I'm just curious, since so many people are leaving. Also, what changes do you think would make people want to stick around longer?
What would make you delete your account here?
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Imo I don't think anything could change to make people stay. Some folk would still find a flaw and be displeased no matter what. Its natural for humans to crave perfection in places perfection doesn't belong. Just look at a human made building with symmetry and 90° angles that replaced the shifting shapes of a mountains and trees. Nothing in nature is perfect, which humans hate. People naturally what the things they can't have, and on a format like dxp where you can't physicly bulldoze over it and build something new the easiest choice is just leave. This will never ever change, as long as humans crave perfection and the world remains flawed.
Posted by Koniucha
People can be very rude here. Guarantee most of the stuff said here would never be said to someone's face.
Yeah, I agree Koniucha. Some people like to bully from behind the computer screen, I think that's pathetic.
When I get extremely bored of it.
Posted by blackphase
Well since I am on the verge.. It's the flock of new users and retarded threads. No patience for this crap anymore.
And not to hate on new people, cause I have met many that are great, but just since the new year, there have been a crazy amount of new users and a crazy amount of new trolls.. I don't know who is who or what is what, but I am just growing tired of the childishness.
I've noticed those troll threads too, they are annoying. But, you should stick around, just ignore those lame threads. There are some really cool people, in fact most are from my experience so far.
Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.
Posted by NostalgicCappyAw, thanks. You have a great taste in music btw. I meant to tell you that.Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.click to expand
Posted by blackphaseI personally don't want you to leave. I feel you should stay, but I did a rage quit once because I couldn't take the drama. I think many members been there. I just came back stronger though, so if you do leave I hope you decide to come back. Just ignore the dumb threads.
Well since I am on the verge.. It's the flock of new users and retarded threads. No patience for this crap anymore.
And not to hate on new people, cause I have met many that are great, but just since the new year, there have been a crazy amount of new users and a crazy amount of new trolls.. I don't know who is who or what is what, but I am just growing tired of the childishness.
Posted by GoooberPosted by NostalgicCappyAw, thanks. You have a great taste in music btw. I meant to tell you that.Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.click to expand
Thank you, 🙂
I've noticed you have good taste in music as well. That's where I've seen you mostly, but also your good advice you give to others too.
Posted by GoooberI agree. You all have amazing taste in music, and I'm more then greatful you share some of the music you really like.Posted by NostalgicCappyAw, thanks. You have a great taste in music btw. I meant to tell you that.Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.click to expand
Posted by FrenchKpricorn
lets play Russian roulette and if we loose we erase our account
Interesting idea FrenchKpricorn..
Posted by tizianiI don't think you can even begin to fathom how hard that would be for me.
I would probably just stop posting altogether rather than delete
Posted by tiziani
I would probably just stop posting altogether rather than delete
In my opinion, that's a better alternative Tiziani. Although, people would miss your posts if you did stop posting.
Posted by SoulAw, thanks. You too 🙂Posted by GoooberI agree. You all have amazing taste in music, and I'm more then greatful you share some of the music you really like.Posted by NostalgicCappyAw, thanks. You have a great taste in music btw. I meant to tell you that.Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.click to expand
Posted by magnetorebornYou just made me think of someone, with that statement.. 🙂
No one cares.
Let's talk about Leo Moons. ^_^
Posted by NostalgicCappyI try. Lol. Thank you.Posted by GoooberPosted by NostalgicCappyAw, thanks. You have a great taste in music btw. I meant to tell you that.Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.
Thank you, 🙂
I've noticed you have good taste in music as well. That's where I've seen you mostly, but also your good advice you give to others too.click to expand
Posted by SoulPosted by GoooberI agree. You all have amazing taste in music, and I'm more then greatful you share some of the music you really like.Posted by NostalgicCappyAw, thanks. You have a great taste in music btw. I meant to tell you that.Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.click to expand
Thank you Soul,
Right back at you, I listened to that song by Tycho last night that you posted. Loved it, thank you for sharing.
Posted by NostalgicCappyThanks and yw 🙂Posted by SoulPosted by GoooberI agree. You all have amazing taste in music, and I'm more then greatful you share some of the music you really like.Posted by NostalgicCappyAw, thanks. You have a great taste in music btw. I meant to tell you that.Posted by Gooober
When I get extremely bored of it.
I hope you're not thinking about leaving Gooober.
Thank you Soul,
Right back at you, I listened to that song by Tycho last night that you posted. Loved it, thank you for sharing.click to expand
That song has calmed me down so many times lol.
Posted by Flo
Sometimes I'm in the mood to be on dxp and other times, I'm not. I live life, start a new hobby, work, school etc. and I don't have time.
It's not uncommon for me to disappear and then come back.
That's totally fine and the way it should be, don't let it consume your life but don't delete and go away either. Fyza made a good point when she said that we all sort of form connections and friendships with people on here. People will miss you (you personalty too but everyone) if someone just deletes and goes away.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I'm new myself and am already growing tired of the bs. @Blackphase and @Koniucha basically covered my reasons for why I would leave. It's not that I can't handle it, but the constant immaturity and sh*t talking gets old. A lot of keyboard warriors on here too. Seems like the trolls are starting to outnumber the normal people.
Ignore the shit aspect of DXP life. Don't go though.
Posted by WhiteChocolate
I'm literally always on the verge of deleting.
You know you can't do that WhiteChocolate, I've seen how everyone loves you here.
Posted by babygurl
I think this mantra would suit this forum better and maybe even help deter some users of finding it all petty and pointless and deleting. This board is just one big sap fest of romantic drama and hardlyyyyy anything really helpful or relevant to the merit or purpose of this board.
One big drama fest in matters of the heart anything serious or knowledgeable is quickly shunned. It's like a confessional for you to read and insert your two cents on a bored day. I just joined and I'm quickly getting disillusioned with it as well. So this mantra applies would help us all better i gather.
Actually Babygurl,
For me personally, I've learned a lot here just in the short time I've been here. Astrology wise, relationship wise, life in general. Also made some special connections and I think just like anything else, you need to take the good with the bad, the light with the dark.
Posted by exxtasyx
I don't really take this forum seriously enough to delete myself. And I don't really care if it's not as entertaining as it used to be, I haven't even been around that long. I post here when I'm bored (which is quit often). If I get bored of it I'll disappear like a typical Gemini but for now I think it's a cool place to keep yourself occupied. The "is he into me?," "do you think she likes me?," and "this sign played me" threads are a little annoying and repetitive but hey.
Glad you're sticking around exxtasyx. I think in some shape or form, we all learn something from each other on here.
Posted by Harukaa
And you know what
No one care.
Here
And in a real life.
Yeah.
Not true, we would miss your posts and insight too Harukaa.
Posted by blackphasePosted by NostalgicCappyI'll try my best for youPosted by xXxAliciaXxX
I'm new myself and am already growing tired of the bs. @Blackphase and @Koniucha basically covered my reasons for why I would leave. It's not that I can't handle it, but the constant immaturity and sh*t talking gets old. A lot of keyboard warriors on here too. Seems like the trolls are starting to outnumber the normal people.
Ignore the shit aspect of DXP life. Don't go though.click to expand
Aww. Thank you, I'm glad to hear that.
Posted by TrueFantasy
I just joined this year and even I can't believe how many people decide to join this site around the same time, it's overwhelming. I probably won't delete my account just abandon it when this site gets boring. It's such a shame that so many great DXP users have left 😢
The members make the site worth it, I believe, as well as interesting threads...which is becoming rare nowadays.
I couldn't agree more.
But to be honest the only thing that would make me quit dxp forever would be an invitation to the T1 table. Then my dxp career would be over, and I'd have nothing else to live for.
Seeing that I've done such a good job at making that an impossibility, I here to stay! Hooray!
I still have much to do. Like start my own club, make my own chat, have my own events, and start something new.
The best part is all members of dxp have this ability. You can freely start what ever you want. Paint this place what ever color makes you happy.
Don't forget the integrity of this place lays in the hands of everyone. Don't expect the older member to make this place great for you.
Seeing that I've done such a good job at making that an impossibility, I here to stay! Hooray!
I still have much to do. Like start my own club, make my own chat, have my own events, and start something new.
The best part is all members of dxp have this ability. You can freely start what ever you want. Paint this place what ever color makes you happy.
Don't forget the integrity of this place lays in the hands of everyone. Don't expect the older member to make this place great for you.
Posted by Soul
But to be honest the only thing that would make me quit dxp forever would be an invitation to the T1 table. Then my dxp career would be over, and I'd have nothing else to live for.
Seeing that I've done such a good job at making that an impossibility, I here to stay! Hooray!
I still have much to do. Like start my own club, make my own chat, have my own events, and start something new.
The best part is all members of dxp have this ability. You can freely start what ever you want. Paint this place what ever color makes you happy.
Don't forget the integrity of this place lays in the hands of everyone. Don't expect the older member to make this place great for you.
Great message Soul. That's such a good way to look at it.
Pretty close to deleteing/not using my account due to a lack of variety and content. 80% of threads made is on some one-sign bullshit or some special snowflake trash: "How to get this Aries to like me?", "How is sex with a libra?", "Can all scorps see thru my soul?"
Like breh...anyone can "stare through your soul".
It's just the dumbest shit I've ever read on the internet and it makes it increasingly difficult to stay here and take Astrology seriously.
Like breh...anyone can "stare through your soul".
It's just the dumbest shit I've ever read on the internet and it makes it increasingly difficult to stay here and take Astrology seriously.
Posted by kino
Pretty close to deleteing/not using my account due to a lack of variety and content. 80% of threads made is on some one-sign bullshit or some special snowflake trash: "How to get this Aries to like me?", "How is sex with a libra?", "Can all scorps see thru my soul?"
Like breh...anyone can "stare through your soul".
It's just the dumbest shit I've ever read on the internet and it makes it increasingly difficult to stay here and take Astrology seriously.
May I ask you though, have you learned anything at all from here?
Posted by NostalgicCappyYup, a little.Posted by kino
Pretty close to deleteing/not using my account due to a lack of variety and content. 80% of threads made is on some one-sign bullshit or some special snowflake trash: "How to get this Aries to like me?", "How is sex with a libra?", "Can all scorps see thru my soul?"
Like breh...anyone can "stare through your soul".
It's just the dumbest shit I've ever read on the internet and it makes it increasingly difficult to stay here and take Astrology seriously.
May I ask you though, have you learned anything at all from here?click to expand
Posted by NostalgicCappyAnd it's a damn shamePosted by Koniucha
People can be very rude here. Guarantee most of the stuff said here would never be said to someone's face.
Yeah, I agree Koniucha. Some people like to bully from behind the computer screen, I think that's pathetic.click to expand
Posted by kinoPosted by NostalgicCappyYup, a little.Posted by kino
Pretty close to deleteing/not using my account due to a lack of variety and content. 80% of threads made is on some one-sign bullshit or some special snowflake trash: "How to get this Aries to like me?", "How is sex with a libra?", "Can all scorps see thru my soul?"
Like breh...anyone can "stare through your soul".
It's just the dumbest shit I've ever read on the internet and it makes it increasingly difficult to stay here and take Astrology seriously.
May I ask you though, have you learned anything at all from here?click to expand
Just something to think about, 🙂
Posted by NostalgicCappyNot really, I knew exactly where you were going as soon as you asked that. Which is the same direction as using the "b-b-but they have a lot of fans" argument when discussing music but I'll let you cook.Posted by kinoPosted by NostalgicCappyYup, a little.Posted by kino
Pretty close to deleteing/not using my account due to a lack of variety and content. 80% of threads made is on some one-sign bullshit or some special snowflake trash: "How to get this Aries to like me?", "How is sex with a libra?", "Can all scorps see thru my soul?"
Like breh...anyone can "stare through your soul".
It's just the dumbest shit I've ever read on the internet and it makes it increasingly difficult to stay here and take Astrology seriously.
May I ask you though, have you learned anything at all from here?
Just something to think about, 🙂click to expand
Posted by kinoPosted by NostalgicCappyNot really, I knew exactly where you were going as soon as you asked that. Which is the same direction as using the "b-b-but they have a lot of fans" argument when discussing music but I'll let you cook.Posted by kinoPosted by NostalgicCappyYup, a little.Posted by kino
Pretty close to deleteing/not using my account due to a lack of variety and content. 80% of threads made is on some one-sign bullshit or some special snowflake trash: "How to get this Aries to like me?", "How is sex with a libra?", "Can all scorps see thru my soul?"
Like breh...anyone can "stare through your soul".
It's just the dumbest shit I've ever read on the internet and it makes it increasingly difficult to stay here and take Astrology seriously.
May I ask you though, have you learned anything at all from here?
Just something to think about, 🙂click to expand
You're perceptive 🙂 yes there's always a method to my madness, or in other words a purpose behind the things I do.
I guess we all have our own ways of looking at things, kino.
This always happen in waves. I've been a member since 2001, I deleted that account and came back in 2007 and I left but didn't delete my account as I would still get PMs from members and we would chat via messages. I became more active a few months ago just to fill out the board and it's way worse than it was before and I'm leaving again soon once my Libra fiancé and I get settled into our new home and I'll be focused on planning our wedding and won't have the free time to waste on here.
Not to mention happy relationships/people aren't welcomed here which is also the reason why a lot of people leave after they get in good relationships. You get tired of the negativity and bitterness.
Not to mention happy relationships/people aren't welcomed here which is also the reason why a lot of people leave after they get in good relationships. You get tired of the negativity and bitterness.
Posted by tizianiSame. I'd rather have what I've written left up, and if I wanted to come back it would just be a login away.
I would probably just stop posting altogether rather than delete
I almost deleted my account yesterday but I'm glad I didn't since it seems to be trendy and I'm not into trends. Lol 😛
I almost did it for some of the reasons already mentioned on this thread and because I was just bored and feeling odd. I much rather stay away for a bit than delete. Plus if I delete all those awesome memes I posted go with me and I ... I just ... I just can't do that to y'all! 😭
I almost did it for some of the reasons already mentioned on this thread and because I was just bored and feeling odd. I much rather stay away for a bit than delete. Plus if I delete all those awesome memes I posted go with me and I ... I just ... I just can't do that to y'all! 😭
i'm ready to delete my account. everyone bullies me
Posted by Gobshite
When there's no-one left to perv over...
At least you have a reason, and will stick around..
Posted by KinglyCrab
Fuck dat shit this is my home now. At least until
Duncan goes bankrupt or rage quits. To the grave.
Haha, love it.
Posted by NostalgicCappyno, i have to give into the bulliesPosted by HouseCleaning
i'm ready to delete my account. everyone bullies me
Nope, not you..click to expand
Posted by HouseCleaningPosted by NostalgicCappyno, i have to give into the bulliesPosted by HouseCleaning
i'm ready to delete my account. everyone bullies me
Nope, not you..click to expand
No, ignore that. But, I don't think anyone wants you to go.
Posted by NostalgicCappyeveryone is that attached me? awPosted by HouseCleaningPosted by NostalgicCappyno, i have to give into the bulliesPosted by HouseCleaning
i'm ready to delete my account. everyone bullies me
Nope, not you..
No, ignore that. But, I don't think anyone wants you to go.click to expand
Posted by HellDoradoSame crap different year.
my heart is swelling at all these newbies going through their phases, unaware that none of this (not even the veterans pointing out that none of this is new) is new. this place is so cyclical.
I will say that there seems to be a tad more whiney people than before.. But guess what it's MY choice to log in , it's MY choice to click a thread, It's MY choice to post ..
NO ONE is being forced to post, read or log in..
Think about that before posting how much you hate the threads or people on here. No one is forcing YOU to do shit.
Posted by babygurlawPosted by HouseCleaningPosted by NostalgicCappyno, i have to give into the bulliesPosted by HouseCleaning
i'm ready to delete my account. everyone bullies me
Nope, not you..
i like you housecleaning.. damn gems why you make my spirit like you when my soul hates you lmao!! 😉click to expand
Posted by HellDoradoPosted by justagirllol yeah pretty much... although i'm not so sure about the last part.Posted by HellDoradoSame crap different year.
my heart is swelling at all these newbies going through their phases, unaware that none of this (not even the veterans pointing out that none of this is new) is new. this place is so cyclical.
I will say that there seems to be a tad more whiney people than before.. But guess what it's MY choice to log in , it's MY choice to click a thread, It's MY choice to post ..
NO ONE is being forced to post, read or log in..
Think about that before posting how much you hate the threads or people on here. No one is forcing YOU to do shit.
i think there probably is a... net that ensnares certain souls and keeps them here. 😉
click to expand
True!
It's hotel DxP! You can check in, but never leeeeeaaave! 😛
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