then all the immature crazy comes out.

Your friend's wife is fucked in the head, regardless of astrology or not. There are just way too many emotionally selfish assholes in the world and they go around fucking up people in their ridiculous wake.
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Posted by frostey91
Posted by scorpx3
A libra with venus in leo would sound like someone who wouldn't cheat... yikes...
Her transits say otherwise...

I started at Dec 1
Mars conjunct sun gave her pep in her step feeling refresshed wtc.
Neptune conjunct Venus points to falling in love with someone else
Neptune is killing this woman it's affecting her moon 2
Omg Mercury sextile Uranus getting new ideas from people outside your circle(,the army and maybe Rico Suave)

Neptune opposition Mars points to lack of control

Uranus sextile Uranus--- points to lots of changes in her life

First off, it's hilarious that V in Leo supposedly won't let her cheat. Are we forgetting that Leo is also highly egotistical and looking for anything that makes them feel great about themselves? They're loyal, sure, but only when they're getting theirs out of the situation. If not, then all the immature crazy comes out.

Your friend's wife is fucked in the head, regardless of astrology or not. There are just way too many emotionally selfish assholes in the world and they go around fucking up people in their ridiculous wake.
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I was thinking the same thing. Leo Venus is fucking selfish and self centered. It's all about it's needs. Yeah it's a passionate outgoing sign but really fucking needy and in love with love.

I don't see Libra as a loyal sign either sorry-- indecisive. Doesn't mean all Libras are like this.

It's just bad. She's out here choosing like Ohio in elections.
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Also, it was my understanding, that libras tend to settle down early in part because it appears right to others and they are fixated on appearances.

Could be she jumped into things too soon, too early, and felt smothered and was looking for an excuse to be able to walk away. Or rather have him walk away. Why only delete some of the texts? Why not all of them? Feels to me like she wanted to get caught...

That doesn't excuse her though! Cheating is abhorrent in all it's manifestations.

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Also, it was my understanding, that libras tend to settle down early in part because it appears right to others and they are fixated on appearances.

Could be she jumped into things too soon, too early, and felt smothered and was looking for an excuse to be able to walk away. Or rather have him walk away. Why only delete some of the texts? Why not all of them? Feels to me like she wanted to get caught...

That doesn't excuse her though! Cheating is abhorrent in all it's manifestations.
Also Libras NEED to be with someone most of the time
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Also, it was my understanding, that libras tend to settle down early in part because it appears right to others and they are fixated on appearances.

Could be she jumped into things too soon, too early, and felt smothered and was looking for an excuse to be able to walk away. Or rather have him walk away. Why only delete some of the texts? Why not all of them? Feels to me like she wanted to get caught...

That doesn't excuse her though! Cheating is abhorrent in all it's manifestations.
Also Libras NEED to be with someone most of the time
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Exactly. You expressed it much better than me.
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Also, it was my understanding, that libras tend to settle down early in part because it appears right to others and they are fixated on appearances.

Could be she jumped into things too soon, too early, and felt smothered and was looking for an excuse to be able to walk away. Or rather have him walk away. Why only delete some of the texts? Why not all of them? Feels to me like she wanted to get caught...

That doesn't excuse her though! Cheating is abhorrent in all it's manifestations.
Also Libras NEED to be with someone most of the time
Exactly. You expressed it much better than me.
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No we worked together 😉
Your explanation is right

Libras are concerned about their social images.

Her husband even said that is like her.

In thus case hubby won't be in the army and she likely fell for the cutest boy and gave up on an average Joe.

She should have left him properly smh.
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He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.

Get the fuck out of here. That's always your excuse isn't it?
i agree no proof at all. homeboy prol hollered at her and she went for it
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I mean he was in Basic training and you're allowed maybe one call to to 5 calls during the 9 weeks or 10 weeks you're there. The rest has to be mail. I mean if that's the case and she left him for that. Well boo fucking hoo, She shoulda known that before he signed on and he probably told her that he wasn't going to really be able to phone her all the time. No use blaming him.
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Where is she going to AIT at?

Army life is always difficult, but to have a marriage on top of it is even more stressful.

Our divorce rate is the absolute highest in the Nation, which is why I am glad I never got married while on active duty.

Where you at now?
Idk where her AIT is.

I decided the Army wasn't for me

You have to be all in and not take things personal. It was a no go
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He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.

Get the fuck out of here. That's always your excuse isn't it?
i agree no proof at all. homeboy prol hollered at her and she went for it

I mean he was in Basic training and you're allowed maybe one call to to 5 calls during the 9 weeks or 10 weeks you're there. The rest has to be mail. I mean if that's the case and she left him for that. Well boo fucking hoo, She shoulda known that before he signed on and he probably told her that he wasn't going to really be able to phone her all the time. No use blaming him.
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Exactly she knewwwww!!! He tried to tell her not to go.

Smh scandalous.


Right they were both in basic but in GA and SC hubby had his phone but cheater didn't have hers I guess.

Hubby tried, he even told her not to join BC he didn't think it was for her but she went anyway. The husband started basic 2 weeks before.


When she got her phone bear graduation one of the first people she texted was her new "friend"

Goes back to the Libra with Leo Venus needing affection etc.

But like you said why did she not think about that and just throw him away like that?


There is no obvious reason other than she needed a new toy and her other toy wasn't close enough to her playbox