what's the problem with men putting on their big boy pants?

Posted by KittenLaRouge
are they that insecure deep down?

Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by SassyKiwi
Those behaviors are exactly why they're still single at middle age yet still fail to register that in their minds.

And those that leave their wives for 20 year olds always end up getting fucked. As if they'll stick around. They're only be used as funds. And then it becomes a dwindling path of self destruction for the guys until they die. If they had kids, they'll hate them. Their grandkids will hate them. They won't ever be happy again.

so optimistic kiwi!

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Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

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Posted by bawlikestogomoo

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

Im a bat

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Posted by SassyKiwi
Those behaviors are exactly why they're still single at middle age yet still fail to register that in their minds.

And those that leave their wives for 20 year olds always end up getting fucked. As if they'll stick around. They're only be used as funds. And then it becomes a dwindling path of self destruction for the guys until they die. If they had kids, they'll hate them. Their grandkids will hate them. They won't ever be happy again.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
are they that insecure deep down?

What human isn't insecure about something?
Shoot people kill themselves when they believe they aren't lovable or do really illogical things to get people to love them.
It is rare to find anyone who can fully face the ugliness of their being and actually embrace it with love.

Just date dudes who have their stuff together or figure out why you keep attracting these types of men in your live.

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Posted by engagement_hotdog
i didn't know an infinity meant having their shit together. 😛

i wouldn't want to live like I was in college coz i looked older then than i do now. maybe high school without the playstation!

Posted by engagement_hotdog
fuck people dressed old too when i was in high school!

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by bawlikestogomoo

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

Im a bat

go buy an infinity baw! get your shit together!

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Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

men should be men. i cant respect a man-boy.

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Posted by SirHorns

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

men should be men. i cant respect a man-boy.

Then define what you consider "Man" interests.
Then do the same for "Boy" interests.

After that, automatically write off any man that has a hobby or hits anything on the "Boy" interests.

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Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by bawlikestogomoo

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

Im a bat

go buy an infinity baw! get your shit together!

infinity's are nice LOL what do they drive in vietnam?

we have lexus but no infinity but i'm sure you can get it from an independent importer.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

it not so much as interests. interests are fine. it's more the style of living. are they living in a college dorm type situation at 40 or have they matured?

Posted by Hawks

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by bawlikestogomoo

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

Im a bat

go buy an infinity baw! get your shit together!

infinity's are nice LOL what do they drive in vietnam?

we have lexus but no infinity but i'm sure you can get it from an independent importer.

i think infinity are lovely i happen to like the G30, i just found out honda makes lexus and toyota makes acura. those are just their "luxury versions"

Actually Honda makes Acura and Toyota makes Lexus...you tripping...LMAO

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Posted by SirHorns

Posted by KittenLaRouge

it not so much as interests. interests are fine. it's more the style of living. are they living in a college dorm type situation at 40 or have they matured?

Ah, I see.
People are creatures of habit. Live alone long enough and you'll do things on your own time.
Wash clothes? Pfft, I'll do that when I'm out things to wear, etc.

As for maturity, well what traits actually register to you as "mature"?
Set up situations to test them. If they fail the maturity test, you know you won't getting "maturity" out of any relationship you have with them.

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Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by KittenLaRouge

it not so much as interests. interests are fine. it's more the style of living. are they living in a college dorm type situation at 40 or have they matured?

Ah, I see.
People are creatures of habit. Live alone long enough and you'll do things on your own time.
Wash clothes? Pfft, I'll do that when I'm out things to wear, etc.

As for maturity, well what traits actually register to you as "mature"?
Set up situations to test them. If they fail the maturity test, you know you won't getting "maturity" out of any relationship you have with them.

i lived with an OCD neat freak man who used to send me articles via email on how ofter to wash my towels. maybe he was gay? lol

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Posted by elguapolibra

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

Is your picture sun ce from dynasty warriors?

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Posted by engagement_hotdog
i think i stopped gaming around 15. i don't watch cartoons. i'm weirdly mature in some areas and immature in others.

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by elguapolibra

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by bawlikestogomoo
Don't judge me and my spongebob posters. Stop hatin' and start appreciatin'

I never understood this.
So a person has to have age appropriate hobbies?

If you loved, say, coloring books, even in your adults years, from what I understand you're supposed to hide it with guilt/shame as if it was nudes from your ex or something?

Shit man, so long as they appreciate you, make you feel better then you could be on your own, I see no reason why I should have to police things about them as trivial as that.
Damn, as long as you have hobbies and stuff you can together, WHY should you care about something you had no interest?

Is your picture sun ce from dynasty warriors?

It is! You win one Internets!

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Posted by SirHorns

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by KittenLaRouge

it not so much as interests. interests are fine. it's more the style of living. are they living in a college dorm type situation at 40 or have they matured?

Ah, I see.
People are creatures of habit. Live alone long enough and you'll do things on your own time.
Wash clothes? Pfft, I'll do that when I'm out things to wear, etc.

As for maturity, well what traits actually register to you as "mature"?
Set up situations to test them. If they fail the maturity test, you know you won't getting "maturity" out of any relationship you have with them.

i lived with an OCD neat freak man who used to send me articles via email on how ofter to wash my towels. maybe he was gay? lol

How did you cope with that?
...oh and it's possibly that or maybe he was a secret serial killer.
Did he tell you how to get blood out of carpets and clothing?

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Posted by WhiteChocolate

Posted by engagement_hotdog
i think toyota makes lexus. no clue about acura another brand we don't have here.

Toyota = Lexus

Honda = Acura

Mitsubishi = Infiniti


You can even see they take the same basic frames and use them between the base brand and the luxury brand.

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Posted by Hawks

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog
fuck people dressed old too when i was in high school!

when hopefully they didnt buy kanye's homeless 500 $ sweat shirts! money can''t buy style!

Bury me with those when I get shot

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog
i think i stopped gaming around 15. i don't watch cartoons. i'm weirdly mature in some areas and immature in others.

lol @ cartoons immature in what area elaborate pls.

i think my reactions to shit could be handled better. well now i just make a face but before which wasn't a long time ago i'd throw a fit or things or shout at people or force them into a tight spot... just horrible stuff. i'm probably still the same and just haven't encountered as much shit.

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Posted by WhiteChocolate

Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by WhiteChocolate

Posted by engagement_hotdog
i think toyota makes lexus. no clue about acura another brand we don't have here.

Toyota = Lexus

Honda = Acura

Mitsubishi = Infiniti


You can even see they take the same basic frames and use them between the base brand and the luxury brand.

man all the cars look japanese now even jaguar!

Yeah...Jags look nothing like Jags anymore.

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Posted by WhiteChocolate
Jags are like Land Rovers...if you keep up the maintenance they aren't bad but you need a 3rd job just pay for the maintenance.

Posted by WhiteChocolate

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by WhiteChocolate

Posted by engagement_hotdog
i think toyota makes lexus. no clue about acura another brand we don't have here.

Toyota = Lexus

Honda = Acura

Mitsubishi = Infiniti


You can even see they take the same basic frames and use them between the base brand and the luxury brand.

wow ! i had no idea mitsubishi make infinity! those sneaky japanese ! lol

Infiniti might be the most different from their parent cars though.

Early Acuras looked like Civics and Accords with more shiny crap and a different hood ornament.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog
i think i stopped gaming around 15. i don't watch cartoons. i'm weirdly mature in some areas and immature in others.

lol @ cartoons immature in what area elaborate pls.

i think my reactions to shit could be handled better. well now i just make a face but before which wasn't a long time ago i'd throw a fit or things or shout at people or force them into a tight spot... just horrible stuff. i'm probably still the same and just haven't encountered as much shit.

i understand, did you ever road rage?

i don't drive a lot and even rarer now that all i have are SUV's but the guy born on the same day and same hospital as me is famous for car accidents.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
go on a date. guy is 35 and he has his own place with tupac biggie posters thumbtacked to his wall and shoes everywhere.

Was that the co-worker who invited you over recently?

Posted by frostey91

Posted by KittenLaRouge
go on a date. guy is 35 and he has his own place with tupac biggie posters thumbtacked to his wall and shoes everywhere.

Was that the co-worker who invited you over recently?

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yes his living was questionable and we had a great date! i really like him and he was fun. we have another date wednesday. BUT his house is messy and hes a pot smoker and im not. does that matter? he smokes a lot! he was lovely to me, a gentleman,

Posted by Hawks

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by Hawks

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by engagement_hotdog
fuck people dressed old too when i was in high school!

when hopefully they didnt buy kanye's homeless 500 $ sweat shirts! money can''t buy style!

Bury me with those when I get shot

what size? haha! jk

Meh...

They were nice when I had them.

I tend to agree with though you when I see old men OR women wearing them it makes me cringe with disgust.

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EVERY NYGGA ON MY CLIQUE WEARING THESE KIND OF SHYT

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by frostey91

Posted by KittenLaRouge
go on a date. guy is 35 and he has his own place with tupac biggie posters thumbtacked to his wall and shoes everywhere.

Was that the co-worker who invited you over recently?

yes his living was questionable and we had a great date! i really like him and he was fun. we have another date wednesday. BUT his house is messy and hes a pot smoker and im not. does that matter? he smokes a lot! he was lovely to me, a gentleman,

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OK that is not a deal breaker...

Aw he needs to clean up. I'm not the cleanest but I am clean up for the ones I care about 🙂

The smoking thin awwww.

It depends on if it has bad effects on his work or other areas. I know a guy actually two who are genuinesses and smoke. One top in his class got an offer to Harvard decided to go to a slightly lesser school and get paid to do brain research stuff. The other had a 4.0 in college pot is overblown. The law needs to be changed.

If he is a gentleman isn't that most important.

He has to be stable.

A true Cap woman is not putting up with a man who can't take care of himself.

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Posted by FrenchKpricorn


EVERY NYGGA ON MY CLIQUE WEARING THESE KIND OF SHYT

i wore those 10 years ago.

it's all about these apex shoes now!

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Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by frostey91

Posted by KittenLaRouge
go on a date. guy is 35 and he has his own place with tupac biggie posters thumbtacked to his wall and shoes everywhere.

Was that the co-worker who invited you over recently?

yes his living was questionable and we had a great date! i really like him and he was fun. we have another date wednesday. BUT his house is messy and hes a pot smoker and im not. does that matter? he smokes a lot! he was lovely to me, a gentleman,

OK that is not a deal breaker...

Aw he needs to clean up. I'm not the cleanest but I am clean up for the ones I care about 🙂

The smoking thin awwww.

It depends on if it has bad effects on his work or other areas. I know a guy actually two who are genuinesses and smoke. One top in his class got an offer to Harvard decided to go to a slightly lesser school and get paid to do brain research stuff. The other had a 4.0 in college pot is overblown. The law needs to be changed.

If he is a gentleman isn't that most important.

He has to be stable.

A true Cap woman is not putting up with a man who can't take care of himself.

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awww. ya i didn't find those things a deal breaker. and you are right about cap women. i likes he had his own place etc but i really like him hes a little chaotic, hes a gemini but super sweet 🙂

Posted by BlackNova

Posted by KittenLaRouge

what's the problem with men putting on their big boy pants?

go on a date. guy is 35 and he has his own place with tupac biggie posters thumbtacked to his wall and shoes everywhere. looks like a man cave or college dorm. a guy i work with is 45, lives down by the university with a bunch of guys, doesn't own a car, goes to the bar every night, but puts down women that look old. dude you old yourself, grow up! lol another guy i know has a house and drives an infinity and is together. hes 55 but is very insecure about his age, basically cant deal with it and picks up young 20 years olds online with a fake pick. what is it with guys and age? why cant they grow up and be mature. being older and living like you are in college is a very bad look and makes you look like an idiot, not younger!! get it together! I see a lot of men leave their wives for a 20 year old when they are 50. what is the deal with men and age? are they that insecure deep down?

You complain too much about men.....are you a closet right wing lesbian?

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In case anybody was wondering, I have finally resolved the kittenlarouge mystery. To those who thought she was a large black man catfishing as a dominatrix, it's even worse than that.