@firebunny
14 Years10,000+ Posts
What if my gf is pregnant?
And that means, no more DXP.
😢
Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
Posted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
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Lol don’t you think that’s a little too late?
Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
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She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
Do you love her? Do you want to have a little family?
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Im not sure of my love for her.
The question is “want?” The answer to that is no. But I have to if I’m obliged to. I will do it. My sense of right and wrong tells me to do it. If I don’t , I will feel guilty, and that’s not a good thing.
Posted by alexscariesTrust is implicit. If you don't trust her to take contraception, why aren't you gloving up? If you don't trust her why are you together?
Oh. I just have this weird feeling. Something’s not right about what happened last Friday. I’m just thinking of things the soonest just in case. I want to be prepared.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.
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I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.
Posted by but_didyoudiebunny what the h are you doing having sex without protection? that is bad. lets hope you're not pregnant. i doubt it... just have her use a diaphragm birth control thing if you dont wanna use a condom. oh the marriage part, if you start it like that then it will fail..... marriage bc of responsibility will end in catastrophe 😱
Why do you think it will fail?
Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.
I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.
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You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol
Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.
This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.
Posted by but_didyoudiePosted by firebunnyPosted by but_didyoudiebunny what the h are you doing having sex without protection? that is bad. lets hope you're not pregnant. i doubt it... just have her use a diaphragm birth control thing if you dont wanna use a condom. oh the marriage part, if you start it like that then it will fail..... marriage bc of responsibility will end in catastrophe 😱
Why do you think it will fail?
bc this wouldn't be a topic of the conversation. you would carry on with your life doing whatever you said you wanted to... which has to do nothing with marriage.
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What do you mean?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.
I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.
You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol
Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.
This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.
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How do I make it sure?
Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.
I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.
You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol
Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.
This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.
How do I make it sure?
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You bring her the birth control pill with her morning tea 😄
Posted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Posted by firebunnyPosted by saggurl88Then she will have a baby. You seem to want that.
My question is, should I marry her?
She's not even pregnant yet. lol Why don't you see how compatible she is with you and cross that road when you get there.
I was thinking of compatibility a while ago, but what about the child? It will live in a broken family. I don’t like that.
You don't have to live in a broken family. Why don't you start with making sure the girl IS on birth control until you're ready. You seem the one trying to trap her with a baby lol
Divorce can still happen. There are no guarantees in life, just cause you don't want a broken family, doesn't mean she will stay.
This is why compatibility is needed before a pregnancy.
How do I make it sure?
You bring her the birth control pill with her morning tea 😄
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Posted by but_didyoudiePosted by firebunnyPosted by but_didyoudiePosted by firebunnyPosted by but_didyoudiebunny what the h are you doing having sex without protection? that is bad. lets hope you're not pregnant. i doubt it... just have her use a diaphragm birth control thing if you dont wanna use a condom. oh the marriage part, if you start it like that then it will fail..... marriage bc of responsibility will end in catastrophe 😱
Why do you think it will fail?
bc this wouldn't be a topic of the conversation. you would carry on with your life doing whatever you said you wanted to... which has to do nothing with marriage.
What do you mean?
it means you're just getting married bc of the baby; otherwise, you probably wouldn't. idk maybe you need such thing to put a ring on you.... but ideally the baby is supposed to happen after the marriage.
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Why do you make it sound like Im just finding excuses to marry her?
you should bang all the top models before you get married bunny
I hope Im just paranoid. I just saw a scene where a dad left his family to start a new one. I don’t want to be the same jackass that he’s been.
Posted by firebunnyI have a strange feeling she’s not taking the contraceptive pills so she’ll get pregnant with me.
Im not ready to be a father but I am against abortion. So Im all set: if she’s carrying my child, I won’t make her abort it.
Then I will be a dad. When that happens, I have to marry her. I know the importance of family to a child so I will marry her.
But here’s the thing, my parents hate her. I am not ready to be a dad or to start a family. I still want to enjoy my single life and meet other women. I am not sure of my love for her.
But responsibility is responsibility.
What are the things I have to consider before I decide to marry her? What should I expect?
There’s no divorce here yet. Annulment is expensive. I’m worried.
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I have a strange feeling she’s not taking the contraceptive pills so she’ll get pregnant with me.
Im not ready to be a father but I am against abortion. So Im all set: if she’s carrying my child, I won’t make her abort it.
Then I will be a dad. When that happens, I have to marry her. I know the importance of family to a child so I will marry her.
But here’s the thing, my parents hate her. I am not ready to be a dad or to start a family. I still want to enjoy my single life and meet other women. I am not sure of my love for her.
But responsibility is responsibility.
What are the things I have to consider before I decide to marry her? What should I expect?
There’s no divorce here yet. Annulment is expensive. I’m worried.