@enfant_terrible
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What's the first impression people get of you?
people think im funny, sweet, nice, naive, eccentric.
PEOPLE KNOW I DON'T GIVE A FUCK
PEOPLE KNOW I CAN BE A REAL PRICK
SOME SEE SOMETHING TO HATE
OTHERS SEE SOMETHING TO ONLY HATE A LITTLE BIT
I SEE IN OTHERS MORONS.
Posted by james tate
PEOPLE KNOW I DON'T GIVE A FUCK
PEOPLE KNOW I CAN BE A REAL PRICK
SOME SEE SOMETHING TO HATE
OTHERS SEE SOMETHING TO ONLY HATE A LITTLE BIT
I SEE IN OTHERS MORONS.
Maybe if you stopped trying to be such a bad ass you'd grow some personality? 😉
I try not to judge people on face value. Hits is hard not to, everyone is guilty of falling into the trap. I do not like beening around friends when their slagging off other people. I would rather give that person a chance then decide if their cool or not.
Its I meant to say, well you know what I mean.
Posted by TastesOfChaos
ET (hahahaha) do you have an Aqua ascendant?
Taurus ascendant. That and my Cancer moon would make me the perfect stay-at-home mom 😉
I guess I seem friendly because I smile easily. It might be more of a lighter first step than humor, which people might misinterpret, as you said, or maybe take as a form of aggression. I think smiling at least shows that you're acknowledging other people and being receptive to them. I also heard, though, that smiling is actually a sign of weakness...something like people who smile less are more often ones who rise to positions of authority.
Also, I knew someone who didn't seem to have different gradations to their smile, if that makes sense. They went from normal face straight to highbeams, and I have to say it was kind of scary to me! As long as you don't do this maniac-mask kind of thing, then it might help some.
any cancer risings here?
Posted by TastesOfChaos
Thats why you are misunderstood at times... I am Libra, ascendant Aries... So people always assume the opposite of me when they first meet me
Intresting, haven't thought of it that way. 🙂
Posted by TastesOfChaos
BTW.. is that you in those pics?? Sexy....click to expand
Parts of me, at least. Yeah I guess I am one sexy bitch! 😛
I'm making the effort 😉
People think im an asshole when I walk in the room, maybe I shouldnt wear that t-shirt that reads...I AM AN ASSHOLE, as often as I do.
Posted by TastesOfChaos
ET (hahahaha) do you have an Aqua ascendant?Taurus ascendant. That and my Cancer moon would make me the perfect stay-at-home mom 😉
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we are twins, you and i
except my sun sign is gemini
So then you know what I'm going through on a day to day basis haha. I see you have Venus in Cancer too, just like me :O
Posted by TastesOfChaos
People think I am a hard nosed bitch at first, if I had a penny for every time someone said"OMG I HATED you at first, but you are really nice!!!!!"
Id be rich... seriously. =/
I have NO doubt in my mind that MOST people at my new job think I am intimidating and rude... the looks I get makes me laugh... I wanna change that perception, because I love people... but I just dont know how... Im too busy to be trying to make friends during work hours... they need to see me after a few drinks 😉
Same. Except the loving people part.
I'm also with the OP on humour. Very dark humour puts only a select few signs at ease (aries, leo, aquas).
Posted by sporklifter
I guess I seem friendly because I smile easily. It might be more of a lighter first step than humor, which people might misinterpret, as you said, or maybe take as a form of aggression. I think smiling at least shows that you're acknowledging other people and being receptive to them. I also heard, though, that smiling is actually a sign of weakness...something like people who smile less are more often ones who rise to positions of authority.Also, I knew someone who didn't seem to have different gradations to their smile, if that makes sense. They went from normal face straight to highbeams, and I have to say it was kind of scary to me! As long as you don't do this maniac-mask kind of thing, then it might help some.
This is hilarious but TRUE.
I find most people are put off by my eye contact. When I decide to look at you I LOOK at you.
It's funny though because it's when I'm not actually looking at a person that I'm learning about them while when I AM looking as intently as I am all it is is me keeping my mind a perfect blank.
I guess not being able to see your soul puts people off. Mua-ha...
Depends on my mood.
If I'm on a night out most people probably think I have a screw loose, but that I'm a happy friendly sort if a little crazy.
I have been told in the past I look a bit stuck-up, but then I open my mouth and that's out the window.
WGA
DO YOU KNOW WHERE I CAN BY A PRICK T SHIRT?
PERSONALITY?
MY DEAR
YOU ARE NOT ONLY DULL YOURSELF
YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF DULLNESS IN OTHERS.
Posted by james tate
WGA
DO YOU KNOW WHERE I CAN BY A PRICK T SHIRT?
Just buy a white t-shirt and a permanent marker and ask a kindergartener to write 'I AM A PRICK' on it.
Trust me, everyone will ask you where you bought it.
LMAO!!!
In this economy, gotta put the kindergartners to work.
LOL Plain Hanes cotton t, a stencil and a 98 cent bottle of fabric paint. Fin.
Posted by venusianbull
LOL Plain Hanes cotton t, a stencil and a 98 cent bottle of fabric paint. Fin.
and if you are creative enough, draw a rose with a thorn on it and draw a finger going into a thorn.
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Masterpiece.
People either think I'm the nicest person they ever met-or a snob-lol
Posted by venusianbull
LOL Plain Hanes cotton t, a stencil and a 98 cent bottle of fabric paint. Fin.and if you are creative enough, draw a rose with a thorn on it and draw a finger going into a thorn.
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LOL I'm talented enough.
Posted by venusianbull
LOL Plain Hanes cotton t, a stencil and a 98 cent bottle of fabric paint. Fin.and if you are creative enough, draw a rose with a thorn on it and draw a finger going into a thorn.
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I have learnt something new today.
Posted by venusianbull
LOL Plain Hanes cotton t, a stencil and a 98 cent bottle of fabric paint. Fin.and if you are creative enough, draw a rose with a thorn on it and draw a finger going into a thorn.
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I have learnt something new today.
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That would really make a great shirt for the ladies to wear out with their asshole boyfriends....
a silohuette of that picture and the words
I'M WITH (picture) ...
i should be making t-shirts.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Lol
That might read "I'm with thorn finger" though ?
or look at that thorn!!!.......................... you cocksuckers
lol.
I AM TO LAZY TO DO THAT
I am the Rose next to the Prick.
"Yes, he's a Prick, but it's a Rosy day when he makes me Thorny" *ba-dum-tiss*
LOL
Posted by venusianbull
I am the Rose next to the Prick.
Hahaha.
Or
I'm thorn between this prick or that prick.
quite and broody. Once they get to know me they're like man your really funny and laid back.
Posted by DMV
people think im funny, sweet, nice, naive, eccentric.Me too and I also have a Cancer Asc.
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sweet!
i think its cool that people see me like that. someone warm and inviting.
Since my ascendant is 3 degrees in leo would I still have cancer rising traits or would this only work if it were in between 1-0?
I went reading around and I think I do have some.
Confidence
Bold
Asshole
uh huh😛
Posted by Pisco26
Everyone I have ever met has said that I look stuck up or bitchy. They say I have mean eyes... But in reality I'm just really shy and kind of vigilant. 😛
Maybe its the Tom Brady jersey.
Posted by venusianbull
I am the Rose next to the Prick.Hahaha.
Or
I'm thorn between this prick or that prick.click to expand
LOL Oh dear.
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I'm terrible at sending out the right vibes when interacting with people for the first time, mainly because I don't use my humor, which is one of my best assets I think. Basically I'm not me when making first impressions.
I don't think humor is the best way to make a first impression because being strangers it makes it very easy to misintepret and misunderstand eachother, especially if you're not on the same level. Your sense of humour can really say everything about you. On the other hand, I hate always being the SERIOUS new acquaintance, maybe a little on the strange side. Great, I'm one of those humorless "he was such a nice and quiet man" weirdos...