what are some of the characteristics of an emotionally unstable woman?

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Is dominance a characteristic of an emotionally unstable woman? I dunno...
lol, bad dominance is bad dominance - lol - there is good dominance as well

are we talking seriously "troubled" wenches here or not - most of the excessively narcissistic bi - otches I've known were always trying to be dominate and in control and in charge of everything and everybody - of course that made my horns come out ...
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She spends the majority of her time putting other females down while explaining why she's so different. (i.e. "I don't like girls, they're all so fake.")

Sometimes she takes a break from doing that to rag on an ex or two.

In her own words: her best friend is a lying, back-stabbing and conniving slut; but she is definitely not.

She starts hinting at marriage before she even knows your middle name or biggest pet peeve.

She shows up randomly when you are with your friends--a LOT.

Within one year you have multiple pregnancy "scares," often following a disagreement or a time that you went and did something without her.

She doesn't like you doing guy things with the guys, because she can't trust you because you're a guy, of course. But then she says of course she can go to the club because it's a girls night, and they're "not dancing with guys."

That guy she always hangs out with is just her best friend, and they talk about personal stuff a lot so that's why you can't be there.
holy butter LOL. some points are true

thank you
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they do walk amongst us and instant attraction is a definite clue yet heard to define - they are sooooo charming and smart and funny and beautiful ... until you really get to know them and then when you close the door they become monsters ...

Donna Anderson has a sight for people who have been victims of psychopaths - which people think the worst like serial killers and such but there are "degrees" of pychopaths - some call them sociopaths, etc. I just call them CRAZY and run ...

I grew up with a mother like that and I've spent my entire life since then doing a lot of research and healing ...
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"Overview - Mayo Clinic

Antisocial personality disorder, sometimes called sociopathy, is a mental condition in which a person consistently shows no regard for right and wrong and ignores the rights and feelings of others. People with antisocial personality disorder tend to antagonize, manipulate or treat others harshly or with callous indifference. They show no guilt or remorse for their behavior.

Individuals with antisocial personality disorder often violate the law, becoming criminals. They may lie, behave violently or impulsively, and have problems with drug and alcohol use. Because of these characteristics, people with this disorder typically can't fulfill responsibilities related to family, work or school."


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They act like sensitive blues and rocky road. Miserable
lol i knew someone would mention me
Is that your picture CC?
no she's some famous actress
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Well, if it is you......I'm impressed.

If only your attitude matched your good looks............

Oh well, can't have it all I guess?

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they do walk amongst us and instant attraction is a definite clue yet heard to define - they are sooooo charming and smart and funny and beautiful ... until you really get to know them and then when you close the door they become monsters ...

Donna Anderson has a sight for people who have been victims of psychopaths - which people think the worst like serial killers and such but there are "degrees" of pychopaths - some call them sociopaths, etc. I just call them CRAZY and run ...

I grew up with a mother like that and I've spent my entire life since then doing a lot of research and healing ...
I grew up with a dad like that (he's a Virgo, go figure). He's one of them high functioning ones though. It literally runs through his family, on his moms side. His sister is the underdeveloped/obvious psycho, his mom is just batshit, etc. You can literally trace is up the family tree all on my grandmas side of the family; it's freaky °
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mother was a Leo - ha - but she was the only one in her family and to this day, I don't think it was passed on thank god ... her sisters say they don't know what happened but that she was always treated special - it seems that she was just born that way but the books debate that -

I don't care what personality disorder it's called - bpd, narcissitic, apd - all of them combined - when it stinks, I don't have a problem at all walking away and getting the fuck out of dodge - lol as Jack Nicholson said "oh you're selling crazy? well no thanks - we're all stocked here" ...

they continue to write and write and research and the lines of each "disorder" are getting murky - to me they only one thing and I don't care what anyone wants to call it

I live in the world of reality - it is what it is ...

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they do walk amongst us and instant attraction is a definite clue yet heard to define - they are sooooo charming and smart and funny and beautiful ... until you really get to know them and then when you close the door they become monsters ...

Donna Anderson has a sight for people who have been victims of psychopaths - which people think the worst like serial killers and such but there are "degrees" of pychopaths - some call them sociopaths, etc. I just call them CRAZY and run ...

I grew up with a mother like that and I've spent my entire life since then doing a lot of research and healing ...
I grew up with a dad like that (he's a Virgo, go figure). He's one of them high functioning ones though. It literally runs through his family, on his moms side. His sister is the underdeveloped/obvious psycho, his mom is just batshit, etc. You can literally trace is up the family tree all on my grandmas side of the family; it's freaky °
mother was a Leo - ha - but she was the only one in her family and to this day, I don't think it was passed on thank god ... her sisters say they don't know what happened but that she was always treated special - it seems that she was just born that way but the books debate that -

I don't care what personality disorder it's called - bpd, narcissitic, apd - all of them combined - when it stinks, I don't have a problem at all walking away and getting the fuck out of dodge - lol as Jack Nicholson said "oh you're selling crazy? well no thanks - we're all stocked here" ...

they continue to write and write and research and the lines of each "disorder" are getting murky - to me they only one thing and I don't care what anyone wants to call it

I live in the world of reality - it is what it is ...

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lol strangely enough this girl has a leo moon.

what can i do to make her more "stable" ?
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they do walk amongst us and instant attraction is a definite clue yet heard to define - they are sooooo charming and smart and funny and beautiful ... until you really get to know them and then when you close the door they become monsters ...

Donna Anderson has a sight for people who have been victims of psychopaths - which people think the worst like serial killers and such but there are "degrees" of pychopaths - some call them sociopaths, etc. I just call them CRAZY and run ...

I grew up with a mother like that and I've spent my entire life since then doing a lot of research and healing ...
I grew up with a dad like that (he's a Virgo, go figure). He's one of them high functioning ones though. It literally runs through his family, on his moms side. His sister is the underdeveloped/obvious psycho, his mom is just batshit, etc. You can literally trace is up the family tree all on my grandmas side of the family; it's freaky °
mother was a Leo - ha - but she was the only one in her family and to this day, I don't think it was passed on thank god ... her sisters say they don't know what happened but that she was always treated special - it seems that she was just born that way but the books debate that -

I don't care what personality disorder it's called - bpd, narcissitic, apd - all of them combined - when it stinks, I don't have a problem at all walking away and getting the fuck out of dodge - lol as Jack Nicholson said "oh you're selling crazy? well no thanks - we're all stocked here" ...

they continue to write and write and research and the lines of each "disorder" are getting murky - to me they only one thing and I don't care what anyone wants to call it

I live in the world of reality - it is what it is ...
lol strangely enough this girl has a leo moon.

what can i do to make her more "stable" ?
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RUN
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"lol strangely enough this girl has a leo moon.

what can i do to make her more "stable" ?"

seriously - you can do what you want but you will never change anyone's behavior - it will drive you insane trying ... fuck her if you want but mainly observe for awhile - it won't take long before you see the "snap" ... and don't fall for her or you will be in over your head ...
and don't give her any vitals or she might stalk you after you dump her ... be careful ...
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"lol strangely enough this girl has a leo moon.

what can i do to make her more "stable" ?"

seriously - you can do what you want but you will never change anyone's behavior - it will drive you insane trying ... fuck her if you want but mainly observe for awhile - it won't take long before you see the "snap" ... and don't fall for her or you will be in over your head ...
and don't give her any vitals or she might stalk you after you dump her ... be careful ...
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lol i think she's already stalking me
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"lol strangely enough this girl has a leo moon.

what can i do to make her more "stable" ?"

seriously - you can do what you want but you will never change anyone's behavior - it will drive you insane trying ... fuck her if you want but mainly observe for awhile - it won't take long before you see the "snap" ... and don't fall for her or you will be in over your head ...
and don't give her any vitals or she might stalk you after you dump her ... be careful ...
lol i think she's already stalking me
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@tcta I subscribe to Lovefrauds emails; I hate Donna. I feel like she's working a scam tbh. Some of the stuff on the site is useful, but other parts are just ridiculous. A few weeks ago they put out an article of this lady whose boyfriend didn't react emotionally when they broke up; he just went about his daily life and "didn't care". In the article the lady claimed he was a psychopath just because he didn't portray hurt from the breakup. It really pissed me off. People cope with breakups in their own ways. >😢 Fucking bitch (the broad who wrote the article)
yes, I did peruse for awhile but got tired of it and got more in-depth elsewhere - it was the first site I was thinking of about psychopathic behavior "stories" ... not sure what type of scam she would be running ? but truly - yes, that is not the type of behavior that necessarily shows a behavioral problem - I don't follow anything to a T - I like to spread around and read and update as the years go by

a lot of my research has been on how children are affected by parents/environment and how that molding plays out as adults ... have you read "Born to Love" oops - forget the author ...
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Posted by heycookiemonsterez
need some help.
Honestly, I think most of the times when we try to diagnose people as unstable in some way, we fall prey to attribution biases. For the vast majority of people who have experienced some sort of personal turbulence in their lives, there will always be some situations in which they simply cannot be, or have not learned to be, "stable." -- And of course the construction of one's symptom is often an attempt at stabilization. Moreover I'm of the opinion that when we feel driven to deem another person "unstable" in some way it's often because he or she anticipates or mirrors some of our own psychological excesses (at least, what we fear becoming or exhibiting).

My guess is also (sorry if I'm wrong here) that you're male -- or identify as masculine -- and that to you emotional instability is always something extravagant or flamboyant. However you should consider that someone can be violently "unstable" in the ways they withdraw from the world and inhibit themselves, or (for instance) refuse to feel and express emotion. Instability in the abstract is meaningless. You first have to settle the norm from which you're measuring the deviation (and the direction, so to speak, of that deviation).

So. Could you give more context for this? There's no ''one size fits'' all here. Apologies if you already wrote more details in another post... I lazily skipped to the most recent page.