
frostey91
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Posted by ImpulsvBS my parents have been married 40 years
7 year itch?

Posted by KittenLaRougeNumber 5 all day
1. whats done in the dark comes out in the light
2, when your engaged you don't text another man til midnight
3. not necessary for him to post on facebook, take the "L" and bounce
4. Doesn't matter how long you are together 6 years or whatever, people cheat.
5. Cheating is very prevalent in this day and age. keep you chips stacked and be aware it could happen any time, feel free to check your partners phone at any time and this includes downloading software to their phone to monitor them, keep your wits about you, don't give all your trust to another person, even if engaged
6.great hes walking away, good riddance to a cheater






Posted by frostey91Posted by KittenLaRougeThey were married 6 months not engaged. This is horrible timing. They were going to do the Army thing together at first. To top it off around Christmas too. Is would be a lot more angry. He is more composed than I would be. Being with someone 6 years is like 600 to me.
1. whats done in the dark comes out in the light
2, when your engaged you don't text another man til midnight
3. not necessary for him to post on facebook, take the "L" and bounce
4. Doesn't matter how long you are together 6 years or whatever, people cheat.
5. Cheating is very prevalent in this day and age. keep you chips stacked and be aware it could happen any time, feel free to check your partners phone at any time and this includes downloading software to their phone to monitor them, keep your wits about you, don't give all your trust to another person, even if engaged
6.great hes walking away, good riddance to a cheaote>
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Posted by scorpx3I agree 110% . There's no justification for her actions. The pain he will feel as the result of her selfishness may last a lifetime. I wish him well.Posted by Magenta_AzureNegligent or not, it's important to at least tell your partner what you're feeling, especially if you're tempted to cheat. I don't see the point of cheating, though. Why not just leave your partner if they're not okay with that?
He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.click to expand

Posted by Magenta_AzureThere is more to the story however. He was not negligent in the fact that they both went somewhere knowlingly a few hours away for 2 and a half months. All he cared about was seeing her graduate as her graduation was 2 weeks after his and he almost missed it because the Army was holding him. He kept in contact with her as much as he could. In basic we got our phones for fucking 15 mins a week. He talked to her as much as she could. She ran after a shiny object.
He'll be fine. Good thing she has her own money. Men love to see women broken down and miserable when relationship is over. That's why it's important to have your own shit. Don't rely on a man.
There's more to the story than what you are telling so I don't feel sorry for him at all.

Posted by scorpx3Her transits say otherwise...
A libra with venus in leo would sound like someone who wouldn't cheat... yikes...


Posted by frostey91First off, it's hilarious that V in Leo supposedly won't let her cheat. Are we forgetting that Leo is also highly egotistical and looking for anything that makes them feel great about themselves? They're loyal, sure, but only when they're getting theirs out of the situation. If not, then all the immature crazy comes out.Posted by scorpx3Her transits say otherwise...
A libra with venus in leo would sound like someone who wouldn't cheat... yikes...
I started at Dec 1
Mars conjunct sun gave her pep in her step feeling refresshed wtc.
Neptune conjunct Venus points to falling in love with someone else
Neptune is killing this woman it's affecting her moon 2
Omg Mercury sextile Uranus getting new ideas from people outside your circle(,the army and maybe Rico Suave)
Neptune opposition Mars points to lack of control
Uranus sextile Uranus--- points to lots of changes in her life
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Posted by rockyroadicecreamI was thinking the same thing. Leo Venus is fucking selfish and self centered. It's all about it's needs. Yeah it's a passionate outgoing sign but really fucking needy and in love with love.Posted by frostey91First off, it's hilarious that V in Leo supposedly won't let her cheat. Are we forgetting that Leo is also highly egotistical and looking for anything that makes them feel great about themselves? They're loyal, sure, but only when they're getting theirs out of the situation. If not, then all the immature crazy comes out.Posted by scorpx3Her transits say otherwise...
A libra with venus in leo would sound like someone who wouldn't cheat... yikes...
I started at Dec 1
Mars conjunct sun gave her pep in her step feeling refresshed wtc.
Neptune conjunct Venus points to falling in love with someone else
Neptune is killing this woman it's affecting her moon 2
Omg Mercury sextile Uranus getting new ideas from people outside your circle(,the army and maybe Rico Suave)
Neptune opposition Mars points to lack of control
Uranus sextile Uranus--- points to lots of changes in her life
Your friend's wife is fucked in the head, regardless of astrology or not. There are just way too many emotionally selfish assholes in the world and they go around fucking up people in their ridiculous wake.click to expand


Posted by LadyNeptuneAlso Libras NEED to be with someone most of the time
Also, it was my understanding, that libras tend to settle down early in part because it appears right to others and they are fixated on appearances.
Could be she jumped into things too soon, too early, and felt smothered and was looking for an excuse to be able to walk away. Or rather have him walk away. Why only delete some of the texts? Why not all of them? Feels to me like she wanted to get caught...
That doesn't excuse her though! Cheating is abhorrent in all it's manifestations.

Posted by frostey91Exactly. You expressed it much better than me.Posted by LadyNeptuneAlso Libras NEED to be with someone most of the time
Also, it was my understanding, that libras tend to settle down early in part because it appears right to others and they are fixated on appearances.
Could be she jumped into things too soon, too early, and felt smothered and was looking for an excuse to be able to walk away. Or rather have him walk away. Why only delete some of the texts? Why not all of them? Feels to me like she wanted to get caught...
That doesn't excuse her though! Cheating is abhorrent in all it's manifestations.
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Posted by LadyNeptuneNo we worked together 😉Posted by frostey91Exactly. You expressed it much better than me.Posted by LadyNeptuneAlso Libras NEED to be with someone most of the time
Also, it was my understanding, that libras tend to settle down early in part because it appears right to others and they are fixated on appearances.
Could be she jumped into things too soon, too early, and felt smothered and was looking for an excuse to be able to walk away. Or rather have him walk away. Why only delete some of the texts? Why not all of them? Feels to me like she wanted to get caught...
That doesn't excuse her though! Cheating is abhorrent in all it's manifestations.
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Posted by Magenta_Azure
He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.

Posted by Sn1p3r187i agree no proof at all. homeboy prol hollered at her and she went for itPosted by Magenta_Azure
He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.
Get the fuck out of here. That's always your excuse isn't it?click to expand

Posted by KittenLaRougePosted by Sn1p3r187i agree no proof at all. homeboy prol hollered at her and she went for itPosted by Magenta_Azure
He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.
Get the fuck out of here. That's always your excuse isn't it?click to expand

Posted by YourFavoriteDXPMemberIdk where her AIT is.
Where is she going to AIT at?
Army life is always difficult, but to have a marriage on top of it is even more stressful.
Our divorce rate is the absolute highest in the Nation, which is why I am glad I never got married while on active duty.
Where you at now?

Posted by Sn1p3r187Exactly she knewwwww!!! He tried to tell her not to go.Posted by KittenLaRougePosted by Sn1p3r187i agree no proof at all. homeboy prol hollered at her and she went for itPosted by Magenta_Azure
He was probably being a negligent boyfriend. Can't be mad when somebody else stepped up to the plate when you didnt.
Get the fuck out of here. That's always your excuse isn't it?
I mean he was in Basic training and you're allowed maybe one call to to 5 calls during the 9 weeks or 10 weeks you're there. The rest has to be mail. I mean if that's the case and she left him for that. Well boo fucking hoo, She shoulda known that before he signed on and he probably told her that he wasn't going to really be able to phone her all the time. No use blaming him.click to expand

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They were together 6 years.
Married 6 months and went to basic at Ft. Jackson and Ft. Benning. I knew her husband and was there with him at Ft. Benning. He is very peaceful and calm even now not too angry about the situation but is filing for divorce. She graduated from basic last Thursday. He paid to go see her. She said she could only have her phone certain hours but while he was alone at a bar BC he didn't know anyone there in South Carolina, she was texting the other guy till midnight!!!! That's really late for people in basic!!!!
The husband went through her phone Saturday BC he had " hunch". He said the convos with the other guy were broken and didn't make sense, hence she probably deleted the juicy stuff. He confronted her about it and she said the other guy is just a guy friend. Hubby doesn't buy it and she knows he is filing for divorce. He also tried to call her to talk it out like adults but she hasn't responded. I told him he may be rushing a little.
However trust is gone in this relationship. She will be going to AIT which is where she will learn her Army specialty in about 2 weeks and will be distant. She will deploy. Trust is gone... She should also be aware that he posted that shit all over Facebook and deleted every picture of her. She says she doesn't want her reputation ruined, but why isnt she telling the full truth? Also she says she doesn't know what she wants. She is married and has been with someone 6 months but is willing to trade him in for someone she has known a little over two months max. My basic was all guys and so was Hubby's obviously, but there cannot be that much time spent with the opposite sex. From what I know it is possible to sneak and do things with the opposite sex, but you have to be sneaky. Guys and girls are still separated.
Side note hubby can't do the army anymore BC he was released with asthma, so he won't be having army cough. My friend pointed out that she has less use for hubby because she is the breadwinner at least temporarily.
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