Why do someguys think it is OK

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by sweethearts on Sunday, July 7, 2013 and has 37 replies.

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@sweethearts
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to come up to some strange woman and talk inappropriately to them?? Mostly of the sexual nature...whether it be that you are having a few drinks with a girlfriend or several, whether you are talking online or on a dating site or texting? What in the world makes you think that you can start talking sex with someone you have barely said two words to?

I'm sure other ladies here have experienced this, this day and age, and it certainly ISN'T some sort of vibe you are giving off, but tbph...I'm getting sick of it and I'm going to start turning into a "nasty arse Bitch" with attitude because of it!!!

Rant over!
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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces
This isn't new news .... men have been treating women like this since the creation of mankind


And, what also has been around since the beginning is women prancing around in front of them, for sexual attention purposes.


Moral to the story ..... if a woman is going to use her sexuality to gain a mans attention, then she can't then complain that she got his sexual attention.



Not talking about you, Sweets ... just saying
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@AfternoonDelights22
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Yeah some guys need to stop when they are obviously an annoyance.

Howeverrr there are the 3 tier complaints of women:

1. "Guy didnt approach me so he must be passive as fuck."
2. "Guy approached to talk, how boring. At least I got a free drink."
3. "Guy approached me and came on strong. What a total Skeezeball."

Now if the girl is attracted to a guy in number 2 or 3 she wont be yappin her gums complaining. However a guy doesn't know if she finds him attractive until he tries somethin'.

So there is a logical explanation of both sexes.
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@sweethearts
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We(my gf and I) went to a local Hotel, had a nice dinner in one of the restaurants and then went to the sports bar to watch the Football and have a glass of wine. Both dressed in jeans with no titties hanging out...this guy comes over and starts talking to my friend, says hello and within 5 mins is telling how long his tongue is and how great he is with licking clit!!! Obviously very drunk and thinking that speaking about what he can do will get him sex...what an idiot!!

When I'm going out to dance with the girls, it's more guys just commenting on how hot you are or look, a passing comment. This is how they think they might get in or try to start a conversation...^^^this doesn't faze me...

if they threw sex straight into the convo's, I'm sure they would get bounced straight away!

I do dress like a policeman sometimes but quite conservative with it...lol

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@sweethearts
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So are you saying that because we are in a sports bar that it is ok for some idiot to come up to you and start talking about sex? Are there only certain places a lady is allowed to go now? Forgive me for being ignorant..I don't know these things....maybe it's best if I stay in restaurants if I want a night out with the girls and only watch the footy from my own lounge...

Sheesh, you have that mentality don't you?
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@sweethearts
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And chopsticks...I think you are trying to make out something you are not around here...I've not seen one loud boisterous asian man in my travels. You guys are sheepish and quiet and if you came on to a woman sexually she'd probably laugh and think you were joking!
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@sweethearts
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Posted by Stuckinpurgatory
Bring a guy who is a big boy with you wherever you go. Sure to scare off any douchebags, and the "good" ones shouldn't have a problem approaching.



I noticed that, where I go to dance I have a friend that is there most of the time and he has a male friend that goes with him. He's my dance buddy and my girls and I normally hang out with them when we are there. Guys will only approach when you step away from your "bodyguards" lol But once again, I've not encountered slut talk, I don't think I give off that vibe. My gf has twice now and she to me doesn't look like she gives it off, she has such a cool demeanour...so who knowsβ€”
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@sweethearts
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White wine πŸ˜›

So now you're telling me you can't drink wine in a sports bar..Hell I better look up the rules before I go out or should I just stay at home and knit you a lovely colorful jumper?
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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini
maybe they are doing it wrong. the other week i saw a guy walk up to a woman and asked her that since 50% of marriages end up in divorce, if she would like to be another statistic. (we knew she was married). she was fucking shocked at first but kinda of aroused by the directness. a friend was called over and a happy ending did indeed take place.
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@westside
15 Years1,000+ PostsGemini
yea now that i think about it i believe they are just doing it wrong. the only way i would smack a girls ass on sight is if i was drunk. . . .and even then i would expect to be tazed or atleast kicked in the dick. think about investing in a tazer.
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@westside
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Posted by chopstickcharmer
yeah i smacked a girl's ass in the club the other night (i threw up in the car at the end of the night lulz) she just gave me this shocked look and pointed a finger at me like don't do that. then i made a hug gesture and she came in and gave me one.




yo i think i saw that go down the other night. i was watching the 40 year old virgin
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@sweethearts
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Can't find a pic of the jersey I will knit you...goes along the same lines as your house colours... all in one! Just the way our family love it.

What colour were your pantsβ€” Orange or Red?? lulz
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@sweethearts
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Posted by chopstickcharmer
Posted by sweethearts
Can't find a pic of the jersey I will knit you...goes along the same lines as your house colours... all in one! Just the way our family love it.

What colour were your pantsβ€” Orange or Red?? lulz



fine woman i'll even finish your jokes for you! πŸ˜› just coz u went cray on my lulz @ your white wine hahaha!



ands wears homotron white jeans.
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Not quite what I had in mind, something more multi coloured...I'm not calling you a homo...just when you said you are loud I imagined you dressing like a lot of asians...50% of them have no eye for fashion or rather don't care...and I honestly never met a male asian that was loud...not many woman either..
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@sweethearts
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No Not really...but i know what I know about asians and growing up as one when we were the minority. Nowadays there are the odd few that are trendy and hip because they had been stereotyped and hate that!

Now if you were to order a wine at a Sports bar you'd be looked upon as a Gay Asian lulz especially in your yellow jumper πŸ˜›
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@sweethearts
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Ohhhh, thought you lived in Australia...there's the reason you think you can't order wine in a sports bar. We in Australia enjoy all sports and I think you'll find that it's totally excepting over here. Woman and Men enjoy watching sports here especially competing against our fellow neighbours.
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@sweethearts
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And if you came up to me in a sports bar with your lovely yellow jersey on, I'd overlook the fact that i thought you were a Gay Asian dude trying to prove to the world that you aren't and give you a chance....just don't start talking dirty until I'm masterbating all over your face πŸ˜›
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@sweethearts
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Posted by chopstickcharmer
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And if you came up to me in a sports bar with your lovely yellow jersey on, I'd overlook the fact that i thought you were a Gay Asian dude trying to prove to the world that you aren't and give you a chance....just don't start talking dirty until I'm masterbating all over your face πŸ˜›
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i think i'm in love.


Awww you just want to turn me into your Cougar πŸ˜‰
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@sweethearts
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You know...you make a promise to love me long time, I want to hold you to, you fink I no kidding...I very serious lady, can you buy me a ring first to shows you have great love for me

then we get jiggy with it πŸ˜‰
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@sweethearts
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Well I've been married before so nothing is a sure sign....Ewwww a Bull, I'm Taurus rising and I want to see why all my gf's are Bulls...think we will get along just fine, as long as you do as you are told πŸ˜›
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@sweethearts
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i'm gonna bring u a lot of trouble. my mars and pluto are in scorpio. those would fall in your 7th.


I don't doubt that one bit...always needing a challenge in my life. Things are just all to easy for me πŸ˜›


Mercury & Neptune are in Scorp in 7th...you'll have to tell me what that means...I just come here to play πŸ˜‰
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@westside
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Posted by chopstickcharmer
Posted by westside
Posted by chopstickcharmer
yeah i smacked a girl's ass in the club the other night (i threw up in the car at the end of the night lulz) she just gave me this shocked look and pointed a finger at me like don't do that. then i made a hug gesture and she came in and gave me one.




yo i think i saw that go down the other night. i was watching the 40 year old virgin



keep reachin bra! πŸ˜›
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you got it backwords brah, i was trying to give you the same advice. btw i got some new content on my page. i was thinking of all my fans when i put it up. honestly i deal with ungratefulness on a daily basis so u dont offend me that much. im deciding to be nice and let u have the privilege of being the first of my haters to see it so go ahead and check it out.